Chapter 108 - Marriage
For a long time, since I met Zhang Xiaomei, especially gradually learned some things about her family, the break between her father and mother, and Yang Jinghui deliberately avoided it when she was alone with Zhang Xiaomei, not talking about her mother. And now that the wedding date is approaching, Yang Jinghui feels that it is necessary to communicate with Zhang Xiaomei, and he doesn't want Zhang Xiaomei to make a wrong decision because of a momentary knot. After waking up on New Year's Eve, I was still extremely bored with Su Yingrong at that time, and as time passed, I couldn't even raise a trace of resentment when I saw her again. He thought that Zhang Xiaomei was the same, when he was young, he couldn't accept his mother's desperate parting in pursuit of love, and as he got older, Yang Jinghui believed that Zhang Xiaomei would definitely change. So when the two were together, Yang Jinghui intentionally or unintentionally mentioned Zhang Xiaomei's mother.
Zhang Xiaomei knew that this was the level that she couldn't cross, so she simply dragged Yang Jinghui and Pan out and talked about the past that made her still sad.
It turned out that mom and dad were educated youth, and my mother didn't have a good impression of my dad back then, but my dad has been silently in love with my mom, and I have a unique feeling, at that time my mother and a man named Hu Liren were better and had a good impression of each other, and everyone knew it in the educated youth of that year, and later because Hu Liren wanted to return to the city, he terminated his relationship with his mother, and his father's comfort and sincere care touched his mother, and the two formed a family after the most luan, and they lived a very happy life, with children and daughters, and their mothers taught their husbands and children, and their fathers had a successful career. But I never thought that Hu Liren's sudden appearance would disturb the injustice of the family, my mother said that my father had deceived me despicably, my father was silent, and my mother resolutely abandoned everything and left with Hu Liren. She asked her father afterwards, and her father just sighed, saying that he was sorry for her mother, and told her not to hold a grudge against her mother, who had just left that time. How many times did she wake up crying from her dreams, every now and then her father was by her side, and she saw that her father was busy with work and tried his best to take care of herself and her younger brother, these roles should have been played and played by her mother, but now she is taken on by her father alone, which makes her resentful mother even more in her heart. Adolescent daughters want to talk to their mothers, and they want to ask some mothers how she came here at this time, but only her father, how can she tell her father some things. So she became untalkative, closed herself off, and refused all boys' overtures. She just can't understand that no matter how unforgivable her father's mistake was, it's not wrong that her father loves her mother. Even if my mother and that person loved that person again, they were so affectionate and affectionate. It's been so long. has become a family and has children, and she is so ruthless, until now she still can't let go of her heart.
"I still can't get over that hurdle, I know your heart, no matter what, I decided to make this choice. I won't regret or regret not inviting her to the wedding. Zhang Xiaomei said decisively, Yang Jinghui sighed and hugged Zhang Xiaomei tightly. Zhang Xiaomei swiped one hand on Yang Jinghui's chest. raised his face and said solemnly to Yang Jinghui, "But although I don't invite her to come, I find that I am still more and more like her, for love, I also do not allow deception, whether you have before, or now or in the future, you are not allowed to lie to me, there are some things if you tell me honestly, I will make a judgment and persuade myself to make a rational choice." If you don't tell me and deceive me, one day in the future, I can't be sure that I will really leave as ruthlessly as she did, so that you can't find me. "You love me, you won't lie to me, will you? You'll never lie to me, will you? …… Zhang Xiaomei muttered, relaxed her body in Yang Jinghui's arms, and slowly fell asleep, thinking of Zhang Xiaomei's words just now, Yang Jinghui felt extremely guilty, but he still couldn't really be at ease with Zhang Xiaomei, thinking that Zhang Xiaomei was affected by the family's heart knot, thinking about how many peers could not experience the pain when she was as young as her, Yang Jinghui felt that Zhang Xiaomei was extremely vulnerable, and secretly vowed to be good to Zhang Xiaomei for the rest of his life, although he couldn't be honest with her, but he made sure that he would be calm with her from now until in the future.
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The wedding date is getting closer and closer, and there are more and more things to prepare, Yang Jinghui and Zhang Xiaomei have so far prepared for the wedding according to their own ideas, this day the two of them invariably thought of a problem, because they are too independent, and ignore the most important problem, the relatives of both sides have not met until now, so after the discussion, Zhang Xiaomei said that it is convenient for my father to go to your house, he has a car, and he is the only one, if your parents go to Jiangchuan to alarm the two of them, there is only one, Don't let your mom and dad be so honest and too expensive, you know my dad, he doesn't care about these things the most. After reaching an agreement, Zhang's father drove Zhang Xiaomei to Yang Jinghui's house, the simple Yang father Yang mother heard Yang Jinghui's relay, but she couldn't figure out how to treat Zhang's father, the last two decided to make home-cooked food, they still remember what dishes Zhang Xiaomei liked to eat when she came home, even if Zhang Xiaomei loved to eat, Zhang's father must not be too far away, so he prepared some farm dishes, did not make rice, but according to Yang Jinghui's preferences branded a large stack of spring cakes, After stacking, cover it with a soft cloth for fear of running away from the steam, and the cake will become air-drying.
During the banquet, he opened the wine brought by Zhang's father, Yang's father has been a teacher for a lifetime, and he was a little cramped and uneasy, but Zhang's father enlightened him, "Brother Yang, we are sitting at the same table today as our in-laws, there is no difference between who is high and who is low, you are my brother, I am your brother, the children are older, let them go, according to our local customs, what procedures should be taken when getting married, do you think it will be done without losing face, I have nothing to say, I am very grateful to you and sister-in-law, for cultivating such a good young man as Jinghui, I will have one more son in the near future......", Yang's father even claimed, "What my brother said is, then you don't have anything to say, we can't set a financial gift according to the rules?" ”。 Father Zhang said, "Brother Yang, it's not my brother who criticizes you, it's really in vain that you have taught a lifetime of books, when did those rules come down, the children are all starting, and it is not easy for you two to be old, what do I want to do with that financial gift?" Can I feel at ease if I ask for that? How can there be a feeling of selling a woman to get married? We didn't say anything, just listen to the two children, they are the real protagonists on the day of the wedding, we are all supporting roles, let us play what we want, let us play what we want, let us play hard, we will play well......".
After some exchanges, Dad Yang gradually let go, and introduced the dishes on this table to Dad Zhang, how the dried cucumbers were dehydrated, and when were the mushrooms picked...... The two families are about to come together, and they have gathered a table full of family affection. (To be continued......)