Wu Wei and his relatives waited beside his critically ill mother-in-law, Wu Wei noticed that his mother-in-law's forehead was tattooed, the heavens were getting whiter and whiter, her eyes were straight, her pupils were dilated, and her breathing stopped and gasped regularly. This state lasted for two days, the number of breaths was not exhausted, the breath was unbearable, and the dying moment of Zhilu Dao was approaching, and several relatives were guarding him day and night.

Song Rou's sister Song Xia often sits beside her mother and constantly caresses her hands. Wu Wei made a forbidden gesture, and Song Xia showed a puzzled look. Wu Wei said, I have seen some books that say, I also feel that people at this moment, do not interfere, to maintain absolute silence and quiet is the best hospice care, the soul of the old man is seeking a home, towards that direction is getting deeper and deeper, than sinking into a dream is like a hundred times a thousand times a thousand times, is more and more comfortable process, we look at the pain, for the elderly is more and more comfortable process.

Speaking of this, Wu Wei's side gradually gathered a few people to listen attentively.

Song Rou's second sister-in-law said that the story was good and too logical.

Wu Wei asked the nurse Xiaozi, am I right?

Xiaozi said, that's right, I'm looking at your face.

Wu Weixiao asked, is it to see if I am telling the truth or a lie?

Xiaozi said, "Look where you have gone, where can you hear such words?"

Song Xia asked puzzledly, why didn't you tell me these things in the past, otherwise I wouldn't have this kind of mental problem.

Wu Wei said that it is time to catch up with this kind of thing. It's better to talk about it on the spot.

Wu Wei thought about it and said, I said to some people in the unit, you are angry and angry even if you come at me. When you come to me, it will go by, and those things will disappear to me, and others say, why can't we get by? I said, when you get angry and angry at others, you can't hurt anyone, you hurt yourself. Hear here. I saw Song Xia's tears welling up, and she turned around and walked out.

After a while, Song Rou asked. Where did she go?

The second sister-in-law said that she found a place to cry.

Song Rou scolded Wu Weidao, what did you say?

Wu Wei said with a smile and said that it was in her heart.

Wu Wei said to Song Rou's nephew Dawei again. You're guarding your grandmother's side at this time. Seeing this process will be very good for you in the future. I told them that when the old man reaches this dying state, don't interfere with her, let her complete the process by herself, don't be like a hospital, you can't save people's lives, but toss people enough, and they will toss again when they die. In fact. At this moment, she was like sleeping, gradually falling asleep. Suddenly awakened by the sound around her, and she has to fall asleep repeatedly, and the same is true for people from dying to death, so let her complete the process by herself and don't interrupt it.

Dawei was surprised to hear Wu Wei say this, ah, it turns out that there is such a thing.

Wu Wei reminded again, you have to pay attention to the whole process of this matter, it is very beneficial to you, because you are the third generation of the head, you must consciously make preparations in this regard, and you will often encounter such things in the future, you will know what to do.

Dawei was also quite humorous, nodded and said, it is the third generation of leaders.

At this time, Song Xia had returned to the old man.

Wu Wei said to Song Xia, we can still talk about these things in such a state of mind at this moment, it is a blessing given to us by the old man, do you think, if the old people in other people's families are in this state, can we talk about these topics around the old man.

Song Xia said, we can think like this, first, the elderly have no treatment value; The second is that we have done everything we can as children, with a clear conscience.

Song Rou's sister-in-law and eldest niece Da Jing came in, found an empty bed to sit down, Song Rou went over and asked her sister-in-law, what is the method of not participating in the funeral?

The sister-in-law said that she didn't participate in anything, and asked the Lord, she could go but couldn't participate.

Song Rou thought dissatisfiedly, but realized that the meaning of thinking couldn't be said, no matter how much she believed in this and that, she also wanted to have human relations with fireworks, if she met her own mother who was going to die, she wouldn't participate?

I saw that my sister-in-law's face was ugly and she didn't say a word.

Song Rou called her eldest brother Song Xueren out of Lu and said to him, you should be the biggest, when your mother passes, there will always be a place to concentrate, and there are many things, how can you go to a family like my sister-in-law?

The eldest brother said that she was like this, and she didn't know where to invite the original Buddha, and now she believes in this, and I can't help it.

