Chapter 112: Submission
It is not normal for a man to have no woman in his life, and if a man does not marry a wife and have children, it is a very faceless thing in China; It is also abnormal for a woman to have no man for her whole life, without the love and caress of men. And someone means, "If a woman does not have children, it is also an abnormal thing." Nowadays, there are more and more young men and women who tend not to have children, the heavy pressure of work and the idea of enjoying life while they are young and not wanting to be dragged down by their families, especially their children, make many women unwilling to have children. But this question is not accepted in the Li family. In their deep-rooted thoughts, having children and enjoying the joy of family is a matter of course, Li Mengze is very rebellious, does not take the worldly view in his eyes, but is also very traditional, although lustful, but his own women love and loyalty, since he had the first woman, he has done everything possible to refuse the temptation of other women, "domestic flowers do not have the fragrance of wild flowers", which is not seen in him, although so many women have his lustful side, But all women are only asked for by the consent of the other women, or at the instigation of the women, to be exact; This was unfair to some women, but it remains true to this day. His tradition also lies in the inheritance of the ancient concept of having children, from the birth of four sons, some kind of inheritance task has been completed, although he feels a little unbearable for so many children, but still let every woman have a pair of children, whether she wants to or not, he has to do so.
There are 16 children of all sizes, fourteen sons and two daughters, there are enough, so many that their fathers have a bit of a headache, and even friends say that the compound really can't add more children, Liang Jiayi was 30 years old when she gave birth, and now she is 31 years old, and other women, the youngest Liu Yun is also 33 years old, and Jingwen is 38 years old, and it is not suitable to continue to have children. Although the youngest women have no jobs, three women can make a scene in one play, and four women can make a fuss, plus Lu Jing also lives in the West Garden, so that the women are not lonely at all, but have enough energy every day, which makes someone feel a little unbearable. Eight women, sixteen children, should be enough, but that was before the ninth woman entered the compound. In the past, no matter how willing everyone was to work, how unwilling they were to stay at home, or unwilling to hold a big belly, because they had to be careful for several months, each of them had given birth, whether it was reluctant or scared, or liked, and after giving birth, their personalities have changed a lot, more mature, more plump and beautiful, and they all like children without exception. "Women are born with a love for children, especially those who have given birth." But now, there is a dispute in the Li family compound on this issue, and the arrival of the ninth wife, Gigi Lin, has a problem. The big and small children who can talk in the Li family compound call "Mom" every day, Miss Lin, who is a mother for the first time, first blushed, twisted, and then accepted, and gradually fell in love with these children, these dozen or so little guys with acceptable performance, no matter what, look at it is also eye-catching, not to mention the children of the sisters, not to mention that everyone likes these children.
The problem is also with the child. Li Mengze believes that he is obliged to have children for every woman, which is one of his duties as their man, and as long as it is his woman, he should let her have children, although he is deeply afraid of adding two more children. Gigi Lin is 29 years old, she should get pregnant and give birth as soon as possible, giving birth too late is not good for women, in his opinion, a woman's body is more important than anything else, of course, "having children is equally important". However, Gigi Lin disagrees with him, although she has now liked children, but like many women, she does not want to have children, thinking that childbirth will disrupt her life. For this reason, she put forward three reasons, the first is that she does not want to have children; The second is that there are already so many children in the family, and she treats them the same as her own biological children, so she doesn't have to have children; Third, she thinks that the fairy electron is at an extraordinary moment, and it is inseparable from her, even if it is not the time to give birth. Regarding the three reasons for women, Li Mengze said, first, she should and must treat these children the same as her own children, but this does not mean that she does not have to have children; Second, her woman must have children, and a woman's failure to have children in her life is her greatest loss, unless she cannot have children, it is an abnormal thing; Third, Gigi Lin's body is more important than the electronics company, since she wants to give birth, it is better to give birth early than to give birth late, and it is better for the body. It is difficult for the matter of the electronics company to end in a short time, he can't let a woman delay her life because of the company, even if the electronics company collapses because of this, he will not hesitate to do it. Fourth, the children are getting older, they are too old, and they are not good for them, and he doesn't know what will happen in the future. Fifth, you can't reassure your father-in-law and mother-in-law, which can at least comfort them and make them happy. This matter was controversial on a small scale at first, but neither of the two could convince anyone, and Li Mengze was unwilling to use force, and finally was stabbed at a family meeting and became the focus of the family's attention.
