At this time, Qiu Zichuan was lying quietly on the hospital bed alone.

Xu Jing's arrival caused Qiu Zichuan to think about Qu Mengmeng again, and in the past few days, only Bai Xiaohua's phone call in the morning brought Qiu Zichuan a rare little joy in his heart.

Since learning of his condition, thinking has hardly stopped Qiu Zichuan's brain.

But these thoughts are almost life-related! Knowing that his time has been in a limited time, and thinking about it again, Qiu Zichuan feels that there is no meaning!

What is life?

Life is time, zero starts, but there is no eternity, a line abstract can no longer be abstract!

The important thing is the life that comes with it!

What is Life?

Life is about feeling, feeling others, and being felt by others at the same time!

Feel the spirit, feel the material, feel the praise, feel the denigration, feel the boiling, feel the peace, but also feel the joy of success and the pain of failure! Also, those who can't say it can be said to be helpless! It's called life! The so-called life!

As for what life is struggle, what life is pursuit, the current Qiu Zichuan no longer thinks about it

Qiu Zichuan is now entangled in love, marriage!

It's about feeling and being felt in love and marriage! Also, those who can't say it can be said to be helpless!

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"What is marriage?"

Qiu Zichuan recalled a conversation with Qu Mengmeng when he had not yet gone to work on the waterfront. It was a casual conversation about marriage and love, and there was no cold war between the two at that time!

"Marriage means that a man and a woman can legally sleep together!"

Faced with Qu Mengmeng's seemingly childish question, Qiu Zichuan remembered that he was jokingly answering.

"Two people who love each other, can't they not have this form of appearance? Look at the animals, they also play together and reproduce, but they don't have so many forms! Qu Mengmeng, who stretched out his hand and hit Qiu Zichuan, asked again.

"That won't do! Our ancestors were free to love and live freely at the beginning! Gradually, however, it was discovered that unions without blood identification would bring genetic harm, which gave rise to ethical concepts. In addition, the emergence of private ownership has brought about the requirement of property, and a legal form is needed to protect the property involved in each other. This is also the reason why there is marriage. But animals are not unable to achieve such thinking, let alone form a society with high-level content, so they are not without these requirements. In other words, that's the difference between a human brain and a dog's brain! ”

"It's right to have blood ethics, but if it's linked to property, then love will be degenerate!"

"Huh! You're ridiculous! Do you want the house you live in now to give to someone else's child in the future? ”

"Yes!"

"But there are two sides to everything! Marriage can sometimes be a burden. ”

"Burden?"

"We live in reality, and marriage cannot exist in isolation from the real environment. Marriages that seem to belong to you sometimes don't belong to you. To give a simple example, such as the problem of face, when you reach the age of getting married, you want to get married when you watch others get married, otherwise people will talk about you; If you don't want to, others will see you as different, because traditional things are ingrained in everyone's consciousness. For example, if you want to get a divorce, you have to take into account what other people think, what relatives on both sides think, and how they will meet in the future, because everyone lives in the same society. Not to mention the distribution of property and children. Therefore, sometimes marriage is for society, for family, and for children! But animals don't have these things. This is again the difference between human face and dog face! ”

"You're going to talk nonsense! But it's tiring to think about! ”

"If you don't get tired, you can't call it a human! This is also the difference between people having culture and dogs not being educated. ”

"Huh! You're pretty creative tonight! He actually came up with a comparative study of marriage between man and dog. ”

"You're comparing animals to them!"

"Then let me ask you again, according to what you just said, how much of a component of love is in marriage?"

"You are so naïve, how can there be so much love! You don't see many people who look at the conditions first and then fall in love, just like the introduction object, you must be satisfied with the conditions in front of each other, which means that the price code is placed there first, which is to make it clear that love is based on each other's conditions, if that is also called love! ”

"Then you say, that's not love, what's the point of two people being together!"

"As long as they are willing to each other, pass on the ancestry, and then work hard to raise the children, it is just as interesting to get along with each other during the period!"

"It's strange to be human!"

"It's not surprising that life comes first, reality comes first, not to mention the desire to love and obtain, as well as vanity, which people can't live without at any time!"

"Then you say, can marriage play a protective role in love?"

"Can love that needs protection still be love?"

"Why do you say that?"

"Because it's no longer violated, it means that it has no vitality! True love does not need to be defended externally, its existence itself is exclusive in the first place, where does it need to be protected! ”

"What do you mean is that when it is not exclusive, there is a need for protection, and this protection is no longer protecting love, but only a kind of marriage relationship derived from the love of the past!

