Chapter 316: The Door to Happiness Is Wide Open
Wu Wei continued to realize that karma is just a medium, a medium, and the heart is the foundation of happiness. The mind determines the state of mind. The nature of the heart determines the mind. If you cultivate your mind and cultivate your nature, you will be happy and bitter, be kind and good, disgusting and malice, and love and love. There is karma in karma, and there is a heart in the heart. The Tao of the heart is the foundation of the Tao, and the ultimate of enlightenment lies in realizing oneself and understanding the heart.
Interlacing is like separating mountains, but separating the mountains is not separating the heart. People have the same heart and nature as they do with each other. Human affairs are separated, but people's hearts can move each other. Wu Wei's happiness did not touch the hearts of some people, blaming others for being shallow and having bad intentions, and then turning from resentment to self-blame, seeking a way of self-improvement and improvement.
Wu Wei, who has a spiritual travel process, now thinks back on what he has realized in the past as a Taoist and human being, which opens the door to happiness. Enlightenment is the cornerstone of success in life, is the foundation of happiness, life is not successful, how to have fun, do a failure, the accumulation of failure, even the hope of success, happiness is naturally destroyed and annihilated. Enlightenment is the joy of the Tao, the foundation of happiness, the source of pleasure. With Wu Wei's personal understanding, only enlightenment is the joy of the Tao and loses the simplicity, in school only care about reading and not others, known as only specialized, not popular, go to work and enlighten the Tao and do not care about everything, although the career is successful, but is regarded as a nerd, dead, the official language is called talented and not virtuous. Although he himself experienced the joy of enlightenment, he also tasted the distress of loneliness in the world. For the sake of the Tao and for human beings, it is true that they are repelled by each other in their hearts. Enlightenment for the Tao needs to be meditated, and the mind is quiet and wisdom comes naturally, but people need to be concerned about the difficulties of others and be enthusiastic about helping each other. Some colleagues call him the originator of happiness, and happiness is indeed a true portrayal of his life, but he doesn't care about housework. You have to make your wife and children happy first, saying that people like him should not marry a wife and have children, and be happy to work. Wu Wei's mental journey has personally experienced the rejection of the two, coupled with too obsessed with enlightenment for the Tao, the so-called enlightenment for the Tao is to concentrate on teaching and writing good articles, and do nothing else, colleagues and neighbors have any difficulties are also indifferent to each other, like a solid ice barrier, through the attitude of others to see what kind of person they are, in the past I only felt the value of perseverance for the Tao. Others also think that it is precious, but this kind of preciousness does not protect one's soul from the invasion of ice, and it turns out that in addition to attachment to the Tao, there are more precious things that are ignored by oneself. I think of the past and have many wishes for people in the depths of my heart, but they are fleeting, not fixed, and in a state of fluctuating and uncertain. I have always thought that human relations are vulgar, delaying business, and cumbersome. I often imagine the ugliness and sinister of the human heart, and it is precisely this kind of thought and thought of people that gradually erects a wall between people and me, and this wall becomes ice when I feel helpless. It deepens the pain of loneliness and helplessness. It is this kind of pain that makes the depths of his soul quietly grow and accumulate some new spiritual elements, producing an unprecedented spiritual energy, as if implanting himself with a spiritual vaccine. It not only heals the great pain experienced, but also acts like an invisible armor, and also enables the mind to gain spiritual immunity. Protected from all kinds of toxins. He is determined to be both Taoist and human, and to adopt a warm attitude in the direction of interpersonal communication and human relations, and create a friendly and friendly atmosphere for Tao and people. He should be enthusiastic about housework at the same time, start housework with the power of wish-retribution, and then look at his pleasing wife, he calls this the best aesthetic education. Soon he experienced the joy of being a man, from the simple joy of enlightenment for the Tao to the double happiness of both the Tao and the man, both to experience the joy of enlightenment for the Tao, and to experience the joy of being a person, the two joys complement each other, complement each other, and also make him greatly increase his mental strength, along with the change of position, the extension of karma, and truly enter the realm from my happiness to my happiness to my happiness and happiness, and everyone is happy.
Wu Wei saw some people around him, the landscape of professional life showed ups and downs, and his life was more than 3-5 years, and less than 1-2 years, and sighed that the scenery was so short. He looked back on his past life path, endured all the hardships, and felt the importance of being a man and a person, which set up a new coordinate for him to look at himself, others, and society, so as to grasp the direction of his life and prevent the occurrence of heavy deviations. He saw that some people focus on the Tao and others on people, and thought about how to avoid the ups and downs of life, maintain the stability of life and the continuous improvement. He began to consciously influence and drive the people around him, and his group was under his influence and drive, with a positive atmosphere, a good attitude, and remarkable work results. In private, Wu Wei often discusses with everyone, without professionalism, there is no height, the development is unstable, and it is easy to have big ups and downs; If you don't pay attention to maintaining people, no one will support you, and don't think that if you do a good job, others will naturally support you, and good things may not be your turn. On the road of being a person, Wu in order to maintain a friendly and amiable personality, personality charm, attracted a group of people, enthusiastic to help others, persistent, indisputable character, has become a kind of workplace strong, some colleagues who compete with him, ashamed of themselves have to avoid.
