Wu Wei feels that as long as you are sincere, loving, and kind, there is nothing that you can't communicate, and there is nothing you can't understand.

He was full of understanding and sympathy for the fate of his brothers and sisters who had retired from the country, and he said at a meeting in the unit that if there had not been for those people's internal retreat, our wages would not have been so high today. People have malignant things, one is not to let it attack; The second is not to come at us if you want to have a seizure; The third is the best way to dissolve it, which is to dissolve and transform it. For retired employees, we must do three musts: the Spring Festival must be visited, the sick and hospitalized must see, and the red and white happy events must arrive.

Wu Wei's approach has also been understood by the brothers and sisters who have retreated. They wanted to write letters in tandem to petition collectively and go to Hao Han, who threatened that with Lao Wu as the principal there, I would not participate in this matter. They found someone else to write a letter, and then found Wu Wei's brother to lead them to petition, and the brother of the family said, Wu Wei must be allowed to see this matter first, and I can't fix him. After reading the letter, he said, I think this article is valuable, and I want to ask Wu Wei if that is the case. He called Wu Wei to ask Wu Wei to go, and showed him the letter, Wu Wei told him that this article was written incorrectly, they didn't know, it wasn't like that. Angkor said that if this one can't stand, then run in vain. I told them, and they listened to me. They wanted me to take them there, or they wouldn't even be able to get in. That time, a person went in in the name of looking for classmates, but after entering, he went directly to the leader. I'm not going to mess around with them. Wu Wei said to Ye Feng with emotion, the petition letter written in such an emotion did not touch me at all. Ye Feng said, you are too interesting to them.

Liangzi, who often leads the group of people who retreat, said to Wu Weiye, when we were studying how to write, I said again and again, saying that no one can say anything about you, over the years, we have seen through many things, and you didn't say it at that time.

Wu Weidao, I can't say that, at that time, everyone had no experience in dealing with such a problem, and if I was asked to deal with it, it might be worse than this.

Liangzi said gratefully, now you understand us very well and sympathize with us, you have done everything you should do, you have thought of everything you should think, you have fought for everything, there are some things that you can't do, so you can't say a word about you in the letter.

Wu Weidao, I don't have anything to hide from you, you can say whatever you want, if you don't believe me, you can continue to look for it, look for it, and not end it to this result. I said you should stop thinking about this, how many years have passed, fighting back and forth has no effect at all, and it is easy to spoil your mood and body.

Now that the matter has passed, everyone has thought of each other a little more, it has become easier to talk, and it is easier to find it again. Wu Wei said to Liangzi again, there were some problems in our work in the past, and there were deductions for issuing welfare tickets; The base of the pension was not adjusted and implemented in a timely manner in accordance with the spirit of the document; Lack of organization of recreational activities; Condolences are not in place, etc., these are indeed problems that belong to our work, and we must implement and solve them; In accordance with the policy, the cashing is in place; It should be your money, and I can't take any of it, so I make sure that it goes to you. Don't look for it, just write a letter, it's nothing more than turn it back, there is no shadow, you go to someone to send a representative, you can't even enter the door, the matter is really going to make a big fuss, the public security bureau still intervenes, and the troublemaker is simply arrested. Looking at you like this all these years, I don't feel good in my heart, it's futile to look for it, I'm sad and sad to be angry and angry, and I can't change anything but I have damaged my body. You yourself know that after a few years of tossing, what has changed? I just saw it, and it was telling the truth. Therefore, I have repeatedly advised you not to look for it, even if you seek a lawsuit from the labor department and the court, you will not be able to win the sympathy of others, because your pension is higher than our local average wage, there is no moral basis, and there is still so much income if you don't work, so don't ask for hardship. Some of you are still talking about me suppressing you, and if I have a good attitude, I will not do anything, and if there is hope, I will fight for you a long time ago. In this case, I will look for you, try to fight for it, explain the reasons for the situation, and give you an answer no matter what.

