Chapter 122: Facing My Mother with Devotion for the Life (Part II)
Wu Wei's letter to Wu Song.
Child:
I just finished reading "The Brothers Karamazov", more than 800 pages, I feel better than "Crime and Punishment", it is worth reading, it integrates the ideas of law, psychology, ethics, logic, sociology, especially religion, especially for my way of thinking, in the future, children must read carefully, especially do not let go of those details, and finally read the climax to be interesting, forming a particularly clear concept and a clear understanding and grasp from the whole. It's just that I am deeply saddened by the misfortunes of To's family and personal fate, but perhaps it is because of these misfortunes that such a great work has been created. I have seen many writers in the past find it strange that their personal fate is unfortunate, and it does not delay them from being able to write such works. This is also an unsolved mystery. Great responsibilities descended from heaven, great joys, great sorrows, great sufferings and great joys gave birth to great works, and there are wonderful expositions of sages and sages working hard in the historical records. You ask how many words are written in the novel, the boundless paradise has not yet reached the induction stage, it is in the sub-thematic stage, the capacity will be very large, and now the number of words is already a lot, but the statistics are meaningful when they are basically formed, and the conception and writing also need new thinking and refinement, and more importantly, writing a novel itself is life, and it is a life of creation.
Child:
You may not encounter this kind of problem now, but you may encounter it in the future, so be wary of black-box operations or shady scenes. In 01, Daxia and I went to the Nenshui Group to investigate, and their secretary said that the process of doing the listing was very scared, so I did it once, and I didn't dare to do it in the future, and sure enough, the group stopped production in less than two years and soon went bankrupt, and thousands of workers lost their jobs and made trouble. Perhaps lawyers should be more risk-aware.
Child:
The positive and negative characters in the novel have become much clearer, and the contradictions between the characters are very interesting. When I wrote like this, I had always felt very vague about many things that I had personally experienced, but now it seems very clear when I write like this. At the two sessions, the Chongqing deputies said that the key to China's extrication from its predicament is to go out, saying that Chongqing has invested several billion dollars overseas, bought land cheaper than at home, invested more overseas, and deepened its interests overseas. Following the political zhì, the military should also expand overseas. The reason is very simple, to protect interests, why did the original imperialism carry out armed aggression? Profit-driven.
Child:
Dad's personal experience can provide a lot of material, but the main problem is how to live. Write around multiple characters. Student. Peasants, workers, teachers. The director, the principal, the scholar, the expert, the CPPCC member, and then the president is designed in, because the affairs of the bank are still very familiar, and they often contact the president, the child feels that it is very lively, complicated and fun.
Child:
Does the character feel that something is missing? Forget, there are also parents, siblings, colleagues, leaders, friends, especially wives and sons. Ha
Dawei said that under the influence of the sixth uncle, he has to ensure that he is happy. If you are not happy, you can't be happy in a circle, daughters-in-law, children, parents, other parents, take care of yourself and be tolerant, and everything will pass.
Dad:
Now this project will be declared next Monday, and the case that may be used as a lawsuit after the declaration is completed. You have to keep a normal mind at work, you may be a little impatient before, and there are many things to learn. Five years ago today, when I learned the results of the postgraduate entrance examination, I thought about the past five years, I have experienced a lot, the fluctuations of life have changed a lot, Bai Xue did not take the exam, and when I accompanied her to the second postgraduate examination, my state was very poor, I failed the first time I took the exam, and I only took the exam in the second year, and I lost a lot of opportunities, mainly because I lost the opportunity to go to Huangcheng for development.
When I came to Nandu, which was very unfamiliar, I felt the freshness, but also the loneliness of having no friends. Bai Xue came to work in Nandu quite smoothly, maybe this is fate.
Mom and Dad are retired, after a lifetime of hard work, I should also consider filial piety, my idea is very simple, in fact, I don't have too much desire and enthusiasm for the career, life and family is the first, try to take care of your parents, wife and children.
Now the leaders and colleagues of the unit are very good to me, the master's seat has been changed to the position of the partner, and the partner has changed me to the position of the master, maybe they have expectations for me in their hearts, hoping that I will be like the master.
The platform of the securities market is very good, and my career should be in this circle in the future.
Wu Wei was excited to write novels for several months, often writing until the second half of the night, and before the novel was finished, he wrote blood sugar first, and Song Rou led him to check blood sugar after a meal, and he was already 18 after a meal, and he was immediately forced to be hospitalized. Song Rou said very strangely, the night you were hospitalized, the child called and suddenly asked, is there anything wrong with my dad? How can this kid have senses?
