Mother said that it was our family who forced Xiaohai away.

I was taken aback by what she said, and then I fell into deep thought, and for the first time I tried to rethink the question from a different perspective.

The more I think about it, the more painful it becomes: on the one hand, it is the family relationship that cannot be separated from Xiaohai; On the one hand, I feel deep guilt for Xiao Yi.

Could it be that we really did something wrong, that it was we who hindered Xiaohai's right to pursue happiness that caused him to leave the country; But if we let us sweep Xiao Yi out of the house, how can we bear it.

From the perspective of human selfishness, it seems that choosing Xiaohai is the only way out for us, and I can hear their voiceovers from my father's sighs and mother's nagging - they also have new answers in their hearts.

But I can't bear it in my heart - it's too unfair to Xiao Yi.

My husband and I continued to argue with him, not so much to argue with him, but to find a high-sounding reason for myself.

But my husband is very stubborn, he has changed his easy-going temperament in the past, like a donkey who has been reasoning with me unrelentingly.

"Now it's Xiao Hai who has done the wrong thing, not only do you not condemn him, but you want to help him get Xiao Yi out of the door, is there any justice in this world......

"I know that Xiaohai is at fault, but now that he is flying away, he is really three or five years old and leading the woman back with the child, kneeling down, bowing his head and admitting his mistake, don't we still accept him!" I tried to convince my husband,

"This kind of man has no sense of responsibility, what do you think of him, you shouldn't let him go home for the rest of his life, his father and mother are too disagreeable, he actually gave birth to this idea, and he wanted to take Xiao Yi away and let that woman come, you are simply unconscionable...... "My husband admits death,

"How can I lose my conscience, my son is my own after all, but my daughter-in-law is an outsider, how wrong is Xiaohai, he is also a descendant of the Wang family......

"If it were you, you found a mistress outside, and after being out happy, you came with a woman and a child...... Does your mother recognize you or do you still want you? ”

"I know that your mother, your father, and your sisters and brothers will definitely find a way to kick me out and make your family affectionate, right?"

I use metaphors again and again, not so much trying to convince my husband, but to find out the reason with myself,—— putting aside the so-called morality, everyone will make this choice.

"Then, then I'm different from Xiaohai, I'm my mother's own!" Husband period Ai Ai,

"You see that you still put Xiaohai in an alternative, but our family didn't think so, it was really forced into a corner, let us choose between Xiaohai and Xiaoyi, I will definitely choose Xiaohai, although this is not very righteous and glorious."

My remarks caused my husband to roar again, and as a result, we escalated from arguing and arguing all the way, and an unprecedented family war broke out in order to defend our respective positions...... My husband went to the study angrily, and I was alone on the bed angry and angry: this little sea with a thousand knives really made us uneasy.

However, the quarrel still gave me unexpected gains, and of course, it also strengthened my confidence, and I finally completed the so-called "moral level falling from the clouds to the dust of the world" - I also deeply understood the nature of people to seek profit and avoid disasters.

I think that the neighbor Uncle Da Xiang divorced his wife and married another, and he has been talked about by the villagers, especially his father, who has always been angry, saying that if Da Xiang's parents insist, they will not agree to their divorce, and Da Xiang will not easily divorce, marry, and divorce, as casual as a family......

It turns out that I have always had this point of view, but today I have a new understanding: it is really children who are stubborn, what can parents do, whether they are scolded for being selfish or pathetic, their arms can't twist their thighs - as long as the son brings home the woman, the parents have to admit it, what if they are unhappy, what if they are unwilling, what can they do, don't the little people just ask for a safe life!

Now my parents and I seem to have finally converged on the same opinion: if there was a regret medicine in this world, we could turn back time, and the current situation at home would not be like this.

However, the thought flashed into me, and I felt a deep sense of guilt.

If my family and I really made this choice, the only thing I'm sorry for is Xiao Yi, this poor woman for the sake of her family, for her children, and for that negative man, she made a tolerance that is difficult for a woman to overcome, but the final result is so miserable and unbearable.

My husband scolded right, if we did that, we were really a little too much, but what if we didn't do this, could it be that we really didn't let Xiaohai go home for the rest of our lives, and Xiaoyi couldn't have been guarding at home like this for the rest of my life......

What I said before was all angry words, that was to stop Xiao Hai from acting excessively, and now it seems that everything is not as we want, he is completely contrary to our ideas, if we still stubbornly adhere to the original point of view, it means that Xiao Hai will disappear from this home forever.

This is not the result we want, as soon as Xiaohai leaves, let's not talk about Xiao Yi, but the mother can't get over the hurdle in her heart: the son who is waiting to be fed, raised with a handful of and urine, married a wife and had children for more than 30 years, and he is already in his last years, and he needs his son as a supporter, of course, he will not withdraw his son from the door because of his scruples about his daughter-in-law's thoughts......

Although I am very selfish in this thought, but now it seems that it is a last resort, and anyone can sing high-pitched, but when it comes to real things, what choice can we make.