The topic shifted from brother to sister. Wu Weidao, that time when I was on a business trip, your sister cried and shouted and called me on her mobile phone and said, I have to tell you, ah, how can you talk to your brother and sister like this?

Wu Wei also understood that in a family, the small ones who are responsible for doing things and resist things, and the big ones who can't do things and don't do things and have self-esteem, are prone to problems. You did it, what can you do with that little face? Besides, they are like that to their parents and to you, what else is there that they can't understand?

Song Judo, when you say that, I'm really smooth, and I don't care about it in the future.

Wu Wei said that this is not complete, and it is necessary to resolve and transform.

Song Rou said, I don't have such a high realm, like you, hum, others can ride their necks and. What I can't think of is that you're talking about this at this juncture.

Wu Wei said, I always think, you have to pass this hurdle. Although you chatted with Da Jing and felt smooth, you still pressed this matter in your heart, and kept muttering about these things. I'm just going to have to nag. Whether you really have something wrong or do you really have it in your heart, you can see it at a glance, just like you know how to pull a few shit eggs when you see me pouting my ass.

Song Judo, you, there is still this leisure at this time, this time, everyone knows what is going on with you, and it's not like everyone thinks, what didn't you say, saying that our house is not good, it also came out, it hurts too much.

Wu Wei secretly thought: I always think that within the family, whoever can do what can do it, and it is also appropriate to do more. In fact, otherwise, the family has also been professionalized, and even the inferior roots in the workplace have been transplanted and transformed from the family, but the cohesion in the family has been lost and abandoned. The bad stuff is magnified. In fact, the survival and development of the workplace is the promotion and abandonment of the family, and the family should learn from the high-quality elements of the workplace. Family and the workplace should learn from each other. It turned out that Song Rou had violated a taboo in the workplace. Family is like the workplace, and there is a gap between ages and generations. Song Rou herself often said that she should take more money and work more to keep her mouth shut. The offside of the officer will hurt people, and you work to talk about the scenery. The officer does not hurt people, first, the officer does not offside, although you should not do it, you must also discuss with him to show respect to face; the second is not to compete for profit and not to grab merit; The third is to do what you shouldn't do. Good things should be done by those who should do them. It's not a good thing to blindly want to be responsible and want to be fulfilled. It's all up to you. Where to put people's face, they are often dissatisfied if they don't do a good job, and even attack them in groups and fall into isolation. The most desirable is of course justifiable. in his position. The terrible misalignment effect in the workplace. Song Rou almost fell victim. There is nothing that needs to be done in the future. The boss always has a sense of being in charge.

Wu Wei joked to Song Rou's brothers and sisters. If she had voted at home, she would have had more votes than hers, which was a joke. used the vote to say that the workplace was introduced into the family, but it inadvertently hurt Song Rou. Song Judo, I recommended you in the past, but you belittled me in front of my family, I will do what I should do in the future, and I don't think about saving you any face.

Wu Wei secretly thought that he was not authentic, and outsiders were still at the bottom, but he wanted to vote for fame and fortune. Only by simply doing not fighting or grabbing, it should be shared, or it is to repay the kindness that has been helped in the past, and it is appropriate to do as much as you want. It's easier to make people picky and irresponsible about how to do more. Simplicity in the handling of family relationships is a good way to purify and improve.

The two of them have taken on a lot of responsibilities in their respective families, and because they blindly take on the responsibilities, they feel the most strongly and prominently about the effect of family workplaceization. I thought that I would invest more in family construction in the future, but I didn't know how to avoid risks appropriately. Don't hurt people, but also avoid people, know to avoid danger, and protect yourself. In the past, I didn't know how to protect myself. Therefore, people nowadays highly recognize and favor the horizontal commercial reciprocal behavior based on self-reliance and self-reliance, and adopt an attitude of avoiding alienation from the deterioration of family workplace. This kind of pluralism of ethics and morality is easy to cause personality deterioration, and the confrontation and conflict of personality is the root cause of the general disputes within the family in today's society, and the family should not invest too much, and the stronger the expectation, the easier it is to cause disappointment and dissatisfaction. It is necessary to realize the consciousness of moral rationality, seek simplification, and develop business ethics on the basis of self-reliance and self-reliance.

