078 Sister's efforts

The night my father was discharged from the hospital, I slept soundly first. The next day, I was already refreshed, and I started my long-lost regular and normal life again.

Normally, my daily life is to go to work, do housework, spend time with my children, write things, and occasionally play games. At this time, it was not long before my wife's exam (a special certificate exam), and in order to save her more time for reading, I had to take on almost all the housework on my own initiative. This renewed regular life can no longer be described as fulfilling, because it is simply "busy". However, even in such a busy situation, I still insist on the update of "Soul Salvation" every day. This persistence lasted for almost two months, except, of course, in the exceptional case of not being able to touch the computer.

Compared to my busyness, my sister is much more relaxed. Therefore, my sister has enough time to worry about her father's recovery after surgery. At this point, compared to my sister, I really didn't do enough.

After returning to his hometown, perhaps his mood improved greatly, and in the first few days, my father's physical recovery rate was significantly faster than that of the hospitalization. This is probably the main reason for my negligence at that time. With at least one phone call a day, my sister and I were able to grasp my father's situation in a timely manner. Regarding the gratifying changes in my father, my sister and I once commented: "Now it seems that the attending physician is bold and careful!" "The reason for this weird high evaluation is that I have to talk about my wife's cousin's opinion. As mentioned earlier, my wife's cousin is a well-known attending physician in the Department of Cardiothoracic Surgery at a well-known hospital in Nanjing. Once, I mentioned to him that my father's attending physician had told him that his tumor had pressed on his heart. My wife's cousin immediately said puzzled: "It's already pressed on the heart, do you still need surgery?" Isn't this typically brutal? "His evaluation has always been the source of our suspicions about the quality and ability of my father's attending physician. However, when we mistakenly believed that our father's surgery was a success, we began to trust my father's attending physician again. At that time, we even had the idea of asking the attending physician for a meal as a token of gratitude.

Since my father was discharged from the hospital, my sister has always had this idea: to find a famous Chinese medicine doctor for my father to prescribe some Chinese medicine conditioning and conditioning. But when it comes to whether to find an old Chinese medicine doctor in Shanghai or Nanjing, he has been hesitant and can't make up his mind; Second, we feel that my father's recovery has been good after being discharged from the hospital, and my wife's exam is imminent, so subconsciously, we who are busy with our own affairs feel that this matter is not in a hurry. It is precisely because of these factors that the matter of prescribing Chinese medicine conditioning for my father has been delayed again and again.

In addition to the idea of prescribing traditional Chinese medicine, my sister also inquired in many ways, trying to learn some valuable experience from other people who had recovered well after esophageal cancer surgery. It just so happened that the father-in-law of one of my sister's high school classmates had surgery for esophageal cancer, and it has been several years, and he is still in excellent health. Originally, there are many opinions on the Internet about the precautions for esophageal cancer surgery, and it is very difficult for us to decide when we are dazzled. Well, now a living successful case is there! You don't need to worry about it anymore, just learn from others with an open mind.

According to my sister's classmates, the most important thing after esophageal cancer surgery is to control your diet. She said that her father-in-law had not touched meat since the surgery, and this insistence was a whole year. She also said that the surgery was performed at the same time as her father-in-law, and it was precisely because he did not control his diet that he was basically gone. She believes that if the diet is too good, then it is not only the patient's body that is replenished, but also the latent cancer cells. Therefore, if you eat too well, it is likely to create an opportunity for cancer cells to break out again.

My sister's classmates were also very enthusiastic about introducing a small secret recipe. She said that in addition to insisting on not eating meat, her father-in-law also drank "wheat juice" for a long time. Some people may ask, I have only heard that wheat can be ground into flour, when can the juice be squeezed out of flour? Needless to say, until now, there has never been such a technique to extract juice from flour. By "wheat juice" I mean the juice that comes from green barley seedlings that have just been unearthed for a short time. It is said that this juice has the effects of anti-inflammatory and anti-heat, detoxification and anti-cancer, stomach and digestion, and soothing the stomach. We never imagined that the commonplace wheat could have such a miraculous effect. It's hard to tell the truth from the fake. But, where are the living examples of my sister's classmate's father-in-law! Can there be any fakes? For a while, we, especially my sister, took "wheat juice" as a miracle medicine for my father to successfully eliminate the relapsing crisis.

Before my wife's exams, we hardly went back to our hometown, even on weekends. Because, on Saturdays and Sundays, my wife also has to review the sprints against time, and I am fully responsible for the logistics of these two days and the care of the children. Now that I think about it, I regret it immensely. It was I who was too careless to be blinded by the so-called "90 percent" success rate of the attending physician. Therefore, I made the wrong decision to wait until my wife's exam was over, and then go back to my hometown to accompany my father wholeheartedly.

We didn't go home, but on weekends, my sister's family would almost always take the time to go back to see my father. Every time she went back, she would tell her father about the experience. On the one hand, it is to build confidence in my father, and it is also an esophageal cancer surgery, and everyone has lived for many years, so you should be able to do it; On the other hand, and more importantly, he wanted to subtly change his father's eating concepts and habits. The attending physician's order is very simple, just one word: "supplement". Except for a few foods that cannot be eaten, everything else can be eaten, and it must be eaten. Because the attending physician believes that such a major surgery for esophageal cancer is still not a small damage to the human body, and in order to recover, it is necessary to have an adequate supply of nutrients. Only a comprehensive and reasonable recipe with meat and vegetables can provide sufficient nutrition for the recovery of postoperative patients.

My father's temper has always been very stubborn. During his more than month-long hospitalization, my father had fully embraced the attending physician's concept of nutrition. If you want to convince your father, it is not ordinary. For two or three weeks in a row, the effect of my sister's family was almost equal to zero. In my father's words: Don't the doctors know you? The attending physician didn't let me go vegetarian every day.

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