Wu Wei repeatedly communicated and discussed with the director of the Letters and Visits Office at a higher level to study whether there was a possibility of compensation, but after several iterations, he finally had to wait for the policy to loosen and the situation to ease before making a claim.

Liangzi listened to Wu Wei's feedback, and was very moved, what can be done has been done, what can be fought for, and what can be said has been said, and we are content. They are all brothers and sisters, they were, and they still are.

Wu Wei said again, don't wear frost on your face, don't be cold on your mouth, and don't be angry when you meet in the future, can you just turn around these things for the rest of your life, and you won't be able to turn them around? Let's go, how about we go have some food and some wine together?

Liangzi said, why was there no arrangement that day, we thought that your heart had also turned black, and we didn't even have a word of sympathy.

Wu Wei said with a smile, look at you like that, you don't choke when you eat and drink, don't you get sick? It's not just that you're having trouble with things. There are many unsatisfactory things in the world, no matter who will encounter them. You don't know, that year, the head of the working group to the school became the president, that is, at the conference said not to say that crying tears is crying bleeding to cure the person, and then he himself encountered a little trouble, he later had a promotion opportunity, the appointment documents came down, the conference also announced, I didn't expect the predecessor to find the upper side of the person to scrap the document, continue to stay, as a result, he hung in the provincial bank was idle for half a year, and then arranged to serve in other provinces for two years, and waited for the predecessor to officially retire before coming back, and only a little more than a year after retiring, he retired. His predecessor, who did you say he trusted? A driver in the unit below, the driver's uncle is above, he promised the driver how many things, so to find it, I heard that the things promised the driver have been done and have not been done, the thing is like this, there are so many wishful things in life, how can there be a wishful word, that is not a Buddha. Even if the Buddha has brought so many personal disciples, it is difficult to ensure that all of them are happy. When people come to the world, they should also be prepared for unsatisfactory things if they want to be happy, so that you can easily think about it.

Wu Wei discussed with Ye Feng, but the letter still went up. It was still silent when it went up, and now there is nothing clear when I turn back.

Ye Feng said, this letter, the leader approved that sentence should be specially studied, and they should not be allowed to see it.

Wu Weidao, in fact, saw nothing. How many times have I communicated with the Human Resources Department and the Letters and Visits Office, so I can explain. The three things they put forward are: one is to go back to work; The second is to increase income, and the third is to compensate for the loss of premature withdrawal. According to the regulations at that time, those who wanted to go to work could be laid off for three years before they were eligible to pass the examination and return to work, and they had to pass the examination. After so many years, there is no policy or procedural support for how to get on the job. To increase income, there is now a process of increasing year by year, and it is not counted below, besides, it is reflected more, and what should be done above will be done.

Wu Wei thought, people are generally dissatisfied now, can they be satisfied with money? In fact, it is difficult to be satisfied with money alone. For many people, there is more money than in the past, and the spirit is still in pain, and money is not the only medicine. If the mind is not right, you want more money, open your mouth like a blood basin, and rely on squeezing toothpaste to meet it? People's thoughts and behaviors are expanding and deepening suffering, and hatred has been bred from suffering, and it has further developed into a source of new suffering.

Wu Wei chatted with Ye Feng, talking about the suffering enough, don't artificially deepen and aggravate the suffering.

Ye Feng said, cough, and said that, haven't you heard that the two female employees who retired internally, the two of them were originally very good, they were often inseparable, and they should be considerate of each other, but they just made an accident.

It turned out that Huo Jie received a sum of money for Ping Ying, and left a receipt after giving it to the other party. It's been a matter of several years, but Pingying forgot, and suddenly asked Huo Jie, who received it, for a receipt, and Huo Jie forgot where to put it because he moved once in the middle, Pingying didn't let it go, and forced him to sue if he couldn't take it out, Huo Jie was anxious but couldn't find the receipt.

