Chapter 167: Love at First Sight
Luo Xi remembered the story he had seen before, the famous Xiao Su in history.
Xiao Xiaosu's deeds were first seen in an ancient poem "Qiantang Su Little Song":
The concubine rode the oil wall car, and Lang rode the green horse.
Where do you get together? Under the pines and cypresses of Xiling.
What a frank and unrestrained emotion, choosing a graceful age, easily knotting the concentric, today's feelings and self-confidence have become ancient, unobtainable. The poem does not explain Xiao Xiaosu's identity and background, and the latecomers only have imagination.
Xiao Xiaosu is a famous advocate in Qiantang, and there are many chasers, and she is already famous in Suzhou and Hangzhou in less than twenty-eight. "There have long been luxurious sons, Kejia squires, or want to be a singer, or want to marry a concubine, willing to pay a thousand dollars, one after another, Xiao Xiao Su all resigned."
Aunt Jia, the brothel boss, persuaded her to choose a good family to marry as soon as possible, otherwise her time would be wasted. Xiao Xiaosu's words to answer the bustard can be regarded as the forerunner of independent women:
The meaning of the aunt is to cherish the niece, which can be described as the most important. But the niece has a fetish, and her favorite is the landscape of West Lake. If you enter the cage, you can sit in the well and watch the sky, and you can't swim in the two peaks and three pillars. Moreover, the rich and the poor are all tied to fate, and if there is a blessing of a golden house in his fate, he will never be born in a house of prostitutes. Now that he was born in a prostitute family, the fate of the non-gold house is known. If you enter the Houmen, the lion on the east of the river, although it is not pretentious; Three or five little stars must also be jealous.
In addition, luxury is not durable things, wealth has no certain feelings, people are easy, it is difficult to get out, it is better to move the name of the gold valley, put it in the city of the sun, smell it in the nose, who does not pity the fragrance; Touching the eye, who doesn't love sex. The daughter smiled, and the flowers and willows came to fight. When the ten pieces were shi, Fengyue was willing to let it. The situation is fragrant and beautiful, like the sweetness of fishing bait, and the sound of flying pipes is like a slice of peaches in the stream. Towards the double. Twilight is right, wild mandarin ducks are not birds; Spring red red, autumn purple purple, fake Lian Li He is different. If you swear to be merciful, why should it be like the sun? Forget the old and abandon the old, you might as well see it as a floating cloud.
Today's joy, tomorrow's rest, nothing but dew; For the time being, there is the so-called fireworks. The Bell of Love. People do their best, laugh and elope; If you want it, you might as well be happy, and you can sit and be harmless. Although he leaned on the door and smiled, he was ridiculed by the famous religion; And pity the widowhood. It is also the holy king's abolition.
Qinglou red fan, both have this narrow and evil career; Sideburns and faces. You can't do without gentleness. Come to think of it. With the talent of the niece, one stroke of ink, it will be the jade hall of the Chu Pavilion; With the appearance of a niece, with a smile and a cheek, she vows to enjoy the golden house of Qinlou. Na Dollar and Wealth, endlessly. Horses and horses, fill the door all day long. Make the heart of Yanye, and fulfill the wish of the merry.
If you can be an outstanding beauty in a brothel, it will be like holding an infatuated girl in the Hou Gate. Embrace the mystery and hide it, and be a concubine who goes with her. If the niece's ambition is like this, I don't know why the aunt thinks it is?
What a little Su, looking at ancient and modern women, who is so self-aware and sober, and who can be so calm and calm? For example, Huo Xiaoyu loves talent, but she meets her husband; Liang Hongyu knows people with her eyes, and she knows each other poorly, but she is a legend; Cui Yingying was abandoned from the beginning to the end, rich and noble, and it was also a sad tail; The roar of the Hedong lion can't save love, so it's better to look down on everything.
That's why Luo Xi likes Xiao Xiaosu, although this woman is a person in a green building, Luo Xi still likes her very much, not for anything else, just for her view of love, in that era, it is not easy for a woman to do this, Luo Xi's view of love is as independent as hers, and she is happy to ......
A person who loves the landscape of Qiantang and admires nature will have such an uninhibited state, and will naturally not be committed to ordinary people. Regarding the affair between Xiao Xiaosu and Ruan Yu, Aunt Jia had another discussion: "A daughter, a generous salary; The son of the father, the nobleman; Dancing weak crown, young also; Bright and amorous, and the romantic characters are also; The niece got this broken melon, so as not to disgrace the former reputation and future fame. Think to yourself, don't miss it. "With the previous love at first sight, coupled with Aunt Jia's heart-to-heart, Xiao Xiaosu and Ruan Yu finally got married.