The transformation of the vertical traditional morality and ethics of combining family self-sacrifice and assistance to the moral and ethical transformation of horizontal business dealings of reciprocity and reciprocity is to overcome and abandon the deterioration of the family workplace, and the workplace is originally the transcendence and abandonment of the family, and this transcendence and abandonment is accompanied by the alienation of family affection and even turning against each other, which is bound to be painful.

Wu Wei thought of this and said to Song Rou, the family is the same as the workplace, the family is also professional, the boss is the number one, the eldest sister is the third-in-command, you are the youngest, no matter how much you do, you don't have that title. Therefore, strict zhòng means that those who have a reputation can't work without work, and those who have no reputation take on work. You want to fight, but you don't have a place. You yourself say, one is to get more money, the second is to work more, and the third is to keep your mouth shut. Me too, you can do it, even do it all, don't say it, just say it, it's over, if there is one thing that has not been done or not done well, let everyone see through. Everything else has been done very well and in place, just one thing, if you don't do it, you still can't do it.

Song Judo, what did you do earlier?

Wu Wei said frankly, he didn't realize it, and he didn't clearly realize it yesterday. Da Jing said that the old people can't always come to us for things, and we don't listen to what we say. Wu Wei said to Da Jing that society, workplace, and family are all the same, they are all made up of people, and the big ones must save face if they don't do it, and they must be fair if they do it. If such a dislocation is going to be a big problem, it will definitely encounter a big setback. Just like a unit, if the top leader doesn't work, he can't do it, he does it from below, and if he doesn't do it, he is still there to put up music, who can buy it and respect it. Da Jing said, I also want to go back and say, how can I say it better? Wu Weidao, to tell the truth, there is no malice between your father and your aunt and their brother and sister, when she is a sister, she is afraid that her brother will make a fool of herself, and her brother's statement will not hurt her feelings. This is the basis for returning to goodness. The problem occurred in a misunderstanding, Brother Peng Ju said that there is something that has always been sorry for the eldest brother, that is when he was in elementary school, he went to the eldest brother's house and took away a stamp collector of the eldest brother, put it in the schoolbag and was still taken away, the matter has been decades ago, and I always feel sorry for the eldest brother. Then he said to your aunt that your aunt and uncle regard her as a pearl in their palms. Your aunt said that it wasn't later, and those in the know know that it was because of the strong opposition of her parents that her sister's treatment of the object still insisted on hurting her feelings with her parents, but when my brother's misunderstanding is that my brother didn't take care of my sister. Mainly when the elder brother misunderstands the meaning of the younger sister, the elder brother thinks that the younger sister does not give face everywhere and does not respect dà. In fact, the old sister is most worried about the eldest brother's family, and she often cries. I didn't understand it, and I lost my temper in public, like an enemy. We need to do the work of transformation and dissolution, so as to avoid the consequences that some families do. I have a friend. He said that his father did not have a house to live in. It's because he didn't cultivate that virtue himself, why didn't he go to live in Zhongnanhai. Family is different from unit and society, it is family affection. Da Jing said that my father always thought that his brother-in-law was good. I also said. Auntie. Sure enough, as Song Rou judged. Step by step, wrong step. However, my sister's kind words are not divided into time, place, and occasions, and it is easy to hurt people's face. Speak artistically. You see, seeing the eldest brother telling the stories of the hour there, the second brother was annoyed when everyone listened to it. The second brother also muttered quietly, just talking about his own things. How do I say it? Big brother, don't always look back on the past, but also look forward to the future. He said, what future do I have. At that time, Xiaohong, who was my sister, took over the topic and talked about it. My sister didn't say anything, the first time I said it, and when others finished speaking, my brother didn't look good at that time, and muttered, leave me alone. The second time, I said that I was going to sing for my aunt's 80th birthday, and I said that I wanted to sing a little, and my sister stopped me and said, don't sing in this place, so I dropped the chopsticks, stood up and scolded, and drank the wine in the stomach and drank the dog's belly. Fortunately, my sister didn't squeak, and several people also said that there was nothing wrong with being a sister, and they didn't say anything. There was a conflict between the sisters that time, the sister was so angry that she was admitted to the hospital, and the brother went to see her. He affirmed that she did the same to me and was disrespectful to the big ones. Otherwise, how could a sister say to her brother-in-law, how could anyone be a sister like this, talk like this to her brother and sister. You see, this is not a united front. It is necessary to start with good intentions to make peace, and not to add fuel to the fire, then you will be angry when you hear it. To be honest, find the point of resonance, there is nothing wrong.

