Wu Wei fell into a puzzle that he had never felt before. What's more, husband and wife can't always chirp and quarrel constantly, how can they be happy? Family relationships are the most important and direct factor in determining a person's happiness. As a result, he began to reflect on whether he had anything wrong with him. Maybe it was because he adopted the strategy of piggybacking on An's affairs, and the focus shifted to maintaining the outside, so that Song Rou didn't experience it, not to mention that he himself said in front of her that he lived for his buddies, and later talked about music everywhere. I also wondered how she could not be experienced by the family with her in my heart, and how could I not feel it when we were together every day. Is it a matter of practice or a matter of mind? Wishes, wishes, or wishes were not used on Song Rou, not on the family, but blindly on the career. Now that the external wish has come to an end, the focus of the wish should also be shifted inward, or is it a question of insufficient desire for love. How can people not feel the power of willingness? Whether it is Buddhist or secular, how many people have fulfilled their wishes because they have focused on sincerity and grandeur. The desire is transformed into wishing, and the heart becomes hot, as if it is burning, and it is another form of desire that cannot be stopped. Thinking of this, Wu Wei was so excited that he couldn't sleep, and he actually got up in the middle of the night to take care of the dumpling filling, and couldn't help but express his wish. Although she was careful, she still made a noise that alarmed Song Rou.

Wu Wei deliberately wondered when he saw her come to the kitchen, why can't he experience it?

Song Judo, I don't know you yet, for a while, convulsively.

Wu Wei knew that she had dissolved it, and said with a smile, That's because of her lack of concentration.

Wu Wei is aware of the impact and challenges brought about by the transformation of the moral system. Love also needs perseverance. Persistence is needed everywhere and at all times. We will continue to respond proactively. Creating a Paradise, that kind of hope and joy. It is necessary to defend with perseverance, to cast with perseverance, to produce a perseverance that is as broad and heavy as the earth, and which cannot be shaken by anything. No wonder Hao Han said that it is easy to shake the mountain and it is difficult to shake the old Wu. It's not just because of persistence. Persistence needs the support of faith, faith makes people show perseverance, faith must also be transformed into willingness, condensation and solidification as the cornerstone of action, so that action has rigidity, otherwise many things can not be persevered, relying on interest, interests, friendship, and feelings. As time goes on, the distance becomes farther away, and it will gradually change. Even the best things will detract with the passage of time. Persistence is precious, wealth, and hope. There are too many things in persistence, too many things also need to be carried with persistence, perseverance can be improved, and persistence can produce length, thickness, and height. What is Persistence? Persistence is not about holding on to something. Many things become valuable because of perseverance. Some people are not valuable just because they see the persistence of others. I regret regretting my abandonment and loss.

Wu Wei thought of Song Rou and said to himself. So smart and wise people, how can they not see this thing. Defending outsiders hurting their own families, what do you think. Why can't I figure out you as a person, seeing that the two children cooperate so tacitly, I am a little jealous, and I count Wu Wei is not.

Wu Wei asked, what is the problem? The two people have different things in their hearts. Your mind is full of other people's not, and my heart is filled with other people's benefits. Think about it, is there any benefit? When relatives from other places came to praise me, how did you feel?

Song Rou closed the door of the house when she heard this, and outsiders tried their best to tolerate it, but why didn't the family tolerate it, but were harsh.

Wu Wei thought, the root of the two people's chirping is here, and then said, the ugliness and cruelty of outsiders have been punished or will be punished, and my harshness to my relatives is to warn and stop the ugliness and cruelty of my relatives from harsh punishment.

Song Rou was originally a very delicate person, as if she suddenly understood Wu Wei's deep meaning and bitterness, and the entanglement in her heart formed over the years was suddenly unraveled, and she was speechless for a while, but she asked convincingly, then why don't you treat outsiders harshly?

Wu Weidao, my harshness to my relatives is easy to get the understanding of my relatives, but once I am harsh to outsiders, it is easy to lose the opportunity to further contact and improve with outsiders, so I blindly forgive outsiders.

