Chapter 0518 - Observing People in the Small
"When I was in college, there was a teacher who took me for four years, his name is Yi Xiangrui, 67 years old this year, a professor at the Beijing Police University, deputy director of the Criminal Investigation Department, an authority on domestic criminal investigation, Zeng Guan to the assistant minister of the Ministry of Public Security, director of the Ministry of Public Security, and the chief representative of the Interpol Asia Region.
"The old man is very interesting, he stared at me in the first class, not only let me be the class representative, but also insisted on accepting me as his apprentice, it is really funny to say, he forced me to worship him as a teacher, it can be described as a dead face, as a result, I became his closed disciple, four years of college, I became a frequent visitor to the old man's house, at that time I had a large amount of food, each meal could eat twelve buns, but at that time the living expenses were tight, often not enough, so, almost every weekend to go to his house to eat to improve life."
"At that time, the old man was very famous in the police circles in the capital, and his seniority was a generation higher than the minister, and the minister had to respect the teacher when he saw him, but few people knew that when the old man was young, he had a gloomy life experience, and you may not know that his resume file was recorded from the age of twenty-eight."
"Originally, when he graduated from junior high school at the age of sixteen, the old man became a policeman, and at the age of nineteen, he became a criminal policeman who stood alone, but at the age of twenty, because he offended the leader, he was relegated to a deserted place in a remote mountainous area, and he guarded the wireless communication tower alone for seven years, a full seven years."
"The so-called gold will shine, and finally one day, an article by the old man was published in the newspaper, which attracted the attention and attention of a senior in the police circle, and the old man returned to the police circle, and became an authoritative ...... in the northern police circle in less than ten years."
Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi had the intention to take refuge in Xiang Tianliang, but Xiang Tianliang didn't make it clear, but instead talked about other things.
Shao Sanhe and Li Chunnan are also strange, for the people or things they recognize, Xiang Tianliang is always happy, he is in urgent need of manpower now, but people's hot faces are stuck on the cold buttocks.
When some friends deliberately take advantage of you, especially when you are in a high position, they are probably made because of your status, rather than because of you as a person, and it is difficult for such friends to help you in times of crisis.
Then again, testing the human heart through adversity, although it is costly, long-lasting, and passive, is more reliable than the conclusion of reasoning, so it is a safe way to measure the human heart in times of bad luck.
Obviously, Xiang Tianliang's story was told to Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi.
Shao Sanhe said with a smile: "Tianliang, how do you feel when you learn that you, a closed disciple, are not the police?" ”
"Thoughts? When we met in Qinghe, the old man kicked me twice, which is his impression. ”
Ji Weiyi smiled: "Tianliang's story is very inspiring. ”
Shao Sanhedao: "So, Changgui, Weiyi, your little setback is actually nothing, Tianliang, don't you say?" ”
"Yes, a Lang in the vast sea, just an episode on the road of life."
Liu Changgui is only 35 years old, Ji Weiyi has even just turned 30 years old, for politicians, the career has just begun, even if they are demoted to the grassroots, there is a chance to make a comeback.
Liu Changgui asked: "Tianliang, do you have any instructions for the work in Jinchuan Town?" ”
Xiang Tianliang said with a smile: "Changgui, I won't talk about work today, just chat." ”
"Oh...... Right, chat, chat. Liu Changgui hurriedly smiled.
In fact, Xiang Tianliang also wanted to take the opportunity to observe Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi again.
Liu Changgui looks dignified, has a heroic face, and is full of spirit, which is exactly the image that Xiang Tianliang likes.
But Ji Weiyi has the appearance of an intellectual, wearing highly myopic glasses, and his tone is weak and weak.
Xiang Tianliang is focusing on Ji Weiyi.
A weak person is not necessarily a gentleman.
Those who are good at bullying the weak will inevitably be attached to the strong, and those who can restrain the strong will inevitably help the weak.
But the soft is used by the weak, but can win the sympathy of others, it is likely to save the weak in danger, the soft of the weak is rarely harmful, often the weak to find a talisman for protection, if the soft is used by the right, then the right person corrects, admired by the world, the softness of the right, often for people to be forgiving, do not show the edge, endure the unbearable.
Rou may also be used by the good and the evil, which is likely to be a great misfortune in the world, they are often bullied and do all kinds of evil; Servile and flattering in front of the strong, but domineering in front of the weak, they use softness to cover up the real ugly face, so that people can not see his insidious viciousness, and then take advantage of your inattention to poke you fiercely, this is the most terrible, it is this kind of person who is good at playing tricks, with his so-called softness to defeat his enemies, to achieve his ulterior purposes, they are often quiet, scheming, full of ghosts, the opponent often has no time to guard against the plot.
