The two of them were eating, Song Rou remembered something and called for a long time, Wu was worried that she would have a cold stomach ache, so she told her to end it quickly, and said that because of her foot pain, the food that was originally scheduled to be eaten the next day was also arranged.

Song Rou suddenly got angry, if you talk about your family affairs, you won't interfere if you fight for as long as you want.

Aren't I distressed, I will fight after eating, and I can fight for as long as I want. Wu Wei is doubly careful to maintain.

Song Rou heard her cousin Xiaohong from other counties say that the third aunt has not been doing well recently and is 78 years old, so she has always wanted to visit, but because of Wu Liang's increasingly serious condition, she has repeatedly postponed and failed to make the trip. It has been a few days since Wu Liang's funeral was dealt with. Originally, the second brother Song Xueli had already said hello, and if he wanted to go, he would go with him, but the eldest brother Song Xueren had some concerns about whether he would meet, worried that he would go and say something boundless and cause some trouble, but after thinking about it again and again, he still made an appointment to go together.

Wu Wei was keenly aware of the danger of Song Rouqing's feelings, and his heart was depressed, so he talked to him, intending to clear it in time, and considered going to other counties with his brothers, so as not to make any unpleasant trouble, so he took the initiative to mention it, and you should also reflect.

She was not convinced, why did she say this at this time?

Wu Wei said, you have to pass this hurdle sooner or later.

Song Rou said with a pale face, you can tolerate others, but you are so harsh on me.

Wu Wei said again, there is no one outside who tolerates you like me, for fear that you will be in danger when you encounter such people.

Song Rou asked, what should I do?

Wu Wei said without hesitation, adjust, make up your mind to adjust, and pay attention to the danger. Don't say outsiders. Brothers and sisters, even between father and son, are there still few? That's the danger. Wu Wei insisted on convincing her to adjust in order to help her get out of the predicament. Eliminate the danger once and for all.

I made an appointment to go to see the third aunt together, but the thing I was worried about still happened, at the dinner table, the eldest brother started a fire against Song Rou, originally she was afraid that the eldest brother would always stop him if he talked too much, he thought that his sister did not respect him, there was a bottom fire, but Song Rou didn't know it. Wu Wei saw that it was not easy to say anything, and the eldest brother stood up and scolded and smashed chopsticks, and then walked out. Song Rou pressed the fire without squeaking. Wu Wei hurriedly followed Song Xueli out to persuade him, and after a lot of peace, he was afraid that there would be an old man at the table, so he said that he would return to the table after a while. He also said that it would not hurt feelings. Back on the table in a moment. He said, it doesn't hurt feelings. There was no word on the way back, and no one responded to Song Xueli Zhang Luo playing poker. When I got home, Song Rou called and chatted with Da Jing very well, and I felt smooth. He also said that it would be okay not to meet in the future. Still chattering about right and wrong, unhappy. Song Rou dressed up and planned to go to the supermarket to buy some food and come back to improve the food, Wu Wei thought that it would be better for this primer to be dissipated earlier, but he said when Song Rou was about to walk out of the door. You have to reflect on it yourself.

Song Rou suddenly exploded when she saw that Wu Wei was not a good eye, and Song Rou asked rhetorically. What do you mean?

Wu Wei said again, you should pay great attention to vigilance. If you can't think about it, you'll run into similar problems.

Song Rou was puzzled, she couldn't think about it, what did she mean? Who the hell are you? Originally, I said that I was going to go out and buy something to eat, but I didn't say it sooner or later, but I didn't say it at this time, what do you want? She counted the unpleasantness accumulated in the past one after another. The pain is memorable. Repeating pain isn't just about reinforcing memory. Knowing the pain makes people awake, and the beautiful scenery makes people linger and revel intoxicated.

