"Let's go on, didn't you just ask me, what is the difference between Eastern and Western love?" Qiu Zichuan took a shallow sip of the dry red in the cup.

Tonight, Qiu Zichuan was originally going to drink liquor, but Wu Weidong said that chatting was the main thing, and he was on dry red!

"Yes!" Bai Xiaohua tilted his head and looked at Qiu Zichuan.

Bai Xiaohua didn't seem to be much interested in Wu Weidong's usual favorite dishes, but as soon as he sat down, he yelled for Qiu Zichuan to continue the topic in the car.

"Let's start with the love songs of the East and the West, sad!"

Qiu Zichuan put down the wine glass in his hand.

"It's still sad! You're sad too! ”

Wu Weidong on the side grinned and teased.

"Huh! That's a good point! ”

Bai Xiaohua on the other side also laughed!

“！”

Turning his face, Qiu Zichuan glanced at Wu Weidong.

"Go on!"

Bai Xiaohua suppressed his laughter.

"Let's start with Teresa Teng's song!"

Wu Weidong and Bai Xiaohua both looked at Qiu Zichuan, especially Wu Weidong, and thought, today is strange! I've known you for 40 years, and I don't seem to feel that you care about any love or sadness!

"Let's talk about "Don't Pick Roadside Wildflowers" first, what is this?"

After speaking, Qiu Zichuan glanced at Bai Xiaohua, but without waiting for Bai Xiaohua to answer, he continued:

"Don't trust! This shows that the so-called love in our Orient naturally carries suspicion of the other party in its genes, and at the moment when the love arises, the suspicion also arises at the same time, but its appearance requires conditions and bad circumstances! ”

"It's first of all because of love! Who doesn't love you and doubts you! ”

Wu Weidong laughed and teased!

"Then, give yourself the right not to pick wildflowers on the side of the road! This kind of empowerment at the same time deprives the other party of freedom! ”

Qiu Zichuan ignored Wu Weidong's ridicule and continued to say his opinion.

"Since they are in love, the woman doesn't want the man to go looking for flowers and ask willows again!"

Bai Xiaohua also objected.

"This is the first thing, love carries with it a natural suspicion and the rights and demands that arise at the same time." Qiu Zichuan didn't look at the two, and then said:

"And then the second, "Unforgettable First Love"!"

"That's it! When did Shui Xiaolin not sing this song first in the song hall! ”

Wu Weidong knew that Bai Xiaohua also knew the story of Qiu Zichuan's first love, so there was nothing taboo about ridiculing.

"Don't mention her!"

Qiu Zichuan was stunned and glanced at Wu Weidong.

"Huh!"

Bai Xiaohua glanced at Qiu Zichuan and Wu Weidong respectively, and laughed!

"'I want to confide in you the infinite anguish in my heart, as long as your heart remains the same, I will still have a deep friendship until the sea is dry!' ”

"What's going on?"

Bai Xiaohua held her mouth in her hand and looked at Qiu Zichuan puzzled.

"This is the worst love language used by Chinese women from ancient times to the present, if there is a cliché contest, these few words deserve to win the championship!"

"What a theory!"

Wu Weidong picked up the wine glass and took a sip of it!

"The key is the essence of it!"

"What essence?"

Bai Xiaohua still looked at Qiu Zichuan with her mouth in her hand.

"Raippy!"

Qiu Zichuan took a sip of the wine glass, and then blurted out.

Poof!

Wu Weidong grinned back and bent over, and all the dry red that he was tasting in his mouth squirted out!

"What bullshit is this!"

Turning around, Wu Weidong felt that he couldn't cry or laugh!

"Listen to him!"

Bai Xiaohua also wants to laugh!

"Chinese women have an innate ambivalence of treating themselves as princesses and at the same time as objects."

"Objects? It's fresh! Go on! ”

Bai Xiaohua seems to be more interested!

"In our China, the two of them are good, or to put it more colloquially, they have that thing together! That's like a remark! What I am born to be your man, death is your ghost! What else I have entrusted to you with all my emotions, and even more so my life entrusted to you! That's not! This is the self-positioning of the 'object', putting itself very low! ”

"This is not to blame Chinese women, this is determined by the concept of chastity in traditional Chinese culture!"

Bai Xiaohua defended the woman.

"Nonsense, do you want a woman someone else has slept with?"

And Wu Weidong fought back more directly!

"Huh!"

Bai Xiaohua clapped his palms and laughed!

"Again!"

Qiu Zichuan still ignored the ridicule and opposition of the two.

"What is Na Ying's song "You Hurt Me", the two fell in love, but then the man no longer loves this woman, that is harm?"

Qiu Zichuan looked at Bai Xiaohua and Wu Weidong.

"yes!"

Bai Xiaohua looked at Qiu Zichuan and finished speaking, and then looked at Wu Weidong with his mouth open.

"On the other hand, what if your woman no longer loves other people's men! So have you thought about hurt? Have you hurt someone? And when you fall in love with another man again, and happily follow another man to love me and me, don't you feel that you have abandoned others and hurt others! Probably then you will say that love has the right to choose. On the other hand, don't people have the right to choose? This is the same as the doubts, demands and power mentioned earlier, they are all princess consciousness and put themselves very high! ”

"That's true, but emotionally people are selfish!"

Bai Xiaohua agreed, but defended.

"Then don't say who hurt whom!"

Hearing Qiu Zichuan say this, Wu Weidong nodded in agreement!

"This high and low, so that a lot of love, before much beauty is born, it will be transformed first!" Qiu Zichuan added.

