Dai Xu nodded, which can be regarded as an attitude of acceptance of Duan Feiyu's father's assurance, and then asked: "According to what you just said, Duan Feiyu's interpersonal relationship at school also seems to be a bit problematic?" ”

Duan Feiyu's father nodded a little embarrassed, after all, it is not very face-saving to admit this kind of thing, but since he has already said it before, it is impossible to deny it now, so he still said more frankly: "Yes, didn't I tell you about my child's character just now, what did he say, he is a little withdrawn, he can rest assured of everything, sometimes he will be angry for some reason, unhappy, tantrum or something, we parents are honest, we are a little afraid of him, Not to mention those little classmates outside, people think that our Feiyu has a weird temper, and they don't want to associate with him, we can't be forced, and the two of us don't have any level, and they are quite a failure in educating their children, and their children's personalities have become like this, and they can't twist it, they can't manage it, and they don't dare to manage it, so it's just like this, and I hope that he may be better in the future. ”

"I take the liberty of asking, I hope you don't mind," Fang Yuan frowned slightly when he heard this, and asked Duan Feiyu's father, "Are you unable to manage it, or do you dare not manage it?" These are two different concepts. ”

"Doesn't that depend on how you say it?" Duan Feiyu's father sighed, rubbed his cheeks with his somewhat rough hands, and looked a little tired, "For me, I really can't control it, and I don't dare to manage it, I didn't mean to go around in circles with you to tease you, I really feel like this." I usually haven't told anyone about this, and it's a shame to say it, it's really a shame. There may be a lot of children in this world who are afraid of their parents, and there are probably not many parents who are afraid of their children's parents like us, and I am afraid that I will be ridiculed if I am known. But you say, we have such a child in our family. He's just such a character, what can we do? Leave him alone, and he won't change. and intensified the toss, if you don't let him hurt himself, he will hit harder, after all, this child is the meat that fell from the mother's body. My wife can't see him messing with himself like that. So I really can't manage it, and if I manage too much, I will add to my own blockage. ”

"So, according to what you just said, you don't dare to care, just because you're afraid of Duan Feiyu, right?" Dai Xu nodded to Duan Feiyu's father and continued to ask, "What are you afraid of him?" Self-harm? Or something else? ”

Duan Feiyu's father's face became a little embarrassed. He exhaled heavily, but didn't speak immediately. Lowering his eyelids and staring at his fingertips silently, neither Fang Yuan nor Dai Xu opened their mouths to disturb him, allowing him to slowly adjust his emotions, from the time he mentioned that it was embarrassing to be a parent and afraid of children, Duan Feiyu's father's mood had changed significantly, no longer meaning low, but began to fluctuate a little.

The three of them were relatively silent, only the slight sound of the hands of the clock indicating that time had not frozen and was still moving forward as usual. In the kitchen, Suo Suo's voice gradually became louder and quieter, and finally quieted down, Duan Feiyu's mother walked out of the kitchen while wiping her hands, and saw her husband facing the two policemen, dejected, silent, and couldn't help but be a little nervous, and hurriedly came up, glanced at the door of her in-laws' room, and deliberately lowered her voice and asked, "What's wrong?" Is there something wrong? ”

Fang Yuan was about to open his mouth to talk to her, Duan Feiyu's father shook his head first, he stretched out his finger and pointed to the folding stool on the side, motioning for his wife to sit down as well, Duan Feiyu's mother hurriedly took the chair and sat down, and then asked again: "What's the matter?" Why do you have this expression? It can't be the son, right? Didn't you say it was about our son's classmates? What the hell is going on, you have something to say, you look at you like this, you don't say anything, frowning, you make me worry about death after watching it! ”

"Okay, don't say it, even if I want to say it, you have to give me time to speak, don't you?" Duan Feiyu's father was originally estimated to be entangled and didn't know how to express it, but now he was questioned by his wife for a long time, and his mood was a little unhappy, and his tone was full of impatience as soon as he opened his mouth.

Duan Feiyu's mother was reprimanded by her husband for a few words, but she didn't show too much displeasure, she just pursed her lips aggrievedly, with a calm attitude, and said: "Okay, okay, I won't say it, don't ask, what should you say, why is this person so angry." ”

"I'm angry, it's not because of you!" Speaking of those things about his son, Duan Feiyu's father was obviously already a belly full of wretchedness, and now in the face of his wife's tranquility, instead of acting very happy, he became more and more angry, "The child has grown up since he was a child, and you have this attitude towards him!" If you say a word, he won't listen, talk back, and you will be good immediately, do it, do what you like! You will always be the one who compromises him, the one who depends on him for everything! Well, I'm going to be the bad guy in the end! As soon as I take care of him, he will be energetic, and as soon as he is energetic, you will protect him, and as a result, you will see what has become of him later! ”

Duan Feiyu's mother's eyes were red, but she still didn't say anything, just sighed silently, as if accepting Duan Feiyu's father's accusation, and finally said: "What's the use of saying this now, you can't go back in time, start again, if you can do it all over again, I am willing to be ruthless, I have to bite my teeth and be ruthless, do you think I don't regret it, the problem is that it's useless to say this now." ”

"Yes, it's useless, the two of us are so promising, we have raised a very smart child like a little beast." Duan Feiyu's father also sighed as his eyes rolled red.

Duan Feiyu's mother seemed to be a little dissatisfied with her husband's wording of calling her son a little beast, but she seemed to have always been this kind of reluctant character, and in the end she only frowned, and then sat listlessly on the side, not planning to speak.

