Wu Wei sent a letter to Wu Song.

Child:

The only child has become the only expectation of the parents and the family, and the pressure to become a talent has increased. A son and a daughter have the natural purification and filtration of traditional multi-child families, but a pair of sons and daughters for four elderly people adds complexity. Poor development of children, or insufficient savings of the elderly, will exacerbate the pressure. The way to purification, simplifying family relationships, enhancing and improving the function of social service security, the concept of the elderly and children needs to be readjusted.

From the happy business, happy business, happy life, to the happy land, and from the happy land to the boundless happy land. Paradise is the metaphor of life as land, the earth, if life is just squandered and wasted, it will become a barren and desolate land, if you work hard at the same time, it will become a fertile and fertile land, full of joy and hope, and become a boundless paradise.

There is one thing, the two of us need to reach a high degree of consensus and build the family into a high-level experimental field. Now it is still expanding, expanding the snow in, extending and expanding to the surrounding areas, and extending to future generations

Child:

Now your mother needs to be carefully cared for and cared for more than others, she has made no one for the two big families over the years, and now the society rarely sees people like her, more busy with her own family series of things, she needs to be understood and respected more than others, and she deserves this qiē more. You are in the south, and in the future, things at home should be simplified, and you should not think and do things in the direction of complication, and the things of a big family should not be too much, and it is easy to make people tired. The attitude that should be adopted is who can reach out and help when you really need it, and must do your best, and it is not easy to maintain it with your heart. Here's the lesson. Your mother and I are almost sixty years old, and it is not appropriate to do things between relatives and friends as in the past, but now I am seeking to simplify, especially when I have been writing recently, I feel that I have gradually entered a good state, often in the second half of the night into a state of excitement, I feel that it is easier to write, and I know that I should cherish and grasp this very precious time. Especially since what I'm doing now has become disconnected from the circle of people I've formed for a long time, and I imagine that it's not too late to speak after what I'm writing now is three to five years old. Your three major things, your mother and you have done their best all these years. Well done when you were alive. It can comfort the three spirits in heaven. Grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents, I think it's better to wait for you to get married and then pay tribute, and it is the best filial piety to do your career well. Go home and nag again. The child is safe and smooth.

Child:

You can't talk to your mother, and facing your own mother is not the place for you to reason. How can you always argue with your mother about who is right and who is wrong? You say your mom interferes with you too much. Treat that kind of motherly love as a burden. How can you think so. I also put on the shackles, thinking that my mother's expectations for her future returns would be very heavy and become a burden. Now a mother like your mother can't say no to her son. But rarely, you should feel extremely lucky and happy to meet such a mother when you come to the world. I understand the Lutheran viewpoint, he believes that God's choice of the elect has nothing to do with the elect's appearance, that is, who can be chosen by God, that is entirely God's own business, and has nothing to do with his own expression. There is a very profound truth here, if God's choice is related to his own appearance, being chosen will make people thank themselves and attribute their own efforts, so that the sacredness of God will be dissolved, and the mother's care and love for her children is a bit like God's relationship with the elect, and the mother's care and love has nothing to do with the children's appearance, so when the children face the mother's love, they should have a great sense of luck, with such a feeling, you feel that such luck is not easy to come by, and not everyone can get it. You will cherish it. It's very simple, what will you do when your mother is pregnant with a child, and what will you do to your mother during childhood and adolescence? Therefore, the mother's infinite love for her children has always been when the children themselves have nothing to give back. You once said that you had been preparing for the graduate school entrance examination for a year and a half, and you felt empty after the exam, and then you felt that a person could prepare for one thing in a year and a half, and there could be several years and a half in his life. How to treat one's mother is not a matter of a year and a half, it is something that a person needs to face with devotion for a lifetime, saying that this person and that person have helped him, and no one's help can be compared with the kindness of his parents. Such a problem belongs to the fundamental problem of life, and you often need to face the problem that you can't avoid if you want to, and you must think through it, otherwise this problem will often come out and toss you.

Dad:

What Dad said really makes sense, this time he really didn't come back in vain. I won't talk to my mom again in the future.