Child:
Think about it, how would Dad deal with these problems? I told your mother that it is the disease that you can control and grasp, that is, cancer can also be controlled by people, and the key is that the patient's attitude towards the disease will affect and change the outcome. That's self-confidence and optimism. Children, life is full of the theme of "double for", and the question of how people should express and how to act.
Dad:
Yes, mindset is important. You are the spiritual pillar of the family, and your good attitude also affects me and my mother, which is the foundation of our family's harmony and harmony.
Child:
Zhang Luo's children's marriage is the most hopeful, happiest, happier and joyful thing for the whole family, we have to happily make all the preparations, your mother and I are ready to come up with a plan, first determine the time and then roughly outline the process, and then see if there is a suitable house during this period. Writing a novel, I feel that I can't find a suitable way to deal with a lot of ideological things, that is, I feel that I can't fit in, and today I feel that I can learn from the Christian way of preaching, basically according to the music education courseware I made, and refine and improve it on this basis, which is more appropriate.
Dad:
The CBA Finals on March 30 is destined to be remembered by history, and it goes without saying more about its excitement and intensity. The Huangcheng team defeated the seven-time champion Nandu team on this day to become the fourth championship in CBA history. Before such a heavyweight match, the media will habitually hype up the contest between regions, and judging from the results, Huang Cheng won happily. Nandu is embarrassed to lose, and the fans of Huangcheng can raise their eyebrows. Xu Ji, as a fan of the Huangcheng team, was also very excited, and he was in tears at the moment of the end of the game, but he was also a commentator who broadcast the game live. After his excitement, he made his interpretation of this evenly matched and gunpowder-filled game in a very calm tone. He said: If there was no seven-time champion Nandu team, there would be no today's game, and the Huangcheng team would not have such joy, and the Huangcheng team should be more grateful to the Nandu team for having such an excellent opponent. to make you better.
It's a pity. The Huangcheng fans at the game did not hear Xu Ji's comment, and if they did, they might not have heard it after the host said "Let's thank our opponent Nandu team with warm applause and thank them for giving us a wonderful game". Boos erupted. The players won on the field. They won the game. The fans lost off the field, they lost the demeanor.
Of course, the game has to be won and lost, and there is nothing wrong with fans cheering for the home team. But the way to cheer for your team is not just to belittle and insult your opponents and cheer for good opponents, but also to reflect the value of victory.
There are opponents everywhere in life, and thanking them requires grace and courage, and they can win respect and applause. When our fans can applaud their opponents, our society is civilized.
Child:
You can look at such a problem in this way, it means that the child is mature, and the father is very happy, in fact, the European and American civilization is such a civilization, and the president who loses the election will immediately call the president-elect to congratulate him, which is a kind of demeanor and the embodiment of political civilization. Maradona's brilliant goal from the back of the 1986 World Cup in Mexico was silenced for a moment, and then thunderous applause and cheers erupted from all the fans on the field.
Child:
These days, your mother is anxious about my condition, and then she is busy planning the marriage of the child, coronary heart attack, chest tightness and shortness of breath, and I always feel that someone is chasing after me. Your mother does have problems in her mind and spirit, the influence of heredity and family atmosphere is too important, there are factors in terms of hot temper and personality, but she is a very spiritual and intelligent person, and she can listen to things and is also a person who understands the world, and only pretends to be the two of us, and there are indeed very strict problems with methods and ideological understanding, I am very worried about her, I said to her a few days ago, let her reflect on herself, why do many things happen to her? If you don't adjust, you will encounter many problems, of course, she is difficult to accept for a while, and soon she is adjusting and changing herself, now she treats her brothers and sisters like in the past, and some unpleasant things that happen naturally can't blame her, that family is counting on her for everything, she relies on her, the small does not do things, the big ones don't do things, they can't do things, they don't take care of things, and they want self-esteem, such a structural dislocation will inevitably breed contradictions, I also said to your sister and second uncle at that time, where to find people like your aunt and sister. They are easy to complain about her temper, but they are unwilling to admit and recognize her efforts and contributions in person, and your mother naturally feels aggrieved. Something like this shouldn't happen in a family like ours. Your mother is very easy to hurt people and offend people's temperament, she herself said that she is a knife bean to pay the heart, as long as it is a knife will hurt people, whether she is a word knife or a steel knife, there is a sentence in the funeral flower chant in "Dream of Red Mansions", the