When Wu Song was in high school, like all parents, Wu Wei Song Rou was also extremely nervous, as long as the child came home from school, he always kept an eye on the child. As long as he leaves the book, he feels that his heart is not solid, there is a sense of loss, unstable, vaguely felt, there is a very ruthless expectation in his heart, I wish the child would not leave the book 24 hours a day, the hand will not leave the pen, the heart can be stable, as long as I see the child playing games, I want to relax and relax, to a little freedom, although I also feel sorry for the child, but I am always worried that the ease has become a terrible and difficult to save the performance of the effort to give up, and I can't help but intervene. When the child is older, he understands the reason, but he is worried that he is not involved in the world and does not know the difficulties of the world, and he does not think deeply about the importance of learning.

Song Rou enlightened the child, if you don't study hard, you can only sweep the street in the future, you don't see how hard the street sweepers are, you are still sleeping every day, people take advantage of the three or four o'clock in the morning when the car is less people sleeping, just get up and sweep, and the money is not much.

Unexpectedly, Wu Song said with a smile, you don't know what to do, now the street sweeping position has become the preferred choice for college students' employment.

Nonsense, Song Rou said, I learned it from your father, and I don't take it for granted.

Wu Song then smiled and said, my mother doesn't know the truth of the road, now the cleaners also have a system, even if they are in the system, some of our senior brothers in the last session, the first choice for choosing a career is to be in the establishment, as long as it is in the establishment, whether he is a cleaner or not, if he is ruthless, he will die in the establishment. Our generation is not like you anymore. At that time, no matter how you studied, you could easily enter the system and live a secure life through some channels of succession or government and unit placement. As for us, since we were sensible, we only knew that we had to take the test and take the test hard, and we couldn't relax and relax.

Song Judo, the times are different, what can you do to catch up with such an era. Aren't they all using mechanics. You just want to enter the establishment, and you can't do without the exam, this is fate.

Wu Song said, you'd better take care of my business. I know what to do. I know what you think. I don't know what I think, but today's elementary school students think the same way as our high school students. Facing the pressure of the college entrance examination. Life always has to be faced, if you can't deal with it, you don't care about it, you can't be indifferent to it, you really can't pass the test, find another way out.

Song Judo, what you said is quite easy, it will be too late to regret it by then, seeing that others are better than you, you can cry by yourself.

Wu Wei, who had not spoken, asked, do you mean that there is a generation gap between us?

Wu Song lowered his head and thought for a moment, and then said, generation gap? To put it simply, I think it's a chasm, it's just a mountain and a huge ravine.

Wu Wei said with a smile, isn't that difficult to communicate, difficult to communicate?

Wu Song nodded and said, I really understand it this way.

Song Rou said angrily, the child has been raised and raised, and he can't say anything.

Wu Song said, you see, my mother wants to go in that direction again, isn't this difficult to communicate?

Wu Song said again, I all three said that I, as long as I get rid of your shackles, I will be out.

Song Rou listened to the airway, how could she persuade the child so much.

Wu Wei thought that how to communicate with children in the future is really a problem. Privately persuaded Song Rou that the child knew that he had worked hard, and he had just entered high school and was ranked in the third or fourth hundred, and after his own efforts, he had already entered the 100-person list.

Song Rou snorted, you are still content, you don't see that his ranking is unstable, if you are catching up with the decline in the college entrance examination, you will be too late to cry.

Wu Wei participated in the parent-teacher meeting two months before the college entrance examination, and saw the banner above the blackboard, the competition before dawn, the rising is the sun! Wu Wei listened to the class teacher's speech, and thought about what the child could do when he entered the sprint stage? An idea popped into my head, deliver a meal. In supporting the child's learning, the two of them have a high degree of tacit understanding, Song Rou cooks dinner at home, and Wu Wei goes to deliver the meal. On the first day, I saw the bus on the meal, thinking that the car in that direction could go to the child's school, but the car went to the first road but turned elsewhere, Wu Wei immediately saw the station and got off, and then took a taxi to the school, and when I went back, Song Rou couldn't help laughing when she heard it, how could there be such a bus, and I didn't look at which car was going, and I got on the car when I got it, and I often made fun of it.

