051 Talking about filial piety
Filial piety comes first. I think it is precisely because of the traction of "filial piety" that I will hit it off at first sight with young men and middle-aged people, and we will establish an incomparably deep friendship in the shortest possible time. After that, the whole ward was able to maintain that kind of warm, harmonious, and mutually helpful atmosphere for a long time.
However, "filial piety" is not available to everyone. I remember mentioning before that the bed on the north side is usually filled with middle-aged people. The limp of a middle-aged person is not born, and like the old grandmother, it is also caused by a car accident. Middle-aged people are different from grandmothers, they are strong and strong, and those little injuries do not need to be hospitalized at all, and after simple treatment, they just need to recover slowly. Therefore, the middle-aged man has been staying in the hospital, not for his own leg injury, but completely for his old mother. I've always been middle-aged, and at first I was mistaken for my grandmother as the only child. Because, in my opinion, if there was more than one, the other siblings would never have a person with a leg problem to take care of their mother. Even if you don't care about your brother, you can't rest assured of your old mother, right?
Later, from the ordinary words of middle-aged people, I knew that the old grandmother still had other children. The middle-aged man opened a garment factory in southern Jiangsu, and for the sake of his mother, he didn't go to the factory for a long time, which made the situation in the factory a mess. It is not difficult to hear this from the anxious words of the middle-aged man on the phone from time to time. The middle-aged man's son was in his third year of high school at that time, and it didn't take long (it was mid-April, and the college entrance examination was in early June) to take the college entrance examination, so his own wife had to supervise and take care of his son who was struggling and struggling, and there was no time to share his worries for him. In desperation, he had to apply for help from his brothers and sisters. From his words, it can be heard that as long as someone comes to take care of it, he can even pay a salary. Even then, the effect doesn't seem to be very noticeable. Because, in the next few days, there is still only one middle-aged person.
I didn't ask the middle-aged man, he has several siblings. However, in my heart, I have a very bad impression of my grandmother's children, except for this middle-aged man. Parents worked hard to bring them up, and in the end, when their parents were old and needed their care, they avoided them like a plague. For these unfilial children, I, who have always "regarded my parents as heaven and earth", look down on them from the bottom of my heart. I despise the personalities of these people. In the words that are now in vogue, it is to despise these lowly creatures that are inferior to pigs and dogs.
I don't know what kind of means the middle-aged man used, but in the end, one of the other children of the old grandmother came. It was a village woman between middle age and old age. Since I looked at her with colored eyes, I was full of disgust for her every word and deed.
As the saying goes: two women in one play. Unlike men, women are very fond of doing homely work. What's more, the old grandmother is a woman, and the young man's mother suddenly became noisy. It was because of the three women muttering and talking constantly that I finally figured out the whole story of the grandmother's car accident.
The middle-aged man's father didn't know if it was a problem with the trachea or lungs, and the symptom was poor breathing anyway. Like me, middle-aged people can even be desperate for the sake of their parents. For this reason, middle-aged people specially purchased instruments to help people breathe. Even so, some time ago, the middle-aged man's father was still in danger, so the middle-aged man's father was sent to the Municipal People's Hospital for first aid. It is precisely because of this that the middle-aged man rushed back from southern Jiangsu and drove his mother to the hospital on a motorcycle to visit his old father. They were in a car accident on their way to the hospital. According to themselves, it was hit by a taxi. The traffic police ruled that the taxi was fully responsible. Therefore, all their medical expenses in the hospital are covered by the taxi driver. Of course, taxis are insured, and eventually these medical expenses can be reimbursed by the insurance company.
Since the traffic accident, except for middle-aged people, the grandmother's children have never come to visit. In the hospital, the grandmother is still caring about her wife. It is said that later, at the insistence of the old man, he was discharged from the hospital. Although the hospital has issued a critical illness notice, it is strange to say that the middle-aged man's father has gradually returned to normal after returning home.
Through the constant conversation of the three women. I know that the one who came here this time is the sister of a middle-aged man. She, like middle-aged people, is also full of complaints. This inevitably makes me think a little less about it.
She has always stressed that her family is poor. In her opinion, the parents' pension and treatment expenses should be paid by the son.
"Look, how the two sisters and brothers share the medical expenses of their parents!" When the middle-aged man heard this, he immediately asked angrily.
What? Aren't daughters raised by their parents? Since they were all raised by their parents, how can you shirk the responsibility of support? At that time, I really wanted to condemn this unfilial girl. Although reason eventually prevailed, I helped the middle-aged woman and told her with great certainty that "my father's medical expenses are shared equally between me and my sister's family."
Who knows, the middle-aged woman's sister actually replied without blushing and heartbeat: "How many are there like your family?" Isn't it all a burden on my son now? ”
Damn, what a shameless unfilial girl! I cursed in my heart.
Seeing that no one interrupted again, the three women began to talk again. The middle-aged woman's sister continued to complain. Probably a realization of the unkindness in my words and a look of disgust. Therefore, her words were quickly transferred to her own father. said that his father had been in poor health. This younger brother of mine has been busy with business outside, especially when his younger brother's son is in his third year of high school, and his father, who is not in good health, has no one to take care of him. So, kindly, she took her father to her home. Who would have thought that this one would lead to trouble. From then on, the old father did not go anywhere except her house. Her father became her eternal burden. Who doesn't have a job at home? Why does the burden of caring for her father have to fall on her shoulders? It's not that she doesn't want to come to the hospital to take care of her mother, but she is worried that once she takes care of her, her mother will become her responsibility alone. Under the bitter pleading of the middle-aged people, she managed to settle her old father and came to the hospital to take care of her mother for two days.
Through the grievances of the middle-aged sister, I knew that they also had a sister. This sister is really hard-hearted, not only does she ignore her old father, but she can't even spare time to visit her old mother who has been in a car accident. It's really "busy"! If I despise "her", then I hate the middle-aged sister, who has never appeared! I hate all the unfilial sons (women) in the world who are as ungrateful as the middle-aged sister.