Home is the cradle of everyone's birth, the fertile soil for nourishing personality, and the ultimate place for spiritual conversion. Father's love is like a mountain and mother's love is like a sea, which can provide an inexhaustible source of emotion for a person's growth. Father's love gives people strength, and mother's love gives people emotional nourishment. Having both fatherly and maternal love is the first blessing in life, and it is the cornerstone of building a sound personality. The lack of father's love from an early age can easily make people vulnerable, and the lack of mother's love makes people withdrawn. The love of parents is lost, and if you are fortunate enough to be carefully cared for by everyone, it will make people feel the great love of the world. Love should also be moderate, and spoiling will harm children and grandchildren. The love of husband and wife will provide a warm harbor for children.

Wu Wei felt the love of his parents since he was a child, although his family was poor, he did not suffer mental trauma, he saw the world as bright, and he was fortunate to obtain immunity when he grew up and entered the world. He later concluded that he had inherited from his father the hard work and wisdom from his mother, and that he had not been tainted with the bad habit of fighting in the nest in the long road of his life, but had accepted his mother's teachings that "one should not be strong in the cave gate, but have the ability to go outside". His colleagues commented that he was well-cultivated, and he was rarely seen arguing and losing his temper. His parents were the first discoverers of his potential. His father saw that he was very nimble in doing farm work, and praised him for doing anything, and he was very fond of farm work, so he gave up his studies to work in agriculture after three months of study in the first year of junior high school, and it was his mother who took strong intervention to make him repeat his studies and start his long academic career. If his mother hadn't forced him to go back to school, marry a wife and have children in the countryside, his life would have been a different scene, and I don't dare to speculate here.

Song Rou has always been favored by her parents when she was young, and she was fortunate to eat more picky food, and her physical and mental development was good, but she learned a lesson from her parents who lacked affection, and secretly vowed to take good care of her husband in the future. Song Rou's colleague jokingly said. She cared about Wu Wei materially and spiritually. Wu Wei joked about this, saying that he grew up at gunpoint and created his own excellent psychological qualities. Caused everyone to laugh. Wu Wei knows that his wife's care for him is almost harsh, which is much better than ignoring the warmth and coldness, and he feels that it is a great blessing in life. She herself often said that she had two children, one old and one young. The old is his lifelong companion, and the younger is the hope for the future. Song Rou is a natural expert in governing the family and a model for husbands and children. So that Wu Wei is not entangled in housework. The family does not worry about food, clothing and use, which realizes the greatest emancipation of ideology, spirituality and time, relieves worries, and specializes in academics. Like the ancient male farmer and female weaver, Song Rou gets the greatest satisfaction from the achievements of men's careers, and is at ease in taking care of housework. Song Rou is proud of her husband's successful career and son's success, and Wu Wei sighed that men and women nourish each other, and women rely on men's success. Men rely on women's care. Both of them seemed to have comprehended God's arrangement in advance, and they were at ease with it, and they had tacit rational consciousness and achieved refuge in fate. And melted into the cornerstone of personality, it seems unbreakable. The common quarrels between husband and wife have become the spice of life. In the eyes of outsiders, Song Rou's harshness is unbearable, she said herself. She is a knife-mouthed tofu heart, kind-hearted and hard-mouthed, and Wu has developed a super ability to defend herself in order to adapt to such a context. She said he was a natural starling. It is not a matter of course to take it for granted, and there is no time when it is wrong to yourself. He said that she was a bone in the egg, and she always made herself angry. Blame and complain every day. Wu Wei beautified Song Rou's grinding, calling it aestheticism, and she imagined that her man did not have any flaws. However, the sloppiness of being born in a peasant family penetrates into the bone marrow, and the person who is often in charge is unkempt**, and he does not pay attention to his dressing, and he is not the object of going to the picture. When I get up in the morning, I see that his hair is always not well combed, and almost every day I drag him to the mirror, you can see for yourself, sometimes you simply take a towel and dip it in water to brush his stripped hair, and then pick up a comb and comb it. Wu Wei also began to consciously take care of some housework within his ability, cook some simple meals, and be proud of being appreciated by Song Rou, sometimes sitting at the table and deliberately asking her, how do you feel, is it a "nourishment" in your heart? Song Rou said angrily, if I "nourish" in my heart, you will have to burn high incense, while speaking, she picked up the chopsticks and took a bite of food to taste, looked at him and said with a smile on his face, this time it's okay. But he still couldn't help but hum, when you were young, you didn't have one hand, you should do something too. Sometimes I look at the color of the dish and taste it, put less soy sauce and more salt, how many times have I told you, I am disgusted when I see a light-colored dish. So I put more soy sauce in my hands, and I didn't grasp it well, and it looked black. She looked at it, and the soy sauce bottle overturned. Wu Wei deliberately angered her, just this method, she likes to eat or not. She said angrily, how many days have you only been doing it, how many years have I been at that time, and I have no patience to do it. Wu Wei said that he secretly began to carve carefully, cut the dishes carefully, and the seasonings were reasonable, striving for color, flavor, and taste. Mopping the floor, I always think that his mop is not clean. Wu Wei defended that the mop should be properly equipped with some moisture to increase indoor moisture and avoid drying. The vegetable filling of the dumplings, saying that he had a lot of strength, and deliberately asked him to hold it with his hands, but he still thought that the water content of his hands was large, but Wu Wei said, such dumplings are smart. Song Rou often chatters, looking at the tacit understanding of other husbands and wives, she is very envious. I regretted again, how can you say that you don't understand, so why can't people who understand understand it, it's deliberately angry with me. I can't do it in this life. In the next life, I will also give birth to a man and see what is going on with men. Wu Weidao, what is tacit understanding? Husband and wife can always go in and out of pairs, that is, love and tacit understanding, you see how many couples are still inseparable together and go out early and return late. How many times have we gone out together and met acquaintances, aren't they all playing tricks? When I went shopping for vegetables together, the man and the woman were empty-handed, but they were carrying big bags and small bags, and how many old husbands and wives muttered about how many years they had been separated, it seemed to have become a glorious thing. The two traveled together, and they also responded to the ancient admonition, raising their heads and bowing their wives. Wu Wei said with a smile, this is a natural match for love and tacit understanding.

Song Rou also has many male colleagues around her who are fond of her, but after long-term observation and testing, it was found that she only pretended to be Wu Wei in her heart, and they all retired with reluctance, commenting that she could do anything, that is, she couldn't go out on a date alone. Sometimes looking at her bare white and soft arms at the wine table, I can't help but find a salty pig hand from the head to caress and knead, and I have a good time. Wu Wei knew that his wife's inner defense was strong, and he felt that his wife's infinite charm could attract the envy of his peers, so he pretended not to see it when he saw it. Wu Wei couldn't help but wonder sometimes, Song Rou said angrily, what kind of woman his daughter-in-law is, it is not clear, put the basin on his woman's head, what kind of man are you?

Wu Wei once learned from his parents, and now from his own small family, he has profoundly experienced the wisdom of his wife and husband, and the filial piety of his father. For him, home is a spiritual treasure trove that can withstand thousands of repetitions without losing its vivid character. Therefore, once there is a need to draw spiritual power, it can be continuously motivated by experiencing the aftertaste, just as plants can get a steady stream of nutrients from the land. This original family emotional connection made him feel considerate in his loneliness; Feel the warmth in the cold; Feeling hope in hopelessness; Feel the light in the darkness; feeling rich in poverty; feeling relieved in depression; Feel the enjoyment of beauty in the dull and boring, and build a family artistic conception of skin-to-skin, happiness and harmony, which has become your ideal refuge. (To be continued......)