Child:

For the sake of the Tao and the people, the child feels reasonable, and the child has a good grasp of this issue. You have just entered the society, one is to contact enterprises every day, and you are also in contact with listed companies in the frontier area of Guangdong's opening up; second, to be able to think about legal issues every day; The third is to write things every day, this is for the Tao, what is the Tao? The Tao is paved by people, your footsteps and what you do accumulate to become the Tao, for one thing you can persist in doing, according to a direction you can do one year, two years, three years, ten years, persist in doing it for a lifetime, this is to achieve the Tao of enlightenment, you can achieve the height of people's life and career, this is to talk about people paving the way; The Tao will also achieve people, you can adhere to the side of people, care for people and take care of people, you can just enter the society in the first year is in a new social environment or even in the place that looks down on the Northeast people, can be accepted and recognized by everyone to be rated as an advanced employee, indicating that you are doing well in terms of people, so that you will be in the Tao for people for their future life path, laid a good foundation, there will be no big mistakes, there is a relatively high starting point.

Child:

You probably know about your eldest brother, a new object, one has no house, two has kidney disease, and three has a 12-year-old child, and he knows. Sanniang couldn't think about it, so she didn't let the leader go. Second, the big viagra of the second family went to persuade Sanniang, you want to find a big girl or divorce and have no children, how can there be, it is difficult to find, and if you find such a person, you will not follow you, it is better to be realistic. Again. People of this age are a little sick with this disease and that disease. If it's cancer, my eldest brother isn't stupid. I just think that my eldest brother is too bitter, and I have to think about my eldest brother. If this doesn't work, he probably won't look for it. I asked my eldest brother, he and his original sister-in-law didn't think about it, when did he have this idea, he said it was a long time ago, and I also said to him, what did you do earlier. But my eldest brother and my family, it's all like that. Thinking about your parents. I am afraid that I will cause trouble to my parents, and I will delay it again and again, and I don't have the wisdom to make a decision early. Think about it. Things are all delayed by themselves.

Dad:

Lawyer Xiang is under pressure. I feel sorry for my dad. There was a meeting. He said to me, "You have such good conditions at home and you have come to us to suffer, and you have not taken good care of you." I don't want to host the Spring Festival Gala anymore. It's really busy, and some people ask me with a smile, are you still hosting this year? Besides, the new young man should be allowed to do it, but they asked me to preside over it, and it was said that lawyer Xiang said it. It's all done by my father, and Lawyer Xiang is under a lot of pressure.

Seeing the commemorative photo, yes, my father's mouth couldn't be closed.

Child:

Find a beautiful mother for your child and get more and more beautiful.

Child:

Life will face many tests, to be good at dealing with all kinds of tests, do not lose yourself in the face of various tests, grasp the basic things of life, pay attention to play to their own advantages, low income is temporary, low income reflects a lot of problems, encounter this kind of problems children must pay attention to find reasons from themselves, so that they will be sound and strong, now you have shown a lot of good side, sunny side, at this time we should pay special attention to carry forward the accumulation of consolidation and improvement of good things, encounter some problems do not rush to show anythingAfter all, your workplace life has just begun, and my four negative positions in the workplace, namely dirt, strangulation, furnace, and grave, are universally existent, which means that everyone has to go through a lot of levels, and many people have not withstood the test, not to mention in which link to become a victim of the laggards, and become a regret or even tragedy in life, so we should take it as a warning. There are some things I sent you, if you feel fit, let Bai Xue take a look at them.

Child:

A person's thoughts and behaviors should pay attention to the accumulation and accumulation to form their own style characteristics, you have also heard Uncle He Fei talk about the music I talked about in the industry, two days ago Hao Da and Daxia and the three of us had dinner together, they still hear some discussions, in fact, when they first spoke, they heard different voices. I told them that happiness is not at all what they imagined, especially my books, they also read them, not to say how they feel when they read books, but to say how others talk about it, and lose their own judgment, or they are not happy people, and if they are not happy, they are tired of karma, and bad karma is ruined, in fact, happiness is a choice full of wisdom. At least, I have been happy in the past, and I will continue to be happy in the future, what is karma? It generally refers to something that is beneficial to oneself, others, society, and the country. They didn't see that I myself had published books because of my research and lectures, which had enhanced my influence in the industry. Li Jie once said, I am a trump card in his hand, he himself was very inspired, he talked about my way of things, the provincial bank not only promotes and every year on July 1 to select happy employees for commendation and reward, Li Jie also because of the response I said twice to give me a raise, I and Li Jie's personal friendship has also been through guò Leye tour to get new development and promotion, this time to arrange Bai Xue's work, people are also sincere help. In the narrowest sense, happiness can also be said to be an experience of my successful life. Children can imagine, how many people want to get close to the president are not in place, want to do can't do it, and how many people want to increase income, but I have benefited from the bank, I have been working in the Nenshui Bank for a period of time, which has further enriched my life, and further realized the upgrade of the version of Leye, enriching the thoughts of Leye, and now I have retired to the second line, and the income is still considerable. As soon as Daxia heard me, music is a way of thinking, a choice full of wisdom, and he is also in favor, this is the truth, indicating that he really has to listen to me often and recharge. Happiness, in fact, is my life story, children should care less about what others and even leaders do to you, and don't even care about the level of income, the career you are engaged in is a lawyer is a law, it is worth fighting for all your life, with the qualification to be president, it should be said that the qualification endowment requirements are very high. You can oppose anyone or even your colleagues leading a partisan government, but you can't oppose the profession you choose to engage in, especially a profession like a lawyer. Moreover, it must be forged into alloy steel to successfully resist the wind, frost, snow and rain of the world and cast the height of one's life.