Wu Wei said again, the two of us have different things in our hearts, some people say that my heart is like the sea, anything can be loaded, the sea is inclusive, of course, it can also hold the things in your heart, but you can't hold the things in my heart, and I feel unbearable when I see it. Others thought I didn't know what happened to me, I knew that I could pretend to be able to go on, and some people who had been with me for a long time, even including the original leaders, also said to me strangely, why didn't they see me get angry, saying that I was well-cultivated. The capacity of the mind is not the same, so that such a result can be caused. I also feel strange, my bridge said that you only have two people in your heart, me and the child, you can put me all down, why can't you fit the things in my heart, you can't even fit the things in people, but you can't even fit the things in people?

Song Rou snorted and said with a smile when she heard this, Brother Qiao is here again, who will tell you what you are doing with you, pretending to be people and things, which makes people listen to the mess.

Like many people who strive to change the fate of others, they cannot dissolve the tragic elements of their own fate. Wu Wei's behavior pattern has a certain type, but it is unexpectedly mixed with intolerable behavior factors, and contradictory factors are introduced into his behavior pattern, which is simply infinitely tolerant of outsiders, but refuses to tolerate his own family, or is limited tolerance. This approach is tempting and good, but it has caused deep emotional damage to the family. His own explanation is that intolerance is to overcome the bad factors in the behavior of the family so as not to cause pain in conflict with outsiders, and he believes that outsiders will not tolerate the mistakes of their relatives like he does, so he tries to reform the unreasonable behavior of the family members with intolerance, although it seems a little cruel to do so, knowing that it will bring harm and pain to the family, but he believes that such harm and pain will be much lighter than the harm and pain caused by outsiders, and it can be reversed. This is actually asking his family to achieve self-sacrificing tolerance like him, but here he met with resistance from his family and refused to accept his attempt to reform. Creates a conflict of behavior. The more purely conflictual such an act is, the more intense it becomes. In his words, his love for his wife inspired him to make dumplings in the middle of the night, but his wife thought he was atoning for his sins.

The self-sacrifice for the Tao was beyond the wife's ability to bear. His diligence and studious impressed his wife, who said that he would do his best to assist him when he was less educated, and also made self-sacrificing efforts to do his best to protect him and the family. He also fulfilled his wife's wish. But his wife did not expect him to go further and further on the road of diligence and studiousness. Pure self-sacrifice feels like losing its meaning, that life is meaningless, that it is living for someone else, even if that person is one's own man. In fact. This is the table of the marital crisis. He rewarded his wife with the fruits of his efforts. The crisis was resolved. Motivate and encourage the wife to remain fully committed to the family. Watching the man go further and further down the path he set for himself, the sense of home became more and more indifferent, but he continued to demand that she make self-sacrifice. Self-sacrifice is acceptable. Self-sacrifice is exchanged for being away from the family.

Song Rou said, I don't have such a high consciousness to think about other people's affairs, my own affairs are enough to worry about, what do you pay for this family. It was met with more and more strong protests from his wife. Until one day, Wu Wei suddenly realized the importance of giving his wife spiritual comfort, his own path is his own happy choice, can not be imposed on others, so as to balance this contradiction as much as possible, suffering from not finding a solution once and for all, to alleviate the conflict and avoid tragedy, he believes that sincerity is the gold and stone, he wants to use his missionary power to care for his wife. Song Rou herself said that her mother once said that her pouting mule was sold for a donkey price, and the knife was a tofu heart, and she offended people and became a tragic character, which is the result of the evolution of the character's personality.

Wu Wei is trying hard to find common ground and consistency with Song Rou. Wu Wei discussed with his friends in Nandu that the current affairs depend on the consciousness of the rich, and the poor people's past enlightenment mode was to create rebellion against the rich, divide the property of the rich, and even destroy the rich. In Wu Weikai, poverty is not terrible, poverty is just the pure horizon of human fighting. Even if this is a benign effort, it is to catch up with the rich, and if the consciousness of the rich will raise the starting point of the efforts of the whole society, it will naturally increase the speed of development. He even imagined that the consciousness of Americans and the consciousness of Chinese would be very different in comparison. In a unit, the consciousness of the leaders and the consciousness of the masses will naturally be different. In the same way, the consciousness of the old, the old, and the male in the family will always be much better than the consciousness of the younger, younger, and female.