"The answer is very correct! Add 10 points! Hehe! ”

Qiu Zichuan sometimes likes Qu Mengmeng very much, and uses a childish tone to express rational thinking.

"Isn't there an expert now who proposes to learn to 'manage love'!"

"That's! There are still many emotional components in the love that needs to be managed, and the marriage that needs to be managed is first of all the buyers and sellers, and the premise of business is calculation, which is not a stain on love marriage! The experts who came up with such a business concept are either married to a child bride or are brain-dead! Love can't be mixed with any scheming, and caring for marriage requires the cultivation of both parties rather than calculation! ”

"That's right! You're a perfectionist! ”

"That's it!"

"It seems that marriage still exists for the sake of procreation and property protection. It enters because of affection, but it is not born because of affection; It can be fixed by love, but it is not based on love! ”

Qu Mengmeng seemed to be talking to himself.

"Amazing! My little bird's wife can say such a profound truth! ”

In surprise, Qiu Zichuan did not forget to tease!

"Don't underestimate me!"

Stretched out his hand again and hit Qiu Zichuan, followed by Qu Mengmeng and continued:

"But I still can't understand why some people have only been married for a few years, and there are things like the so-called seven-year marriage itch and lovers, and now some women are even more open than men in private!"

"How can I say that! People's concepts, pursuits, and thinking are different. There are also different content and essence of marriage, and then encounter a different surrounding environment, which is difficult to say! ”

"You analyze and analyze! I want to figure out these questions, but I'm too lazy to use my brain! ”

After speaking, Qu Mengmeng, who had been leaning on Qiu Zichuan's shoulder, lay down, pillowed his head on Qiu Zichuan's lap, and put his two feet on the armrest of the sofa.

"Huh! Bub! I just praised you! ”

Qiu Zichuan smiled and patted Qu Mengmeng's face.

"Don't talk about it if you don't have a foundation in love! Of course, even if some people have no foundation for love, they have traditional concepts and personal principles of conduct, and some stick to marriage! ”

"That's right! There is no foundation for love, or there are utilitarian ideas in combination with each other, not to mention those who are not mentioned, you can analyze those couples who loved each other before, how they also had extramarital affairs later! ”

Qu Mengmeng said as he stretched out his hand and waved it.

In fact, many women or girls, whether they think they are in love, or the love they think they have, are actually mostly pseudo-love! This is the fundamental problem, that is, they have never had true love! ”

"It's a lot, it's shallow!"

"When she gets married, she is immature, and the girl likes a boy, and at the same time, she is pursued by the boy, and she thinks she loves it; What about boys! Seeing that this woman's beauty is the kind he wants, he is anxious to be recognized, and then he can possess it. For this reason, a lot of boys at this time, you just ask him to say a thousand times ten thousand times 'I love you!' He would also say, because at this time, he only had the function of vision and the resulting requirements of the lower body. As a result, many girls feel that they have love! And when she gets married, a woman continues to feel like herself, and she wants to be a loving person everywhere! And what is the nature of men, once they get it, the novelty is gone, and the eyes begin to look for it again. It's also a man's instinct! The biggest feature of pseudo-love is that men pursue it because of sex, and women are proud of being pursued! Or the woman is beautiful, the man is rich, and other than that, there is almost no connotation at all! ”

"You're the best at this, never hide the true face of your stinky man!"

Qu Mengmeng raised his hand and wanted to touch Qiu Zichuan's mouth!

"Don't interrupt!"

Qiu Zichuan dodged a little and grabbed Qu Mengmeng's hand.

"You go on, I won't interrupt!"

Qu Mengmeng let Qiu Zichuan shake his hand, and delicately asked Qiu Zichuan to continue.

"You've interrupted!"

"That's good!"

Qu Mengmeng leaned his head into Qiu Zichuan's arms again.

Such a so-called man in love, with the success of his career, will continue to meet more beautiful and better women in the work circle and life circle, or be recognized by these women. As a result, I felt more and more that I could have found a better and more beautiful woman with myself! Because for women, most men are looking for the best before they go to bed, or the best in terms of his conditions at the time! And once you, what kind of advertising slogan is that? ”

"There is only a better one, there is no best!"

"That's right! Only better! There is no such thing as the best! Then, reciprocate! That's why it is said that if a man wants to sleep with a woman, it is difficult the first time, but it will be easier later, and if a woman wants to sleep with a man, it is easy the first time, but it will be difficult later! ”

"Men aren't good things!"

Qu Mengmeng raised the hand held by Qiu Zichuan, and pretended to be disdainful and gently patted Qiu Zichuan's cheek a few times!

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