Pingying came to Wu Wei and said, the unit is also responsible, why should I let someone else collect my money without my own entrustment?

Wu Weidao, the person in a unit often happens to receive it for that person, and there are no errors and disputes, why did there go wrong with you? Besides, Huo Jie, who received it for you, is not the kind of villain who will keep your money secret. Think about it again.

Pingying took out a small notebook from the bag he was carrying and said, I remember it in detail in my running account, but I don't have this money.

Just as he was talking about this, Huo Jie called Wu Wei and said, I found the receipt she gave me, I have to sue her, she buried me so much, and I was about to become mentally ill.

When Wu Wei heard this, he said, "Great, you can come to my office immediately."

She arrived soon after taking a taxi, but as soon as she entered the door, she saw Pingying also sitting on the sofa, her face immediately changed, and she asked Wu Wei, why are you here to let me come? In those days, I was forced out, almost forced out of mental illness, rummaging through boxes and cabinets, rummaging through but I couldn't find it, thank God I finally found it, what is the relationship between the two of you? Why did you tell her that the IOU was found, and I wanted to take it out again.

Wu Wei persuaded and explained, our brothers and sisters who have retreated are already painful enough, don't kill each other anymore and add to the pain, I don't know, I can't pretend not to know, so let the two of you come to confront the IOU face to face, don't dwell on this matter anymore. The two of you used to be like sisters, got along very well, and often nagged together, otherwise how would you take the lead?

He said to Pingying again, this time there is a problem, the responsibility is completely on you, the note is your own handwriting, you apologize to Huo Jie now. What were you thinking at the time, you didn't think about retreating at all, how could you be so forced?

Wu Wei saw that Pingying was still hesitant, and further said, you have to sincerely apologize to others.

Huo Jie suddenly became angry again when he heard it, and apologized, I don't accept her apology, I want to sue her.

Ping Ying hurriedly knelt down for her and said, it is indeed my fault, I apologize to Sister Huo

Wu Wei said to Huo Jie, everyone has knelt down for you, you should also be angry, killing people is not enough to nod to the ground, besides, kneeling down the world and kneeling to the ground three times, there is nothing to kneel down again, she can kneel to see her sincerity of shame. He also said, you are all laid-off workers, and you have suffered enough, so be considerate and considerate of each other.

Hearing what he said, Huo Jie seemed a little calm.

Wu Wei led Pingying to the financial office, and said to the financial staff that he should find out the signed document and let her sign it by herself, and remember this lesson in the future, and cannot allow it to be collected on behalf of her. They went one after the other. Some people say that Wu Wei doesn't care what he does with this kind of nossy thing. Wu Weidao, I don't know what to do, I don't know how to let them get entangled with each other, it's too boring, can this kind of thing be lively?

Wu Wei specially instructed Ye Feng and others, I will tell you two points about the problem of old cadres, it is not easy to do the work now, it is difficult to do. First, the social system of the unit, since we began to disintegrate, people can't bear it psychologically, and many things still come to you, and if you can't do it, you can't do it, and you will be dissatisfied with you; The second is that the income is in our generation to open the gap, colleagues for many years, together to do the same work, the level of ability is about the same, but because of retirement or other reasons to leave the unit, the income has opened a big gap, people are dissatisfied, have ideas, it is normal, and there are not many resources to work with, because the system does not allow you to do it. According to the provincial government documents, the average retiree only has 200 yuan a year for each person's activity fee, and you think, 200 yuan, which shows how much weight does the relationship between retirement and the unit still have?

