After suffering a loss, in a short period of time, An Xiao has no plans to find a boyfriend again, which is called being bitten by a snake once and being afraid of the well rope for ten years.

After Xue Chen heard about An Xiao's unfortunate experience, he hurriedly comforted An Xiao: "It's good that kind of man should see it clearly, fortunately, you don't lose much, don't be so reckless in the future to find a boyfriend, see people clearly first." ”

What Xue Chen said was that he didn't know anything about the other party, so what could he use to believe in the relationship between the other party and himself? A truly meaningful relationship will not only allow two people who love each other to grow each other, but also make their world a better place; But a meaningless or even loveless relationship is like a burden, often pulling two people into the abyss at the same time.

Feelings are not what they say they will have, nor do they exist from the beginning, feelings need to be managed and cultivated by two people, just like a delicate rose, only with intentions, it will thrive, delicate and fragrant.

The relationship between men and women is the same, and the relationship between girlfriends and good friends is also the same. Although the gap between him and Xue Chen is a bit bigger than before, An Xiao will never forget that she was always by her side when her feelings were frustrated, and when she sprained her foot, she supported herself every day to buy food for herself and occupy a seat.

For An Xiao, Xue Chen is very important, at least he has really been involved with his heart.

Han Xiao said: "No matter how lonely you are, you can't just find someone to marry, a girl's happiness is very important, it is related to a woman's life, you can't just make a difference, a woman, you have to be kind to yourself." ”

Rational as Han Xiao, she would never agree to be the other party's girlfriend because of a man's sweet words and little care, because in her heart, commitment is very important, and once a decision is made, it is a lifelong responsibility. So don't say that she is too cautious and too timid, it can only be said that she attaches too much importance to affection.

Therefore, a boy who can get Han Xiao's sincerity will definitely be very happy.

Women, it is true that they should be kind to themselves, and it is far better to find a man who loves themselves but does not love themselves.

An Xiao began to reflect, is his emotional outlook too distorted? Otherwise, how could he treat himself like this, and just find someone to do it? Or do you treat your feelings too casually, and you can settle for a man?

An Xiao began to doubt his emotional outlook, he wouldn't really lack love to a certain extent, right? Do you think that when you were not in love, you were affected by too many soap operas, and you forgot all the rules and regulations you set for your future boyfriend under the torture of reality?

What about the height of 180? What about the rich and handsome? What about the muscular man who said yes?

However, a person should learn to take the initiative and should have the right to pursue the happiness he wants, so there should be nothing wrong with him except for being a little bad to himself, right?

So, what I have to do now is to be kind to myself, right?

Who said that if a woman values men and relationships more than any part of her life, then this woman will not have much happiness.

Therefore, I should no longer regard men as the knowledge I have pursued all my life, but to develop myself better, give myself better conditions and nourishment, enrich myself, and develop myself. Then, such a good self deserves to be loved by a better boy, isn't it?

Thinking of this, An Xiao suddenly felt that he was too humble and cowardly in his relationship before, and he had always been pleasing others and treating himself badly, no wonder he would always be disgusted by others, even he disliked himself, let alone others.

Looking at the girls who are falling into happiness around them, most of them are excellent girls with obvious sparkles on their bodies, no wonder there are so many excellent men who are willing to fall for them.

Therefore, even if your advantages are not obvious, you must be the best queen in love and a slave who is not in love. Only when you love yourself can others protect you with the same love.

After thinking about all this, An Xiao felt a lot more comfortable, and finally rescued himself, and he couldn't let himself live so tired in the future, An Xiao, you have to take good care of yourself.

Think about the eighteen years, my parents have held themselves in the palm of their hands like princesses and pampered them, not to humble themselves to please men, nor to let themselves live for men, so, let go of all baggage, be the proud self, become the queen in a man's life, only from a slave to a queen, will more men fall under your pomegranate skirt.

Therefore, it is better to lack than to excess, these four words are deeply imprinted in An Xiao's mind and have become an important yardstick for An Xiao's mate selection.

Letting go of the heavy burden of living for a man, An Xiao feels light, comfortable, and unreal when he walks.

But An Xiao likes this kind of enjoyment very much, and he really should love himself a little more.

Now looking back at Gao Hao, Yang Zhendong and Chen Guanyu, who he once liked, An Xiao felt that his level of appreciation was too bad, and he must have had astigmatism at that time to like what they liked so deeply. An Xiao couldn't help but wonder that he was really too stupid and naïve.

Live for yourself, live your own way, and no longer be the shadow of others, come on!

In the third year of high school, An Xiao became much more confident and charming than before, with a smile and a smile, full of confidence and elegance of an adult ** person, I have to say that An Xiao himself can feel the changes in himself.

As soon as he arrived in the new class in the third year of high school, he was basically a stranger, and An Xiao felt so restrained as soon as he entered the door, carrying a heavy schoolbag and not knowing where to sit, until An Xiao inadvertently caught a glimpse of Liu Siyu's figure, An Xiao saw Liu Siyu greeting him, so he walked towards her.

"You're in this class too, huh?" Liu Siyu helped An Xiao take the heavy schoolbag and asked, "The seating table is pasted on the podium table, you go and take a look, I'll carry the schoolbag for you first." ”

"Well, thank you." After speaking, An Xiao took off her schoolbag and handed it to her, turned around and walked to the podium.

After knowing where he was sitting, An Xiao took his schoolbag from Liu Siyu's hand and walked to the fourth seat in the row against the wall, walking, An Xiao saw the thin young man in a white shirt sitting in front of his desk, he was looking at something with his head down, there was no trace of impurities on his white face, clean and sunny, the fly in the ointment was a heavy glasses hanging in front of his tall nose, the thin bangs on his forehead were scattered on his forehead, and the thick and thin lips were bright and dripping.

As if noticing someone's gaze, Sanjay slowly raised his head and glanced at the girl who passed by him, and with a single glance, Sanjay's heart beat unnaturally.

An Xiao noticed that he was also looking at himself, so he lowered his head in embarrassment, hurried by, and An Xiao sat behind him.

Later, An Xiao found out that although Sanjay was good-looking, his personality was too introverted and a bit girly, and An Xiao didn't like this type of boy very much, so he didn't think he would like him at first.

However, An Xiao has no resistance to boys who like to laugh. Therefore, it is fate to fall in love with Sanjay.