Whether life is happy or not, there are various combinations. For those who are not blessed, the moment of happiness has come, but the people are gone; The conditions for happiness are met, but they always think about painful things and cannot enjoy happiness; If you want to be respected and should be respected but lose respect, you will naturally not be able to experience happiness; Those who want to help others be happy, but they help others suffer themselves, and good deeds become stupid things. Song Rou commented on her boss, she is very righteous, but she is too arrogant, she didn't do anything, she said it first, as if she could do a lot of things, she was caught at a young age, and the time of suffering was much longer than the time of happiness. Wu Wei also said that being young is a blessing or not, and enjoying happiness when you are old is a blessing.

Song Rou asked puzzledly, aren't you looking for me a blessing?

Wu Wei said with a smile, I mean others, for me, from young to old is all a blessing.

Song Rou said angrily, just you have a mouth that can speak.

Wu Wei said with emotion, Sima Qian said that there are five blessings in life, and now look at it, there are not only five blessings in life, but also thousands of blessings.

Song Rou often said that her mother said that she was a knife-mouthed tofu heart, Wu Wei thought to herself, cold noodles and warm-heartedness, and she has always been convinced and hard to say to herself, but she pretended not to know. Song Rou knew it, but she also pretended to be confused, and the two of them had the meaning of teasing each other.

At this moment, Song Rou listened to Wu Wei's theory of happiness and deliberately asked, what are your thousands of blessings?

Wu Weidao, thousands of blessings are also brought by you. The meaning becomes that without you, happiness is equal to zero.

Song Rou was happy when she heard this, her face flushed, and said, I said a long time ago, your family married me as a daughter-in-law, and the ancestral tomb was smoking.

Wu Weidao, yes, I often see my ancestral grave in my dreams full of smoke.

Song Judo, then you are still angry with me.

Wu Weidao. The two of us don't stay overnight.

Song Judo, there are some things that I can never get over in my heart.

Wu Weidao, if he can't get by, he has become light, and he has no weight. In your heart, I still have weight.

Song Rou said angrily, Brother Qiao is here again.

Wu Wei thought, how to be happy, there is no fixed program, everyone's happiness code is congenitally formed and acquired. On the road of life in the future, new elements of happiness are constantly added. The code of happiness needs to be deciphered. The effort of deciphering determines the degree of happiness felt. The code of happiness can be decoded by itself or with the help of a clever decoder programmer.

Wu Wei has learned the mystery of deciphering the code of happiness. He said that the human heart can be a container full of happiness, or it can be full of hatred, and whether a person is happy depends on what is in his heart.

He said that the program has been continuously revised and upgraded. It is constantly deciphering and deciphering the code of happiness to enrich and enhance the sense of happiness.

How did he program happiness?

In his view, the element of happiness is everywhere. The pleasant experience that the early days of working as a farmer brought him was for him. It was fortunate that determined the happiness code of his life, and happiness became his best deciphering interpretation of the happiness code. Recently, I heard from leaders that dedication is a virtue. Happiness is the artistic conception. If a person can feel the pleasure of the hard, tiring and dirty farm work, he is more likely to feel the pleasure of more aspects of life. Summer. He would take a day off, put up a bed in his cool barn, and lie on it to read, and he would feel very comfortable. Only he can create such an artistic conception.

He often said to Song Judo, marrying her was the greatest happiness in his life. See how he imagines this greatest happiness.

The happiness code he understands is to see how a person treats love. A person's happiness, like a country, also has a core interest, and for a person, this core interest is to love others. What kind of person is a lover, it is the closest person to oneself, it is a person with zero distance, it can also be said to be one, once combined, it will become a lifelong partner. The feelings that the lover brings to themselves are the most important factors that directly determine the level of a person's happiness coefficient. Song Rou had long promised Wu Wei that she was willing to do her best to assist him, and she really did her best to assist.

For Wu Wei, although love is intangible, it can be felt in his heart, and he imagines that his heart is like a container, carefully filled with love for Song Rou, for fear that she will lose and run away. He imagines his heart as a container for happiness. His imagination was also inspired by Song Rou's words. You asked her what happiness was, and she replied without thinking about it that happiness is happiness when her man and son are safe and sound. No wonder some people say that she only has two people in her heart.

Wu Wei and Wu Song's hearts, but they can't just pretend to be her, she reacts very sensitively. She said that if she didn't encounter things outside, Wu Wei would circle around her sweetly, and once she was put together with people and things outside, it would be difficult to balance, and she would feel embarrassed, and the balance of her mind would be easy to tilt to the outside, which became the most painful thing for her. The mutual possession of love and affection is strictly exclusive.

In terms of how to deal with happiness, Song Rou also has her own set of mental methods. She said to the child, one takes the money, the other does things, and the third keeps her mouth shut, knowing that she can't violate the taboo, but she can't help but say that she can't hold my breath after taking the money.

Wu Wei saw this and said that children also have their own world, just like our relationship with the old man at the beginning, at that time we also wanted to have our own independent world, and now we can't think about it when we become an old man.

Song Rou feels sorry for the child, and always transfers the anger and anger to Wu Wei, as far as you understand, you can speak, and I am not a person inside and out. Seeing how tacit the son and daughter-in-law are, you and I have been like this in this life, the child is so considerate to his daughter-in-law, in my opinion, he has also learned a lesson from us.

Wu Weidao, do you still hope that the two children will not have a tacit understanding?

Song Rou said angrily, if I think like that, will I still be a mother?

Wu Wei's understanding is that his love for Song Rou does not occupy his heart at all times, if it reaches such a level, it means that his spiritual energy is too narrow, and a woman will rule his spiritual world, and even the people he loves will look down on him. He would often experience that feeling of love, such as seeing her figure, hearing her voice, or hearing information about her, which would cause him pleasant experiences, and often feel this psychological reaction, and he gradually mastered the tactfulness of such mental activity. When you are lonely, consciously look at her photos and carefully look at her radiant, and the feeling of happiness and even sweetness will fill your heart. He later concluded that this is called the happiness regulation method, which is a method to dispel other bad feelings in the heart. He was glad that he could get in touch with Song Rou, he could look at her every day, and his heart would be full of happiness every day. Song Rou has become his inexhaustible source of happiness, understands what she thinks in her heart, pays attention to seeking proper handling of external matters, and takes care of the balance, and the days gradually become more beautiful. (To be continued......)