Chapter 693: This is also a good thing
Seeing Wang Ye snickering, Wei Da was really angry; But now, he feels that it is better for him not to speak, and now he has become a typical representative of negative influence.
Originally, it was difficult to get satisfaction if I wanted to eat some braised pork, but now I was ruthlessly cheated by Xiao Li, and Wei Da's status is really hard to say now.
In the past, although it was basically in the bottom position, maybe when the family was in a good mood, they would still consider Wei Da's opinion. But now, the Mariana Islands Trench-like family status is more or less the reality of Weida, the place where the lowest point, the most negative and the deepest abyss, can not be climbed.
Regarding the fact that Xiao Li is not competitive, in fact, it is not a big deal; To say a small thing, it can be explained by the anger that Old Fox killed after hearing the news.
Xiao Li naturally has no problem, the little guy is still happily playing this game on the weekend; Although the little one still doesn't know what Daddy has done wrong, it doesn't matter, he can still play happily with his younger siblings. The little one even gave his father a chocolate as a comfort, or encouragement, hoping that he would not make any more mistakes in the future.
"We also discussed it, in fact, not having too much competitiveness is not necessarily a bad thing, contentment is always happy." Wei Da explained dryly that this matter was held at a family meeting, "The key is that Xiaoli is still young, and the character of the little guy has not yet been finalized." ”
"We also discussed it. I also think that this matter is big and small. The point is that you really need to pay attention to the fact that you are indeed having a great influence on the children. Xiao Li's character is now that we don't know if it's a good thing. You still need to stay tuned. Wang Ye reminded that the cultivation of children is really not only physical health, but also psychologically.
"I must know this, in fact, I think Xiao Li's current personality is really good. I can't talk about my family making a big fuss, and I actually have a bit of a drum mentality. Now think about it, have you noticed; Xiaoli is really good to his younger siblings, and he knows how to give it to his younger siblings if he has something to play with. This is a good thing and certainly needs to be encouraged. But it's not all like that. Wei Da actually has palpitations, and now that he thinks about it, he is also beating the drum in his heart.
"Xiao Li is sometimes too talkative, and Xiao Li is like this a lot of the time. Although Xiao Li often goes to watch games with us. He never seemed to care if he won or lost the game. It doesn't matter if it's his favorite team, or even if his uncle loses the game. "Wei Da thinks about it now, and it seems that this is indeed the case, but he didn't seem to notice it before.
"It's not just that, you think about watching Xiao Li play by himself. Bear riding or something. He is a regular gamer. Various competitions. But Xiaoli never cared, Xiaoxin or Lele sometimes lost the game, but sometimes they would regret and get angry. But come to think of it, I really haven't seen Xiao Li get angry after losing the game. Wang Ye also laughed, now that I think about it, in fact, Xiao Li's character has been reflected a lot a long time ago.
"Anyway, I think Xiao Li is basically rarely compared with others, and he does seem to be this character." Wei Da laughed, contented, Xiao Li looked better than Wei Da. "Xiao Li is too easy to satisfy, and it was nothing to be with his younger siblings before. It's been a few months since I've been in school, and it seems like this, no matter what, I don't want to compare myself to others. ”
"So that's the most worrying thing, it's good to be a little bit competitive. I hope Xiaoli is like you said, now he has a wide range of interests and hobbies, so he hasn't really found what he likes for a while. Wang Ye laughed, now thinking about having such a cute godson, I don't know what Xiao Li thinks, the little guy's mentality is really good, and he won't be hit at all.
"I feel the same as me, but I haven't been stimulated by others to have the pride and fighting spirit in my heart." Wei Da swore and said, this is also the reason he has been insisting on in the past two days, "You know that the master is lonely, Dugu seeks defeat like this." When we stand on a high place, the only opponent is ourselves. ”
Wang Ye rolled his eyes, he felt that Xiao Li was not competitive, maybe he just didn't meet something he really liked, or maybe Xiao Li really didn't have too much competitiveness, these are all very possible. As for the loneliness of the master, this is basically Wei Da bragging and looking for the bottom of the stairs.
"You still don't believe it, it's just that you haven't found a good opponent." Seeing that Wang Ye seemed to be very disbelieving, Wei Da felt that he had to explain it well. "Think about it, where can Xiao Li find an opponent now, he doesn't have any opponents at all."
