Wu Wei and Wu Song discussed, I watched a TV show one day, and said that there were tens of thousands of post-80s people on the Internet who regarded their parents as a scourge and denounced their parents. I looked it up on the Internet, and sure enough, I saw a heated discussion. You post-80s generation do not know that your post-50s parents have paved the way for the development and prosperity of Chinese society with their flesh and blood, and it is a kind of sacrifice no less than that made for victory during the war years.

Wu Song heard that the saying that parents are the scourge does have a market in our generation. Bai Xue's father was patriarchal, and when she was young, he bought food for his uncle's children, but his daughter didn't have any at all, just watching there, how bitter her heart was.

Wu Wei said that the post-50s generation experienced a different fate. The centrifugal force formed by the heavy pressure of social restructuring and the transformation of social models has thrown many of them out of the main channels of society, and have fallen victim to those who have straggled, struggling on the poverty line, suffering from a lack of transformation skills, and distorting their thoughts, spirits, and behaviors. While making sacrifices for the prosperity and development of society, they must also use their own meager efforts to accumulate money for their children to go to school and get married, and pave the way to happiness. The foreshadowing for the society is passive, helpless, and unconscious, so there is more or less dissatisfaction and resentment, and the latter kind of foreshadowing is completely voluntary and voluntary, and even looks at the resentful eyes of unfilial children, and the heart has to endure bitter torment and torture. Although the policy is wise, it is necessary to look at luck in the process of benefiting the bottom, and when encountering those who have lost their conscience, they will pluck their feathers, and they will be exploited and rubbed by people like Zhou Papi and Wang Papi, and they will make up all kinds of truths to devour the weak. When you meet a good one, you should give a lot of points, and you have to fight for it extra. Society is carrying out all kinds of foreshadowing, to sum up. It's just a way to heaven or a way to hell. The road to heaven is thousands of miles away, but the road to hell is a single thought.

Wu Wei watched Wu Song listen attentively, and he continued to say, your generation has the second generation of officials, the second generation of rich, and the second generation of knowledge, and naturally there are also poor second generations, as well as the second generation of new red.

Wu Song listened and asked curiously, how does the second generation of Xinhong understand? Haven't heard of it.

Wu Wei explained that the second generation of the new red is the descendants of those new martyrs.

Wu Song listened and nodded.

Wu Wei continued to preach that the differentiation of your generation is also a microcosm of China's social reality. The emergence of the concept of the second generation. It also has its specific connotation of the times, and the most modern is the concept of the rich second generation, which shows that the history of our Chinese society towards modernization is too shallow, and the accumulation and foreshadowing of wealth are too thin, starting from your generation. It will take many generations of continued efforts for the accumulation of wealth to rise to a height comparable to that of Europe, the United States and Japan. It is also necessary to understand your little ecology first. You are all in school. From the nursery kindergarten preschool. The main class at the beginning of primary school, the after-school class until the middle school college entrance examination, is being spoiled and coaxed like a baby, and your parents are afraid that you will not study hard, and you will stare at it with your eyes every day. When I finally got into college, what was the first thing I liked most, relaxing. The day when I finally had my own, I felt so relaxed and comfortable, and I thought that I could sit back and relax when I was admitted to university. When I went to college and gradually saw the future of my brothers and sisters, I knew that I had to continue to work hard. Unlike your fathers, you are not nervous when you go to school, the country gives you the assignment of work, and the policies that cannot be assigned can be followed, you can take over, and those who can't enjoy anything will be placed in large collectives and small collectives, and you can't arrange for you to enjoy tax reductions and exemptions for individuals, although you were laid off and unemployed later, but after all, you have lived so many years of stable and comfortable life when you were young. Before you graduate in the 80s, you have so many bad reputations, rich second generations, gnawing old people, and parents are harmful, how can you not hear a word of encouragement. I thought that after crossing the peak of the college entrance examination, it would be a horse Pingchuan to gallop by myself, but I didn't expect that there was no way to find employment, and I had a headache when I heard the exam. To endure the embarrassing low-wage life of being ashamed of exporting, to look forward to the future and shudder, to live with fewer tickets, the houses, cars, and children on the road are like mountains towering in front of them, and after climbing for twenty or thirty years, the Chinese are inseparable from the mountains, and the three mountains have long been overturned and swept away, who would have thought that so many mountains would come out again. If you don't want to face it, you have to face it, but this kind of face lacks passion, and learning so many things over the years is equivalent to storing fuel, but it is difficult to start and burn because of the lack of passion. When you were in high school, you told us that after you graduated, you faced inside and outside the system, and you were lucky enough to enter the system, swearing to die in the system, but you were plagued by vague rules when you entered the system, and although the free rules outside the system were clear, you felt that the bosses were very black. Even so, it's quite self-conscious, and when I encounter unclear rules, I am deceived and suffer, and I don't gather people to petition at every turn like the elders. In the face of these problems, I also imagined that I used to make a sprint in the face of the college entrance examination, postgraduate entrance examination, and doctoral examination qualification certificate, and there was a clear impact goal, but now it is not good, the goal cannot be focused, and it is not the kind of impact that can be made by simply relying on one's own learning. Knowledge did not allow me to gain that magical sense of power, only to realize that it was only Bacon's personal feelings, and it was not only knowledge that could change fate. Come to think of it, there is no ideal, sacred, noble, change the state of mind, live a good life, work well, be filial to your parents, and take care of your wife and children.

