My sister and I didn't know if our persuasion had worked. But the situation has developed to such a point that we have no choice but to give up our intention to continue persuasion, whether we have it or not. Alas, let it be. In addition, my sister and I have secretly made up our minds that we must take more time to come back in the future. On the one hand, it can reduce the burden of caring for the mother, and on the other hand, it can also allow the father to taste the real variety. Change your mother's words a little, "free" we have to come!

In fact, it stands to reason that we have to persuade my father to change his somewhat cold and hard way of speaking. However, seeing my father's emaciated figure (before he suffered cancer, my father was fat), his painful expression, and his slightly sluggish mental state, he couldn't bear to say anything about it. We are afraid that our father, like our mother, will take our words of persuasion as a reproach. If my father is emotionally agitated by this, then we will be guilty of "ten thousand deaths".

We didn't try to persuade my mother anymore, and we didn't persuade my father in turn. However, we have made up our minds to ease the tension between our parents through our own efforts. In our opinion, these insignificant contradictions, in the tempering of time, should soon disappear. Just, do we still have enough time?

At the second follow-up, we did not meet the attending physician after the results of my father's examination came out (if he did, he would definitely inform him of the next follow-up time), and my father strongly resisted chemotherapy (the attending physician emphasized that chemotherapy must be undertaken), so we did not actually have the intention of "going to the Municipal People's Hospital for a follow-up". However, the so-called man is not as good as the sky. Who would have thought that after the second review, my father's uncomfortable feeling became more and more obvious, especially the pain of the scar. Although we comforted us: "How can such a big scar recover so quickly?" Pain should be normal. But in fact, we still have a faint feeling in our hearts that something is wrong. So, without my father's repeated urging, we unanimously decided to go to the hospital for a check-up on the following Thursday (the attending physician's outpatient day).

I remember it was the end of June, and I didn't remember the weather at all. Anyway, in my memory, that day seems to be all gray. The attending physician was still smiling, and when his father said that he was uncomfortable and painful, he just said "normal" lightly. But from the moment the self-treating physician looked at my father's legs more cautiously, I realized that something was wrong. Because, I still remember what my wife's cousin said to me before the operation, "If the leg is swollen, it means that the condition has reached a very serious point!" ”

The attending physician looked at it very carefully, smiled and said, "I think everything should be relatively normal." However, if I only look at it with my naked eyes, I think you will not be reassured. Instead, I'll open an item that needs to be checked. You're going to have a CT tomorrow or the day after tomorrow. Maybe we have a higher price here, so you can go to the third hospital or a country hospital where you have acquaintances. When the results are out, just show them to me! ”

At that time, I was so touched in my heart! Because, there are so few doctors who can think about patients now! After a very sincere thank-you, we left the Municipal People's Hospital.

Because I still have to do CT, my parents temporarily live in a commercial house in our city.

I was a careful observer, but I already felt that something was wrong when I was in the hospital. However, in order not to make my father realize that something was wrong, I had to pretend to be extremely relaxed. After settling my parents in, I hid in my room. I knew that at that time, because of my heavy mood, my face must have been quite ugly.

My father's examination should not be delayed, so after calming down a little, I immediately called my sister. Because, in my impression, my sister seems to have acquaintances in the Third Hospital.

After I was convinced that my sister had acquaintances in the Third Hospital, I focused on negotiating with my sister whether to go to the Third Hospital or the hospital in the hometown where my parents had acquaintances. My sister and I did not hesitate to reject the plan of going to the country hospital for examination. First, because it is not very convenient to come and go, the hometown hospital is still quite far away from our hometown, and second, we feel that the equipment of the rural hospital is too simple, and the results may not be accurate. But as for "whether to go to the third hospital for examination", my sister and I did not rush to conclusions. My sister said that it was better to wait until my brother-in-law and my wife came back at noon, and then we would negotiate and make a decision together.

At noon, after unanimous consultation, it was finally decided to go to the Municipal People's Hospital for examination. Even if it is expensive to do a CT in the Municipal People's Hospital, it is impossible to be expensive. What's more, if the equipment of the three hospitals is too poor, and the things that should be checked cannot be checked, then even if you can save a few hundred yuan, it will definitely outweigh the losses.

Now that the decision has been made, we must act immediately. CT, especially the enhanced ones, is not the same as doing a regular examination. Make sure to make a reservation! Fortunately, this is not the first time we have experienced it, we have already experienced it. Since my sister's house was close to the Municipal People's Hospital, and my brother-in-law was also free in the afternoon, we handed over the appointment to my brother-in-law.

Throughout the afternoon, my father was not in a good mood. Of course, it is not because I am aware of the possible deterioration of my body, but because I am dissatisfied with the attending physician. My father whined from time to time, even when he was watching TV.

"I said no, I didn't come, but you just don't believe it! (Actually, the one who wanted to come over for a check-up at that time was himself) every time he came to check-up, he said 'normal' and 'fine'. When did he (the attending physician) come and what could he say? ”

"Obviously it hurts? But he said, 'It's all right,' 'It's all right.' I think he (the attending physician) can only perform surgery, but the rest is not good. At the very least, he couldn't solve this painful problem. Otherwise, I wouldn't keep saying 'normal' or 'okay' or something. ”

"The current doctors, the level is just not good. If you leave a variety of instruments, you probably won't be able to find any problems. It's like the original old Chinese medicine doctor, look at the eyes, ask with the mouth, check the pulse, and you can find out any problem. ”

"Why don't you check it. I guess even if he did a CT scan, he (the attending physician) still couldn't solve the pain problem. (When my father said this, I could see his fear.) I was afraid to do CT because I was worried that something would go wrong. But it was precisely because of his worries that my father wanted to be able to check it out, so that he could put himself at ease. Therefore, the father at that time was extremely conflicted in his heart. ）

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