"It can't be said that there is not only a man's instinctive side, but also a personal cultivation and taste side. However, women are different, even if it is a pseudo-love, she will indulge in it for a long time and be happy! And once you find out that you have always thought that you are a man who loves you deeply, in fact, after getting yourself, especially after forming a family, you have been secretly looking left and right in private, once you can, twice can, over time, women will find that their original stinky and beautiful so-called love is actually just an illusion! Then the hotbed of empathy and love was born unconsciously!

"Makes sense! Except for first love, girls before marriage or women who marry for the first time mostly live in beautiful lies! ”

"There is another situation of pseudo-love, perhaps when you are about to get married, the person who should really belong to you or who is suitable for you does not appear, and this is something that many people can't realize. And when they got married, that person came! In other words, the consciousness and thoughts when you want to get married are only at that time, and the person you want at that time also appears at that time! In other words, the person who marries himself is only the one who is suitable to marry him when he wants to get married, and not forever! So, it's him! That's her! But after being married for a long time, I realized that what I really wanted in my subconscious was not this person, nor was it this feeling! Then, the heart is about to start moving! ”

"There are no fewer such cases! Once you meet someone you like after marriage, you will wonder why he didn't show up when you got married! ”

Qu Mengmeng seems to be talking to himself!

"In short, in the process of pseudo-love, men want more about a woman's appearance and body. If you don't get it, you want to get it! If you get it, you want to change it! But at least the man's quest is real! And the woman likes to be chased by you, once she is moved by the chase, she will hand herself over, and after handing it over, she will be bent on keeping! It's not so much that women are for love, it's more for vanity! So it's pseudo-love! And those women who like to shout about the seven-year itch, it is precisely because of the so-called love they have had, in fact, it is just some pseudo-love! ”

"Not entirely agreed, but recognized! Hehe! ”

Qu Mengmeng raised his hand again and patted Qiu Zichuan's cheek.

"I just talked about the nature of men, as if it is a man who breaks his love and destroys his marriage first. Now I'll give you an analysis of a woman's nature! ”

"Good! Listen to you about the nature of women, but don't insult the majority of women compatriots! ”

"In this world, it is the women themselves who insult women, except for the weak!"

"Fallacy!"

"If men are born with a hunting nature, sex is the theme that runs throughout. Then women like to be in love every day! ”

"Fresh! Let's be specific! ”

"Women don't like to be pursued by men all the time! Be pampered by men, pampered by men! ”

"But it has to be her husband!"

Qu Mengmeng corrected.

"Definitely! Even if a married woman is still pursued, even if she will refuse without hesitation, her heart will still be full of happiness and pride! ”

"It's true!"

"For their own charm, for themselves to continue to be recognized by men, this will make every woman feel happy in the bottom of her heart!"

"Yes, women who don't like to be praised forever!"

"Let's just say that those women who don't look at a man can look at them, when they see that there are non-stop lovers and pleasers around that beautiful woman every day, they will also privately scold others in their hearts for being vixens, why? Is she a vexe? No! Because she also longs to be a woman who can't be separated from a man's sight! In fact, she scolded in her heart because she didn't have her in the eyes of a man, and scolded because she was jealous! ”

"What do you want to say?"

With his face raised, Qu Mengmeng looked at Qiu Zichuan.

"Don't interrupt!"

"Good!"

"If a woman doesn't have a lover before you ask her if you will have a lover in the future, she will immediately swear and even say that I am not that kind of person! Because the inherent conventional morality of marriage is there, no woman will ignore it like a fool! But once she had, or had a lover. You ask her again why you were nice to him at the time? What did you think at the time? She would say that she didn't know what was going on at the time, she just liked him! She would even say that she was with him in a daze! As I said earlier, men are visual creatures, and women are the same, when a woman has a man in her eyes, her feet can't help but move with her gaze, but the parts of the reaction are different! ”

"You said that, but what about morality? What about the inherent conventions you just said? ”

"Morality is a product of the gaze of the crowd, you know? It is only under the public gaze that it exists, it is needed. Think about it, on the street, you can't defecate anywhere, no matter how urgent! But you can't do it if you are killed. But if you are alone in the mountains and old forests and need convenience, will you still go to the toilet? What's more, cheating is all about actively avoiding people's eyes and trying to do it in unknown places. And this mysterious way is more in line with the curious nature of women and is deeply excited and exciting! ”

"What about chastity?"