Song Rou listened and said with a smile, you see if the child listens, you can say it.

Wu Song said, what my father said makes sense, this is the fate of our generation from a macro perspective.

Wu Wei can affirm that you can dare to come alone to the southern capital, the spirit is commendable, especially after Uncle Wang introduced the entry, you will soon be able to get the appreciation of the leaders and the recognition of your colleagues, as you summarized yourself, your master first reprimanded you more, and then gradually said less, and now you don't criticize, if you want to say that it is also a compliment, it shows that your learning ability, comprehension ability, and mentality adjustment ability are very strong, and you have passed the entry pass very smoothly. Of course. This is only the first hurdle after entering the workplace, but don't underestimate this hurdle, it is a very good preparation for your future success. As for the small income you said, it is normal to rely on us to help you buy a house and subsidize your life, and the foreshadowing we carry out is at least equivalent to your five to seven years of hard work, which can raise the starting point and height of your efforts, and you must learn to correctly understand and use this kind of foreshadowing. Don't be a burden.

Wu Song said gratefully, Bai Xue and I will cherish the foreshadowing that our parents have made for us.

Wu Wei Song Rou was very relieved when he heard the child's words.

In other words, Ruizhi listened to Wu Song's income and thought that Wu Song's current income was small, so he proposed to help change the unit. Wu Wei wrote to Wu Song when he heard the news, and said that the child should not be in a hurry to make money at present. The most important thing is to learn and master life skills, and many people around me used to be in a hurry to make money. The accumulation of life is too thin. I didn't go far, I couldn't go high, and I left too many regrets and regrets in my life. Your law firm has many potential resources, so pay attention to learning, mining and refining.

Wang Wei sued sù Wu Song. If you want to make your dad happy, how happy he is, you will find a way to make him happy. Wu Song knew that Wu Wei liked to read the most, so he often asked what books he wanted to buy. Online shopping is very convenient. Wu Wei also often sent his reading experience to Wu Song.

Child:

Dad has finished reading "The Golden Plum Bottle", and I feel that it is closer to civilian life than "Dream of Red Mansions", and I can better see the teacher-student relationship between "Dream of Red Mansions" and "Golden Plum Bottle"; Now I start reading "One Hundred Years of Solitude", in fact, there is a wide range of loneliness in life, and the various ways to dispel loneliness often contain toxins, just like dish soap is poisonous, fighting poison with poison, which is really an eternal big problem for human beings. Loneliness, which is easy to cause a lot of sick things, madness, depression, irritability, annoyance, amnesia, alcoholism, Internet fans, and numb fans, is a big perspective to observe life. In particular, some writers in China were shocked when they read this book, the novel can be written like this, there is no rule at all, but they also see a different kind of humanistic scenery, which has opened their eyes and opened their minds, and has influenced batch after batch of writers.

Some people develop early, others develop late, late development naturally misses many valuable opportunities, but it is also easy to cause the abuse, misuse and misuse of opportunities, and even lead people astray; Late development has the advantage of late development, the biggest advantage is the ability to grasp the opportunity, make up for the regret of fewer and fewer opportunities, once the opportunity is recognized, do your best and most likely will succeed. Premature development, that is, premature commitment, is easy to bind the mind, the immature body cannot bear the weight, the will is easy to crush, and the lack of recognition will lead to disorientation.