Wu Song came back and asked, Dad, what do you think when you see that sentence above the blackboard every day?

What do you think?

Spoof, we would rather not rise the sun than be free and chic in the dark.

Candidates come out of the examination room, many parents look at their children just come out, dare not open their mouths to ask, the child's mood infection spreads to parents, parents ask parents, how the child is in the test, I don't know how to answer, either don't squeak, don't ask, ask is boring.

This little Wu Song's mentality is really good, as soon as he walked out of the examination room and saw Wu Wei waiting outside, before he could ask, he said that the exam was good, and every subject was like this.

Wu Wei also smiled and said, this kid, no matter how good he is in the exam, he is a good person with good strength and a good mentality.

Wu Song Dao, the teacher specially said that when parents ask others how the test is, you will say that the test is good, so that you can unload your ideological baggage to meet the next exam.

Wu Wei said with a smile, the teacher didn't tell you alone, the students heard it, but you can't do it when you go out of the exam room.

Song Judo, the child's strength is not with you, poor and happy.

When Wu Wei woke up on the morning of the first day after the end of the Wu Song college entrance examination, his first feeling was that he had never felt more relaxed than before, and he felt very strange, how could he feel like this? suddenly realized that the end of the child's college entrance examination meant that he and Song Rou had achieved psychological and temporal liberation.

Wu Song's score did not reach the admission line of applying for key universities, and he did not fill in other volunteers, and the information fed back by the people who had been entrusted made the family disappointed again and again, and the clear answer on the day of the end of the admission was that the person entrusted this time had already met the provincial recruitment director and did not dare to do it, so he had to let some schools admit him. After hearing the news, her hopes were completely disappointed, Song Rou cried bitterly, and complained that the friend she had entrusted before had delayed the child's major event, muttering, if you can't do it, we won't look for you, plus the heavy rain is becoming extremely dark. I also felt extremely depressed. Wu Wei saw Wu Song's disappointed and helpless demeanor, and he had a feeling that if he died, he could avoid such a heavy blow to his son's immature heart, and he would not hesitate to bear it, he sat there alone, thought about it, thought about the child, and wrote a letter with a pen.

Child:

In a person's life, he will face many unpredictable difficulties, setbacks and even embarrassing, embarrassing, and humiliating situations. With the spirit of self-improvement. Forging and strengthening one's own ideological foundation, one's own spirit cannot be crushed, crushed, or defeated by difficulties and setbacks, and one's own destiny cannot be built on the basis of other people's efforts. When you see that whether my country's football team can qualify often depends on other people's scores, isn't it sad and angry with the national team? People should work hard. This is especially true when you encounter difficulties and setbacks. It should stimulate a kind of exertion. Life will often encounter such trials. If you don't have this spirit of anger now, sooner or later you will encounter a similar situation and you will not be able to stimulate and manifest this spirit. That is, in the face of difficulties, showing timidity, cowering, languishing, sighing, and unable to lift the spirit, then you can only spend your precious life in mediocrity. Whether you can get into the expected university, or you are forced to give up in the face of an unsatisfactory school, you should pay attention to adjusting your mental state as soon as possible, whether you go or not, you need to be angry. You have deeply experienced the taste of building your destiny on others, and this experience and experience is too important to you, that is, the most precious wealth of your life, so that you can feel that your efforts are the most important and reliable guarantee in life. Social development and the progress of civilization have made the embodiment and realization of this point more and more obvious. We need the help of others, and we try to enlist the help of others, but we must not be difficult for others, impose on others, and still less expect others to change their own destiny. A good school is not as good as a good major, a good major is not as good as a good job, and a good job is not as good as a good mentality. You have now developed a certain development advantage. After each subject in the college entrance examination, other children are reluctant to listen to other people's questions, but you are very happy to answer, the test is good, and you can say that the test is good without asking. At that time, we were still a little puzzled, how is this child different from other children, you also said that the teacher said before the exam that after the exam, others asked him to say that he did well in the exam. But how many of these students can really say that. You have a good mentality, love Chinese and have certain writing skills, you should consciously develop, strengthen, enrich and improve, form a significant advantage, what difficulties and setbacks in life can not be overcome? It is difficult for anyone to replace or replace the difficulties and setbacks that you may encounter in life, and the disappointment, discomfort and other experiences that accompany them, can only shorten and alleviate this experience. We must learn to face independently, solve independently, and surpass independently. In recent days, I always want to talk to you, I always feel that the time is not ripe, since I have to face it sooner or later, why not break through and solve it as soon as possible? We believe in children! Parents.