After some efforts, Wu Wei now feels that his behavior has been deeply understood by Song Rou, so he said, we are not rich, but the conditions are better, the two of us are highly consistent in this point, we do not only care about our own small family, we can do our part to the big family of both sides and never avoid dodging, but there is a problem in the way. Now we need economic ability, moral ability, comprehension ability, social ability, social ability is the ability to mobilize social resources, you have all those abilities, your kind of family produces a character like you, fortunately, the ancestors preferenced. My brother should be full of loving love and pity for my sister, which is good, devastating, and it is really unreasonable to do this to people like you. There are some controversial people in our unit, and I came out to uphold justice, otherwise I would not be able to attract them. Our family also needs to uphold justice, and when we force ourselves to fight for ourselves, what is it called justice? To uphold justice is to see others encounter injustice, anger and injustice, and stand up and speak. I always feel embarrassed to speak for you in front of your family and praise your daughter-in-law, I don't need to say it, my family still doesn't know you?

Song Rou replied, you have to look at the people around you, you think of them too highly. They think that if you do that to them, they have done enough, not that you see me doing that to them.

Wu Wei said with a smile, this is a joke, without you I know their boss and surname. Big family, there are too many grievances and grievances, the best way is to cut off the past from now on, cut it off, what to do in the future, brothers and sisters always have to come and go, they must have good dealings, and be harmonious. People like you are rare in our family. Not all of them are busy with those things in their own homes, how can they worry about things like you. We don't have any old people anymore, and we will rely on our moral conscience to do things in the future, and we still have to do things that should be done to help us. I have learned a lot about what I have experienced these days, such as being poor now. Poverty is not the problem of our generation, but the fact that the next generation cannot support it, and it is caused by gnawing at the old and pulling the next generation. Aid and assistance should not be regarded as a burden, and no one will be poor enough to eat and clothe, which is caused by the disparity after getting rid of poverty.

Wu Wei has some controversial people around him, and the exchange of ideas is not lively, and you suddenly realize that he is also a controversial person. Luckily, there are always people who do justice for themselves. Li Jie said that there is no criticism of you. Cui Zhen said when he rectified the party. Wu Wei is not a party member. is better than some party members. Zou Kai said to Wu Wei, just do it, I won't treat you badly. Pu Zhiren said that Xiao Wu is amazing. The secretary of the municipal party committee said. You can understand and support it in this way. Bosom friend. Li Jie also said. You and I are friends for life, your things are self-contained, and there will be people studying them in a few hundred years.

I'm in a good mood. Wu Wei accompanied Song Rou to the supermarket to buy pork ribs, and asked to chop them into appropriate length segments, and when the master raised the knife to chop, Song Rou went to see other styles of ribs, and when he looked back, he was immediately unhappy, saying, it was too long. Scolding Wu Wei, why didn't you stare at the point? He also said to the meat seller, why is it so long to chop, and it is not easy to change the knife. At this time, I wanted to buy another pork rib, and brought it to the master to chop it shorter, and the master said that he could only chop it horizontally four times.

Song Rou said angrily, who stipulated that only four knives could be chopped? It's so long that you can't eat it.

The master explained, this is the case, it is not easy to chop if it is frozen, in case it is chopped, you can still ask for it?

Song Rou wondered, how can you chop up the pieces?

At this time, Wu Wei looked carefully at the side and said, it's not good to chop, I'm afraid that if the chop is wrong.

Song Rou glanced at him and came again.

The master called another one and said, "I can't chop well, you can see and chop." The master is to let his master chop it.

The master's master also said when he came, it's not good to chop, and besides, it's free to chop. I tried it and shook my head, but I was also worried that it would be chopped up.

Wu Wei saw that the stalemate was not good, so he said, chop. It's chopped like this, and it's better than the previous one. On the way back, Song Rou got angry again, and I don't know which group you are, standing on the outsider's side. Wu Wei knew that it was enough not to squeak, but he was afraid that he would be angry again. Returned home safe and sound. Knowing Song Rou's problem, you have to invest tens of millions of dollars in careful care.