After experiencing these things, Wu Wei often fell into contemplation, the throes of reform, people in the same situation, the same loss of jobs, income reduction, or even loss of original income, but some people have no dissatisfaction, hatred, or with the passage of time and dilution and dissipation; For others, it becomes a lingering nightmare, repeating the painful memories from time to time, and the more fragile the inner being, the more sensitive they are to external information, and this reaction not only does not alleviate the pain, but rather deepens the pain. Pain can sprout many different ideas, observe many people working and living in a low-income state, make efforts to change their own destiny, develop new pleasures in life and work, regain their confidence in work and life, love life and work, achieve normal interpersonal interactions, maintain their personal dignity, and gain the respect of others. Some people grow resentment and even hatred in the midst of their pain. The emotions of dissatisfaction and hatred need to be vented and released, such catharsis and release need to have objects, opponents, people have roots-seeking complexes, who brings happiness to themselves, who brings disasters to themselves, and we must find specific people to be stable. The source of happiness should be grateful and grateful, and the bane of disaster should be liquidated with revenge, the pleasure of mutation in destroying the other party, and the balance of compensation in counter-damage. If you can't find a specific target to vent, or if you find one but can't inflict any harm on the other person, this kind of dissatisfaction and hatred that lacks a specific target to vent the damage will hurt you back. In order to avoid hurting oneself, one needs to self-relieve and sort out one's spiritual channel. If you find the wrong person to vent to, causing accidental injury, people's conscience will most likely produce self-blame and guilt. It is a complex process of spiritual interaction. To carry out the excretion and transcendence here, you need to be patient and meticulous in interpretation, and you need to face it calmly.

The human effort is very peculiar. Sometimes it's just to alleviate the pain, or to avoid causing new pain. Efforts to alleviate suffering often fail to address the root causes of suffering. The root causes do not disappear, the painful complex is always there, and if you rely on the comfort of others, the stability achieved can easily be broken by the new imbalance caused by the changes in the outside world. Efforts to alleviate suffering for others and efforts to create happiness for others require different mechanisms of understanding. Creating happiness is easy to be recognized, understood, and recognized. Alleviating suffering is different, especially in the absence of institutional, policy and financial support. Deep psychiatric intervention is required. Some people are deeply trapped in it and cannot extricate themselves, and eventually cause the tragedy of fate, which is really the greatest misfortune in the world. I know that being trapped in this is harmful to my body and mind, but I can't avoid it. It is really foolish to make such a decision under the condition that we cannot rely on methods that harm the legitimate interests of some people to fulfill the wishes of other people, especially when the interests of other people cannot be satisfied at all.

Wu Wei saw that Liangzi and they were coming again, and asked for an equal share of welfare expenses with the on-the-job, thinking of his own personal experience and preaching to them, you were the most hurt and deepest during the adjustment period, and now you see that the duration is also the longest, when will it be? I myself was deeply touched at the time, seeing that I had no future, I wanted to go outside, but Song Rou didn't do it, I wanted to break up, and I felt that the price was too great, so I gave up. I also had the experience of being blocked and humiliated by finding a way, and being blamed for stealing other people's jobs, but it turned into motivation and nutrition for my struggle. Our family has four brothers, all of whom are employees of state-owned enterprises, but because the company went bankrupt, not only did the source of income have disappeared, but also had to pay for insurance, and now they are almost 60 years old, and they still walk the streets and alleys to sell small commodities in villages far away in the suburbs; Some lost their ability to work, and they didn't hear them scold this or that.

Ryoko smiled, how many people like your family?

This time, Wu Wei insisted on dispelling their comparison mentality, so he simply let it go and said, you are staring at the income on the job, don't say 3,000, 30,000, it is 300,000, it is also approved by the superiors, it is completely compliant and legal, and no one has any reason to deprive and infringe. If you don't believe me, go to court and try it. There are their own income channels and payment methods, and there is no policy space and financial guarantee for your income, even if you increase every penny, you must have a document basis, who can send documents? To compare, compared with the same type, is more or less. You can't compare it with what you shouldn't. That's meaningless than that, there's no way out. To tell you the truth, the income on the job is indeed increasing year by year, and the increase is still very large, but don't you see how we do it? Under such difficult conditions, we have done many things through our own efforts to win the care and support of our superiors. To say that than income, the income on the job is high, the proportion of welfare expenses is naturally high, the total income is high, more, but compared with the industry, similar schools, it is much lower, you need to use welfare fees to make up, welfare fees should be linked to attendance, on-the-job personnel also need incentives and encouragement, but also need to improve professional training capabilities.