The next morning, Wu Wei Song Rou decided to go to the provincial capital to continue her hopeless efforts, and had already gotten into the car and left the house and drove on the street, but suddenly heard the news from a friend who had been entrusted to them surprised their whole family: Wu Song had been admitted by the president of a university in a special way.

After 19 years of giving birth to children and raising children, I finally looked forward to the admission letter, and the child was admitted to university to realize the first dream in life, and also pushed the parents to the second peak of happiness in life.

Child:

You can think of questions, we are very happy as parents. How can we use strong skills, hard work, and hard work to achieve a leap in life success? Be ambitious. Ambitions are not empty, they are actually very real. If you can combine the advantages of Chinese learning and writing with the advantages of English major, and through consolidation, strengthening and improvement, you will definitely find a breakthrough space in your own life and make achievements in how to integrate Chinese and Western cultures more effectively. If you want to do it from this perspective, you will draw nourishment, and your motivation to learn will not be exhausted, you are already standing on the platform of college students, and you should and have the conditions to think about problems and do things from a new height. The combination of professionalism and two advantages can determine your destiny and ambition, and it can effectively affect your life.

Child:

As you are about to enter college, you have experienced many things during this time. In fact, what you see and feel is often just a fragment, and you don't know how things have evolved into what you see. You need to know the Tao now, understand that there are many basic, foundational things in life. You should not be influenced by some fragmentary things, especially not your basic attitude towards life. I have a young colleague who saw that his brother Huaicai died prematurely due to depression, so he adopted a negative attitude towards people and things, and cast irreparable regrets in life, which is a pity. As long as it does not involve the basic things of life, you can treat it with a tolerant vision and mentality, and develop a peaceful attitude.

At present, the gap between the rich and the poor has long been deepened and expanded within the family. Between brothers within the family. Even between fathers and sons, disputes over money and property often become enemies. What is the reason for this? It's because the heart is too heavy. Our small family is not rich and rich, and we are not very poor. It's relatively stable. So it affects how you feel about society, about life, about life. It is precisely because of such a family background. On the contrary, you will feel less profound, clear, and concrete about the basic truth of relying on your own hard work, let alone feel painful. We cannot depend on anyone else for the good or bad of our own state of mind. It can't depend on other people's attitude towards themselves. You should stick to the basic point of being kind to others, which you need to remember and stick to throughout your life. The mind must be firm. If you can't hold on, you will become a person who goes with the flow, and has no assertive or fixed opinions, how can you gain a foothold in society?

You only feel a little bit of the heat and coldness of the world, but you have to know that your elders, feel the cruelty of the world. Therefore, they are more aware of how they should act. When my family was in Tuweizi, when I was only nine years old, I saw some words written by the educated youths on the blackboard newspaper, and guessed that it would be written about your grandmother, and sure enough, I saw a sentence written on it about your grandmother, Aunt Wu, who is happy to help others, has a deep influence on me, and it turns out that others see their mother like this.

Our big family is very complicated. When your grandfather was alive, he always told us that a chopstick is easy to break, but a chopstick is hard to break. Now, due to the gap between the rich and the poor, the impact of the big family on a person is too complicated, but you must firmly grasp a basic point: what our big family advocates the most is the spirit of self-struggle and self-entrepreneurship. Leaving this base point and paying attention to the trivial things is detrimental to your growth. Your attention and vigilance should be aroused. You should inherit and carry forward this family spirit. Self-improvement, never rely on people, rely on people!

