"It's normal in this day and age! Moreover, objectively speaking, in the past era, the material conditions and environmental conditions are far from being compared with the present. How do I go on a date? Where to go on a date? What if someone sees it? These questions can scare a lot of women back! But what about now? They all have communication tools in their hands, they can open a house casually, and they all have their own cars. The man over there called and hesitated to go but had already stepped into the car, sitting in the car and worrying about whether he would be seen, but maybe he hesitated and thought that he would come back before getting off work, and as soon as he stepped on the accelerator, it was done! This can be the same as before! ”

"It is also true that objective conditions can sometimes make people suddenly omit cause and panic!"

"To put it mildly, people's concepts have changed, but if you don't have a mobile phone or your own car, then the derailment will be reduced by at least half!"

"Huh! Thinking about it, Hu Li said that every time his old lover came, she never met him at night, saying that women must stay at home honestly at night when they are in love, and they are still two o'clock and one line every day, so that her husband will never think of anything. And every time the man arrives at the waterfront and opens a room in the hotel, she immediately asks for a leave of absence and says that she will drive over if she has something to do, and she will not delay returning to the unit before getting off work after doing anything. ”

"That's right, you said that in the current living conditions and environment, who knows who is doing what is going on within eight hours, and when you get off work, you will go home on time. Not to mention those women who have long been cranky or have long been fascinated by love, so they are still hesitating! ”

"Yes, this car, and the mobile phone, have completely changed the lives of many people!"

"Haha! Strictly speaking, first of all, the concept, and then the appearance of private cars and mobile phones suddenly played the role of a booster for omitting thinking and distance! ”

But this also shows that objective conditions play a big role! But I don't think what you're saying about cars and mobile phones is not entirely accurate! ”

Qu Mengmeng seemed to be slightly thoughtful.

"Define cars and phones!"

Qu Mengmeng grabbed Qiu Zichuan's hand again and shook it.

"The car is an extension of a man's will! It not only brings convenience to transportation, but more importantly, it also brings confidence and courage! As for women......"

Qiu Zichuan paused for a moment, as if thinking a little, and continued:

"Compared with women, the car is a warm and free space of their own, but at the same time, it also allows women's sensibility to flood unconsciously!"

"The latter sentence is derogatory?"

Qu Mengmeng raised his head and asked.

"Not quite!"

"But like you said, the throttle dropped in hesitation. Or because you have a car, you can come back immediately, and then think about the people you want to see, and just go? ”

"What do you say?"

"The extension of a man's will, a woman's own free space ......!"

Silently reciting Qiu Zichuan's words, Qu Mengmeng seemed to be in thought!

"Isn't that right?"

Qiu Zichuan lowered his head and raised his hand to scratch Qu Mengmeng's nose.

"Hmmm! Well said! In short, there are many things that can't be done, and you can do them without hesitation when you have a car! ”

"Haha!"

Patting Qu Mengmeng's forehead, Qiu Zichuan laughed happily!

"What about the phone?"

"Mobile phone! I really hadn't thought about it! ”

"Think about it!"

"Critical!"

"Critical?"

"That's right! Let people stand by the river all at once! ”

"Go on!"

"At least, for expression, for communication, or seduction, it is bewitchment, in terms of form and way, it suddenly eliminates many distances and thresholds, and opens the door to a lot of convenience!"

"You're saying that it makes everyone stand on the edge of the river, objectively not refusing to get their shoes wet at any time, at least the water can splash up?"

"Think about it!"

"That's the same, I don't really know!"

"If there are no mobile phones, they are all old-fashioned telephones like before, and many units only have one or two, which will delay or hinder how many people can contact and communicate!"

Yes, the change of concept has prompted the change of people's thinking and pursuit, and the great improvement of material conditions has provided a powerful tool for the practice of this kind of thinking and pursuit. It turned out that only thinking about material things is easy to corrode people's minds, but it's really terrible to hear you say this! ”

"Haha! What's so scary about this, everything has two sides, and material civilization is also a double-edged sword! ”

Qiu Zichuan grabbed Qu Mengmeng's hand again and shook it!

"Hey! After talking for a long time, you haven't said what you think about people in marriage having lovers, right or wrong? ”

"The world is huge! Everyone living on earth should be free! ”

"You mean there's no right or wrong in this?"

"Everyone has their own way of life and the right to choose their own way of life. Moreover, this belongs to the category of private virtue and has nothing to do with others. In other words, if anyone accuses others of immoral lifestyle, he himself is immoral in the first place! Someone else's yard, who gives you the right to stick your head into it, and also point fingers! ”

"If it's a violation of someone else's family, someone else's emotion, that's right?"

"The door to the family that can be violated has long been opened, and the emotions that can be violated have long been dull and tasteless! Not to mention that some people have already run out of the window by themselves, or they have already stuck their heads out of the window! ”

"According to your logic, there is no right or wrong in this?"