"You are using reason to ask for love, but love is emotional after all!"

Lighting a cigarette, Wu Weidong took out another cigarette from the cigarette case and handed it to Qiu Zichuan, while looking at Qiu Zichuan and said.

"But the problem is that when the demands of emotion are unreasonable, reason always has to appear!"

Taking the cigarette, Qiu Zichuan picked up the lighter and lit it, while answering Wu Weidong.

"It makes sense, but there are a lot of irrationalities in emotional things!"

Many times, Bai Xiaohua always consciously and unconsciously accepts Qiu Zichuan's views.

"What the hell are you trying to say?"

Wu Weidong always didn't understand Qiu Zichuan's topic today, although from the beginning, the topic started along the movie that Bai Xiaohua continued.

"Good! Let's talk about Western sad songs, we won't give examples one by one, I just asked," Qiu Zichuan said here for a moment, and looked at Bai Xiaohua and Wu Weidong. Pick-up:

"Western love songs, even if they are sad, are mostly nostalgia or longing, at most confusion! I miss the time when I once fell in love, miss the lover who was not around, or miss the future of love! ”

"That's right!"

Bai Xiaohua agreed.

"That's a good point!"

Wu Weidong also nodded in approval!

"Have any of you ever heard someone's song say, 'I will love you until I die!'" Why' you cruelly abandoned me! 'There are very few of these vulgar little family things! And Teresa Teng's song 'I haven't forgotten you've forgotten me, you even said the wrong name, proving that you are lying to me in everything, look at what you say today' isn't shrew entanglement? Why do you want to love a liar, you are not trying to do something! Then you're stupid! What kind of love is not love! ”

"It makes sense! But what exactly do you want to say? ”

At this time, Wu Weidong found that Qiu Zichuan, who usually doesn't talk about any emotional topics, originally had a lot of research on love. But at the same time, Wu Weidong felt that Qiu Zichuan's words tonight were more like some cynicism and seemed to want to vent something. And some biased logic in the middle should not be Qiu Zichuan's normal concept and style!

"I want to say that the so-called love in China is more mixed with a lot of personal utilitarian things. Of course, not all, there are still many beautiful loves since ancient times! ”

As if considering that Wu Weidong would refute, Qiu Zichuan first plugged the loophole in logic.

"Many of the so-called loves we now do not deny that they are also beautiful at the beginning, but at the same time, they contain more of an element of 'possession', that is, 'you are mine'! And this 'possession'! Not only the emotion, but even the personality of the other party is also included! ”

"Even the personality is possessed? This is the first time I've heard of it! ”

Bai Xiaohua felt fresh!

"Getting a marriage certificate is like signing a contract for the sale of goods! Is this love? In other words, what we call love, 'possession' and 'disregard for the other's independence and personality', are the most distinctive qualities! Of course, from the perspective of human primitiveness, possession is an inevitable natural state of mind, but you have to be reasonable! First of all, we must respect each other's personality! It's just wishful thinking! If you can't break up, it's just hurting you! ”

"Go on! Go on! ”

Looking at Qiu Zichuan and looking at Bai Xiaohua when he said this, Wu Weidong also felt that Qiu Zichuan's theory was very fresh.

Bai Xiaohua, who was holding her mouth in her hand, also looked at Qiu Zichuan with more interest.

"Returning to the topic raised by Xiaohua earlier, I think the biggest difference between the knowledge and understanding of love between the East and the West is that!" Qiu Zichuan gently played with the wine glass in his hand.

"Say!"

Bai Xiaohua urged Qiu Zichuan.

"We are more 'contractualized' in love, while Westerners are more 'intentional'. As soon as we sign it, you will be mine, and you will not be allowed to do anything in the future; As soon as we walked out of the church, we were together, but we still respected each other's freedom to choose again! That's the big difference! ”

As he spoke, Qiu Zichuan picked up his wine glass again and said:

In other words, our so-called love, if we break up, many people will turn love into hate! The past is all tears! This is because the 'possessive mentality' is in charge! People are waving to each other and blessing each other! Only the beauty of the past is left in the memory! This shows that people are 'I love you, but I respect your personality more'! And we're 'as long as I love you, or as long as I haven't left home, you have to be mine'! ”

"Agreed!"

Wu Weidong also picked up the wine glass and touched the wine glass in Qiu Zichuan's hand.

"Yes!"

Bai Xiaohua also raised his wine glass to signal to the two of them, and then gently raised it to his lips and took a sip.

"What a pity! We don't have that kind of life! It would be great if the women we met understood love like this! Hehe! ”

Putting down the wine glass, Wu Weidong sighed and smiled evilly as if he had ulterior motives!

"Huh! You kid doesn't know how blessed you are in the midst of blessings, how good Lan Lan is! ”

Looking at Wu Weidong, Qiu Zichuan, who also put down his wine glass, quipped.

"So there can't be such love for Chinese men!"

Bai Xiaohua seemed to understand the meaning of Wu Weidong and Qiu Zichuan's words at once, and said with a smile!

"Chinese men, no! Men all over the world are the same in this regard! ”

"What's the same?"

Bai Xiaohua didn't seem to understand the meaning of Qiu Zichuan's words!

"There is no scenery in a familiar place, and the unfamiliar itself is a temptation. Nature it! ”

After taking a look at Wu Weidong, Qiu Zichuan smiled lightly!

"Don't talk about this, it's all about defiling love! Or continue what I just said! ”

For the extramarital affair of an adult man, Bai Xiaohua seems to be a little sensitive!

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