"Joke! I remember telling you about this old topic! ”

"Yes! But I always feel that women should still have real! ”

"Then I'll tell you again, chastity is something that society imposes on women, and there is no such thing in women's nature at all! When there is no man you like more than your husband, it seems to be a divine being. But once she has a man she likes more in her eyes, and this man also likes her, what chastity does she want at this time! If her body can bring joy to the man she likes, that is her happiness! Otherwise, she will lose her self-confidence and worry about losing this man! When a woman likes a man to the point of being a mess, there is only sensuality! ”

That makes sense! We sometimes do ~ love, if I see how interested you are, I will worry about whether I am not attracted to you! ”

"Yes! Women always like to say that they are not for sex, but all of us know that when a lover and a lover meet secretly, the first thing is to do ~ love, the man is anxious, the woman is excited to give, and the mouth will also say that the man You and I are together for this! But when the two of them were together that day, the man just wanted to talk and didn't ask to do it, so don't say it three or five times, once or twice, the woman will wonder if he doesn't like me anymore, if he's tired of me! So, immediately after that, I began to have a sense of loss in my heart! This is a woman, there is no chastity in the natural attributes of a woman! Chastity is at most a woman's expression of love to a man, and she wants the man she likes not to worry about being obtained by other men, which is just a borrowing of the social attributes of chastity, because it involves other men! ”

"Listen to you as if you have a lot of experience!"

Qu Mengmeng looked at Qiu Zichuan thoughtfully!

"Haha! If I had experience with that, I wouldn't tell you that! Besides, who doesn't know this truth between men and women! ”

"I see what you mean! By nature, you are saying that men are the same as women, but men's restlessness is more sexual, while women's agitation is mostly subconscious. The difference between the two is only that they are more aggressive and direct; One seems to be waiting and needs to be activated! ”

"Yes, that's how it should be!"

"But not all women are like what you say!"

Qu Mengmeng, who was lying on Qiu Zichuan's body, stretched out his arms and relaxed!

"Clever! As for yes and no, how to say! Some will only stand in front of the window, and their hearts will endure! Some have one foot out the door, and the other foot is still hesitating in the threshold! What else to say, maybe there is no scenery of her outside the window, maybe there is no way out of the door! But the heart will definitely have it! ”

"Interesting, you go on!"

Qu Mengmeng does not deny Qiu Zichuan's point of view!

"And then there is the current era, where materialism is rampant and individuality is liberated. Don't talk about men, let's just talk about women. I like to be in love, I like to be cared for, I like to be pursued, and I am flattered, not to mention! ”

"So what?"

"Subjectively, how many women don't have vanity! If you want to buy beautiful clothes, you have to save and save on your home, but you are still greedy! For some women with low quality, if the man invites her to go to the hotel and buy clothes at this time! She's not impressed? It's like some women lying in bed thinking that their husbands are not romantic enough, but when she hears a friend calling that the store has clothes on sale, she doesn't run faster than anyone else! ”

"Hmmm! There are many such women! said that the food in the restaurant was unhygienic, but once I arrived at the restaurant, I never raised the table! ”

"Man lives in the moment, right! Money! Can satisfy vanity and enjoyment, who doesn't like it! But my husband can't satisfy himself, what should I do? The center of trouble is about to move. Besides, just like the pseudo-love we talked about earlier, or the woman who only had the consciousness at the time, once the prince charming she thought appeared again, and was far more attractive than her husband, you said she was not impressed! ”

"Yes, there are too many temptations in this society now!"

"Also, sex ~ life is an unavoidable problem, women in the past can say that most of them don't understand, even if they know some, but who dares to say, let alone think this or that! But now it's different, open the web page, what is the length of time and what climax is the climax of what Big Mac brings an unprecedented feeling, if you are a man who is a waste on the bed, can a woman not be moved! In short, love, money, power, sex, these four things are constantly flashing and tempting in people's real life! Without good concentration, there can be a few people who are not in a commotion! ”

"Yes, it is!"

"Speaking of objectivity, on TV and on the Internet, every day is full of stories and news about these emotional changes! Some are the awakening of human nature, and some are more eye-catching hype! The world is changing, people's concepts are also changing in mutual influence, in terms of emotional ways and emotional behaviors, women are mostly curious about new things, and then feel stimulated and tempted! There are too many things in women's nature to go with the flow, and they habitually like to include what they see in other people's imagination, and if someone else gets married, what is my marriage like? Someone else has a lover, so what would I be like if I had a lover? In the process of contagion and infection, women are mostly incapable of resisting. Although, he will say no on his lips, but he is mostly subtle in his heart. Once the right person appears at the right time, it's hard to say! So, the word sullen was born! ”

"Yes! There are now women in our unit who have lovers, and no less than a third of them know about it! Also, listening to Hu Li, most of her classmates and friends have lovers! ”

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