wind knife and frost are strictly forced against each other, the wind is the sword and frost, and people live in the jungle of words and deeds, and they will get benefits and benefits and are easy to get hurt. Your mother's temperament often counteracts the hard work she puts into what she does. It's a tragic character. We father and son should try to solve your mother's problem well, and we should help her through this hurdle and turn possible misfortune into luck, your mother has really brought us happiness through long-term and unremitting hard work, and we should also quickly help her to be liberated from that state, so that she feels comfortable and happy, otherwise we will feel guilty and even become sinners. When the child came back on New Year's Day, my father once said that he wanted to build our family into a high-level paradise test field, mainly for these problems. In order to solve this problem, I also went head-to-head, so that she realized the danger of the problem hài and strict zhòng, and the child often thought, we don't help your mother solve these problems, who will solve them? I'm going to meet my in-laws soon, and I also said to your mother that my in-laws are happy and happy, and some things need to be communicated in advance to reach a consensus, what consensus? It is the joint efforts of both families to do a good job in the marriage of the children. Nowadays, many things are not naturally managed, so we must have an idea in this regard. It is necessary to have a clear starting point, that is, the two parties meet in order to get things done well and handle the relationship well. At this point, the child and Bai Xue must have a clear understanding and grasp, and estimate and think of many problems in advance, so that they can come to fruition and get their wishes as soon as possible. I also said to your mother that you also support Dad's approach, in our family, all problems can be communicated openly and frankly, as long as you persist, no matter how difficult the problem will be resolved. The child should also make this clear to Bai Xue. What your mother is doing with her heart is a lot of tediousness. If such behavior is not accompanied by our least understanding, recognition, affirmation and concern. It's unfair, and it's emotionally unreasonable. This time, I went to Guangzhou to the hospital and checked your mother.
Dad:
Okay, it doesn't matter if you're sick, come to Nandu to check it out. For the sake of family harmony. Parental health. We're all going to try.
Child:
Mass book burning. The absurdity of China's education system has been exposed: a few days ago, an unexpected power outage caused an uproar in a middle school. Although the lights in the study room were off, the darkness was like a fuse. The collective action of students to burn, throw and tear books was ignited, and the peaceful campus was disturbed for a while. After the incident, from school teachers and students to students' parents to media and public opinion, they were all reflecting on what the fire of book burning burned and what did it hurt?
In the car to Nandu, Song Rou texted Wu Song, what are you busy with?
Wu Song replied, the leader came to check, in case it was unqualified, he was criticized.
Song Rou asked, what should I do if I am not qualified?
Wu Song replied, spanking the ass.
Song Roule replied, spanking the ass and punishing the station.
Child:
You have a good heart and a very high level of understanding, but it seems simpler, the heart of deception must not be prevented, and the heart of others must be indispensable, and you must estimate the complexity and even the sinister side of the world's people's hearts, otherwise you will fall into the way of others, and you will suffer from the ridicule of others. When I was young, I was very simple, and some people said that you can't create without childlike innocence, and now I think that childlike innocence alone will not make good creations. Parents do not and should not be calculating about their children, and once other factors are added, it is difficult to guarantee that pure state of mind, and the reason is simple, involving people who are full of calculations. I said at the wine table that day that people who work in banks should not deceive people, and second, they should prevent being deceived. The child is engaged in the judicial profession, which is full of confrontation and even blood, and must adapt to such a complex life environment, otherwise he will suffer. Dad used to talk about building the family into a high-level paradise test field, requiring everyone to actively contribute to the construction of the family, and pay hard work, wisdom and efforts, so that all members can have a positive and optimistic experience and share the joy of sharing the harvest. Children should be vigilant enough.
When it comes to whether or not to withdraw in advance to prevent business opportunities, family matters need to be carefully and carefully cared for more than business work, otherwise it will accumulate small and big, and I have said in the past that families like ours should not have the kind of problems that many families have. In the past, I was mainly worried about children, and I was worried too much, but now I can rest assured. We are also afraid that our children will be distracted in a hurry.
In view of Hao Feng's desire to participate in the promotion competition in the industry, Wu Wei said to Hao Feng, you have to design two-level goals, strive for goals and guarantee goals, so that there is a reasonable mentality order. It's a little more realistic. Two days later, Hao Feng said to Hao Han that he would do what Uncle Wu said.