Wu Wei's door to happiness is wide open, and he realizes that enlightenment is the foundation of happiness and the way of happiness in the world. The joy of a saint is the joy of enlightenment. Confucius said that it is enough to die at the end of the day, and Mencius said that a gentleman has three pleasures, including the happiness of enlightenment and enlightenment of a sage, and the worldly joy of having both father and brother, which can be described as having both holy and secular pleasures. Wu Wei was fortunate to have the joy of enlightenment, and because of the success of his career, he got Song Rouxian's internal help and Jiaomei's wisdom and external help, which is considered the joy of men, and the joy of being a man is the joy of making friends. At the gathering of friends, Wang Wei said to him, as a man, the eldest brother has done everything he should do. It can be said that the holy and the secular have both pleasures, elegant and secular appreciation, which is equivalent to the religious and secular pleasures at the same time, which can be regarded as the empirical evidence of the communication between the two worlds.
Wu Wei summed up that he was the greatest luck to be able to come to the world. He can go to work and do things for laid-off people as much as possible, act when he hears the news, send letters immediately, and act diligently; He understands and understands the pressure on the workers, and when he quits, he should try his best to avoid the burden of office workers, and simply quit, imagining that he is like a prisoner who has been trapped in a cage for a long time and is suddenly released, so that he can walk freely and absorb the sun, water and nutrients of nature. He himself reflects on how to navigate the meat grinder-like workplace and navigate between many roles with ease. He believed that his actions would bring good fortune to others, and he did not seek anything for himself, but only wanted to enhance the blessings of others. His actions have always won the favor of others. He knows what he says and does to make people happy. He will also be distracted for a while, worrying about who to provoke, which is annoying, and he will immediately restrain and adjust. Sometimes he would rather close himself flatly, thinking that this is also a special kind of self-packaging in life, although such packaging will be misunderstood and misinterpreted, but never justify anything, the more good things are depicted, the more brilliant the bad things are depicted, the more black they are, he expects that sometimes doing nothing will be more able to protect themselves, achieve themselves, and avoid life risks than doing things. He even advised those who had just attained their heights not to seek merit, but to seek no fault. He revised the wartime logic that only by protecting oneself can one destroy the enemy and that only by destroying the enemy can one better protect oneself be changed to the peacetime logic that only by protecting others can one protect others and that only by protecting others can one better protect oneself. Guan Jingtao, who has worked with him for decades, said that leaders, colleagues, and brothers like him will never see him again in the workplace. This made him enter and leave the workplace, without big ups and downs, no great joys and sorrows, and he was conscientious, diligent and positive when he was promoted; When he encounters setbacks, he often finds reasons from himself, silently accumulates energy, and looks for space and opportunities for release. He seems to be born with a sense of mission, and always feels that he has an inexhaustible energy that drives him to achieve a rich and colorful life. He rarely confesses himself, and he leaves more opportunities for confession to others; He rarely argues with others, and he is good at proving himself with his obscure actions. Therefore, he subjectively does not make enemies, and objectively no one has trouble with him.
In his generation, Chinese society became prosperous and strong, but also a huge adjustment and rupture of the social structure, the social income gap widened, and the social system of units and offices disintegrated, and he and his contemporaries were in the throes of reform, and he saw that some contemporaries were unable to heal the pain in the throes, and the short-term pain became a long-term pain or even a lifelong pain, and the nation suffered from a malignant tumor of corruption, which also increased his sense of distress and a strong sense of responsibility and mission, so that he did not sink into decline, but realized self-redemption and then saved others. As an office worker, he does things for laid-off people as much as possible, so that he must visit during the Spring Festival, see when he is sick, and come to happy events. Some people don't understand what he does. He firmly believes that sharing happiness is to enhance happiness and multiply happiness, which is a multiplicative effect; Sharing the pain is to alleviate the pain until it becomes nothing, and it is the division effect, and he plays the role of this effect as much as possible. Different stages of life require different transformations and transformations, and a deep understanding and sympathy for people. A few years ago, the deep understanding and sympathy for the laid-off people who quit the workplace early, a few years later, so that his understanding of the fate of people has a better grasp, and he will be as free as possible from the burden of office workers, he said to those office workers, thank you very much for giving me understanding, love and respect, but you must not always want to comfort me, help me pass the lonely and lonely life, you try to focus your time and energy resources on the front of the workplace, you have the pressure, difficulties and challenges that you must face, I am waiting for you here, After you retire from the workplace, you can enjoy a carefree and carefree ideal life together. He cannot achieve his spiritual freedom in such a way as to burden and worry about people. His freedom was utter freedom, and he felt that it was easier to have a higher level of experience in a state of spiritual freedom and to share this higher level of experience with others. He has ample opportunities to avoid all kinds of misfortunes that people encounter, he has the privilege of reducing the fatigue of life, although he has been tortured by all kinds of hardships but has become a rare opportunity for enlightenment, he has always maintained a posture of hard work, and he has the qualifications of optimism that make him calmly cope with the challenges of the world. (To be continued......)