Wu Wei paused for a moment, and then continued to preach, if you don't go to work and make so much money, no matter where you go, you have no moral basis and can't get people's sympathy. If you don't believe me, go to the court and the labor department to give it a try. I often visit my mother-in-law in the apartment for the elderly, and I am deeply moved by the fact that my mother-in-law, who is a nanny and a sister as old as you, saw the working and living conditions of other people, and that kind of state of mind, and I also wrote a letter of thanks and submitted a proposal to the CPPCC. Some of you are teachers here and are still lecturing at some universities. I don't know how you talk about educating others. Don't hear me, and don't think I'm black-mouthed. There is a boss in the provincial bank, I always persuade him to come to the lecture, he said, how can I have your level, just take the words and say, not only is there nothing wrong, but also people have to feel heard. An old colleague came to me that day, and I said to him, you are also an intellectual, what is knowledge used for? Not only educate others, but also educate oneself, do your own things well, or hide these messy things in your heart, how to face students, wouldn't it be wrong for people's children?! You are suffering, but your responsibility is precisely to guide people on how to be liberated from suffering.

When you go home by yourself, you talk to each other about each other, and you understand and communicate through talking. Think more about children and open up a happy space in the family. You evaluate whether your family is a happy family. Can you be happy to open up a second battlefield and a second career in work? I still think about the past, thinking about this and that, this road will not work at all.

There is no past in the past. Labor pains, short-term pains become long-term pains and even lifelong pains, the efforts of struggle deduce deeper and heavier pain, pain becomes the source of greater suffering, the source of deepening pain, the repeated painful experience of being devastated, the pain that is difficult to get rid of like nightmares, and even the mutated attachment, ignorance and ruthless struggle make tragedy a farce and a shameful laugh. How do you convince people not to always want to lose things, always think about the pain of the past, he also knows that the pain is in the past, and he can't get rid of the pain by pouring out the pain, but he can only deepen and aggravate the pain, but he thinks like that, becomes an attachment thought, falls into that trap, knows that it is harmful to himself, that is, he can't get rid of that thought mentally. What can you do to get him out of that thought? What thoughts come out of life and what thoughts do you move, can people grasp them? There needs to be a new type of wisdom and a new type of ability, to use a thought that is higher than the average thought as a criterion for testing and identification, and to be able to decide for itself whether to be firm, maintained, restrained, or deleted. There should be light in the inner world, and all kinds of thoughts, thoughts, and ideas can be placed there, compared and identified, and then decided to survive. When the various minds are developed to the extreme, the process of their generation and reinforcement can be discovered. The mind determines the fate of people, and it is necessary to cultivate the wisdom to control the mind and the mind. A large number of thoughts and thoughts emerge all the time in life, which ideas are fleeting, which ideas are precipitated and promoted into ideals, and beliefs are fixed to guide behavior and produce corresponding results. Others can't go deep into the process of how you think and think, and your thoughts determine your fate, and you decide your own destiny. What kind of ideas are easy to generate in what situations, what kind of ideas are not easy to form and accept, when are ideas active, and when are ideas easy to agree. Historically, things that have positive connotations have often come first in a destructive way. Poverty tends to accumulate more inferior behavior, and it also has a stronger spirit of changing reality. It is to play mahjong, sometimes the card players are regarded as enemies who hinder their success and cause their own failures, and they are dissatisfied or even resentful, causing disputes, and turning their faces and not recognizing people. The inspiration of game thoughts, how to dispel the evil thoughts that may breed, one is to reduce mistakes; the second is to respect the rules; the third is to look at luck, the victory and defeat can only be partially in their own hands; Fourth, the card is fun, and the game is fun.