"Nope! Right and wrong have long been denied by the person who wants to enter the door, or the person who opens the door! It can even be said directly, marriage has length and shortness, and emotions are right and wrong! It's like a table of wine and two people eating together, one feels fragrant, the other feels not fragrant, or the food is fragrant but not pleasing to the eye, or the food is not fragrant and pleasing to the eye; Some people will leave because the food is not fragrant, some people will stay because it is pleasing to the eye, some people may be able to eat more fragrant when they leave here, and some people may not be able to eat more fragrant because they leave here, all this is hard to say! ”

"Complicated! Tiring! ”

"Haha!"

"Hey! After talking for a long time, then I haven't asked you yet, so what kind of man are you? ”

Qu Mengmeng raised his face and reached out again to pat Qiu Zichuan's lower bar.

"Me!"

Qiu Zichuan was stunned!

"That's right! Tell us about yourself! ”

"A man's subconscious is always in a state of hunting, and if the final result of this hunting is marriage, the subconscious also carries a kind of helplessness!"

"Say Yourself"

"Me! Ha ha! Don't worry! ”

"Tell me about it! I want to hear it! ”

"For women, when men are never satisfied, if there is sorrow, then it is only their own conditions in all aspects. Men always crave a kind of beauty and strangeness, beauty is desirable, strange and exciting, but once you get it, it is tasteless, and the eyes start a new search, and I am no exception! ”

"Huh! Really! ”

"As I said before, I'm going to say it now, but the length of the process varies from person to person. I think so, maybe every man will give a different explanation, but in general it will not deviate from its primitiveness, but the packaging of the language is different! I should too! But at least I'm at peace with my emotional world right now! Hehe! Or at least for now, there is no one in front of me who can replace you! ”

Your answer is not what I wanted, but it is satisfactory to me! Maybe your peace is a kind of helplessness and a kind of waiting, or maybe you just don't feel it! ”

"Huh! What nonsense! ”

Qiu Zichuan was noncommittal.

"Then I'll ask you one more question."

"You say!"

Qiu Zichuan looked down at Qu Mengmeng.

"What if I had a lover one day?"

“！”

This is what Qiu Zichuan didn't expect!

"Say!"

Qu Mengmeng's eyes looked at Qiu Zichuan without blinking.

"If that's the case, then I hope you can tell me before you and that man actually get together!"

Qiu Zichuan thought for a moment, then looked down at Qu Mengmeng, who was very open-minded!

"And then?"

Qu Mengmeng's eyes still asked without blinking.

"Then, I left peacefully!"

Still looking down at Qu Mengmeng, Qiu Zichuan smiled and said every word!

"Don't keep me? Or shocked! Or rage! ”

Qu Mengmeng asked as if he was naughty.

Looking at Qu Mengmeng's serious appearance on his lap, as well as the eyes that were obviously disappointed, Qiu Zichuan smiled softly, and then shook his head calmly!

"Alas!"

Closing his eyes, Qu Mengmeng sighed helplessly! Then he said:

"It's frustrating!"

"Really won't keep me?"

Opening his eyes, Qu Mengmeng looked at Qiu Zichuan again and asked seriously.

"Why should I keep it! First of all, I want to respect you in the choice of feelings, and secondly, all of us understand that the most unavoidable thing in the world is feelings! ”

Qiu Zichuan said with a smile again.

"Heartless, heartless!"

Qu Meng's eyes turned white, and he continued:

"But I believe you're telling the truth, for the dignity of that stinky man!"

"Haha! When it comes to emotional matters, men should always think about dignity! And always put it first! ”

"You can't say something nice to me, even if it's a lie, I hate it!"

"Haha! Then I'll tell you the truth again! ”

"What truth?"

Blinking and looking at Qiu Zichuan again, Qu Mengmeng thought that Qiu Zichuan might be able to say something to make him happy!

"A man would rather never get love than leave his dignity to beg!"

"Why?"

"Because there is never a word for charity in the dictionary of love!"

"You're one of these stinky theories!"

The disappointed Qu Mengmeng raised his hand and poked Qiu Zichuan's chin!

"Haha! Is that! For Hanako, the rice is fragrant, but for the real man who grows his own food, the rice is fragrant! ”

"Then a woman will do it for you, too!"

"Huh! Then it depends on whether the woman likes the man who can grow food, and whether the woman is as pleasing and moving as his crops in the eyes of the man who can grow food! ”

"Eun! I love that! It's quite poetic! ”

Pillowed on Qiu Zichuan's lap, Qu Mengmeng nodded very happily!

"That's not right!"

"What's wrong?"

Immediately afterwards, Qu Mengmeng seemed to remember something, and continued:

"After talking for a long time, I'll go around for you again!"

"Haha! Little girl! Don't think about it anymore! ”

Qiu Zichuan reached out again and scratched his curly nose!

"But it's okay, at least the look in your eyes when you said that just now made me very satisfied! You can see from it that your next hunting period is going to be a long time! Hehe! ”

……

Alas!

It turned out that it was all about myself! What should have happened has already happened!

Recalling this, Qiu Zichuan no longer wants to continue to recall!

Tan Li!

This is the mobile phone ringing next to him, pick up the mobile phone and look at it, Qiu Zichuan couldn't help but sink in his heart again!

……