In a world of two people, pain and scenery will intersect. Happiness and unhappiness depend not only on the frequency and duration of which experience occurs, but also on the ability to process and digest the experience. Mastering the ability to prolong the experience of scenery and shorten the experience of pain is a very important skill in life. Wu Wei has mastered such skills. He took the risk of asking irritating questions when Song Rou was already in a state of mental crisis, which was tantamount to igniting fire. Originally, she had temporarily dissipated the pain and wanted to go out to buy some food to improve, but suddenly she heard this explosive question, and the pain at this time was even stronger than the previous one. It turns out that the way to dissipate pain is to create new pain, and this kind of transfer and replacement may include unexpected ways and opportunities to dissipate. Because the new cause of pain has been transferred from the outsider who is difficult to grasp to the problem between two people, it has become a problem between two people, and there is a deeper emotional foundation between two people, and there is enough time and sufficient opportunity to adjust, which always contains countless possibilities for choice. Wu Wei is actually creating an opportunity to solve the problem. At first, it was full of gunpowder-like topics, but slowly trying, tentative, seeking topics that can gradually evoke emotional resonance, and when I realized this and then took the initiative to transition to a common context, the pain gradually dissipated, and the mood inadvertently improved, and then shifted to dissolving and dissolving another pain element. The purification and improvement are not enough, and we need to continue to work hard.

I saw Song Rou's eyes blazing and asked, who am I in your eyes?

Wu Wei said in a row, Rou'er, daughter-in-law, Rou'er, I'm afraid of falling out of my arms, I'm afraid of melting in my mouth, and I'm worried about loneliness when I sit there alone. Be well cared for to avoid harm.

Song Judao, that day Lao Hao celebrated his daughter-in-law's birthday and introduced a circle of people, I couldn't sit still at the table, I didn't take you seriously, and you were still there.

Wu Weidao, let's use him to introduce it. Looking at things depends on the overall situation, Feng'er celebrates Father's Day and Mother's Day, who is it for?

Song Rou complained, and he always gave the boss money in private, but you made things worse, pretending to be a good person, and fixing me.

Wu Weidao, on many occasions in your family, you really don't spend money and don't give money.

Song Judo, I have to see if I should spend it, and I don't spend a lot of money.

People have a sinister side, don't stimulate it, don't let it come out at you. Wu Wei said again, I can tolerate you, how can there be so many tolerant people in society, I am worried that you will be hurt if you meet that kind of person after you go out.

Song Rou asked, what do you want me to do?

Wu Wei is straightforward, speaking should be divided into places, places, occasions, times, people, methods, and art. Li Jie said that his daughter-in-law called him and said, hello, he was stunned when he saw that it was her calling, and then he thought about it, it feels good like this. Look at me, the boss always nags him about those things at the third aunt, what do I say? Big brother, don't always recall the past, look forward to the future. Big brother said what future do I have? Naturally leads to opportunities for younger siblings to speak. The first time, when he grabbed the conversation, you said that you would let the family finish the conversation; The second time, he wanted to sing but was stopped by you, stop singing. That's how he started the fire. However, I saw that you were okay at the time, and restrained it on the spot. Brother Pengju said that you used to be the pearl of your parents' palms. You say, it didn't work anymore. He thinks it's because of him that he misunderstood what you meant. Besides, you asked him to talk less so that he would be less embarrassed and less embarrassed, but he felt hurt his self-esteem. This is a misalignment of understanding. They don't understand you as well as I do, and they talk about my drinking problem in front of leaders and outsiders, no matter what you say, I understand that it's for my own good, and I won't think about my own face. Zou Ji sarcastically admonished King Qi, doesn't it mean that his wife protects his shortcomings, you are seeking external forces to help you solve the problem of alcohol. At that time, I said to my eldest brother outside, your old sister always chatters about your family at home, thinks about your family, and often cries. When my eldest brother heard me say this, he also said it to me, and it didn't hurt my feelings. I said, you have to go back to the table, the third aunt is there. Then he replied, I have to go back.

Wu Wei further said that character determines fate, and your character is prone to conflict and hurt yourself.

Song Judo, look at how good your personality is, and get excited when you see wine.

Wu Wei said, I am not only excited to see wine, but also to read, write, work and interact with people. Happy business. Besides, drinking opens up the situation, and if you squint there every day and the scene is deserted, and you can't open the situation at work, that's the biggest embarrassment and shame.

Song Judo, then you hurt my feelings, you have made me angry for so many years. (To be continued......)