Wu Song replied:

Dad:

Everyone may have lost a lot of opportunities or taken some of them. The opportunity I seized was to go to graduate school, which was probably my last chance to change my destiny with knowledge, and I was very lucky to take it. It also meant that I had lost a lot of opportunities to change my destiny with knowledge, and thankfully I was able to seize this last one. Moreover, the success of my postgraduate entrance examination also inspired and drove Bai Xue, and she also successfully passed this hurdle.

Dad, you may have seized the opportunity or you may have lost it. But from the point of view of the juniors, you are successful!

Actually, I can feel that you may be lonely, so you drink, but I still want to say drink less! We are just getting started, we still have a long way to go, we still want two children, and your future grandchildren will not make you feel lonely again.

Child:

When I saw your reply, I specially asked your mother to read it, and she especially wanted to read your letter. I feel that many people are lonely, and my dad has already mastered the magic weapon to deal with loneliness, and I want to integrate the idea of coping with loneliness into my conception.

Our family was too poor in the past, but fortunately we caught up with socialism, and if we would have starved to death, or become bandits and thieves, we might have joined the revolutionary army, and it is difficult to say what the result would be. Anyway, the facts that are now formed. Your mother and I had just returned from the Big Three, and he told me details I hadn't heard of before. Perhaps inspired by my novels, the three now want to write memoirs, but they can't write anymore and can't write them anymore. You check the Internet to see if there is a small tape recorder with a voice recorder, the quality is better. In this way, he also has something to do, and his experience and thinking will not only enlighten our family, but also for me and society. At that time, you beat him with a burning stick, and he snatched him, and I was able to work, and beat me. Your grandmother laughed and said he was grown.

Son, our family. Conduct is right, admit work, willing to endure hardships, and have a good reputation, but he is too poor, and now he also belongs to the poverty pile as a whole, and there is little school, so it is even more difficult to change his fate. The three of you have always wanted to break out in the business world in the past, but you failed and threw a lot of money. When I came back, I wanted to make a breakthrough in medicine, especially medicine and wine, and I also made some achievements, but I couldn't do it, and now I am bedridden, and I can still want to tell oral history. Reflect on it, and the spirit is commendable. The general rule is that people who are physically disabled. Most of them may develop ideologically and spiritually, and even show great advantages, he is originally a person who is good at thinking and very wise, if he can use the guò oral method, it will stimulate him to think further, not simply find him something to make a living. Of course. This is our expectation and wish for him, and this expectation and hope is justified. It's rare for people in that state to want to do something worthwhile. He was also inspired by my novels and recently reviewed his own experiences. We're happy to see that happen. I recently read "A Dream of Red Mansions", "Golden Vase Plum", and I am reading "One Hundred Years of Solitude", and I benefited a lot.

Dad now sometimes participates in the party, the topic of conversation during the banquet, intentional guidance, it has become a good creative theme, to participate in some social activities, such as the social association subject bidding defense, reading, surfing the Internet, is unfolding and gradually forming a new information channel, the idea of the fairy world, is a novel and bold, transcendent idea, must have new thinking, new ideas, new visions, new methods, in order to write, fortunately, my music industry, music business has carried out a very good foreshadowing, to be able to observe and think from a new perspective to write, The way of writing will be wider and wider, more and more confident, and the experience and methods will gradually mature and stereotyped.

Nowadays, the only child has more direct contact with adults, and it is true that it promotes precocious puberty, but what adults will more directly affect and infect children, and children are not simple replicas, what we often see is that the advantages will be inherited, and the bad things will be magnified into uncontrollable vices.

Child:

A few days ago, my father thought that now that Chinese society is developing to the current stage, he has the ability and should do things better, but in the past few days, he feels that the problems he is facing now are many times magnified and complicated than in the past, and so many problems have emerged in the surrounding areas at once. Just like the way novels are written, they have to be driven by the plot, and I think the concept of plot is outdated, and there is such a concept as tangling, which is more complex and difficult to sort out than the plot. Now the need for higher ability, more intelligent methods, and stronger strength is a test for contemporary Chinese, and from some of the things we have come into contact with, it is more common to use the current people to solve the current problems lack knowledge, experience, and wisdom, and need a new generation like children.