Wu Wei Song Rou returned home, Hao Feng gave Mother's Day again, and it happened that Hao Han's family came to his hometown to see the old brother and sister-in-law, and chatted about family affairs during the holiday dinner together. The old brother and sister-in-law said, the dumb girl got married and gave birth to a girl, she was 20 years old, she didn't do anything, she didn't buy a mobile phone under 2,000, and she couldn't listen to anything. The elder brother cried as he spoke, originally had a cerebral infarction, and several people hurriedly persuaded him, you just don't worry about your children, the intelligence of the next generation is much stronger than ours, and the handling of problems is better than ours. The old brother said, she understands the computer. Wu Weidao is at least much stronger than her dumb mother. The elder brother said, she is a target herself, she is studying in a military school, she graduated in June, she has to get along with her, and if his parents oppose him, she will no longer be punished. I asked him to make a promise that he would have to arrange a job for her, or he would not let them get married. Wu Weidao, don't interfere, if you get married, you will divorce and have real estate, and you have the ability to stand on your own, you have to believe that she can solve the problem by herself, you can't let go of your heart, you feel that your heart is blocked, she feels that you interfere too much and have no freedom to produce a rebellious mentality, in the past, she blindly accommodated, asked for money, did not pay it back, and was used to not knowing the hardships of life. Hao Han said angrily. Weaned her, and didn't give her a penny for half a year. Wu Weidao, that would easily stimulate her to rebel. She's already good like this, and she doesn't go crooked like some girls. She lacked parental education since she was a child. No one around her told her that her grandfather was so worried about her and her mute mother. It's not that you can't afford it financially, so let's raise it first. You can't do these things to her with anger, you have to do it happily. For his granddaughter, especially a mute girl, he cherishes it and is willing to pay for his dogs and horses. Why don't you squeak. Be proud. You are a hero, where is your heroism, you can't carry such a thing. You have to laugh. As he spoke, the old brother really laughed.
Wu Weidao, now there is Father's Day and Mother's Day. In the future, there should be Grandpa's Day and Grandma's Day. Grandpa's Day. Song Judo. Today's children are related to their grandparents, grandparents, and grandfathers, and they are relatives of the next generation. Wu Wei asked Hao Tian, are you close to your grandparents or with your parents? Hao Tian said without hesitation. Grandparents dear. Wu Wei said with a smile, now there are grandparents and grandparents everywhere looking at grandchildren and grandchildren, with such an emotional foundation, when this generation of grandchildren grow up, that is, more than ten years and twenty years later, there will definitely be songs praising grandparents and grandparents. Hao Han said, Lao Wu is a prophet, I think what he said makes sense. We have to live well, and I'm afraid that I won't be able to hear such a song. Wu Wei said to Hao Tiandao, your grandfather wants to hear the song you sang to your grandfather, do you want to? Hao Tian said, there is no such song now, and when there is such a song, I will sing it to my grandparents. Wu Wei said with a smile, you have to grow up quickly, your grandfather is worried that he won't be able to hear the song you sang to him. Hao Tiandao, my grandfather is fine, he will definitely be able to hear my grandfather's songs, is he a hero? Everyone laughed.
Dad:
Dad, how's the novel going? I know I'm in the novel......
Child:
Children are naturally positive characters, and now it is basically a primitive description, the artistic processing is not enough, whether it can stand and be preserved, it depends on how much value is contained in the actual story of the real characters, which can be precipitated and accumulated, and more importantly, it should be considered whether it can become the protagonist of the future story in line with the logic and the law of life development. Children should take the initiative to create and enrich their lives, or to put it simply, live and work as characters in novels. The photos taken by your mother and me, her performance during the whole photo shoot process is worth studying, she knows that her image will be frozen through the photos and preserved forever, many people will see it, the whole person has changed, I told her that this album is a family heirloom. This inspires us to think, if we live with such a sense of play, how will people live? How would a person live if they knew that they would become the archetype of a character in a novel? Or how would you behave if you knew that you were making a movie or a TV series? We have not encountered or heard such a problem in the past, and we now have the ability to write and have the idea to do it according to the requirements of the characters, which is really a new kind of life environment, and it can be imagined that there is a writing team following the footsteps of our lives to record and describe. Isn't it interesting that we are all consciously involved in this process? In the future, wouldn't it be a great pleasure to take this book and find your own shadow by yourself. Some of the people I met wanted to write novels and become characters in novels, and when they heard that I was writing novels, they asked with concern if there was a place for them in them. My main problem now is that I need to think and precipitate something ideologically and spiritually. When Uncle Rui Zhi heard the title of the book, he felt that it had a Buddhist connotation, and he realized that it was better to integrate some things of music into the novels, and some people felt that writing novels would contribute more. I just read through the article you sent and learned that there are some maritime disputes that we did not know about in the past, and that our country lacks a lot and is not equal to Western civilization. I may be a little overwhelmed, trying to write the boundless paradise into something like an epic, to gather and condense some of the spiritual achievements formed in the process of China's development over the past few decades into the boundless paradise, and then infiltrate the behavior of the characters, this is a difficult re-creation activity, and it should be a highly integrated work.
