Chapter 168: A Strong Woman
But Yun Han was wrong, Wang Ming's arrival was not simply to accompany him, but to come wholeheartedly to treat himself.
Yun Han has been seriously ill for many years, psychologically, physically, and very seriously, many people have left him, but Wenya has not, and Wang Ming's arrival has not disliked her.
Instead, he treated her wholeheartedly, and she was really cured, for Wang Ming, Yun Han was more grateful before, but later, Yun Han found that Wang Ming was really charming.
Under the seemingly young appearance, there is an extremely sophisticated heart, and Wang Ming's strength lies in his personality charm, of course, it is not ruled out that Wang Ming is really handsome.
Since he is a cultivator, he naturally has a sense of being otherworldly. Wang Ming's feeling was even stronger, because he had been a very powerful cultivator before.
Now that he has been reborn, he is even more powerful, especially in terms of temperament.
These three women are very much in love with Wang Ming now, otherwise they wouldn't have minded that Wang Ming has so many women at the same time, but because of love, they don't mind.
"Okay, Wenya, don't mess with Luoxi, Luoxi is just right, you need to rest, let's go outside first, let Luoxi have a good rest alone!"
Wang Ming looked at these women, as if he was not there, discussing these things, a little helpless, but it was difficult to say anything, so he had to shake his head and stop them from continuing.
Wen Ya nodded, agreed with Wang Ming's statement, pretended to be overdone and said to Luo Xi: "Sister Luoxi, you sleep here for a while, let's go outside first, you are good, we will come to see you later, remember not to think too much about it, and rest well!" “
Wen Ya looked at Luo Xi gently. For this Luoxi sister, Wen Ya found that she really liked it, and she didn't know why, just like her own sister, that feeling was very strange, but it was amazing.
This feeling between sisters has been studied by someone before.
Sisterhood, sisterhood is very different from the various group relationships formed by men, there is no hierarchy, there is no password. There is no sign of secrets, it is an open and honest sisterhood. There is a deep tradition in sisterhood literature, and advocating sisterhood is one of the ideals of feminist criticism.
The concept of sisterhood has been summarized and criticized. Sisterhood is often understood as a relationship of mutual care and support between women based on common oppression.
This concept has two meanings: one refers to the special relationship between women formed by women due to their unique gender characteristics, and this kind of mutual care, mutual support and dependence is different from the ethics and values of the competitive world of men; The second is to unite the oppressed with a strong zhengzhi color and carry out a feminist movement.
However, it has also been pointed out that these two meanings ignore the differences in economic interests among women due to differences in race, class, and ethnicity. There is a tendency to be too general and abstract.
Wen Ya is a big doctor who has stayed abroad, and he knows more about these more avant-garde knowledge. She felt that this was the case with her encounter with Luo Xi.
So there is mutual dependence. The feeling of interdependence is in it, and as for why this is so, Wenya can't say clearly.
In short, Wen Ya has such a feeling, and when she sees Luoxi, she feels very kind, that kind of familiarity, that feeling that she has known for a long time. made Wen Ya feel that Luo Xi seemed to be her long-lost biological sister.
"Wang Ming!" The three of them walked out of Luoxi's ward, and in the corridor, Wen Ya said to Wang Ming: "I don't know why, I felt very kind when I saw Luoxi." It's like she's my own sister! ”
Wang Ming looked at Wen Ya with a smile and said, "That's good, Luoxi has such a good sister as you, I think she will be very happy, why didn't you tell her just now, I think she would be very happy if she knew, really!" ”
Wen Ya shook her head with a smile and said, "Don't want it for the time being!" I think if I tell her so abruptly, she will be scared, and I will find another opportunity to talk to her in the future! ”
Wang Ming felt a little strange in her heart, the first impression that Wen Ya gave her was the image of a very cold and glamorous strong woman.
In Wang Ming's sister-in-law cheats, there are a lot of cognitions about strong women:
Strong woman is a term for women who focus on their careers and achieve success.
Traditionally, women put family first, and how to balance family and career for modern strong women is a big problem, and now some people call strong women "Iron Lady".
Although the title of strong woman is an affirmation of women's hard work in society, there are still feminists who believe that adding the female character in front of a strong man always carries xing discrimination.
The traditional concept of "strong woman" is to ignore her gender and tend to be masculine, which is probably the origin of the traditional term "strong woman", and there is no lack of derogatory connotations in the language.
With the development of society, economy and culture, especially in the business world, we are paying more and more attention to female leaders and entrepreneurs, and we also find that many "strong women" are very good at life, family, career, personal hobbies, and social activities are very exciting.
Wang Ming once found in his consulting practice that many strong women are dominant, and they seem to be infinitely beautiful, whether they are impeccable in talent, knowledge or appearance, but their married life is unsatisfactory. Many women don't understand why they are better than their husbands in any way, and they can't find fault with any of them, while their husbands still want to divorce.
It must be emphasized that women, as a group that makes up half of humanity, should never be an accessory. Since it has the ability to survive independently, it is really a good idea to sacrifice oneself and compromise in the absence of a relatively fair situation. As an emerging force in society, strong women should abandon traditional feudal thinking. The process of any society is to step on the feudal backward ideology under its feet.
No matter what kind of family it is, whether it is a woman who sacrifices herself for the sake of the family, a woman who is a so-called traditional woman, or a strong woman who is as dedicated to her career as a man, everyone will encounter various marital problems. As a strong woman, maybe you are facing a clear divorce problem.
And as a woman who is bound by the so-called male-dominated social ideology, she must pretend not to understand the deception of marriage. There is a team called "strong women" who are willing to jump out of this deception, and society actually tells them - no, for the sake of your marriage happiness, you should continue to play the role of blind. This is ridiculous.
"There are not many states that a woman can choose after getting married, either pretend to be smart, or pretend to be stupid, pretend to be smart and be deceived, pretend to be stupid and accept deception, it is a very miserable thing, and now the other party is not even willing to do the superficial work of deception, do you still blame her upside down?"
Perhaps the marital status of "mutual humility since we love each other" is too ideal, but there is nothing wrong with this pursuit. If, as a marriage, you need to cover your eyes and ears in order to beg for its continuation, then what is the point of such a marriage? An independent woman who is strong enough to be called a strong woman should understand this truth.
Wise people may be lonely, because they have insight into everything, and there may be a kind of wisdom called great wisdom and foolishness, but that is never a grievance.
Marriage requires the concession of two people, not the sacrifice of one person. If a marriage is to be done at the expense of one person, it is not a marriage, it is hell.
Modern women have a kind of down-and-down behavior when dealing with men, which is called inconsistency between the inside and the outside, that is, the inside is strong and the outside is weak. Internal strength is psychological independence and enterprising career. In a word, even if you don't have a husband tomorrow, you still have a bowl of good food to eat by yourself! External weakness, then, is a manifestation of behavior that satisfies a man's vanity.
This is Wenya's impression of Wang Ming, Wang Ming knows that Wenya attaches great importance to her career, that is, her medicine, and it is precisely because of this that Wang Ming was able to have the opportunity to get close to Wenya, and she was close to her, and finally made Wenya like herself.
Thinking of the experience of meeting Wenya for the first time, to acquaintance, and finally making Wenya like himself, Wang Ming was overjoyed. (To be continued......)