554 Children's World
Qi Ping was lazily lying on the sofa watching a movie, which was a treat for Qi Ping; Some of the movies he watches now are not necessarily some of the latest movies that have just been released, and he now has a collection of DVDs of classic movies.
It feels pretty good, because a lot of movies are divided into theatrical versions and DVD versions, or even the same movie, but there are still some different endings and so on. Especially for someone like Qi Ping, who likes nostalgia, he just likes to watch these classic movies.
In fact, the reason why many movies are called classics is that they don't feel a sense of anticipation at all because they have seen them. Even these classic movies, if you don't watch them once, they can bring different touches and different viewing experiences, which is the charm of classic movies.
Qi Ping is still continuing to enjoy his leisurely and nourishing life, until there is a roar of bears and orangutans; Along with some of the children's voices, there was also a burst of the sound of a car engine.
"Qi Ping, understand to report to the school."
Luo Yi's voice made people gnash their teeth, he was clearly gloating; Because Xiaoyao and them are almost all in the same school, Qi Ping and Luo Yijia have always retained the habit of taking turns to pick up and drop off the children from school, which can be regarded as saving everyone some trouble.
"Which one, which one is going to let me go to school again?"
Qi Ping was speechless, these things are all habitual; Isn't it just being called a parent, it's nothing new. These naughty ghosts in the family, it would be strange if they weren't called parents often.
"Leisurely, don't cherish books. You have to pay attention to this, you like to scribble at home. ”
Schadenfreude, definitely schadenfreude; Luo Yi smiled very thiefly. He was very happy that Qi Ping was often called to school to be criticized by teachers.
looked at Xiaoyao, looked at this kid and greeted his family with the appearance of an old god; even shouted a little sweetheart in the style of a big brother.,The result is to get a big fragrant kiss in the sweet cry of my sister.,And then I'm pestered by my sister to play a game.。
This kid is really okay, although he was called a parent, but he still looks very calm. Where is this like making a mistake. This is obviously just a very ordinary daily life, and there is no impact on life because of being called a parent.
Calling parents is definitely not a tradition in China, and it is even more popular here in the United States; Why, because it works.
Teachers can communicate with parents to understand the child's learning situation at home, and can also make suggestions to parents that are beneficial to the child; After communication, urge parents to give their children a better learning environment and education methods, so that parents can better understand their children. Willing to make time to communicate with children; This will also allow parents to watch their children learn, so that children can make more progress; Parents can get to know their children better and be more considerate of them.
In general, this is the reason why it can point out the child's shortcomings and strengthen the interaction between parents and the school; In the final analysis, it is not a one-person thing to start education, because many people understand that if they want to educate children well, it is really not a one-person thing, which requires more contact between the school and parents.
It's a nice thing to do, but there's a good and a bad side to everything; At the most. That is, to pay attention to whether the benefits outweigh the disadvantages or who is using these methods in what way in the process.
Sometimes, however, calling parents has basically become a teacher's usual educational method. It has not only become a mantra for teachers to scare naughty students. It also takes action at every turn, without any regard for the self-esteem of students, and also makes parents very "embarrassed", so that students are particularly disgusted and parents are the most annoyed.
Fortunately, Qi Ping is not very sensitive to these, because he understands that calling parents these is a process of communication and mutual help for children's progress. Instead of condemning children and counting down parents' outlets.
Sometimes it is true that the children do not perform well enough in school, or perhaps they show some aspects that need attention in some small things. These may be a reason for being called a parent, which is also something that Qi Ping and Kate attach great importance to.
In fact, in the United States, many parents are quite protective of their children, believing that their children are the best. Even if you make a mistake, you can find a reason to shirk it, and you don't even pay much attention to going to school and your child's education.
But here at Qi Ping and Kate, although sometimes they will discuss the children's education with the teacher, and will talk about some of the habits that the children have developed in the forest farm. But more, there are still some things that will be noticed; At the end of the day, Qi Ping and Kate attach great importance to children's education, and they are willing to learn more about children's world.
"Will you go or will I go this time? I just couldn't figure out how he made a mistake again. Also, what a big deal it is to not cherish books, and this has to be reported to the school. ”
Seeing that Kate was back, Qi Ping said with some complaints; Although he does care about the children, he is often called to school, which really makes people cry and laugh.
"This time it's you who goes, and I only went to pick up criticism last time. Trust me, no parent likes to go to school too often. It's not a parent-teacher conference, it's not a family day, so no one likes to go to school at this time, and we all know it's a mistake made by the child. ”
Kate swears, and she also looks like she has a bit of a headache.
"Xiaoyao and Yoyo are twins, why is there a gap between their personalities, and the difference between the two people in many things is really big. It is said that the personalities of the twins may be relatively close, but I think the difference between the two children in our family is really not small. ”
Looking at the wild boy free, and then looking at the more and more ladylike Yoyo, Qi Ping said with a sigh.