Wu Wei walked over and said that no matter what she believes, she must be respected, even the national leaders must respect the choice of the sister-in-law here. Besides, you see that their home is like falling into the mud, always encountering such and such unpleasant things, there is no seam in their hearts, no one can help, and they have to allow others to find a sustenance and comfort.

The eldest brother said that you can respect and understand, but they can't.

Wu Wei said, but, I also have to say it back, no matter what my sister-in-law believes, I still feel that I still don't understand deeply, if I understand deeply, it won't be like this, she will be enthusiastic about the old man's affairs, this teaching and that teaching, are all to guide and persuade people to do good and be a good person, believe that people should be helpful to solve difficulties, other people's families have the death of the elderly and can help them, not to mention that their own family is going to have such a big thing.

Song Rou said, I don't want to talk about that, who doesn't die, her parents died, if her mother dies now, because she believes in this religion, won't she participate?

At this time, the inside shouted, come here! Several people hurriedly ran over, only to see the old man's rapid breathing suddenly weaken, and then coughing up phlegm and foaming at the mouth. Everyone was busy for a while. Sit down and arrange the following things, when it comes to wreaths, naturally the eldest son is the first, and the eldest daughter-in-law writes or not. said that he would not participate, and he would not participate in this, and he would naturally not go to say goodbye to his deathbed. If you don't participate, don't participate.

That night, at Song Rou's home, another kind of dispute arose.

Song Rou said that I did it when I encountered such a big thing at home, and I did it, but I couldn't even hear a word of justice. What am I doing here? Can I not do it?

Her brother-in-law Liu Yi said, you are reasonable, others are reasonable, you feel wronged, others may feel more wronged than you.

Song Rou's face turned pale when she heard this, tears flowed down, and the words followed, this family has been in this family for so many years, who thinks about big and small things, and I don't know what's going on in my heart? I can't even hear a word of justice.

Song Xia hurriedly said that it was all for her parents. Then he said to Liu Yi that their family, those who can contribute money, and those who can't contribute money. He also explained that he did not do anything that contributed to their family, and he asked him for the money.

Song Rou said, other people's families are like that, but I have to pay and work hard to do it, and I have become a big bag. I'm not talking about you, that time in the hospital, there was a pharmacy downstairs without cotton balls that could buy a lot for a few dollars, and you also called me, I told others that people still laughed, and I was looking for you for this matter. That's fine, not even a helper to replace. For parents, there should be a size. When something happens, most of them shrink back and hide, and I put this matter down to see who can continue to do it.

Liu Yi said with a sad face when he heard it, after so many years, seeing that you encounter things, you are very easy to get angry and angry, you are sick.

Song Rou said, I'm still sick, I don't believe that these things are put on my sister, she has me better than me.

Wu Wei was very distressed to see Song Rou angry like that, and it was inconvenient for her sisters to say anything when they were arguing with each other, but when she thought about it, even if her sister and brother-in-law were the youngest in the family, she didn't mean to say so much affirmative words to Song Rou, who everyone contributed the most, and I really couldn't stop opening my mouth and said, I said, this family is not good, from old to young, always muttering, noisy, and always quarreling when something happens. When the old ones are talking about the old, the old ones are gone, and they talk about right and wrong with each other, and then pull the little ones out to argue and talk about it. Things didn't do that, and they all love face, and if they can't get face, they rely on arguing to make a reason to make a face for themselves, so that they can step down and feel at ease.

Song Rou said, you also have a temper?

Wu Wei said, there is no temper and it is still a person!

Wu Wei said this, which made Song Xia feel too surprised, her brother-in-law has always given everyone the impression that he is a very well-cultivated person, how could he say such a thing.

After everyone lay down to rest, Wu Wei wanted to carefully sort out the things to be done at the funeral tomorrow, because his tired thoughts were very chaotic for a while, and his sleepiness became thicker, so he gradually fell asleep. I have something in my heart, so I wake up at two o'clock in the middle of the night and reorganize what I want to do carefully, for fear that something will go wrong. At dinner in the morning, Song Rou said that I did my father's things myself last time and did it myself, and I didn't feel like this time.

Wu Wei said with a smile, you don't use the right words, do it yourself and do it yourself, you can only say this at or above the provincial and ministerial level.

Song Rou's anger is here again, I don't need you to squeeze me, to anger me.

Wu Wei said, I'm not joking.

Song Rou said that when was it still joking. (To be continued......)