Chapter 241: Ah Mei's Ten Rules of Self-Discipline
After Wu Wei's speech, he told Principal He that he wanted to ask Ah Mei alone to understand her ten rules of self-discipline.
Principal He said, many of the ideas you put forward at the report meeting, I also feel very novel after listening to them, and they have inspired some of my thinking, especially the idea of moral self-confidence, which has not yet been put forward in this way, especially from martial arts novels, affirming the positive core of the strong personality of the post-8090s, which is easier for students to accept. Is this good, just convene a small symposium, absorb the school's moral education teachers, some student representatives to participate, and also receive your in-depth education.
Wu Wei said with a smile, I don't dare to say in depth, it is also our common mission to observe and study the new generation, Ah Mei can actually put forward ten self-discipline, I am afraid that it is also education for us people, then listen to it together, and everyone can sit together and discuss.
The symposium is scheduled for Friday at 6 p.m. after dinner in a small conference room next to the principal's office. After the participants were done, Principal He said that Mr. Wu came to give a lecture, and he said that he had an unexpected discovery, and he would organize the discussion below.
Wu Weidao, I also came to receive education, I feel that although I don't know the specific content of the ten self-discipline proposed by Ah Mei, she can persist in doing it since she was a child, and this behavior itself is very valuable, which shows that she has a very valuable spirit of self-improvement in morality, and can make unremitting efforts. Human behavior is like sowing seeds, and what you sow will determine what you reap. I heard from Principal He that her academic performance is also very outstanding, and I would very much like to hear what her ten self-discipline rules are and how she persevered. Next, I would like to ask Ah Mei to talk about it.
I am also very grateful to the school for today's arrangement, thank you Teacher Wu for providing me with the opportunity to re-examine myself, and I report some of my thoughts to all teachers and students. I hope to get guidance from teachers and students.
My ten self-discipline rules are very simple, ten words and twenty words, good to the right, filial piety, respect for teachers, discipline, thrift, neatness, diligence, responsibility, not greedy, and non-fighting.
Wu Wei asked, how did you come up with the Ten Rules of Self-Discipline?
Ah Mei smiled and said, I am not as noble as Franklin, what kind of virtue plan do I want to do, I am afraid that the teachers will laugh, when I was very young, I especially liked to watch TV. I'm interested in any program, no matter how my parents persuade me to stop it, I can't stop it, I watch them when they're not at home, and the nanny doesn't let me watch them, I don't dare to stop them when I make a fuss, and my parents are always angry. Because I am a girl, my parents are reluctant to fight, just dissuade and be reasonable. If I continue to look like this, my eyes will be bad, and I will not be able to see anything in the future. Later, when I went to kindergarten, the teacher asked us not to be playful. Listen to your parents and don't make them angry. Teachers also know that children don't listen to their parents at home, but when they see the teacher in kindergarten, they become well-behaved. Particularly obedient, whatever the teacher says is what it is. I began to take the teacher's words as a holy decree and asked myself not to be playful. Don't make your parents angry and watch less TV. In order to restrain myself, I began to keep track of the number and time of watching TV every day, and I wanted to see if what I set for myself counted, and I thought at that time, the number of times I watched TV every day became less and less, and the time was getting shorter and shorter, just not to be greedy for fun, and not to make my parents angry. I saw that my parents liked me very much, so I added one more to myself and read more books. That's where my self-discipline comes from. Later, my parents found out about this note and encouraged me to keep doing it. I feel good about this, I set rules for myself and develop some good habits. As you get older, gradually add some rules to yourself, such as not deliberately dressing up, not eating snacks, and thinking that delicious snacks are childish behavior. Speaking of the current ten, the first one, good and right, she went on to talk about the face-to-face she proposed, highlighting the practical skills of exercising her face-to-face. Wu Wei listened with interest to the notebook, nodded from time to time, and sometimes whispered a few words to Principal He, who was sitting beside him.