At this time, Wu Wei also saw that the people on the job were also dissatisfied, and implemented incomplete linkage, taking out an average score of the basic part, and linking the other part with the work effect, encouraging those who can do it and those who cannot do it, and reducing dissatisfaction to a minimum.

But those who don't do it or have low efficiency still have opinions, and those with strong work ability and outstanding performance still take too much, and they put forward the game sharing method. People can't eat alone, the more they eat alone, the less they eat, and the more they share, the bigger they eat. There is already a division effect that sharing pain equals alleviating pain until it becomes nothing, and sharing pleasure equals doubling pleasure equals multiplication effect. If the game level is high, it doesn't matter if you take more or less, and if the game level is low, you can just do nothing and get a share, and you can feel at ease. Everyone is peaceful and harmonious.

Wu thought about the distribution problem on the ground, and it was worse to do good things than bad things, because the psychological contrast was too great, which especially aggravated the psychological feelings. Expectation is good, but it invites malice. Before you find a good solution, it's better not to do it. The effect of the average division is too poor, and both ends are stained, and this side is not happy, and that side is not satisfied. If the two ends are not pleased, it is better to come on one side, so that at least one side is satisfied.

Every time he catches up with the performance, Wu Wei has to find Mr. Zhang of the Human Resources Department of the Provincial Bank to fight for the people below. The boss was also moved by his spirit of fighting for the people below, he couldn't think about it with a low income, and he had to think about it if he had a high income, people like your big brother were rare, why had you never heard you compare with others. Wu Wei was also embarrassed and said, how many people do I have here, how can I compare with others managing thousands of people. The work is all done by the people below, so I will accompany me to drink some wine and say a few words. Mr. Zhang sighed with emotion, big brother, you are too modest, you are in charge of 20,000 people, and you are a spiritual leader. Wu Weidao, ashamed, I should be ashamed. Mr. Zhang, I haven't heard the voice of philosophy for a long time, so if you have any good thoughts and ideas in the future, send me them diligently.

Wu Wei has been busy for several months, and on this day, it is rare for the unit to have a holiday, and he wants to finish things and relax. After breakfast, she accompanied Song Rou to work, and on the way, she said that a family member went to the unit canteen to eat Chinese food and was taken away, and later someone helped to speak. Song Rou said, I have no identity, what are you doing with that cheapness. Wu Wei asked, do you old dreams still go to the unit to make calls and eat in the canteen? Song Rou replied, no, the unit canteen issued a meal card with a photo, and as soon as he saw that there was such a card, he returned the meal card that had extra money and never went again. Wu Wei said, you still asked me to follow you to eat at that time, but thanks to not going, how embarrassing it was to encounter that scene. Wu Wei also mentioned the matter of reimbursement of heating expenses by the surviving family members, and some bereaved family members went to the school to look for it, and Wu Wei said that as long as there are unit expenses and income, they cannot be reimbursed. The bereaved family members demanded reimbursement as if they were crying out for injustice. No matter how you say it, you have such a large unit, you have the final say, you just agree. I told her that there are so many people watching and staring, and whether they report it to you or not, they don't have an opinion about me. Then I don't care, give me so much money, things are going up so much, how can I live. I asked the old man to drink some water and she didn't drink any water, she said there was no oil and water in her stomach. I said that my mother-in-law still receives survivors' expenses, and she will not be reimbursed for heating expenses when she finds a unit. That's not good, we heard that if there is a unit like this, they will report it, and if you don't report it, I won't leave. I hurriedly brought Ye Feng over and asked him to contact his superiors. Let's reply to study it above. I told them to go back and wait for the letter. That's how I left. After they left, the finance of the unit said to me, you can't find this kind of problem, and it seems that we don't understand the rules. I said, what you can fight for is still to fight. I heard that the above case is reimbursed, too. I think that the security and stability of Chinese society depends on institutional policies and economic development, but it depends more on what the elite does to do so.