Chapter 117: Familiar Thinking Routines
Wu Song was busy going to work, and Wu Wei began to move at home. He carried a large schoolbag on his back, and carried a large leather box with wheels in each hand, which was as full as possible each time, that is, clothes, bedding, kitchen utensils, office supplies, books, etc. At this moment, Wu Wei thought to himself, the child is far away from his hometown and works alone in an international metropolis like Nandu, he strongly experiences the pain in the child's heart, and does his best to let the child save effort and worry, and he can also make time to buy a house immediately, as if he has endless energy, going upstairs and downstairs and upstairs and upstairs.
Song Rou looked at him sweating profusely, and said distressedly, what did you look like?
Wu Weidao, I'm not tired, didn't I see who I was working for? There are no less than 20 round-trips in this way, and I simply ate something at noon, and finally saw the light at 3 o'clock in the afternoon, and my heart was bright. Immediately sent a text message to Wu Song and finished moving.
Wu Song replied, so fast? Tired of it, right?
Wu Wei replied, I didn't see who I was working for.
Wu Song sent a smile, haha.
Song Rou also cleaned up the new home, put the things in place, and the interior looked very decent, Song Rou looked at the indoor scene and said, let them live by themselves, I don't know how to clean up the house, let them live by themselves, it won't take a few days to change.
Wu Weidao, you give them a sample, and let them maintain it like this.
Song Judo, it's also a matter of saying.
Wu Wei and Song Rou packed up and carried them there, and they were very careful not to lose anything.
Wu Song still caused some unhappiness when he came back from work, first because he couldn't find a transportation card, so he asked. Didn't you see it when you moved it?
Wu Wei said that he saw it in the drawer, but he couldn't remember what he put it in for a while.
Wu Wei asked again, how much money does the card have?
Wu Song Dao, 100 yuan, is the last time Bai Xue came to do it.
Wu Song found it in the clothes and books that he moved, but he didn't find it after looking for a long time, so he was a little anxious, and asked again, did you throw it away?
Wu Weidao. I see that kind of thing can be thrown. I'm sure I've brought it here, and I'll see it slowly.
Wu Song was still anxious, and Wu Wei was also a little dissatisfied when he saw this, but it was very difficult to consider that the child was working here alone. And he didn't squeak and let him go.
Wu Song complained there that Song Rou had messed with things on the bed. Song Rou saw that he was already on fire because he was looking for that card. This can start a fire path. I put everything on the bed for you, and I didn't move anything, so you came back and put it in the cupboard. Besides, we'll do it when we come, and we'll be busy all day, and you'll be like this when we come back?
Wu Song was still muttering something there, Song Rou suddenly became angry when she saw this, what's the matter, after we came, the old donkey and the old horse were not happy, pick and choose, you see what you live in, and then look at the way we clean up, compare and see, besides, your father is tired of moving like this, you don't want to think about how old you are.
Wu Songdao, I also moved by myself at that time, taking the bus and then taking the subway from such a far place, and moving for more than half a month after work, and I did the same.
Song Judao, aren't we here to change your house in a hurry, improve the conditions, and make you live more comfortably, look at the house you used to live in.
Wu Song said, I didn't feel comfortable, and the family got more money and increased the pressure.
Song Rou looked at Wu Weidao with a wry smile, you see, we are in a hurry, and we have spent money to move over, and he hasn't felt it yet.
Wu Wei felt that the way of thinking reflected in Wu Song's words was too familiar to him, so he said, don't talk about it yet, and go shopping for vegetables and cooking after cleaning up.
At this time, Wu Song found the card when he was packing the contents of the suitcase. Wu Wei listened, you found it and remembered it.