After that, Ruan Yu was urgently recalled to Beijing by the prime minister's father, and he never heard from her after leaving. She has the opportunity to recognize a talented and virtuous character like Bao Ren with her eyes, but she has already waited for leisure, only acquaintance, acquaintance, and no love, only the beauty of Qiantang in her eyes has not diminished at all. Four or five years later, she passed away calmly, as calmly and open-mindedly as she appeared in history and at the beginning of the story.
She was glad she had died a well-deserved death. "A burning red face does not make a white head ugly...... When the loser is a piece, the winner is eternal". The prodigal son of the Qing Dynasty must have been familiar with the story of Mrs. Li Yan in the Han Dynasty, so he saw through the world like Xiao Xiaosu, and issued the last words with the same insight into human nature: "Jiao is a floating cloud, love is like flowing water, whatever you have, born and disappear, what's wrong?" To whom? As for the coffin, I have materialized and disappeared, so what is there for Yu Fengjian? It's okay to listen to people's feelings. But I was born in Xiling, died in Xiling, and buried my bones in Xiling, so I don't live up to my little Su landscape habit. After all, she returned to her beloved landscape and achieved a good story through the ages.
For many years, there have been countless people who have been close to Xiao Xiaosu. Qiantang has been prosperous since ancient times, so let her rest in peace.
Every time I come here, Luo Xi's tears will flow out, very moved, a great woman's love will end here, and life will end here, Luo Xi sighs that God is unfair, but God is like this, there is no injustice This statement gives a lovely face, but it does not necessarily give you love, especially true love......
Usually, when a man and a woman meet for the first time, in addition to expressing acceptance, acceptance, and appreciation of each other's obvious personality characteristics such as good academic demeanor, beautiful body appearance, and decent conversation, the "physiological effect" of heterosexual communication in aesthetic standards is also an important factor in stimulating emotions.
It can be considered that both parties who fall in love at first sight are generally accompanied by certain emotional or physiological experiences and feelings such as closeness, pleasure, and love, which is the "natural" basis for opposite-sex attraction, especially for men and women with similar "conditions".
We know that when we first meet, there is a liking or like-minded situation, and it can also occur between people of the same sex, but this feeling is different from the experience that the opposite sex who loves each other has when they meet for the first time. If "love at first sight" is the first time that people of the opposite sex fall in love with each other, then "love at first sight" can be said to be the first acquaintance between people of the same sex.
However, this kind of love and affection may be like-minded and hateful, or it may be treacherous and evil, and smelly and like-minded. Although the two psychological phenomena of love at first sight and love at first sight are extremely similar in terms of psychological processes, they are very different in terms of emotional content and mechanism.
Wenya and Wang Ming fell in love at first sight, they are both doctors, but Wenya, who thought she was very powerful, was saved by Wang Ming, and was taken advantage of, this look, Wenya didn't like Wang Ming, it was really incredible......
How long does it take to fall in love at first sight? The answer is 30 seconds. According to the large-scale fast dating experiments conducted by experts, if you can't impress the opposite sex within 30 seconds, then you are destined to become a "no-brainer".
Someone once experimented with 100 singles looking for a lifelong partner to quickly date each person with ten different stars, while scoring the dating's attractiveness and deciding whether to engage with each other again. It was found that most people made a decision within 30 seconds, and the female Xing chose it for a shorter time.
It has been said that men are often criticized for focusing only on women's appearance, but the results of the experiment are the opposite, and women are more critical of appearance than men. In other words, men only have a few seconds if they want to win their hearts, so the opening line is very important.
In the experiment, almost 100% of the better participants wanted to see them again, while about 30% didn't even have a chance to go on a date, possibly because they were too visionary or clumsy on the date.
It can be said that Yun Han also fell in love with Wang Ming at first sight, during Yun Han's illness, how many people hid from him, once a good friend, no phone, no text message, let alone come to see her.
Only Wen Ya has never left her, when she is her biological sister, so when Wen Ya brought Wang Ming to see her, she had a strong premonition, this must be Wen Ya was afraid of being lonely and found someone to accompany her...... (To be continued......)