Duan Feiyu's father took another deep breath and said to Dai Xu and Fang Yuan, "I'll tell you the truth. I thought it was quite embarrassing just now, and the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, but think about it. I still have to make it clear to you, I said that I don't dare to care about my son, it is indeed because I am afraid of him, once before, I also made up my mind that I can't let his character develop like that casually, so I plan to be ruthless once, and the result...... You can't even think of it. Feiyu threw me away and pushed me against the wall, hitting half of my shoulder. At that time, I really can still dream about it sometimes, it was a complete nightmare, he stared at both of them. Point at me. said viciously, even if I was his father and provoked him, he might do something. To tell you the truth, I was really scared, you can't imagine it, it's just someone else, he said that. I really believe that he is so himself......"

Duan Feiyu's mother's face also turned red. I don't know if she felt sad when she thought of that incident, or because her husband told outsiders about it, so she felt ashamed and embarrassed, but she didn't try to defend Duan Feiyu or cover up what her husband said, which means that she should also agree with her husband's statement.

Hearing Duan Feiyu's father say this, Fang Yuan didn't know what to say, it was the first time she had met or heard of such a tricky child, with a violent personality, a tendency to self-abuse and self-harm, even to her parents, she was just as irritable, disobedient to discipline, but she loved to learn, her self-esteem was extremely strong, and her competitive spirit was also very strong.

This Duan Feiyu, I'm afraid he is neither a good student in the traditional sense, nor a standard problem student.

"Duan Feiyu's teachers, do you know about the problems of him harming himself or getting along with you at home?" Dai Xu obviously had similar views to Fang Yuan, so he opened his mouth to ask Duan Feiyu's parents.

Duan Feiyu's parents shook their heads in unison, Duan Feiyu's father said: "He will definitely not harm himself in school, except for the occasional quarrel with his classmates, it is basically okay, because Feiyu studies well, so the teacher doesn't seem to have anything special to discipline him, his relationship with the teacher is a little better than ours, and he knows how to be more restrained outside." He knows that he has converged, and as parents, it is impossible for us to run to expose our children's shortcomings to the teachers for no reason, so the teachers should not know. ”

"Then have you taken Duan Feiyu to the hospital for a check-up, or to see a psychiatrist or something?" Fang Yuan knew that this question might cause Duan Feiyu's parents to rebound, but he still asked cautiously.

Fortunately, Duan Feiyu's parents' reaction seemed to be relatively calm, both of them nodded, this time it was Duan Feiyu's mother who spoke, her eyes were a little moist and said: "The two of us also thought about it, this child will not have any mental problems, so I took him to the hospital for an examination, for fear that he would find out what the two of us thought, and then lose his temper or something, we took him to do almost a full body health examination, and finally went to the psychiatric department, but after the psychiatric doctor checked it, he felt that he was not directly mentally ill, At most, there was some kind of personality disorder, so we asked us to take him to a psychiatrist, and we both talked about it at the time, so he agreed to go. ”

"What reason did you use to persuade Duan Feiyu?"

"We told him that after seeing a psychiatrist, maybe we would be able to untie the knot in his heart, and then he would have no distractions in his studies, and his grades might be better, and he agreed."

"And how long have you been to the psychiatrist? The result? ”

Duan Feiyu's father cleared his throat and said a little embarrassed: "I won't tell you, we took him there three times in total, and then the child was reluctant to go, saying that he felt that the psychiatrist would talk nonsense to him and waste his time, and he didn't think that studying would be more labor-saving and efficient after he went, and in the middle of these three times, he cut himself twice because of something, and the cost of going to see that psychiatrist was quite expensive, and the two of us felt that we couldn't afford it, and the child himself didn't want to go, so why bother, Don't have any effect at all, it cost a lot of money, but it made Feiyu anxious, and let him do something again, then it will be a real loss. ”

"Yes, I've heard people say that it may be an adolescent boy, who is more likely to rebel, and our family Feiyu is a kind of personality with a more special personality, and he may react more or less, you see that he is still a little different when he is outside and at home, which shows that he is still a measured child," Duan Feiyu's mother continued, "So the two of us thought, maybe when he grows up, he is older, and when he is twenty or thirty years old, he will be able to mature, and it will be good if he matures, and he will not do those stupid things." ”

"This time Duan Feiyu ran away from home, how much money did he bring from home?" Dai Xu asked.

Duan Feiyu's father shook his head: "This time he didn't take the family's money, because sometimes he lives in the school, and sometimes he goes home if he doesn't want to live, so we are all like the students who live in the school, and give him all the living expenses, he will come back if he wants to come back, and he will come back if he doesn't want to come back, and he also has money to spend on living expenses in the school." Feiyu has never let people worry about learning, no one cares, it all depends on consciousness, this time for a what enrollment or what exam, he is under a lot of pressure, sometimes he can't come back, but he runs back by bicycle in the middle of the night, saying that it is not good to read books when the lights are out in the dormitory, and he goes home to study at three or four o'clock in the middle of the night, and the next morning he leaves without eating breakfast, his eyes are red and red, and one night he is not doing well at home, and he is screaming, and the neighbors upstairs and downstairs are frightened, We went from house to house to apologize. It is estimated that this is the matter, the pressure is too great, so he ran away from home again this time, and he is estimated to have more than 1,000 yuan of living expenses, I estimate that he can still hold on for about a week, and he should almost have no money to come back. ”

"Then how do you know that he ran away from home and went to school to take him on a long vacation?" Fang Yuan asked puzzledly, if Duan Feiyu left silently this time, and he didn't even take the money from the family, then why were Duan Feiyu's parents so sure, Duan Feiyu's disappearance must have run away from home?

Duan Feiyu's mother said: "Because my son stuffed a letter to the family from the crack in the door, what I gave us was to tell us that he didn't go to school recently, and he didn't go home and wanted to go out alone to be quiet, we also went to school to read, Feiyu's schoolbag and books he had with him, and he must have hid out to study." (To be continued......)