Wu Wei secretly thought, from Wu Song's words and deeds, he saw some problems, and thought that a long time ago, he positioned himself in the ideological guidance and logistics support for the child, and waited for a good chat when he was free. After eating and the three of them sat down, Wu Wei said, the matter of that card, you are not worth being so angry, how much is it? Judging from this incident, you are too unresponsible. There is also the matter of putting things on the bed, you are angry with your mother again, Bai Xue doesn't let you put things on the bed, the clothes I just moved from there are all your own, and you can put them together on your bed, besides, how can Bai Xue know if you don't say such a thing?
Speaking of this, Song Rou also said angrily, you look at the way you live, it's not a place for people to stay, last year Bai Xue came, she didn't have anything to do, you were busy at work, she didn't know how to clean up the house?
Wu Song defended that her work had not been settled, and she had no intention of doing these things.
Wu Weidao, how long can it take to clean up the house? As soon as the two of them said this, Wu Song couldn't adapt for a while, and his face was dazed.
Wu Wei said again, we just came, and we were busy changing houses and buying houses, didn't we just want you to save worry and effort, but I didn't expect to cause these things. I think there are some problems with your thinking, which are exactly the same as the thoughts I criticized in books and classes: we say that moving is tiring, and you say that you are tired of moving; We say that it is more comfortable to spend money to improve housing conditions by changing houses, but you say that you don't feel it; We said to pay attention to keep the room clean and tidy, you said that you are busy at work and not in the mood after work. In fact, think about it for yourself, how long can it take to keep the home clean up every day and keep it scattered every day? I can conclude that your desk won't be much better if your home is like this, and what will the people in the law firm think of you when they see you sloppy like this?
Wu Wei paused, seeing that Wu Song listened carefully and was not annoyed, and then said, these thoughts of yours are all undesirable things, and they belong to unhealthy thoughts and behaviors. How can you handle work and interpersonal relationships with this set of thinking? No matter what others do to you, you have no value when you think about it, you are happy to think about it, not only can you not be happy, but also easy to be dissatisfied, what will happen to you when people see that you have this attitude? Do you want to think about it?
Wu Song was originally well aware of things and people, and Wu Wei's remarks may have prompted him to sort out his thoughts, and sit there thoughtfully, just listening.
Song Rou felt sorry for the child, listening to what Wu Wei said, she was a little heavy, and said, you see that you are talking endlessly, he just went to work and was under pressure and lived alone, he was too busy, so it was okay slowly.
Wu Wei thought that it seems that Wu Song now needs to adjust and integrate, the environment in which children grow up is important, and it is even more important to have a healthy growth psychology.
Song Rou continued, look, don't talk about whether you can clean up the house or not, this time I came, Tong Guò moved and looked at your things, how many pieces of naked clothes, how many pairs of shoes, and how many snack boxes and packaging bags were littered with leftover food? There is no calculation of spending money.
Wu Wei felt that the words were getting heavier and heavier, and the atmosphere seemed more and more tense, making the child not a body, and feeling that the heat was almost the same, and the conversation turned around and continued, of course, you have been in the same class as Bai Xue for so many years, you should know her better than us, I heard you say that she went to school and sat on a hard board and was reluctant to buy a sleeper, and she was guilty of hemorrhoids, and she was still very considerate of her parents, and we were also very moved when we heard it. A few years ago, we heard you say that you also let you buy her a sleeper every time you have a holiday, her father is patriarchal, and she feels a little depressed since she was a child, she can always pass so many difficulties like you, and it is not easy to see that she must be very hard and can endure hardships. However, now it seems that the problem is zài, and it will be necessary to pay attention to it later. She is also graduating soon, and she has been here in the past few days, or the old saying, you take the idea yourself, and we will bring it up to you as parents, of course, I hope to see the two of you getting happier and happier, and I also hope that you can grasp your life together. Then we stopped and said, "Tomorrow there will be nothing to do, and we will go out and start looking at the house."
Wu Song thought while listening, some of what her parents said was right, and some were not as they imagined, but when her father said this, she felt that Bai Xue did have some problems, and she really had to pay attention to reminding her in the future, so it was better to do her work slowly. (To be continued......)