Ah Mei said passionately, today, also give me the opportunity to thank my Shiyàn Middle School, the principal and teacher, my class and class teacher, my classmates, in this campus, there is a spirit of solidarity with each other, there is a power to support each other, there is an understanding that does not need a reason, and there is a love that does not need to be reciprocated, just like the mountain stream flowing silently, silently inheriting; There are some figures of perseverance and dedication, and there are some tireless souls, blooming like flowers and burning like fire, which makes me feel confident to face learning and life. This kind of feeling from the bottom of my heart is more real than a glorious glory, and more important than a brilliant achievement. I know that this is the fertile ground that nurtures and nurtures me. I often remind myself of what kind of precipitation there is in this fertile soil, this is the most quiet harbor, this is also the warmest home, here are the people we love, love us, and we will not lose our attachment to it even if we go to the ends of the earth in the future. I often imagine that this place is like a meadow, and the students are like flowers blooming on it, exuding a charming fragrance.
Infected by Ah Meiqing, the atmosphere in the venue was also warm, and the students who knew her also spoke one after another, describing the positive influence she had on them. Ah Hui said that many students in our class also have a sense of self-discipline, some have formulated three for themselves, and some have five, ranging from how much, she has influenced and driven the whole class to improve the level of self-discipline. He also said that Ah Mei said in the class that in recent years, he has called for reducing the burden on primary and secondary school students, and those teachers who have worked hard to educate and train us should reduce the burden, and the best way for teachers to reduce the burden is to improve our independent learning ability.
After listening to the speeches of the students, Wu Wei said very emotionally, I have a big harvest today, see the new hope of the new generation, from the self-discipline practice of A Mei, see her very valuable efforts and active exploration in moral self-improvement and self-improvement, she can be good at learning and her own thinking, constantly absorbing the moral elements contained in the culture, and constantly enriching the connotation of self-discipline and improving the level of self-discipline, improve her personality. I believe that such efforts will give her a pleasant moral experience, she is spiritually rich, and she will love life. She will feel that life is good, she will be kind and helpful, she will love the people around her, and she will interact well with the people around her. In the body of Ah Mei, we feel that the strong personality is the spirit and morality, if the students generally develop such a spirit, generally have a sense of self-discipline, and improve the level of self-discipline, it will create a strong new generation. I think. It is only after more than 30 years of reform and opening up that Chinese society has really begun to accumulate wealth in a modern sense, a bit like what we have depicted in the past about communism, wealth has begun to flow in full, what kind of scene is the flow of wealth, describing wealth gushing out from the ground like a spring. In this context, how to carry out moral construction and how to deal with it are also important challenges put forward by the development of the times. This is uncharted territory. We do not know what kind of moral achievements will emerge that will help us successfully meet such unprecedented challenges. In the past, the dominant model we advocated and appreciated was the moral model of helping the needy, and I do not deny the constructive significance of this, but if a society stays in this state forever. It can only show that this society will always be in a state of poverty, and people who will always be in a state of poverty, who should implement the rescue and poverty relief, and how much can the help of those in a state of poverty to improve the poor? What should cause us to reflect is more. Pure economic poverty is not terrible, it can be a pure horizon for human fighting, relying on the efforts of the poor to change poverty. What is terrible is spiritual poverty, which not only produces dependence on aid, but is more likely to breed resentment, resentment and even hatred.