Child:

The child said that he spent a year and a half dedicating himself to one thing to graduate school, and Uncle Guan said that his younger brother gave up after doing it for a while, and happiness is something that needs to be faced for a lifetime, so many people can't do it if they want to, and they can only do it for a while.

Now the atmosphere of the law firm that you have won is very conducive to your growth, and everyone loves you very much, which is wealth, to cherish it, and it is easy to communicate between the top and bottom. As for Lawyer Xiang's "black spots". It is also understandable that if you are able to do well, it means that you are very mature.

Dad:

I love what I'm doing now, it's not like I don't do it anymore if I change places. Happiness does not mean that it can only be in one unit. The traditional idea is that people have to work in one unit for the rest of their lives. You and my mom are like that. But you also thought about coming to Nandu to develop. People go to higher places, and if I decide to leave here, there must be a job waiting for me.

Child:

Good boy! I also advocate that children should find a career, work and relationship environment that suits their own development. Looking is one thing, more importantly, it is to find the right unit, many things still have to be maintained and established by themselves, consolidate and improve, we are not opposed to the child to find a new unit by himself, and I believe that the child will find it, the main thing is to be cautious about such problems, as little as possible to suffer and take fewer detours. I think the starting point of the child's life and work should be higher, for example, I met Lawyer Sun in Changchun, I feel very good about the current law firm environment, but I don't know much about the specific situation, because I have never done anything in a private company, and I don't know much about Lawyer Xiang's black law. Besides, I told you that time, Lawyer Xiang is only in his early forties, and there is a lot of room for growth and adjustment.

Child:

Dad does four things for his children, one is to leave a book; the second is to find a suitable job; The third is to leave a set

House; Fourth, cultivate the power of self-understanding and introspection.

Child:

Need to carefully deal with the current problems, is a test you have not encountered, how to do the next step to go through repeated trade-offs, on the surface seems to be around the question of staying or leaving, in fact, your basic attitude towards work, income and how to view yourself, take advantage of the opportunity to rest these days, people need to bear some things. You have to think about it calmly, now choose whether to leave Wuyang, first, whether you have the conditions to find a law firm by yourself; Second, whether there is a goal for applying for a new unit, you still need to prepare; the third is how the road introduced by Tongguò Wang, Zhang and others; Fourth, continue to work in Wuyang, whether there is an advantage in professional ability compared with those young colleagues, and whether Wuyang continues to do it can provide time and conditions for various examinations while working and studying. You are strongly aware of the problem of low income, and you will be aware of it, and you need to self-assess your weight in the minds of these people. Cheng Yi said to you, Lawyer Xiang is very angry that you didn't provide a performance report, I think Lawyer Xiang can directly prompt you to urge you to submit, according to common sense, this should not be a problem, but it has become a problem, what does Lawyer Xiang really think of you? When we sent Uncle Wang to the taxi, you said something about Lawyer Xiang, to the effect that Lawyer Xiang is not something you have followed all your life, and I said that at his age, I should see that others have too much room for adjustment and growth, and you agree with me. You came back this time and said that the opportunities you caught up with were not good, and none of the projects you participated in were listed, is this a fundamental factor affecting your income? Is it this factor or is it such a factor as the "black" of the item? Even if it is "black", there is always a reason for the black, Wuyang as a unit, a group and the customers you contact are suitable for your development? What is the room for comprehensive growth, including professional ability, work person, income, etc.? The closer you and Zhisheng go, Lawyer Xiang will be clear, does it affect Lawyer Xiang's attitude towards you? These are all very sensitive factors in the workplace, can you be comfortable with either party? What I'm worried about now is not your income, your professional ability has matured, and you have an interpersonal relationship atmosphere in the society, especially the interpersonal network necessary to engage in lawyers, and then catch up with a few good projects, that is, it will go up in a few years, and continue to pave the way in Wuyang, do a solid job in some basic skills, at least within a few years, your mother and I will provide you with a more stable economic foundation, and you can also calmly choose to stay to provide a certain ability to resist risks. Children naturally and calmly cope with the current problems, or give priority to nurturing, developing, consolidating and improving the basic skills of life and work. This is the problem that you will always face in your life, you can use a period of time to weigh on the issue of going and staying, but as short as possible, make up your mind as soon as possible, and you must not be half-hearted if you want to stay, you must be resolute and decisive, and you can not fall into the predicament of staying for a long time, which is very unfavorable to yourself, and gradually form the ability to decide independently and grasp your own destiny. There are many things in life that are indeed within a thought, but the thought that involves fate requires enough thinking and other foreshadowing. Some choices are made up for by making the wrong decision, and some come at a cost. Especially when it comes to the basic direction of life and doing things, mistakes are not allowed at all, and mistakes will pay the price of a lifetime. For you who have just entered the society for just over a year, your qualifications are still too shallow. You don't want to go to a position with a high threshold. Judging by your past experiences. At present, you must not put income in a weighty position, but take whether it is suitable for your comprehensive development and improvement as the primary factor.