"Perhaps, because they are boys and girls, this will cause some differences in their personalities. I don't think there's any harm in that, don't forget, you also liked to scribble in your textbooks when you were young, and Mom and Dad told me. They say that your textbook is never kept neat, that you don't take notes, but that you like to draw pictures in your textbook that no one can understand. Well, it could be an airplane cannon, it could be a ship, it could be a robot. Although not really. ”
Kate decisively put the blame on Qi Ping, and he didn't care about textbooks and the like, which was the fundamental reason. It's very simple, that is, the carefree father does not care about textbooks.
Qi Ping was speechless, this can give a reason; This time, it looks like he really cheated his fat son!
In fact, Qi Ping also understands some things. The nine sons of the dragon are different; Every child has a different personality, so they have a different way of dealing with many things.
These are all known to Qi Ping and are acceptable.
Although children are now in school, homeschooling is still very important; Qi Ping and Kate attach great importance to the cultivation of children's excellent non-intellectual qualities, so that they can make full use of various opportunities to educate in the trivial matters of family life, in the little things.
They also serve as role models in small things, even if sometimes they are always disliked. In particular, flush has become a negative specimen.
Don't underestimate these ordinary random education, under the words and deeds of parents, they will forge a brave and strong character, not afraid of difficulties and strong independent activities.
Of course, it can't just be character education, although Qi Ping and Kate don't think that children's academic performance is everything, but intellectual education can't be too bad; It is actually a very important thing for children to broaden their horizons, get in touch with nature, think and explore more, and learn knowledge and exercise their abilities in the process.
Qi Ping and Kate are definitely not the kind of people who only pay attention to supplementing their children with various nutritional supplements. However, it ignores the cultivation of children's good moral behavior habits and social adaptability.
They are definitely not the kind to meet the material needs of their children infinitely, because they understand. Children's need for love is not only material, but more importantly spiritual. Therefore, they often encourage, praise, and affirm the children, and as for the mistakes made by the children, then they need to be taken seriously.
Protecting children is a matter of course, but sometimes it is necessary to let children do things on their own; They need children to be self-reliant and confident, and they need children to understand what their choices are and the importance of making them.
You must not blindly design the future for your children. Children should be allowed to develop themselves to a certain extent, do what they want to do according to their own ideas, and provide analysis and help even when they encounter problems and difficulties.
Both Zippin and Kate think that their children are the best, and they understand that their children are the best; Even if children often make mistakes, it is definitely the most scary number of times they are asked to be parents. But Zippin and Kate didn't think it was much of a problem. Children are often asked to parents for small things; Maybe the children are not the kind of model students or anything like that, but the children's mistakes are not unacceptable.
Therefore, Qi Ping and Kate never envy other people's children, they never say how good other people's children are, they don't let the little ones feel pressure or something.
Holding vanity and blindly comparing yourself with others is definitely bad and unfair to children; The most important thing is to teach each child according to their characteristics, give full play to their strengths, and strive to develop their strengths and avoid weaknesses. After all, every child has their own personality traits, so there is really no need to force something.
Well, that's how Qi Ping and Kate feel, and they've been insisting on this way of education; It's true that kids always tell them to report to school, kids make mistakes a lot and stuff like that, but it's really not a big deal.
"Mom, I want to take Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai to school, and we want other children to make friends with them. Mom, can we, we can take care of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai. ”
Yoyo ran over, and the little girl now has a lot of important things to discuss with her mother.
"Then you need to make sure that no one is injured, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai can't be injured, other children can't be injured, and you also need to make sure that you don't spoil the atmosphere of the classroom."
Kai nodded and agreed, and there was no reason why he couldn't agree to this matter.
It's easy to say, many schools in the United States are not simply talking about improving students' cultural classes, and many classrooms still have some different education methods. So it's normal to take Liang Shanbo to school, because it seems to be to open up education and the like.
These things were also greeted and agreed by the teachers at the school in advance, and now that Youyou is looking forward to it, Kate naturally agreed.
She understands that children want to bring their best friends to school to share with them. And Yoyo is actually very good, she can take care of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai. Don't forget that Xiaoyao, the little guy, is still on the side, although Xiaoyao is always complaining that he has always been in the same class with his sister, but he can really protect his sister very well, although more often he dislikes his sister and affects him to play games and make friends, but he is indeed by his sister's side all the time.
The kids started cheering, they were going to be the coolest and most popular kids in the school; Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai are famous, and the talking Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai are liked by many children.
And now to be able to take them to school will be interesting; Even Youyou is already discussing with Xiaoyao, and when the time comes, he will teach Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai not to talk nonsense, because they know that Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai sometimes like to swear and talk crazy, so this is definitely inappropriate.
Even the little ones are now thinking about it, and the children who have a good relationship can make friends with Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, and they hate Eric and Williams, so they are not the kind of objects that are particularly welcome.
I have to say, don't look at the children are still young, but the children don't know anything; Don't underestimate children, don't think that they are innocent when they are still young. What are you kidding, nowadays children are one by one, and these little ones really know everything.
Look, such a big little guy now knows how to use the 'resources' in his hands, and now they know how to use these things to increase their influence. Even, this is starting to 'retaliate'.
Well, there's nothing unacceptable, that's the world for kids! (To be continued.) )