Wu Wei's gushing narration also touched Ah Mei's thoughts, over the years she has developed a brain and two uses or even a brain and three uses of the ability to use multi-purpose, you can see and listen to the pen and write in the mouth, she was helpless at first, she didn't want any teacher to say that she was arrogant, over time, so she could sit there in every class and listen to the teacher lecture while thinking about the problem, without delay. Wu Wei's moral model touched her, made her brain excited, her mind quickly replayed the scene of her youth, now Wu Wei attaches great importance to the process of moral construction, at first it was out of a very simple intention, now recall, don't be playful, don't make your parents angry, read more books, let the classmates sound how funny, yes, the beginning of moral construction will be so simple, superficial, ridiculous. She also clearly remembers that her father often reminded her that she couldn't make her mother angry, and then it became a saying that she couldn't make anyone angry, and not long after her third birthday, her father asked her in a joking tone, who can make her angry, who are the two who are talking about? She replied dryly, yes. Although her self-discipline is so simple, she can get the praise of her parents from her practice. There are many of her peers who insist on keeping a diary, but it is extremely rare for her to concentrate on self-discipline like hers. As Wu Wei described, her moral experience is pleasant, what she sows is the effort of moral construction, and what she reaps is the joy of self-improvement. Gradually, she tried to add to the original entries, or to modify the original entries, and the result was that each additional item, or finding a more suitable vocabulary for the original entries, especially reading the classics and being inspired to add new entries, would give her new joy, a sense of accomplishment that would accompany her, and the initial pleasant experience of moral development prompted her to continue to work towards moral self-improvement. The students who participated in the meeting were also thinking that many of what Ah Mei had done had been done, and even if they hadn't done it, they had considered that there would always be three or five, five or six if there were no ten, but unfortunately there was a lack of persistence. Besides, they all think that morality depends on education, with the exhortation of saints, and also by teachers or heroic models, who would have thought that they could also establish moral norms.
Wu Wei paused for a moment, his tone became excited, attracting everyone's attention, he continued, in the context of such an era, Amei's self-discipline is more characteristic of the times, representing a new direction of moral construction, self-discipline, but also requires self-consciousness to bear the consequences of self-discipline, which is also a requirement for the rule of law and market economy to go deeper, if social individuals generally have such a sense of self-discipline as Amei, while striving to enrich knowledge to achieve spiritual wealth, Only when the society as a whole is harmonious and stable can there be a healthy and solid foundation. When we talk about independent innovation, we should also include independent innovation in moral ability. I have noticed that some schools assign homework to students during the summer vacation, and give students self-made love passbooks, on which students can record the good deeds they have done, and then send them to students when they graduate. How many students will insist on doing things according to love under the supervision of school teachers, and insist on recording them in the love passbook, but the school does not continue to follow up. I think this is a good attempt at moral education, but what it lacks is students' self-consciousness, it is difficult to persist often, and it is difficult to form achievements with depth of thought and spiritual height. After a long period of evolution, the ten self-discipline points proposed by Ah Mei condensed her study and thinking on morality, carefully selected, and used more concise and appropriate vocabulary to express her spiritual yearning and pursuit in a general manner, and gradually explored a suitable method of moral perfection, so that we have reason to place high hopes on her efforts. I would like to thank President He for providing me with such a valuable learning opportunity, and I would like to thank Ah Mei for helping me solve the mystery of moral construction in Chinese society at this stage, and I would also like to thank Ah Mei for this harmonious and friendly group. The participants applauded his wonderful speech, and the atmosphere at the venue became more and more enthusiastic.
The symposium yielded fruitful and positive results. Ah Mei's self-discipline inspired the participants. In terms of schools, Principal He proposed that the school should be oriented to students, take guiding and urging students to generally self-discipline as a new breakthrough, consciously improve school management in an all-round way, carry out in-depth education reform and teaching, and seek benefits from education reform and teaching and research, and improve the service level and service ability of students. Today's symposium has helped me re-understand the value of self-discipline and the prospect of implementing class autonomy, and I also want to respond to the call issued by the principal to guide and cultivate students' self-discipline as an opportunity to improve moral education and improve the level of class management. Ah Mei was also inspired by the new inspiration, she said, her past self-discipline was only limited to herself, and later became the class autonomy convention, and now through the words of Teacher Wu, the principal and Teacher Wang put forward a new work idea, we students should also actively follow up, we held a student council, research and draft a student self-discipline declaration. (To be continued......)