Dad:

First of all, live your own life well, everyone's life is good, the life of a family is good, the society is good, and the country is good.

Child:

It turns out that Western economics has two propositions: one is that everyone can know and grasp their own affairs, so there is no need for state intervention, which is laissez-faire; The other believes that everyone does not know where their own interests lie, for example, information asymmetry, market mechanism problems, and insufficient information, so state intervention and guidance are needed. Now that China implements a market economy, after the disintegration of the enterprise-run social system, the individual is reduced to an atom like an atom.

Wu watched TV news for Song Rou, there was a father who killed his five-year-old son, and after being arrested, he confessed that it was not his intention, the child had no memory, forgot his own promises, his parents were divorced, and he was worried that his education would not be good, and he would definitely bring bad consequences to the society when he grew up. Song Rou looked at it and said, is it still to eliminate harm for the people by killing her five-year-old child? What do you think.

Dad:

I also wish Mom and Dad a happy, comfortable and smooth holiday! I am proud and proud to have such parents! Can we be fathers and mothers like you? It's not impossible, but it takes effort! I really appreciate you for giving me the opportunity to feel the love from you! I also want to say, I love you guys!

Child:

A few days ago, I thought of a problem, after I retired, I aroused the concern and attention of you and your mother and colleagues and friends, and arranged some activities as much as possible to relieve loneliness and loneliness, now many people feel that my mental state is very good, but who would have thought that your mother has also just retired, ended the most important career in her life, and is more lonely and lonely than me. There are few social activities, and my heart is almost only pretending to be our affairs, I also pay attention to accompanying her to go shopping, play mahjong, buy vegetables and cook, but it is still not enough, but after having this awareness, I can consciously do it, her eyes have some cataracts, and her body is sometimes uncomfortable. In particular, she is not like an ordinary mother for her children, she is particularly worried and worried, and she will be restless without your information for a day. Sometimes it is that you have to contact no matter how busy you are, but now you are afraid of affecting your work, but Si'er is anxious, so I have to restrain myself, I see her like that, it is also very uncomfortable, she is really worried. Truly. I chatted with some of my children's friends who were out of town, saying that my children didn't want their parents to call all the time. The child also does not contact the family for many days. Since you started school, you have to call almost every day, and we tell others that children often call home, and friends have praised you and said that your family Wu Song is really sensible. If the child chooses the appropriate way to keep in touch with the mother frequently, can he learn from the zero reporting system implemented by the government to maintain stability? Even if there is nothing to report, send a text message, not to report if there is something. In the past, whenever I was on a business trip, I would send you and your mother a text message when I went out of the city or into the city, which looked annoying. But to save her relatives from worrying, sometimes she has to ask and complain if she forgets it. Someone who cares so much about themselves is actually happiness. The child will have time to ponder and communicate with your mother. There is a sentence in "Golden Vase Plum", the wife is virtuous and the husband is less in trouble, and the son is filial to the father, in the past, I only knew the first half of the sentence and did not know the second half of the sentence, it turned out to be here, I think it is the wife to the husband, the son to the father, as a man is really ashamed, I should really reflect on what I have done. Especially if you are too far away from home, I think if you really stay in the provincial capital, your mother will definitely ask you to come back often or simply visit you often. The three of you started recording, and two days ago I sent your eldest brother to send the money, and I want to give you anything, and we will return it to him one day, and it will be your filial piety. Today we played mahjong, your mother told Hao Da about it, and he said that you are really good.

Child:

At present, you are facing the double pressure of work and life, you should see that the work has opened up the situation and entered the state of intimate integration into the work group, and then it is a matter of gradually improving your ability to work, as long as you pay attention to learning and seize the opportunity, Bai Xue's work will be able to adapt quickly, and there will be no problems, as for what level your work can be improved, it depends on your qualifications, endowments, opportunities, conditions and many other factors, the key is hard work. At the moment your work pressure has been relegated to a secondary position. Life pressure, just into the society due to family conditions, one step in place to save zài difficult, but we can be completely within three to five years to fundamentally improve, at present we can also rent conditions or down payment to buy the right, and so we go to study and solve, you have time to see more about the property. You must not take the pressure of life too seriously, and have confidence in your parents and yourself. For myself, I originally envisioned that after 3-5 years of re-studying, thinking, accumulating, and preparing to choose my own suitable direction to enter the society, I now feel that I can be greatly advanced. I have told you in the past that we fathers and sons can work together in different directions, and if our efforts cannot solve our own lives, we can make a difference. You should have confidence in your own future and life, don't be confused by the pressure and difficulties in front of you, and believe that everything will be solved quickly. You have to be confident in your future. If you are a man, you have to be responsible. When you have confidence, Bai Xue's state of mind will change. Don't think about what her family can do, we'll take care of it. The child believes that his qualifications and abilities will be able to successfully cope with the many exams of work and life!