Sticking to many of the basic things in life will benefit a person for the rest of his life. It's not hard to see that. When the news of the failure of the university application came, if I had called the friend I had entrusted to me to tell me that instead of forgiving and calming down, I complained and blamed the sarcastic people, you can imagine what the consequences would be.

You should learn, inherit and carry forward the strengths and strengths of your elders, and do not be influenced by certain shortcomings and shortcomings. Don't always think that others can't live in your own place, and don't be others. You have to learn to be considerate of other people's difficulties, hardships, and difficulties!

Dad, August 12th

Child:

You said so easily today that the lesson of buying the wrong pair of pants for 80 yuan is worth it. At that time, I was very angry when I heard it, saying that you can spend how you want to earn money in the future, and you can't use your parents' money to buy lessons, and it was your mother who repeatedly said that she wanted to buy it with you, and you insisted on buying it yourself, and you said things like that when you knew that you were buying it wrong. Your mother always said that I was not strict with you when it came to spending money, and even indulged in it. I've always thought that it might be a mistake not to let children suffer from the money oppression and bondage that we have been subjected to in the past. Money is exchanged for sweat and even hard work, even if you make money in the future, you can't treat money so slowly and despise money, which is a manifestation of disrespect for yourself and the labor of others. This also shows that my educational philosophy is not sound.

Do you know that the poison gas incident that occurred in Nenshui City, on the one hand, shows that the government is negligent in prevention and early warning, knowing that the city is the research and development base of the Japanese army's chemical troops, and also knowing that there are drugs underground. On the other hand, the migrant workers and the purchasing station did not have any precautions against the unidentified objects dug up underground. I think that if there are hidden dangers in a person's thoughts and behaviors, and if he neglects to take precautions and does not eradicate them, it will be like being exposed to poisonous gas and having an incubation period, and sooner or later there will be an outbreak and harm to himself. You always tell us that you are already adults, and after listening to our persuasion, you say that you know the way, I know the way, and you who know the way do not know the way. But why do you still keep that kind of delicious snack habit for children?

What you said reminded me that you should also be wary of how to deal with money. The pressure and risks you face in work and life are no less than the pressures and risks you bear when you go to university, and you must know how to cherish the fruits of your labor.

August 16th

Child:

Last week, on a rainy day, when making dumplings, your mother told me that when it rained, I wanted a family of three to be at home, and one was outside, and I couldn't let go of it. Your mother worries about me and you too much, too much. Do you know how many times you cried during the sprint stage of your college entrance examination, especially when you were waiting for admission?

Today, you arranged a classmate dinner at home without greeting your parents in advance, which is underestimating your parents and you have some kind of distrust of your parents. You think how happy you and your classmates will be to do this together as a family, and we will respect your wishes, and when you are done at home, you can leave the house and let you have fun. Especially you shouldn't lose your temper with your mother, you're already a college student, so you have to have a standard of right and wrong. You and I have the responsibility and ability, and we should have a wish to make your mother worry-free and happy. The last thing she wants to see is that I have one or another vice with you, a vice that is purely man-made and knowingly committed, and I simply hate it. You must know your mother's hard work, and you must not do anything that makes your mother sad.

As children, parents should not and cannot be asked to do anything, because parents will do everything they can to their children. If there are some things that do not go as you wish, we should also understand and be considerate, and strive to make up for them through our own behavior. Who would be their parents?

The relationship between father and son and between mother and son is of course a natural family relationship, but it also needs to be consciously and consciously maintained, protected, and cherished, and nothing can be done that damages family affection. The closest parents in the world are there, but how many fathers and sons, mothers and daughters are opposed? Isn't it time to arouse your vigilance and attention? Even this kind of parent-child relationship, which is the easiest to deal with well, can't be handled well, how can other social relationships be handled well? How can a person who is not even respected by his parents truly respect others? (To be continued......)