Gigi Lin has long been in the hands of men, from the moment she came into contact with the fairy company, she was captured by men step by step, worked hard for her, worked hard for her, and finally bid farewell to her virgin career of more than 20 years, and finally became the "ninth sister" of the Li family compound. This is not the end, from the day she became Li Mengze's woman, she was calculated by men again, she did not go through personnel, she was not the opponent of a man who was a veteran of flowers, at the end of August, she suddenly felt unwell, and then the reaction became stronger and stronger, according to the sisters, there should be joy, and according to the diagnosis of the obstetrics and gynecology doctor, she was indeed pregnant, which made her startled. She thinks that she doesn't need to have children, there are so many children in the family, and the situation of the electronics company is not suitable for childbearing, so, out of respect for her husband, she told Li Mengze about it, and said her plan, she thought that she could get her husband's support, but who knew that her husband insisted on disagreeing, which made her feel that she had entered his trap again. Compared with a woman's hindsight, the experienced Li Mengze has long known that a woman is pregnant, which he did, how can he not know, but he didn't expect that a woman was unwilling to give birth, at least not now. This makes Li Mengze feel embarrassed, he himself is not against abortion, if the situation is not suitable and not conducive to childbirth, abortion is still better, but he believes that now is the best time for Gigi Lin to give birth, and he naturally opposes abortion. Although he opposes it, he also knows that he can't use force, and although he understands the statement that a woman's career is more important than having children, he doesn't agree with it. In his opinion, the key point is that Gigi Lin herself is unwilling to have children, there are many reasons for this idea, but no external factors can be a reason for her not to have children, he doesn't like children, but he is also responsible for children, many things, it's not that you don't like it and don't do it, it's completely a question of whether it should or shouldn't be; As for the fairy electronics company, it is not as important as his woman at all, it is not the same thing at all.
Regarding Gigi Lin's reluctance to have children, the sisters did not comment too much on her unwillingness to have children, but unanimously refuted her other reasons, believing that those reasons could not be the reasons for her to have children at all. Gigi Lin can not have children, she can not like it, she can not be willing to have children, but career and family cannot be her reason, unless she really does not want to have children. Even if she is reluctant to give birth, she still has to take care of the impact of her own actions, the impact on her father, mother, friends and anyone else must be taken into account, and she must also take into account the feelings of the sisters, everyone has persuaded her to give birth to a child, and they all describe to her the good feeling of giving birth to a child, although the electronics company is important, but let her be everyone's sister, it is not to find a housekeeper for Fairy Electronics, Fairy Electronics cannot replace her important position as a member of the Li family. Gigi Lin obviously didn't expect that her husband could not give in if she didn't agree with it, but the unanimous opposition of the sisters, supplemented by various threats and temptations, made her a little shaken. The original firm dedication gradually began to dissolve, and her husband's sentence "After giving birth to a child, your career can go to the next level, see how many of your sisters know, your second sister, third sister, and fourth sister are all ready-made examples", which made her a little longing, and she had not yet reacted from her fantasy, and took the call from her father from someone, and now, she really has nothing to do; The old father's nervous tone made her even more embarrassed, and her father wanted his grandson so much, which really embarrassed her.
When she saw her father who rushed to Xiyuan from Wuhan, Gigi Lin really gave in completely. The first thing she said when she saw her father who came in a hurry was "Dad, don't worry, I will give birth", which made Lin Mingtang, who rushed to his son-in-law's house urgently, breathe a sigh of relief, and didn't know how to say a thousand words, or someone would do something, and tried his best to invite his father-in-law to his family's calligraphy and painting showroom to have a look.