Child:

It has been 10 months since I retired, firstly, there is no work pressure, and my mood is exceptionally clear; The second is the heavy adjustment of the dietary structure, the key is that there is no wine that must be drunk, especially less in the restaurant, and your mother eats more delicious meals by yourself, nothing more than cabbage, radish and kohlrabi, you never get tired of eating, and now you don't want to eat when you see the dishes in the restaurant; Third, the amount of exercise has been doubled, physical fitness has been enhanced, mental state is good, and there is no problem at all in walking 20-30 miles; Fourth, I didn't know how to write novels, but now I have gradually entered a state, what to write novels? It is to write about life, and writing itself is life, what is life? It is from the people and things around you to the whole world, and it is placed in the factors of the people themselves who can write what they can write.

Child:

The center of gravity of the southern capital has shifted eastward, and the house we bought in Yuanda Shanshui City should have a lot of room for appreciation. The ability and speed of Nandu to do things are unimaginable. Children have to be visionary, and the house we buy is our investment choice. There should be no mistake, mainly because the development of the eastern part of the southern capital will lead to a great improvement and improvement of the surrounding area as a whole.

Dad:

You are also idle, buy you a dog to coax to play, and let your godson buy it.

Child:

Don't buy it, children are their parents' pets, just like some people treat pets as their own children.

Dad:

What you said is very reasonable, corruption is difficult to eradicate, but it is definitely not impossible to eradicate, it will not exist forever. The premise of the overall change in social attitudes is the transformation of the individual, and people like us have already experienced this when it comes to corruption. I believe that more people have also deeply experienced it. In fact, it is useless to just criticize the problems that exist in the current society, such as corruption, which will stimulate the dissatisfaction of the majority of people and produce social contradictions. In fact, most people's starting point is to make life better, not to overthrow the regime. Grasp this starting point. The root of the problem lies in the fact that the overall quality of the people is still very low. Improving overall quality is not something that happens overnight, and requires each individual to complete self-improvement first.

Dad, I found that I have inherited some of your ideas, we should study, work, and live optimistically, and become a self-confident, healthy, happy, lively, and beneficial social factor. That's how I think about things, on the one hand, I'm at ease. On the other hand, it is beneficial to the country. It is a history that the Chinese do not want to mention, but have to mention. For a better understanding of that period of history, Nanjing can be replaced with Beijing, because at that time. Nanjing is the capital of China.

There is such a passage in "The Thirteen Hairpins of Jinling", they invaded and humiliated the women of another nation, but in fact, it was the dignity of that nation that they were committing adultery. They took such pictures as trophies in order to deeply stab the heart of that humiliated people. Since then, I've often wondered how many centuries it would take me to heal from such a deep wound? How many generations of unforgettable memories are needed to finally reach oblivion? Seeing this, I felt that my heart was indeed stabbed, and the words "don't forget the national shame" were finally given a concrete meaning at this moment. A good book can provide more room for imagination and provoke longer thinking than the camera.

Since Yan Geling is a female writer, she may be embarrassed to say that the incompetence of men of a nation is paid for by the women of this nation. At that time, the abandonment of Nanjing, the failure to evacuate the people, the flight of the commanders, and the leaderless army were all caused by the men of China's upper class at that time, which eventually led to the tragedy. If a small number of people are disgraced because of the mistakes of a small number of people, then these people will be punished sooner or later, and from this point of view, Chairman Mao is the will of the people and conforms to the trend of history. In this tragedy, it is the women who defend the dignity of the country. I can't help but ask, why should women be responsible for defending the dignity of the country? From a legal point of view, lowly life and pure life are equivalent, and the rescue of a virgin by a prostitute does not constitute an emergency refuge, but it is a moment when there is no law, and there is no law between countries.

