There is a saying that says, "Look at Lao Tzu thirty years ago, look at the son after thirty years", the first thirty years in this sentence are about people living for a lifetime, for a family, what are the big and small things in the family, and the etiquette between people, etc., it depends on the status and strength of the father who is in charge of the house, and what can the child do? can only be a spectator; Looking at the son after 30 years means that once the son grows up in this family, the father gradually enters the last years, and the family encounters major events, what is tested and measured is the son's status in today's society.

Yang Jinghui's new house is settled in Haicheng, although his parents have lived in Guoma Township all their lives, and most of the villagers are there, but Yang Jinghui is different from the past, and has developed into the youngest and promising director of the Investment Promotion Bureau in Haicheng County, and has a more recognized network in Haicheng County, so after discussing with his family, he decided to divide the wedding banquet into two places to be held, the main banquet on the wedding day was held in Haicheng County, and the second one was held in Guoma Township the day after the wedding. In order to be busy with the wedding banquet and welcoming relatives, the family gathered in Haicheng early. The day before the wedding, my sister asked Dongdong to sleep on Yang Jinghui's marriage bed for a night, saying that she wanted the boy to press the bed, so as to pray for Yang Jinghui that they could get a man in one fell swoop.

Early the next morning, the arranged pick-up team lined up and waited downstairs, because it was far away from Jiangchuan, so only 6 greeting vehicles were arranged under the consultation with Zhang Xiaomei, He Jiquan really wanted to play a role in Yang Jinghui's wedding, it must be heavier, as if only then, he could be regarded as participating in Yang Jinghui's life process, he really wanted to be a witness in his heart, but his identity was too special, and he had not heard of the county party secretary to be a witness in history. Later, I had to do it. Lu Dongsheng also greeted Yang Jinghui early and told Yang Jinghui that the couple were willing to play any role, and Yang Jinghui also unceremoniously "arranged" the role for him, witnessing the marriage, and at the same time bringing his wife to help welcome the relatives, and as matchmakers, Li Qiang and his wife are indispensable, plus his sister's family, male and female guests. The group got up early and rushed to Jiangchuan to marry Zhang Xiaomei.

On Zhang's side, the manhole covers in the community are covered with red paper, and the makeup artist is putting on bridal makeup for Zhang Xiaomei, and every once in a while Zhang Xiaomei asks Zhang Ke to ask Yang Jinghui where his car is. provoked Zhang Ke to make fun of his sister who was in a hurry to marry out of Lu, and she didn't even want to stay for a minute, Zhang Xiaomei reprimanded him, "Haicheng is so far away from Jiangchuan, you don't ask clearly." Can you not worry about it? It's you, after I got married. The house is empty. When will you marry one? Zhang Ke hurriedly ran away, responding to her and saying, "I'll go see where my brother-in-law is", and after a while, the welcoming convoy arrived in the community, and a child among the relatives of the Zhang family lit firecrackers, and Zhang Ke had to guard the door of the building. The cameraman ran into the building first, leaning backwards to record Yang Jinghui's greeting. After turning a few floors, Yang Jinghui came to the door of Zhang Xiaomei's house, and Yang Jinghui knocked on the door. That Zhang Ke deliberately pretended not to listen to it, according to the meaning of the older Aunt Huang in the woman's kiss-off team, this move was to sharpen the patience of the new aunt, kill his prestige, and make him treat the girl better in the future. Yang Jinghui knew that the procedure at the wedding was a good thing and a lot of grinding, and what he wanted was a lively, so he tried his best to cooperate with Zhang Ke, Zhang Ke agreed to any conditions, Zhang Ke made it difficult for a few questions, and even had to open a poem, Zhang Xiaomei was unhappy inside, "You let him in quickly, this back and forth is very time-consuming", Zhang Ke shrugged impatiently and performed the scene he wanted to play the most, this mountain is opened by me, this tree is planted by me, if you want to live from now on, leave the money for marrying your daughter-in-law, not much, Just give me a few more red envelopes, Yang Jinghui handed in six red envelopes from the crack in the door, and when Zhang Ke took the red envelopes and hesitated, Yang Jinghui had already broken in. After coming in, he smiled at Zhang Ke with a wicked smile, but you can really act, don't you want to think about when you marry in the future? Zhang Kedao, I have long known that I am playing a villain, and it is not right.

