Chapter 42: Reality is unforgiving
"You'd better think carefully!"
Seeing that Shui Xiaolin bowed her head and was silent, Xiao Yujiang's mother paused, and then said with a melancholy expression:
"I know you want this baby very much, and your dad and I want you to give birth too. Especially your father, after knowing that day, he almost didn't sleep all night, and the next morning before half past five he got up again in a daze, and kept chattering, and he was going to hug his grandson again! ”
Shui Xiaolin still bowed her head and was silent, but tears began to flow down her face.
She knew that Xiao Yujiang's mother was telling the truth. Moreover, Xiao Yujiang's mother also knows what kind of virtue her son Xiao Yujiang, who seems to be a son who is silent and always walks alone, in life; I also know that Shui Xiaolin is very lonely after marriage, and I also think that if there is a child who can tie up his son, his son may no longer be able to toss, and he can guard Shui Xiaolin's life to the end, don't make any more trouble for yourself, and Xiao Yujiang's father, if there is any more trouble, it will be full of waterfront news!
"After all, pregnancy with a ring has many unpredictable consequences, and there are too many risky things!" Xiao Yujiang's mother turned around and pulled out a few pieces of paper for Shui Xiaolin from the coffee table, and handed them to Shui Xiaolin while saying:
"Children are not necessarily healthy, don't say it!" Xiao Yujiang's mother wanted to say that the child might be disabled, but she couldn't bear to say such things to Shui Xiaolin. Seeing that Shui Xiaolin took the paper and wiped her tears, Xiao Yujiang's mother sighed softly, reached out and patted Shui Xiaolin's shoulder, and said:
"I'm afraid that if I don't do it, I'll bury your body too!" Xiao Yujiang's mother also shed tears as she spoke!
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For a few days, Shui Xiaolin was almost crazy with happiness!
If you have children, you can keep your marriage, and if you have children, you will have nothing to fear in your old age!
What's more, she didn't take to heart the warnings of the doctors in the two hospitals about the risks of pregnancy with rings, or deliberately ignored them!
The joy that embarrassed Xiao Yujiang and made Qu Meng uncomfortable even exceeded the previous thoughts. It seems that as long as there is the word pregnancy, one qiē is enough! From the moment she learned that she was pregnant, Shui Xiaolin floated into the sky in a completely irrational conjecture!
But the hand of reality is ruthless, and it has irresistible power, when Shui Xiaolin was not happy enough to float in the air, and even wanted to continue to float, he caught her one by one, and then, fell to the ground hard!
“…… The incidence of spontaneous abortion is high, prenatal and postpartum hemorrhage, compression and impact on embryonic development, abnormal fetal development or malformation, stillbirth, and premature birth are also more common. It's best to do the ring removal and miscarriage at the same time, and the sooner the better......! ”
The doctors in the two hospitals almost informed Shui Xiaolin of these words as soon as possible, but Shui Xiaolin didn't listen to a word.
She only remembered that after she asked if it was possible to have a healthy child, the doctor replied cautiously: it depends on the situation, if the position of the IUD is shifted, and the position does not interfere with the early development, it is okay. But this requires further examination, but it also requires regular check-ups in the hospital during pregnancy, but this is not enough to guarantee!
No! That's enough!
In the municipal hospital, in the municipal maternal and child health hospital, Shui Xiaolin didn't have the heart to listen to it anymore!
I'm pregnant, and the news is so unexpected! This news is so shocking! The news came from the sky at a high time! This news is great! Shui Xiaolin's heart flew!
But now, Shui Xiaolin must face up to a series of problems!
The first is that none of his relatives supports him, not only his mother-in-law, Xiao Yujiang's mother is now cautiously objecting. My father-in-law was very happy before, but when he saw his arrival this morning, he first greeted him with concern! Then, I sighed softly and went to the study!
There is also their own mother, at the first moment when she heard that she was pregnant, she resolutely opposed it, the reason is very simple, the risk of pregnancy with rings is huge, your age, your body can't afford to toss, not to mention, if it is a disabled child, how will you live in the rest of your life? Looking at her mother's speechless appearance, Shui Xiaolin knew what kind of marriage and life she and Xiao Yujiang had, and her mother didn't want to say anything more! Next, there is no doubt that my father is of course supporting my mother's opinion!
As for Xiao Yujiang! Shui Xiaolin's heart hurts and she doesn't want to think about it!
Two days ago, Xiao Yujiang came back! It's very similar, it's like a line, and I bought a lot of things for myself from leather shoes to clothes. There is also my favorite Wuxi pastry bean paste cake. Shui Xiaolin knows that this Wuxi bean paste cake can be bought in the supermarket on the waterfront now!
But Shui Xiaolin is still delicate and lingering. Then he looked mysterious and shy, saying that he would surprise Xiao Yujiang after eating!
Xiao Yujiang pretended not to know anything, and kept asking during the meal, asking what the big surprise was! I also deliberately sold the guanzi, but I didn't say it.
As soon as he finished eating over there and cleaning up the dining table, he deliberately acted coquettishly, pushing Xiao Yujiang to sit down on the sofa in the living room, and after sitting down, Xiao Yujiang made a look of waiting for him to say it with his eyes wide open! I am still looking forward to the fact that once the word pregnancy comes out of my mouth, Xiao Yujiang can immediately stand up and hug herself in surprise!