What is national hatred and family feud? Would you still buy Japanese stuff? All I can say is that I won't buy it in the future. Do you want to do something about it? All I can say is that I want to do something that Japanese people can't do. I don't want to share my feelings about that history, but I will tell my children and grandchildren to remember that people, because they carved a knife in the backbone of our nation.

Child:

What you are talking about is not only an opinion, but also a sense of responsibility and responsibility, a family, a unit, a society, first of all, is a matter of men's responsibility, women suffer and suffer, it is a manifestation of men's incompetence. "Dream of Red Mansions" is huge, and no man has come forward to rely on Sister Feng to govern the family. Cao Xueqin also wrote "Dream of Red Mansions" with great shame, saying that it is not as good as a few skirts.

Child:

I think it's not that the IQ is low, but that the living environment faced by human beings today is much more complex than in the past, relying on IQ is not effective, just look at the children who are so young now can learn so many things, some people are very strong in the face of books, and can get high scores, but the later workplace table is not very ideal, these people should have a high IQ, and the ability to deal with books and artificially designed exam questions is relatively strong, but their ability to solve practical problems is generally poor, and the complexity of the actual problems is far more than that of artificial design. In the face of a complex environment, human beings need to evolve new wisdom crystallization, such as emotional intelligence and music quotient, and music quotient knows what to be happy and what not to be happy. Le Shang may be more effective in controlling human behavior, helping to make the right choices and keep sticking to them. Any wisdom is helpful to help people make choices, complex problems require multiple wisdoms, and the so-called spirituality is not a single wisdom but a combination of multiple wisdoms.

Child:

Dad was still thinking about what Dad did for his child just now, and suddenly, he thought of what the child did for his parents, from being admitted to university and then taking the college entrance examination and then taking the master's degree and then the lawyer's examination, and also planning to take the examination for the examination of the club, and successfully broke through one danger after another. Employment and very quickly integrated into the work group, now I think, when the father sees the child's admission letter, repeat it repeatedly, and now the father can still remember: Wu Song. With the approval of the Provincial Admissions Committee, you will be admitted to Harbin University of Science and Technology to study English. Please report to the Department of English on September 14. Child. The happiness that brings to mom and dad, children, when you hear the information of every progress of the child, and the snow, is the happiest thing for mom and dad!

Child:

Dad knows his fate, and he has to rely on his father to break through. Dad was more than 10 years ago. There was a time when I had never been at the peak of writing, writing more than 300 essays in one go, ranging from a few a day to a single thought. I could almost put pen to paper, and I knew very well at the time that such a moment was not easy to come by, so as long as I had an idea, I started to write it down, and the later book of Leye was basically based on that experience. Because of that experience, will there be a similar breakthrough in writing novels now?

In the process of writing, it is often important to experience some kind of adventure revelation firsthand. Foreign scientists say that the nightmares we have are the memories of our distant ancestors who saw the fearful scene because the stimulation was too strong and turned into a memory imprint and reproduced in the dreams of later generations. In the same way, some of our current feelings will be transformed into memories and then appear in the dreams of future generations in the way of inheritance, right?

3 a.m. on Dec. 9

Child:

Dad imagines that the child will be a lovable and well-behaved young man in the workplace, but in the social stage of professional life, this is only the initial feeling, and he should strive to make himself sound and mature in dealing with people, gradually be respected and respected by people, and maintain a cautious and obedient character throughout his life. When you first enter the workplace life society, you will feel full of sunshine and hope, just because it has not yet shown its richness and change. There is also a dangerous side to the society of working life, and so many batches of victims of the stragglers have appeared, showing one scene after another that people don't want to see. You are a typical tragic character, a lifetime of hard work, generous, and very perceptive, in the past in the unit society was a very respected and loved person, I have seen very moving scenes. It's a pity that he has too little education, and his temperament is impatient and even irritable, especially during his serious illness in his later years, he is particularly strong, self-respecting, Lao Tzu is the first in the world, blindly confident, and the most typical expression is believing in his own medicinal wine and even not hesitating to try wine. There is a very complicated side to his character, and now it seems that he belongs to the tragic figure who did not adjust well and grasped himself, which is very typical among them in the 40s. The three major lives were full of failures: he was admitted to the county No. 1 middle school and was suspended for half a year; The construction company successfully competed for the manager, but unfortunately did not complete the term and resigned; went to the sea to invest in the border areas and set up factories and finally returned; After coming back, the three opening of the clinic did not last long. He is a person who is unwilling to sink, and he has been hit by setbacks in his life during his six years in bed, but he is still excited, and he wants to summarize his life. The child knows that the recording is very tiring and tiring without a script, perhaps because the recording is overworked, which aggravates the condition, and in addition, he must be very sad to look back on the past. The recording of Tong Guò further exacerbates the tragic color of his fate, and also highlights his spirit of resistance and challenge to fate. A few days ago, I told you that the recordings of the third major ones should be regarded as his spiritual legacy. Children should know that tragedy can bring pain, shock, vigilance, enlightenment, and rich educational significance. Although the three major lives are full of failures, he can still show his exhilarating struggle in his dying period, which is extremely commendable, and it is a pity that it was not realized in a successful way and ended in tragedy.

