003 The dilemma after returning
I finally got up, but I still couldn't decide whether to call or not. There was a strong urge to dial, and I really wanted to know if he had come back with his father; There was another voice in his head that reminded him that they should be on the road, and that they were probably on the highway, and that if he made a phone call, it would interfere with his driving, which was quite a dangerous thing.
Holding a mobile phone, walking back and forth in the house, dialing or not dialing, has been bothering myself. For a moment, it was difficult for me to decide on such a simple matter. Perhaps, this is the so-called care and chaos.
Forced to suppress the anxiety in his heart, shouted to the child to get up, helped him wash and eat, and then sent him to school. Go home and keep waiting. There is eagerness in my heart, because of the strong family affection, I want to see my father as soon as possible; It's more of a fear, because I'm really scared to see a terminally ill and miserable scene, which is absolutely unbearable for me.
It felt like time had stood still. When my phone rang, I was taken aback. It was a phone call from my mother, informing me that my father had arrived home. I asked my parents to hurry to the city and said to contact the car to pick them up immediately. However, my father decisively refused. My father's reasoning was simple: "Wherever you go to check, you have to wait for the same amount of time." Instead of wasting time and energy needlessly, it is better to wait for the inspection report of Zhejiang Tongxiang People's Hospital. ”
My father's temper was very stubborn, and no one could persuade him to change what he decided. I had no choice but to call my sister again to negotiate.
"Sister, Dad has already arrived at his hometown." I went straight to the point.
"Then hurry up and take him to the city!" My sister said very hurriedly.
"That's what I thought, too. However, Dad refused to come. He said that he would wait until the results of the examination in Tongxiang. I replied anxiously.
"Well, Daddy's temper ......, so why don't you wait?" My sister also knows her father well, so she can't help but hesitate and waver when she hears her tone.
"Could it be that the results of Tongxiang's inspection must be accurate?"
"Yes! So what to do? My sister was at a loss, but the worry in her tone was even stronger.
"I was going to pick up my dad and go to our Municipal People's Hospital for another check-up. It's better to be more accurate about Dad's condition. "In this case, of course, I did not hesitate to express my intentions and thoughts.
"That's right, it's better to check again. It's just that...... Why don't you give your cousin a call and see what he has to say. If your cousin agrees, you might as well ask him to help persuade your father. At the critical moment, my sister finally thought of her cousin.
"Well, that's right. That's it, I'll call my cousin now. Hearing this, I immediately said in a hurry.
"Well, okay. Bye! ”
"Bye-bye!" After saying that, I quickly hung up the phone.
"Hey, brother?" The call was quickly connected.
"Well, so-and-so (I was called so-and-so instead)...... Has the uncle arrived home? My cousin knew it was me as soon as he heard it, and asked with great concern.
"It wasn't long before I got home." I answered truthfully.
"Oh...... I'm just making a suggestion......"
I know what my cousin means, after all, he can't make decisions for me, so it's a bit vague. "If you have something to say, let's just say it, we are our own brothers."
"Well said, if it weren't for my own brother, then I wouldn't have said much. I think you'd better take your uncle to the People's Hospital for a check-up. Then compare the results of the two examinations, and you should be able to grasp the uncle's condition more prepared. The cousin's words were full of concern, a kind of concern for his own loved ones.
I thought so and called. But you also know my father's temper, he insisted on waiting for the results of Tongxiang's inspection first, but he refused to come to the city. Can you help me persuade and persuade ...... "Although I am not a cousin, I am closer than my cousin, so I speak very directly.
"Oh, I'll try my best, I'll let you know as soon as I have news."
There are no kind words like thanks, because I really see this cousin as my own family. But I waited for days.
Alas...... My father's temper was not your average stubbornness.
When my wife came back from work at noon and had lunch, the topic was all about my father. I overheard that my wife's colleague also had a similar condition checked at the Municipal People's Hospital. I immediately reminded her that she must go to inquire about the relevant examinations of the People's Hospital in the afternoon.
Continue to wait anxiously. Anyway, in the past two days, I always feel that time has passed very slowly. Finally, my wife got off work. I can't wait to ask. My wife said that the Municipal People's Hospital needs to send the relevant materials to Nanjing for testing the gastroscopy, so the examination results will not be available until 4 or 5 days later. I asked: Can you hurry up if you find someone? The wife replied: I guess not.
After thinking about it, I always felt that I didn't give up, so I called home again.
"Dad, let's go to the Municipal People's Hospital for another check-up, right?" I said in a consultative tone.
"Check again? Did you know that gastroscopy is very hard? Father's rhetorical question, with some displeasure.
"I think it would be more reassuring to check it again!" I didn't give up trying.
"The Municipal People's Hospital? Will the results of the examination be reassuring? "From the tone, it is easy to hear that my father does not trust our local people's hospital very much.
"No, if you want to send it to Nanjing, I believe that the inspection results in Nanjing will definitely not be wrong!" I continued to persuade.
"That's even more unnecessary, Tongxiang was also sent to Hangzhou for testing. Do you still have doubts about the results of the examination in Hangzhou? ”
Unexpectedly, my father rebelled against me. For a moment, I was speechless.
"When will the inspection results in Nanjing be available?" Seeing that I was silent for a long time, my father continued to ask.
When I heard this, I immediately became motivated, because I thought that my father's emotions had loosened and that he might agree to my suggestion to be tested again. "I've already asked, and I can get it in 4 or 5 days." I pledge it.
"Well, it's even more unnecessary! The results of Tongxiang's examination can also be obtained in five days. It's been two days. If you go to the Municipal People's Hospital for examination tomorrow, not only will you have to work hard for a second time, but the test report will be a few days late. Why bother? Let's wait for the results of Tongxiang's examination to come out. "My father was very resolute.
Having said that, there is no point in doing more entanglement. I let out an "oh" and hung up the phone very helplessly.