Dad:

In fact, I didn't want to leave because I was given 20,000 yuan. At that time, when they said that they would give me 20,000 yuan, I didn't want to leave, and if the reason for giving 20,000 yuan was because I didn't write a performance sheet, I felt a little too much.

Child:

How can a child want to make such a serious life decision just because he didn't write a performance sheet?! In addition, have you accumulated some unpleasant factors in your mind? Of course, whether pleasure is unpleasant or not depends solely on our own behavior, but also depends on whether it is reasonable for the other party to have a certain feeling, children should still dissolve these unpleasantness like wiping away spider silk, do not let these things hinder their own life, you must know that these things may have no effect on others at all, but it is difficult to accumulate in yourself, and it is easy to become a big trouble. Remember.

Child:

Today's party is still Xiaoyu's sister-in-law's mentions, the party is very lively, those brothers and sisters are very good, your mother is also very emotional, very pleased, very happy, Han Yue said very well. Now everyone is more worried about Brother Xiaohui's matter, mainly because you Sanniang is resolutely opposed to it and will not let you take it home. Child, it was after February 2 last year, and the three of you specially called me, and it was your mother who answered it, and specially sued Brother Sù Xiaohui for divorce. I think this is also your three major deathbed wishes, and your mother and I will try our best to make this matter better. Your big viagra understands your big brother's situation and mood very well. Wu Ping said it very well. As for the elders, I and your mother, the two of us also feel a lot of responsibility, of course, on behalf of the elders, they are also very happy and very relieved to see that scene.

Child:

I feel that the hard power of our family can also be said to be very strong, so we must be full of hope to easily face all kinds of problems and difficulties, and there are many ways to deal with problems and difficulties, and problems and difficulties are not problems and difficulties.

Child:

I originally summarized the five benefits of the industry, but ignored the benefits of the leadership, in fact, this is very important, the general concept is that the leader likes the happy employees, but if the happy employees do not pay attention to the good relationship with the leader, but also delay their own development, the leader likes what kind of employees the most, there is no fixed model to follow, because of the person, to be specific. Generally speaking, leaders rely on happy employees but do not necessarily like them, which involves factors such as leadership personality preferences.

Child:

In recent days, I have found it difficult to organically connect many things that have been formed in the past in the "boundless paradise", but I have just achieved a very important through-the-line connection. February 13th

Child:

I am reading "Crime and Punishment", because I am also writing novels now, paying special attention to the ideological and artistic nature of the novels, combined with the foreign masterpieces I have read before, such as "Resurrection", "La Traviata", "Sheep Fat Ball", etc., I feel that in these works, while exposing and exposing ugly, dark and evil things, there is more human nature, human flavor, human feelings, and human reason. It is reminiscent of Lao Tzu Confucius, who emphasizes that there are many things that emphasize the Tao, but few things of humanity shine in it, because of this, under the influence of such ideology and culture, what will people be like, and then after the baptism of market economy money, some people are even less human. I want to permeate this idea into the boundless paradise. February 17th

Child:

Now that I have finished reading Crime and Punishment, I have started to read The Brothers Karamazov, and these two works have produced and continue to have important inspirations for me to understand and describe the double action of "Tao and man", and now I feel that "double wei" contains rich and profound themes in life. 20 days (to be continued......)