"Is Qi'er alright? She agreed? As soon as he left his daughter's sight, Lin Mingtang asked, he was embarrassed to ask just now, but after all, he didn't know the bottom of his heart.
"You can rest assured! Since she agreed, it must be fine, Gigi is a person who says the same, besides, you called in the morning and came again in the afternoon, can she not look at your face? Li Mengze comforted the other party, he sent a letter to his father-in-law in the morning, and the old father-in-law came in person in the afternoon.
"Are you sure? Don't make her unhappy, she's never listened to me! Lin Mingtang still didn't feel at ease, this daughter made him worry too much.
"This time, let's plant it, she didn't listen to my advice on this matter, I thought she would listen to me, but this time she didn't listen at all, guess who she listened to in the end, don't be angry, we both planted this time. Her eight sisters said to her on the left and on the right, and you came like this, hehe, it's done! Li Mengze said with a smile, indeed, this time Gigi Lin neither listened to him, nor naturally did she listen to her father, it was completely a few sisters who moved her, after all, the big hat is oppressive.
"Hmph, don't be complacent. You still have to be careful, and don't let her get too tired, I'm tired, I won't agree. Although Lin Mingtang was relieved, he still couldn't get over his face.
"Dad, you can rest assured, to be honest, there are enough children, I am already content. But Gigi is my woman, and I have to let her have a baby too. Of course I can't let her get tired, let her step down now, she won't agree, it's a little too early. When she was five or six months old, she was not allowed to go to the company, and at most she was at home to point fingers. After giving birth, she must recuperate for three months, and during these three months, we will coax her well. If she still wants to go to work after giving birth, she will work half for 6 months and recuperate for half of the time, and she will be able to go to work normally after 6 months. She must carry out this arrangement. Li Mengze said his plan, which is also the opinion of the family, of course, this is the rule of their family, you know, this maternity leave is quite long.
"What about electronics companies? Can you put it down? Lin Mingtang raised a sensitive question, he was also worried that his daughter would not be able to let go of the electronics company, and now is an extraordinary period.
"What can be put down, what can't be put down? In my eyes, a few women are the most important, even if the electronics company is gone, I want to make her happy during this time. In my life, I have no other ability, I know that I am better to women, they treat me like this, and everything I do is worth it! ”
"The company is fine, don't just take care of the family, a man should always have a career. Don't let people look down! Lin Mingtang changed the topic, and he was not good at commenting on personal matters, but he expressed his earnest expectations.
"Do you want to say to me, 'Men should put their careers first'?" Li Mengze said with a smile, this is not the first time someone has said this, I really don't know what these fathers-in-law think, it seems that they don't care for their daughters very much.
"Isn't it right, if you don't work hard, what will you do in the future, opportunities are not always there!" Lin Mingtang was a little serious, and he hated iron but not steel.
"It's difficult, so many women, I don't take care of them, can I feel at ease? Everyone said I was lazy and didn't understand anything, but I didn't want to do it. It's too tiring to work, who will take care of these women. In their eyes, I am more important than my career, and even Gigi thinks so; And in my eyes, they are more important than anything else. As for the career, I have worked hard all my life, and I am not making wedding clothes for others. For example, you, you've been strong all your life, and Donglin doesn't want to give it away! Li Mengze said with a wry smile, I really don't know why the old people always ask him to do things seriously, don't you know that he is related to the happiness of their daughter?
"If it doesn't work, it doesn't work, don't make any excuses. The company is done, and the family follows the scenery! The old father-in-law said disapprerovingly, in his opinion, it was purely an excuse for laziness.
"Don't worry, the fairy is running well, I will invest another 100 billion, and then borrow some from Xixing Company, and I won't need to take out a loan in the future." Li Mengze hurriedly said.
"It's not Yang Hua supporting it, don't put gold on your face, you don't have a long-term plan." Lin Mingtang still didn't have a good face.
