30. Chapter 30
What I have to do now is to keep this home for the time being for this prodigal, and the only hope to keep this home is to envelop my brother-in-law Xiaoyi's heart, if she is willing to stay, everything is easy to say.
At this juncture, I can't ask for anything from her.
I made my position clear to Xiao Yi, and of course it was everyone's thoughts: no matter what decision you make, we all support and understand - Xiao Hai was wrong first, and it is natural for Xiao Yi to go.
"Eldest sister, I'm not leaving, I'm willing to stay at home for the sake of the two children" Xiao Yi's categorical cut surprised us,
"Xiao Yi, you have to think carefully about this matter, you are still so young, we can't let you stay at home like this, it's not fair to you...... The child is yours, the eldest and second are you can choose, and we have no problem with both...... Everything respects your choice, we will not say anything" Father's words were extremely sincere.
"I know that you are for my good, but I can't bear the two children, Xiaohai is ruthless and left, I can't do it, I think about it, I will guard the two children at home...... It's best if Xiaohai can come back, if he doesn't come back, I will support this family for the two children."
"We know that you love children, but a woman pulls two children, and it will be difficult for the future, you have to think clearly......"
"What can I do if I don't do this, Xiaohai is gone, I'll go again, it's okay if the second egg is less, Ao Dan knows everything at the age of six, how can this child suffer if his father and mother are gone, if he makes a mistake, it's a lifelong thing, I can't joke about my son, no matter how hard and tired I am, I admit it, I have to think about my two sons......" Xiao Yi said very seriously
"It's okay to live this life with money, but it's still early to buy a house and marry a daughter-in-law when the children are older...... Don't worry, I will definitely raise my two children to adulthood, and I can also send our father and mother to the ground wearing linen and filial piety...... Let that bastard Xiaohai see if he runs away, and we'll do the same."
Xiao Yi's generosity and strength made us both moved and admired, I couldn't help but step forward and hugged her tightly, cheered her up, and encouraged her, "Don't worry, everyone is here, let's help each other, and this day will come through; Xiao Hai is a bastard for a while, maybe he will come back one day, the prodigal son will not change his money, and then your family of four will be reunited."
"We will treat you as a sister in the future, our parents and our mother have another daughter, it is really when you meet the right person in the future, we will definitely marry you out of the country in a beautiful way" I said from the bottom of my heart, even if Xiao Yi promised to stay now, we can't be selfish to let her stay at home for a lifetime, a woman is less than thirty, when is this a head, for the time being, wait for Xiao Hai to turn back, and then stabilize the child's mood first, if three years and five years, Xiao Hai really doesn't go home, at that time the two children are also older, If there is the right one, we will encourage Xiao Yi to get out of the rut and live her own life again.
Xiao Yi's attitude made everyone's tense heart relax slightly, I can't imagine what kind of situation this family will be like if Xiao Yi leaves again, Xiao Yi's statement makes this stormy home suddenly have comfort.
Now the focus of the discussion is how to live the rest of the day.
Of course, I won't give up my search for Xiaohai, but until there is any news, it is best to stabilize my home first.
Not to mention the father's age, it is not okay for a man to have a large mess in the family, so he will stay at home to help his mother take care of the children while increasing his income, either raising a few sheep or feeding a few pigs; Xiao Yi went out to work, it turned out that Jia Peng Car Factory had to continue to work, and he needed to ask someone to change to a normal day shift - Xiao Hai was not around, and it was not safe for a woman to go back and forth in the middle of the night.
I've always encouraged Xiao Yi to go to work: first, I'm worried that she will be alone at home and thinking nonsense; Second, it is really Xiaohai who has not looked back for ten or eight years, Xiao Yi walked out of the Lu to have a broad vision, and if he meets the right one, he will have a home.
People have no long-term worries, and now there is such a thing at home, before and after, left and right, I am carefully calculating and thinking, always trying to find a satisfactory solution.
But no matter what we do, Xiaohai's departure has shattered our lives, and trying to make it perfect is as illusory as a dream.