In daily life, some people are always respectful, generally speaking, such people and people to deal with the interaction, most of them are low-voiced, and always use the tone of praise, therefore, when the first acquaintance, the other party often feels embarrassed, but, after a long relationship, you will notice that this kind of person is always sycophantic, and disgusted.
It is observed that most of the people of this type are subjected to the harsh and inappropriate discipline of their parents in their early childhood, resulting in psychological distortion, always harboring a sense of insecurity and guilt, and when there is a desire in their hearts, they are harshly criticized by their inner self.
In other words, their outward deference is not an internal reflection.
This kind of person often uses unnatural honorifics excessively, often as a sign of hostility, contempt, and vigilance, because common sense tells us that when the relationship between the two parties is good, there is no need for too many respectful words, and verbal politeness does not show respect for you, but a kind of wariness, hostility, or distrust.
To be fair, most of the respectful and weak people are not wicked and evildoers, and the reason why we emphasize the prevention of them is because when their weak appearance gives us a sense of security, it is easy for the black-hearted people who are in the middle of them to sneak attack.
It can be seen from this that when dealing with a person who is gentle on the outside, we should guard against laxity, carefully test his inner intentions, and never take it lightly, thinking that such a person can live up to the trust, do not be evil, have words, have the heart to harm others, and the heart to guard against others is indispensable, especially for those who are respectful to the outside.
Look at people and know what they do.
Language is a tool for human communication, from a person's speech, it is enough to know his thoughts and emotions, but if the other party is duplicitous, it will make people suspicious, this kind of person often will be the impulses and desires in consciousness, as well as the stimulation of the environment, after modifying and camouflaging, in reverse language, people do not know the truth.
When encountering friends who do not have a good personality, they often vote for social rhetoric and polite invitations, which is contrary to the original intention, often causing inner anxiety and fear, in order to comfort themselves, so they repeat themselves again and again, and become a habit.
Liu Changgui is talkative, but his tone is very tight, Ji Weiyi is silent, and he listens more and speaks less.
Wine is also character.
Suddenly changing the subject to dawn, he talked about drinking again.
"Come on, come on, I'll give you a drink, Brother Sanhe, don't cheat like you did last time."
Shao Sanhe raised his wine glass, "Hehe, you are cheating." ”
Li Chunnan said with a smile: "Brother Sanhe, as soon as you drink, you will cheat, you must guard against it." ”
Shao Sanhe has a simple face, but when he drinks, he loves to deceive, and small actions emerge in an endless stream, which are very different.
When it comes to drinking, Xiang Tianliang still admires his brother-in-law Li Chunnan the most, waiting for a big glass, extremely bold, straight to the point, and never shirking.
Xiang Tianliang found that Liu Changgui did not reserve, and every time he did it differently, Ji Weiyi was a little reserved, and a small glass of wine should be drunk in four or five sips, slowly and logically.
The five men touched their glasses, and each of them dried.
Shao Sanhe asked Li Chunnan, "Chunnan, Changgui and Weiyi often drink with you, do you know how much they drink?" ”
Li Chunnan said with a smile: "I don't know about this, anyway, I can't drink Secretary Liu, nor can I drink Mayor Ji, in my opinion, there are not two catties, at least one and a half catties." ”
Liu Changgui said with a smile: "Chunnan is almost the same, but we have never won against Chunnan." ”
Ji Weiyi also chimed in, "Yes, our alcohol consumption is not good." ”
Xiang Tianliang's gaze swept over the others at the wine table.
Invisibly, he is maintaining pressure on Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi.
If it is said that the method of "increasing and decreasing pressure" is easy to trigger confrontation and is more laborious and time-consuming, then the method of starting from the negative side has the advantage of being unaware and effortless, and its own shortcomings are precisely its advantages. ”
But Xiang Tianliang thinks that he is not a gentleman, in other words, he despises hypocrites and is willing to be a villain.
Shao Sanhe glanced at Xiang Tianliang, he knew that Xiang Tianliang was observing Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi, and he also knew that Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi were trying their best to "get closer" to Xiang Tianliang.
However, Shao Sanhe felt that the atmosphere was a little weird, at least a little depressing, in short, this wine was not very happy, and there was no feeling of having a thousand glasses of wine with a confidant.
Shao Sanhe's foot kicked Xiang Tianliang under the table, he wanted to know, what happened to Xiang Tianliang today?
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