The purpose of my home with Da Mei this time: first, to persuade my parents and sister-in-law - no one can think of this kind of thing, it is useless to sigh every day, it is best to hurry up and think out, I am especially worried about my brother and daughter-in-law Xiaoyi, I am afraid that she will not be able to think about it; The second is that everyone is discussing together, what to do in the future, Xiaohai can leave regardless of it, but this family has to continue to live.

I first asked Xiao Yi about her plans, and her attitude determined the final direction of the family.

In my heart, I and my family think very much, I really hope that Xiao Yi chooses to stay, this is also our selfish idea - she can at least take care of the two children by staying at home, and also avoid the tragedy of the two children being abandoned by their father and mother, and at the same time reducing the burden of the two old people and us, and not making the family worse.

But this is just wishful thinking in our hearts, and we can't ask Xiao Yi to do it - Xiao Hai is irreresponsible and leaves all this, Xiao Yi has no obligation and no possibility.

If Xiao Yi chooses to leave alone or return to her parents' house with a child, we can't say anything.

Not to mention our feelings, that is, the two old people can't stand it, and the two grandchildren have always been regarded as pearls in their palms, and the baby is amazing, and neither of them is reluctant!

If the two children are taken care of and let Xiaoyi leave alone, what should the family do, the burden of the two sons is not something that can be solved by giving some food and drink, and the children will be educated in the future, and they will buy a house and marry a wife・・・・・・ two old people will always grow old one day, and what will happen to the old man and children in the future is not our burden.

Since the incident, many problems have been lingering in my mind, disturbing me day and night, and even I have the worst plan: if Xiaohai doesn't come back, Xiaoyi can't hold back and remarry and leave two children...... Parents are getting older, the responsibility of raising children has to fall on the two of us, Da Mei and the two need three shifts in the factory and have no time, and there is only me and the third, it's really not good, one for each family, the eldest can take care of himself at the age of six and let the third sister take it away, I will take the second egg over, and the expenses that should be incurred in the future can only be hard-headed.

Everything we do is not because of Xiaohai, but because of our two children and two old people.

This is also the last choice, it is really a desperate step to that point, we can barely hold on, but we pity the two old people, especially the father who wants to save face all his life, how can he stand the rumors behind this person: he has no son in his life, and he always feels that he is a lot shorter in front of others, and it is not easy to raise a son and run away.

What a blow this ending is for the old man, not only physical but also mental, looking at the father and mother's aging face and rickety body, I suppressed the sadness in my heart, and held on strongly.

Now I am the backbone of the family and the top door bar, no matter how hard it is, I have to carry it.

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I just thought about it in my heart and didn't say it, because I still have a little hope in my heart, I always feel that Xiaohai is not so ruthless, more than 30 years of parenting, he will not ignore it at all, maybe it's just a ridiculous thing made by a hot head, it's really a month and a half, a year and a half, maybe he will take the initiative to contact his family or go back again.

But if Xiao Yi is leaving, it will not be a chicken and egg fight when he comes back, and it will be too late by then.