There was also a master of ceremonies who went to greet the relatives, under the auspices of the master of ceremonies, all the procedures were in order, and he commanded the mother-in-law to spread a new quilt on the bed, and put a "Fu" word under the quilt, so that Yang Jinghui and Zhang Xiaomei sat on the bed together, saying that it was a blessing, and then lit two red candles, Zhang Xiaomei pretended to make up in the mirror, Zhang's father cooked two bowls of hot noodles, each covered with two poached eggs, and the cameraman asked them to pose a variety of poses and capture them in a timely manner. Then Yang Jinghui changed his name to Zhang's father, and Zhang's father immediately rewarded Yang Jinghui with a red envelope, and the most beautiful family photo was taken, and the guests and newcomers took a group photo, Zhang's father originally stayed at home and did not say goodbye to Zhang Xiaomei, but when parting, Zhang Xiaomei just said "Dad, I'm leaving," the tears couldn't stop, this crying made Zhang's father feel very uncomfortable, the current home is incomplete, so can they not worry about each other? Later, Zhang's father changed his mind and told his daughter not to cry, Dad will press for you and personally send you to get married.

Yang Jinghui hugged Zhang Xiaomei, hugged the wedding car all the way upstairs, and after the two sat down, Zhang Xiaomei calmed down and began to touch up her makeup again. Along the way, I kept in touch with my family and reported the itinerary to them. When the car drove into the new building, the same procedure was repeated again, but there was no need to hold Zhang Xiaomei when going upstairs, because when she got married, she said that she couldn't let the bride get touched by her mother's soil. And this time upstairs there is more "blessing" for the newlyweds, everyone with mixed colored paper grains to the newlyweds, there is already the mother-in-law escorted the bride upstairs in advance, leaving Yang Jinghui to check, everyone looked at the thin Yang Jinghui, the temporary new suit, no one could bear the pain of the killer, gently completed the procedure, entered the building and then staged. When it was Zhang Xiaomei's turn to change her words to Yang's father and Yang's mother, Yang's mother cried excitedly, and some unforgettable moments and moments of Yang Jinghui from birth to school to marriage came to her mind, and she was full of emotion. The master of ceremonies asked Zhang Xiaomei to bring flowers to her mother-in-law, Zhang Xiaomei casually inserted her hand on the left sideburns, and the master of ceremonies said, the male left and the female right, the bride wants to add a grandson to her mother-in-law! Everyone laughed.

When they arrived at the wedding banquet, the guests were full early, including Yang Jinghui's colleagues in Xing'an, colleagues in the village school, colleagues in the county party committee office, colleagues in the China Merchants Bureau, and friends who met through work and other ways in Haicheng County.

At the wedding ceremony, because of the attendance of Zhang's father, some of the order was adjusted, and the original design of the newlyweds took the stage at the same time, which was changed to Zhang's father supporting Zhang Xiaomei, Yang Jinghui walked from the stage to the stage, Zhang's father handed Zhang Xiaomei's hand to Yang Jinghui in front of everyone, just like a promise between two men, like the transfer of sovereignty, although Zhang's father did not speak, but the meaning of it everyone can feel the great dedication of being a father, as a father who protects his daughter's growth, and shelters her from the wind and rain.

Lu Dongsheng read out the marriage registration certificate as a witness, and then the master of ceremonies asked the two to exchange wedding rings, and Yang Jinghui said to Zhang Xiaomei when he put on the wedding ring, from now on you are my person, and you can no longer escape.

In the crowd, Yang Jinghui saw He Jiquan, who came quietly by himself, and sat there smiling at himself. (To be continued......)