Wu Wei said to his eldest niece, Dajing, it is not easy for a family like you to grow up with a child like you who is sound and mature in the emotional world and willing to take on the responsibility of the family. When the two of us came back from Nandu, we opened the door and saw a bag of rice at the door. This kid has such a hard time at home, and he buys us things.

Speaking of which, Song Rou said, she still hasn't passed, and her heart is like a stone, and she can't breathe. Outsiders can get by, but families can't do it at all.

Wu Weidao, I'm also thinking, I didn't think about it like this in the past, you did this, why did they do this to you? Now there are few people like you who do this big family with all your might. Nowadays, people don't do it at home. The moral system has been transformed, and people believe in business equivalence exchanges, you give me a little benefit, I will give you a little more, mutual benefit, as for how much you gave me in the past, even including my parents, now I can't do anything for myself, but I need to pay for it myself, and I will go away.

Song Judo, don't think about those useless things, you can't manage so much, you can manage your own affairs well. Wu Weidao, what do you say they are doing to you? People have to be self-respecting, they can't do anything,

If you do a little bit, you feel that it is reasonable, you are satisfied, and you maintain a reasonable and even beautiful appearance, but you expose it like piercing a diorama, people feel that their self-esteem is hurt, can they not be annoyed and ashamed? You know how many you can pull with a pinch of your tail on me, and you can't let them be contained, and it won't work if you use them to contain them.

Song Judo, boss, let's go to the uncle's funeral together, a room full of people there to talk about the future, the boss is good, and said, it's okay to play mahjong. The old pimple said, what to fight. I don't have a place to put my face.

Wu Weidao, benevolence, righteousness, etiquette, wisdom and faith, during the mourning period, relatives are not allowed to engage in entertainment activities, so I don't understand such rules. You said that I gave him money, all these years are counted, how much can I have, he himself said that I respect him, take him as a big brother, I don't think the matter of money has a decisive role, no matter what others do, it can't be compared with what their parents do, parents have no weight in their hearts, no matter how much others do, it will be easy to disappear.

Song Judo, he just values money, no matter how bad you are to him, as long as you give him 200, he will say hello.

Wu Weidao, I don't just give some money. On the first night of the incident, people said to come to see him, and before he came, he was going to play mahjong, so you stopped him, saying that he would play after they came. Thinking about the past, there is a primer. The next day, it was intercepted again, and he got angry, don't stop me from talking and doing things. You see his self-esteem, the more he has not seen each other for many years, the stronger he is in front of his relatives and children, the first night he went, as soon as the food came up, he didn't speak, and after eating, he asked the family to prepare a supper, and they prepared, and the next day breakfast said that he hadn't eaten so much for breakfast, and he was hungry the night before. It was to let the family treat him as the boss, and he didn't treat him properly. They said they were ready to eat. The boss asked, why didn't you say it? It was I who took it and said it was the middle of the night, don't eat it, the two brothers-in-law were still eating barbecue, and I stopped them. The next day, I said it first, and I had a strong desire to be the boss. He doesn't do that at home. (To be continued......)