Child:

After going home in the middle of the night before night, there was basically no one all night, I felt a feeling of emptiness, and I had filled your three for so many years, and suddenly it was gone, fortunately, I was with your mother that night, and found that the three eyes had been straightened, and then rushed to the hospital, and died in just over an hour, and he was too pitiful in the last two days. Dealing with the aftermath, seeing that a large group of nephews and nieces with your eldest brother and the second family as the core have an atmosphere of affection and mutual assistance, the funeral is thoughtful and meticulous, and they are also very considerate and caring for the older generation, our older generation feels very gratified. I and your mother also forget but a big wish, over the years your mother has not been less with me to run there, especially with the three to play hemp, but also to do their best, the child also bought advanced recording equipment for the three three, but also to do a filial piety, the three also let you leave your phone want to call you when the condition improves. The three major things are too special, I have invested a lot of energy over the years, and the overall situation of the other big and old aunts is different from the three majors, and those nephews and nieces are also very strong, I can rest assured. From now on, it's just your aunt's place, I have to think about it more. As for me and your mother, you can rest assured.

Dad:

The three have made a lot of contributions to the whole family and have helped our family a lot, and they are spiritual leaders. The three lifelong struggles are worth learning from our younger generations, his spiritual wealth is worth inheriting and carrying forward, and his departure is a loss for the entire family. The elder brothers and sisters of the second family are the core of our generation, although there is no major breakthrough in the career, but with their support, the whole family will be cohesive, the spirit will not be dispersed, and it also provides a platform for the growth of the next generation. Our older brothers and sisters of this generation are working hard in their respective jobs, but unfortunately they lack the courage of the three major generals, they have not come out, and they have lost the opportunity to contact the elites in society, which is the regret of their lives, and I believe that they will create such opportunities for their children.

Child:

In the past few days since your death, my father has thought of many things and realized many things. Under the condition of a large number of rural families, it is too difficult to achieve transfer and promotion, but fortunately, grandparents and adults are willing to pay a responsibility, and even make self-sacrifice, so that the whole family can be today, no one makes self-sacrifice, it is too easy to cause the sinking and defeat of the whole family, how many families have interpreted such a story. At that time, facing such a poor and populous family, others, including relatives, did not dare to reach out to help, it was contempt, fear, sympathy, all of which had happened, but for such a family, they had to be within the family, like our family, the old and the big made self-sacrifice, worked hard, and the small studied hard, forming a peculiar cultural landscape, which was built with a human ladder to enhance the landscape. Children, now need, not only now, there is a kind of return to help, that is, to feed. That is, the landscape composed of the combination of self-sacrifice in the early stage and the later aid and assistance. Of course, economic and social development and the soundness of various mechanisms seem to be far away from those years. In fact, the topic of poverty, the reality of poverty, still exists, including Guangdong and even the whole country. Children, in this era, poverty is not to show off, and it is impossible to show off, but there is always a need for vigilance, sympathy, and care for poverty, because we came from there.

Dad:

Don't be sad, it is not a relief for him to leave this world, his career and family are not going well, I hope Lingzhe will inherit the spiritual wealth of the three greats. It is gratifying to see that the brothers and sisters are united and help each other, which makes people feel warm and full of hope. I fought to go home for the Chinese New Year. (To be continued......)