It's a good thing not to be too competitive.

Competitiveness refers to a person's psychological tendency to be dissatisfied with the status quo and strive to surpass themselves and others, and strive for greater success.

People with a strong sense of competitiveness always have a spirit of not admitting defeat, love to compare with others, in a sense of competition, do not like to lose, only like to win, and strong self-tendency often makes people unbearable.

Competitive people can sometimes be very self-conscious, and they may be narrow-minded, difficult to get along with, or difficult to integrate into teamwork. Modern society is an open and cooperative society, and learning to cooperate is an important condition to measure whether a person can adapt to the society and gain a foothold in the society, and it is also a necessary element for individuals to achieve success in development.

Obviously, a person who is overly competitive is not necessarily a good teammate.

Everyone has a desire to win, but sometimes you have to restrain your competitiveness a little bit, because you have to leave a little dignity to others. Everyone has self-esteem, everyone has a competitive spirit, if you want to connect feelings, you should pay attention to the other person's self-esteem everywhere, because to value the other person's self-esteem, you must suppress your own competitiveness, and fulfill the other person's competitiveness.

Competitive people have a mentality, that is, they will have low self-esteem after losing. Competitiveness has both advantages and disadvantages, competitiveness is a double-edged sword, and sometimes it will expose shortcomings, such as comparing with others in all aspects, which may lead people to the wrong path.

These are some of the bad aspects of being too competitive, but there are also many benefits to being too competitive.

First of all, this is a person's motivation and fighting spirit, which obviously makes people continue to improve. This is a competitive spirit, which will make people constantly break through, which is actually commendable.

It's just a matter of Xiaoli. Now it does look a little embarrassing, because he is not too competitive, he is not competitive, and this seems to be the big one. Troublesome.

To put it nicely, this is easy to be satisfied with what happens, and to say that it is unpleasant, this is to have no fighting spirit and be a coward.

If a person is not competitive at all, then it is very likely that he will guide zhì is the so-called mud that can't support the wall; Although it may seem that he is very friendly and easy to get along with, it is actually difficult for this person to achieve something in some things. It's basically a typical example of a messy life.

There is really no competitive heart, and to put it mildly, it is not dare to compete or pursue; Saying that it doesn't matter what is right is actually an escape.

"Actually, I think that whether or not you are competitive is not a criterion for judging whether a child is good or bad. Nowadays in such a highly competitive and utilitarian society. A person is often judged by whether he or she has done something and how much he has achieved. However, this is not the only criterion, everyone has unlimited potential, and everyone has a positive side. There is also the ability to realize oneself. When people are pursuing an ideal. You will move in the direction of your ideals. Wei Da said dryly, he felt that he was still under a lot of pressure now.

Angela didn't seem to hear this, and continued to stare at Weida with big beautiful eyes; It is clear that the current Weida is annoying Angela, the hateful culprit.

"What we have to do now is not to replace children to make plans that meet the standards of adults, you think about it, Xiaoli has so much leadership and is very responsible. This lack of competitiveness is actually nonsense. And there is also a situation, that is, there has not yet been a person or thing that can inspire Xiaoli's competitiveness. Weida continued to explain. He felt that what he said actually made a lot of sense.

Angela still didn't speak, she needed to take care of these things; Although what Wei Da said seems to have some truth, it doesn't seem to be such an acceptable thing.

"Just look at me, I actually seem to be in a very peaceful state, and a lot of people think that I may not be very competitive. But it's not like that at all, I'm a master lonely; I'm the best in what I do, so it's hard to motivate me. Wei Da showed up to say, and he felt that this was actually the most convincing, because he also seemed to be a person who was not competitive, "but if you look at my current results, they are also very good." It's not that we're not competitive, it's just that there's nothing worth working on. ”

"I'm going to kill you, you hateful bastard!" Angela gave Weida a few deep looks, and then suddenly exploded; Pounced on Wei Da, grabbed Wei Da's neck and pressed him down on the couch, it seemed that this was dealing with the class enemy, because Wei Da's last words seemed to be getting darker and darker.

"Mom and Dad are fighting, they're playing games." The little ones popped up and looked at the father and mother who were fighting on the couch, and the little ones didn't care; They also have a lot of fighting, including with the big Pooh, so they don't need to care about these things at all now, these things are what they do often, and they are used to it; So go ahead and play the game, let mom and dad play the game.