It's very interesting, the blue booklet of Leye has just been printed, I asked your mother to take a few copies of the unit, I said you can also take a look, she said that she was not written in it, I said that there was her in it, she looked for it, and then said very disappointedly, I didn't see any place to write her. I said the number of pages, and she said dissatisfied, just write that.
Child:
I originally planned to complete it in five years, at the end of last year, that period entered an unprecedented peak, produced an unexpected breakthrough, which is very precious and very rare, knowing that such an opportunity is rare, so I cherish it, day and night, the order of life is reversed, blood sugar rises, the price of the breakthrough is quite large, timely adjustment, to Nandu to see that the child's work has been affirmed, will be recognized by the in-laws, and bought a new house, especially the double provincial degree environment and the whole family peace of mind, but also for my further writing ideas to provide new conditions, I also said to your mother today, we don't save money, we use it to train future generations. I know that my destiny depends on my own efforts and results. I think that when this thing is gradually formed, I can take it out and communicate, and I should be able to find a soulmate, and it will be easier to do it at that time. I believe it will bring about a new situation.
Dad:
Dad, you can stand out in a poor and complex living environment, you can imagine the hardships and pressures you have to pay. In this process, my mother also did her best, and together you laid the foundation of spiritual will and economic life for our family. Sometimes I think I'm ashamed, not hard enough, not hard enough, not competitive enough. In this place of Nandu, if you don't work hard, the result can only be to go with the flow, and there is nothing big to do, I know this result very well. I'm thinking about it now, and I'm going to try my best to pass the test. Now I'm really scared of the exam, and I can't do it.
Child:
Dad has long seen that the child has potential, character, mental state, courage, understanding standards are already very high, coupled with knowledge accumulation and continue to study, work hard spirit, Bai Xue will also give you support in the foundation, in life and career can reach the corresponding height, we are assured.
Dad:
To put it simply, if you look at the dotted lines that China has drawn in the South China Sea to symbolize sovereignty, they are basically drawn by other countries, and it is normal for other countries to have opinions, so let them complain.
Child:
I also think the same way about the South China Sea issue, there will often be disputes between neighbors, not to mention that countries will fight for every inch of land, and now we can't trade the core interests of the country.
From today onwards, we will conduct a general review of the boundless paradise.
Child:
The information that children see online about the longevity of a business is important. There are 6 Chinese companies with more than 200 years, and Japan has more than 200 companies with more than 200 years. I have written about corporate culture in the past, saying that it is neither as strong as the country nor as durable as the family, now it is too young, many large family genealogies of dozens of generations are not a few, later generations are proud of their ancestors, but few are proud of the enterprise, the famous families of the past dynasties did not run a business, the property of the feudal dynasty people are the emperor's seal, and they can be deprived at will, that is, they are not arbitrarily deprived, as long as the dynasty is changed, it will also impact without a trace. This link of the enterprise is too important, it represents the creation of wealth, accumulation and a series of cultural spirit around the wealth of the generation, inheritance and promotion, the accumulation and promotion of this spiritual element to promote the creation and accumulation of wealth, the role is huge, but also irreplaceable, its existence and development need to have a specific foundation, private ownership and modern general development includes the private ownership of the rejection of the joint-stock system, law, and the spirit of contract. In China, it is still possible to forcibly demolish and relocate at every turn, and it will take a process to take root, but no one will try to take root, and the social order that will never take root and will always be in a state of floating, is the same, it will be easier to establish a social order that is easy to destroy and destroy, and a national riot will be swept away.
Child:
It's also interesting to see this kind of information on the Internet, and to learn about the writers, their works, and especially the reasons for the awards: the Bell Literary Prize 1901-2010 collection.
Child:
Today, a new breakthrough has been achieved, that is, a breakthrough in double for, and double for is a dilemma. In the past few days, I feel empty when I write, in fact, it is precisely in the face of some ethereal problems, I feel the impulse to lack a narrative, and I feel that the time is really coming, do you think it's strange? Today, I wrote and wrote the momentum, and I actually achieved an unexpected breakthrough! (To be continued......)