"Yang Hua did it, I didn't do it, our family is not separated from each other. You don't have to worry about fairies, although these two years will be a little tighter, as long as Xixing is successfully listed, there will be no pressure. Even now, there is no shortage of funds in the account, and before the end of the year, 15 billion will be transferred. Li Mengze said with a grin.
"The fairy is so nervous, don't use it. Donglin will figure it out for himself. Lin Mingtang said embarrassedly, 15 billion yuan is very tempting, but he also knows that now is the time when the fairy is short of money, and the contract in Europe will be signed soon.
"Dad, this loan is borrowing money, since it was said to Donglin, it will definitely be given. Although the fairy said that she had taken out a loan, she could afford this little money, but in order to maintain the company's expansion momentum, she had to set aside funds, and the gap would be solved from the West Star Company. Donglin is different, financially inferior to fairies, don't worry about this, just go back later, don't let people gossip about us. Li Mengze insisted on supporting Donglin, Donglin's finances are not as good as fairies, and 15 billion yuan is now more difficult for them, unless they sell something, but this is what everyone does not want to see.
"Alright then, just don't let the fairy get trapped." Lin Mingtang thought about it, but he didn't insist, the company's situation is actually clear to everyone, and he can't hide this guy, so he doesn't need to be cowardly.
Li Mengze still led his old father-in-law to see the graffiti of the "talented sons" of the Li family, I don't know what the genetics are, most of these paintings are miserable, which makes people who see them frown. Lin Mingtang really didn't dare to imagine that there would be so many and such ugly "works", and someone actually pointed out with relish, and seemed to be quite proud, so he secretly hoped that his daughter would be able to give birth to two "daughters", although in his heart he preferred to be able to see two grandchildren.
Gigi Lin finally became an ordinary woman, pregnant at the end of August, and suspended the work of the electronics company on time at the end of February of the following year, and handed over some of the work to the responsible personnel of various departments in detail. But soon, some people understood. At this time, Gigi Lin has been pregnant for more than 6 months, and her body has gradually deformed, and before that, her family has asked her to minimize her work, gradually reduce her range of activities, and finally make an appointment to go home to give birth, although a little reluctant, not at ease, but the stubborn woman still obeyed the family order and began her family idle life in the first three months of childbirth. She had never cultivated for such a long time, but fortunately, she was accompanied by several older sisters, and with the adjustment of her two younger sons who could walk, she gradually got used to it; Then it was three months of recuperation in the hospital. The man would spend a lot of time in the hospital almost every day with her, talking to relieve boredom and talking about family stories that she didn't know. The two of them rarely talk about work, and she also feels some kind of satisfaction with this new life, and her husband's gentleness and thoughtfulness make her feel happy and satisfied, "It turns out that life can be like this"! Looking at a pair of cute little sons and the maternal feeling of breastfeeding the children in person, unconsciously, she entered the role of a mother, and a kind of maternal love finally emerged in the strong woman.
Lin Mingtang couldn't believe that his daughter would become like this, the old couple couldn't believe their ears, and even their eyes, "A stubborn daughter can be like this", which made the old people have a good impression of this cheap son-in-law, putting aside this grandson, the change in the daughter alone made the old people feel the long-lost warmth; The daughter's happy smile made the old man feel comforted and contented! Gigi Lin has indeed changed a lot, after giving birth to a pair of sons, she is no longer a young woman, not only is she much gentler, but she also makes people feel that this is a real woman, and she can't see the shadow of the strong woman who is dedicated to her career at all. But can she be like this forever, neither man can guarantee that such a thing will happen, perhaps, a mother, can also be a strong woman!
Anyway, the happiest is Li Mengze, he really made this woman feel the joy of being a woman, and really fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband in the process of pregnancy, childbirth and recovery, and let women feel their warmth. That's it, shouldn't a man be like this for a woman! Of course, the most hurt is him, the 6-month production period, and more importantly, the two younger sons who can't speak, were forced to be hugged by someone, which really hurt his brain, for the mother of these two sons, he hated and loved, and was even more helpless.
"Hey, son, I can't stand your brothers!"