But I was wrong again! No! I didn't expect Xiao Yujiang to have any explosive surprises, and even thought in advance that maybe he Xiao Yujiang would be furious immediately! It was only at the moment when he saw Xiao Yujiang return home and make love to himself that he suddenly had another extravagant hope in his heart!
This is a play that you know is false, why do you want to act it!
When he said that he was pregnant, Xiao Yujiang was neither furious nor ecstatic. With a fake look, he stood up from the sofa as if he was very happy, walked over and hugged himself, and said: That's great, then you have to take good care of your body from now on!
Then, he was gone!
Yes! Then, he turned out to be gone!
It seems that he is not pregnant with his child, as if this child who will come into the world has little to do with him! It's as if this is just the words of a woman who has a good relationship with herself!
Shui Xiaolin saw it very clearly, the moment she said that she was pregnant, although Xiao Yujiang's face suddenly showed a smile, his eyes were extremely calm!
Xiao Yujiang will never be ecstatic, this is what Shui Xiaolin expected! But even if he is furious! He's against it with all his might! Or at least he doesn't give a damn about it! That always let me see what a big impact and what a shock Xiao Yujiang was to Xiao Yujiang when he was pregnant! Even the lowest let yourself see how helpless he is!
At least, I can also see a response to the plans and ideas that I have racked my brains and worked hard in the past few days!
But that's how he left!
What's more, whether you really disdain it in your heart, or you don't want this child at all, but you say 'That's great!' ’
What about the child's fertility indicators?
After all, you and I are remarried, we have given birth to children before remarriage, and having another one is obviously not in line with the national family planning policy, not to mention that you and I are both state officials, although you have set up your own company without pay, but your personnel file is still in the state organs!
If you don't do the certificate that you meet the conditions for regeneration, and if you don't do the birth permit for regeneration, that is, no matter how capable you are, no matter how much you have the ability and family background~, who can you hide from such a thing! Who can escape the punishment of superbirth!
And this qiē needs you Xiao Yujiang to operate and handle. But why did you leave without saying a word?
Xiao Yujiang's reaction completely surprised Shui Xiaolin, and it suddenly made Shui Xiaolin confused and at a loss!
Seeing Xiao Yujiang leave the house as if nothing happened, Shui Xiaolin was stunned!
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Oh, yes! What if it's a disabled child?
Shui Xiaolin didn't know how she left Xiao Yujiang's parents' house, she only remembered that Xiao Yujiang's mother insisted on letting her eat before leaving, and even Xiao Yujiang's father came out of the study and let herself eat before leaving.
Back at her home and sitting in the living room, Shui Xiaolin calmed down a lot, she was going to think about it.
“…… The incidence of spontaneous abortion is high, prenatal and postpartum hemorrhage, compression and impact on embryonic development, abnormal fetal development or malformation, stillbirth, and premature birth are also more common. It's best to do the ring removal and miscarriage at the same time, and the sooner the better......! ”
The words of the two doctors rang in their ears again!
Also, if you have prenatal and postpartum hemorrhage, you may have heavy bleeding, can your body afford it?
Not to mention the sequelae of the concussion left by this car accident, if there is any heavy bleeding, then your body will really have to be buried! Wouldn't the rest of his life have to be spent in the torment of illness!
Terrible!
But what's even more terrifying is that if you really give birth to a child with a physical disability or a child with cerebral dementia, it will not only bring happiness and happiness to the rest of your life, let alone any protection in old age! That does not drag yourself into never-ending suffering and torment!
What kind of elegant and beautiful woman is herself, then she can only be a sad mother for the rest of her life!
At the same time, for the sake of his own momentary pleasure and disregard for a qiē, then, if it is really a disabled child, then I am sorry for this child!
Terrible! I can't imagine!
So what to do?
To do it?
Then admit it yourself? That's it?
That qiē is still like the way he was when Xiao Yujiang left, as if nothing had happened? It seems that he Xiao Yujiang will still go his own way in the future?
Then why are you tossing this qiē yourself!
And Qu Mengmeng!
Thinking of Qu Mengmeng, Shui Xiaolin's heart was even more angry at this time! No! It's ridiculous!
Is he done showing himself in front of her? What else is there to love with Xiao Yujiang! What else is entangled with Xiao Yujiang, why does Xiao Yujiang want to have another daughter!
But if you do it again, won't you just have to wait for her to see the joke?
Disgusting! Disgusting!
Thinking of having dinner with Qu Mengmeng, Wu Weidong, and Xu Jing that day, and the way she danced without stopping talking, Shui Xiaolin felt even more suddenly at this time, it was like a vulgar actor performing endlessly smug in the disdainful eyes of the elegant audience!
Amusing! Disgusting!
But what now? But what can I do if I don't have an abortion now?
Go for an abortion?
It is said that miscarriage is very painful! After the abortion, the body will be very weak! Moreover, his body is far from recovering from the trauma of the car accident!
So what do I do? But what can I do if I don't have a miscarriage?"
How could I be so unlucky!
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Shui Xiaolin let out a long sigh and fell into extreme pain again!
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