Wu Song remembered that there were so many things going on at home, so he deliberately came back from so far away to take a look. Saying to buy some cigarettes for her classmates, Song Rou said, look at what is in the bag.

Wu Song said, what does it have to do with you?

Song Rou suppressed her breath and asked, what do you want to eat?

The child didn't hear clearly and asked, what are you talking about?

Song Rou said again, she didn't take it seriously, and she didn't take it lightly. What are you doing here? Realize that the child does not eat chicken, take the ribs. Still muttering, drink the same as you, send this and that after drinking, send it up.

A family of three eating and drinking, Wu Wei said, children's professional development is the fastest, with professional ability, there will be a future height and stable development, besides, in the first year of the law firm on the advanced or second-class, and it is on the stage to give a speech and everyone votes, seventy or eighty people, 2 first class, 3 second class, 5 third class. I didn't know in advance that you had gone through this process and had to celebrate with joy. Things are done well, and people's affairs are also well taken into account.

Wu Song said, smoke, I have the right, my mother interferes too much.

Song Judo, how can your money be negative? Why don't you save a point, counting the number we don't want, it won't be a negative number, isn't that just saving, there is a plan in the future, save 50,000 this year. Wu Song said, that's no problem. Also, how can you say that it is just for me?

Song Judo, can you treat you like someone else?

Wu Song Dao, I am poor, it is my own business, what does it have to do with you?

Wu Weidao, how can you say that, what is the relationship, your mother doesn't feel sorry for you for you. Some people say that your mother pretends to have two men in her heart, one is you and the other is me. I'm afraid of holding your mother in my arms, I'm afraid of melting in my mouth, I'm afraid I'm lonely when I sit alone, and I'm afraid of choking on the wind in the aisle.

Wu Song Dao, why don't you say something well? For many years, I have been saying it well, but now it is not good, so it is like this.

Wu Weidao, you have to cultivate the Su zhì that has been transferred. The novels I am writing now involve complex psychological adjustments, and the mental activity has unexpectedly undergone sudden and magical changes. There are sinister things in the human heart, the first is that you don't stimulate it, the second is that you don't let it come at you if you have a seizure, and the third and best way is to dissolve and transform it. After all, you are facing your mother, unlike facing others, you will also face such problems in the future, now I am the first responsible person for your mother, you are the second responsible person, and you will become the first responsible person in the future. We are responsible for how she lives, in fact, the child has done very well, his own economy is so tight, as soon as he heard about the three major things, he immediately spent 700 to buy a tape recorder, which is equivalent to a quarter of a month's salary. I dreamed of Lao Jiang in my dreams.

Saying this, Song Rou smiled there, I really admire your energy, no matter whether people listen to it or not, she said vigorously, you asked the child, what are the three major contributions of Lao Jiang?

Wu Song retold them one by one.

Song Rou was surprised, he really listened.

Wu Weidao, child, no matter what your mother is, she is a force for you, your mother is not easy, mothers in the world are not necessarily like this, she is always you, and you are also her. Speaking of which, both of them laughed.

Song Rou said that more than one colleague in the unit said to me, how happy you are, you are good, the man is excellent, and the son is also excellent.

After drinking and eating, Wu Wei played mahjong on the Internet, mother and son sat on the sofa and chatted, chattering and chattering, Wu Wei heard it and said, you said in the past, it took a year and a half to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and after thinking about it, it feels good to spend a year and a half preparing to do something. It's not a matter of a year and a half for you to treat your mother, how can you always talk to your mother about things that you need to think about for the rest of your life? No one in our family has to talk to my mother all the time.

When Wu Song heard this, he lowered his head and thought about it, and then said, Dad is right, I didn't come back in vain this time, and I won't be able to talk to my mother in the future. Speaking of the wedding commemorative photos of the two, Wu Song said, there is one side of the road, I don't have time to accompany you, let my father accompany my mother to take a good photo. (To be continued......)