Weida pretended to stick out his tongue, looking like he was pinched by Angela. And Angela now doesn't pay attention to Wei Da's grimace like this, shaking Wei Da's head, she really loves and hates this hateful guy, this is a hateful big bastard!

"Yo, you're both thirty years old, and you're still playing games. As soon as I came back, I heard Xiao Li and they were making a small report, saying that you were fighting. Wei Guanghui, who had just returned from the ranch, smiled and looked at Wei Da, who was playing, and said to the two of them.

"Daddy, come and see what Da does, he's a nasty bastard!" Angela was a little aggrieved, and said with Xiao Li's watch report.

"I know English, but I can't read. My English doesn't seem to be very standard, and they all say that Abilene still has a strong Texas accent. Wei Guanghui didn't care, he was telling the truth; His English level is actually not bad, at least there is no problem in communication.

"Dad, the kindergarten teacher's evaluation of Ryan is not competitive at all!" Angela is also reacting now, and now she is also explaining; This matter must be taken seriously, and it needs to be paid for by the hateful big bastards.

Wei Da felt that what he needed to do now was to hurry away, which was actually to run away; But it doesn't seem appropriate now, he actually only wears a pair of slippers at home. The most important thing is that you are empty, you don't have a change of clothes, you don't have a bank card, credit card, checkbook, car keys, etc., or even a phone nearby.

The atmosphere around was cold, and Wei Da, who was sitting on the sofa, lowered his head; Now that he needs to be interrogated by three sessions, he now knows that it is difficult for him to easily get through this difficult time even if he is so skillful. Now the three knife-like eyes are looking him up and down, and he is like fat pork on the chopping board, in a state of being slaughtered.

"Dad made a mistake again, you need to stand by the wall and reflect. Sue me for what mistakes you made, don't be so naughty in the future. "The kids, who were a little thirsty from playing, came back running, but now they were thirsty and could drink juice later, and now the little ones have found something interesting, and it's fun.

Looking at Xiao Li, who looked serious, Wei Da opened his mouth; It's a familiar scene, and that's what he used to say when kids made mistakes. And now, the children are also very discerning; As soon as they saw Dad sitting on the sofa with his head down and didn't speak, and then they saw Grandpa, Grandma and Mom all looking at Dad angrily, they knew that Dad must have made another mistake.

Looking at Xiao Li's cute little chubby face, Wei Da suddenly felt that he was really wronged; Why is this my fault, isn't that right?

Indeed, not being competitive is not a mistake for Xiao Li, this should not be such a big move, especially now that the object of punishment is still himself, which really makes Wei Da feel very aggrieved.

It's just that Wei Da is also very smart now, he is considered to be the culprit, and now the whole family thinks that Wei Da is a big bastard. So this is a lot of things to say and make mistakes, anyway, they have already made mistakes, and many times the attitude of admitting mistakes is actually very important, or it is better not to be smart and cause a stronger backlash, so the gains outweigh the losses.

Xiao Li sat beside Wei Da very pitifully, and the little guy seemed to be very curious about his father's mistakes. But Xiao Li may not know now that he is sitting next to his father at this time, which will bring a great crisis to his father; Originally, this was a discussion about Xiao Li's character cultivation, and it was also because Xiao Li and Wei Da were very similar.

The most important thing now is that everyone thinks that Xiao Li was influenced by Wei Da, and Wei Da needs to take more responsibility for Xiao Li's personality. And the little guy is sitting next to his father with a big grin, and he is still adding attention to his father at this time, isn't this a complete cheating father!

"Xiaoli, what juice do you want to drink?" There are still a lot of fruits at home, so the children will basically drink delicious freshly squeezed juices; Although Weida made a big mistake, it is also important that the children are thirsty; Huang Yue took the bouncing Xiaoxin and Xiaoyou to prepare to squeeze juice, of course, Xiaoli's opinion is also very important.

"Whatever, it's okay, I'm the same as Dad."

Seeing Xiao Li's happy indifferent reply, Wei Da's eyes widened in disbelief.

'Whatever'!

'Same as Daddy'!

Good son, you're going to be a complete cheat! (To be continued......)