"Xiaoxin, they are all younger brothers and sisters, there is nothing to compare to. Xiaoli is still very qualified to be an older brother, and he has always let his younger brother and sister go. Hearing Wei Da's words, Wang Ye also nodded; Although the little ones sometimes play together, but overall it is still very good, and the brothers, friends and brothers are the best illustration.
"The big guy and Pooh have a very good relationship with Xiao Li, they are all good friends, and Xiao Li has been taking care of them all the time?" Wei Da continued, don't say that this reason is Wang Ye, even Wei Da himself is convinced, "And although Xiao Li likes to be lazy, Xiao Li is very smart. The big guy and Pooh are too powerful to compare themselves to. ”
Wei Da gushed endlessly, and he was also constantly analyzing it seriously; Don't say it's Wang Ye now, Wei Da himself feels very excited, he knows that Xiao Li just can't raise his fighting spirit now, because he is completely lonely, so he doesn't need to worry about anything at all. Xiaoli still has a lot of potential, and the little guy will definitely slowly tap his potential, there is no doubt about it.
Looking at Xiao Li, who patted his ass and got up, Wei Da suddenly felt that what he said for a long time might just be his most idealistic thing; It's entirely possible that Xiao Li, this kid just doesn't have fighting spirit, this is already thrown off by the big guy in front of the key line and lost the game, the little guy is still happy to hug his sister, it looks like he won the game, where is the loss of the game!
Forget it, don't continue to dwell on this matter; In fact, if you don't have a competitive spirit, it's not necessarily a bad thing. The most important thing is that the little guy is still growing up, and it is possible that this is just a misunderstanding, so there is no need to worry too much at all, it is still worth looking forward to, anyway, it's nothing.
Wei Da really feels that there is really no need to make a fuss now, this matter really does not need to be cared about; Anyway, Xiao Li really doesn't seem to be competitive or anything like that right now, but it's not a moral flaw or something, and that's enough. Wei Da felt that this was not a problem, and he didn't need to care at all.
Now that I think about it, it's true, it's just that I'm not competitive, and it's not a big deal. It's just a trivial matter, anyway, Wei Da feels that being wide and fat is actually a good kind of vegetarian condition; Xiao Li is also very good like this, the little guy will definitely be happy in the future, and he has always been so happy.
As long as the little guy doesn't make mistakes of principle, then Wei Da just doesn't think it's a problem at all; Xiao Li doesn't necessarily need to achieve much to be a result, as long as Xiao Li can grow up happily, then it is already a very good thing for Wei Da, so now, this qiē is not a problem, it is just a small thing.
Looking at it now, Wei Da felt very satisfied, satisfied for his fat son; It's actually worth being proud of when you think about it, because this thing is completely the best little guy.
In fact, there are a lot of industries in the family now, which is definitely a complete way to make the little ones become a thorough rich second generation; Although many people say that they are rich for no more than three generations, this is not necessarily true. Come to think of it, it's actually that the truth, Wei Da now has a lot of money at home, and the little ones can't finish defeating at all.
And these industries in the family actually have a solid foundation, so there is no need for the little ones to continue to work hard or something, and guarding these industries can be passed on for many generations, which is enough to make Wei Da feel proud. Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, Wei Da has done his own thing, leaving a lot of foundation and industry for the children, which makes Wei Da successfully complete his task.
So there is no need to think about it so much, if the little ones have the ability, they can develop and grow more naturally. But if the little ones are not here, the little ones only need to enjoy a good life, which is actually a very good thing, and enjoying life is also a life attitude, because there are such conditions at home.
Wei Da didn't worry about these at all, and now that he thinks about it, it's actually a very happy and relieved thing; The little guy is not a careerist or something, the little guy is easily satisfied, and that's enough. As for the rest, Wei Da really doesn't worry about it, if you don't have a competitive spirit, you won't be competitive, so it's actually not bad.
Wei Da laughed, also talking about some of his own concepts; Now that I think about it, I still get some recognition, but of course it is not necessarily support. Speaking of which, we still need to look at the little one's own choices, Weida's task is to ensure that the children grow up healthy and happy, and his task is not to plan the children's future. (To be continued......)