Now that I have returned home, I will no longer see the "parent official", it is impossible to say.

There was no decent hotel in Jinchuan Town, and Xiang Tianliang didn't want to go to the town government for the time being, so Li Chunnan came up with an idea and simply invited Liu Changgui, secretary of the town party committee, and Ji Weiyi, the town mayor, to his home.

Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi each mentioned a lot of gifts, Xiang Tianliang didn't want to accept them, but when they thought that it was the first time they met, as the saying goes, it is polite and reasonable, and it is unreasonable to refuse, Xiang Tianliang smiled happily.

Accepting the greeting gift means accepting the gift giver's overture, which is the real beginning of the relationship.

The place where they met was the living room of my sister Xiang Qiu's house, and my brother-in-law Li Chunnan was accompanied, and Shao Sanhe also deliberately stayed.

After three rounds of wine, five flavors of food, the atmosphere gradually became harmonious.

Li Chunnan said with a smile: "Secretary Liu, Mayor Ji, let's do it at will, the dawn is a thousand cups and not drunk, in terms of the amount of alcohol, none of us is his opponent." ”

Liu Changgui smiled and said, "That assistant must be massive." ”

"Hey, don't listen to my brother-in-law, I don't usually like to drink, and I really don't know how much I drink."

Shao Sanhe muttered in his heart when he heard it beside him, Liu Changgui said a lot of money, nothing more than hoping to get closer to Tianliang, but Xiang Tianliang wanted to welcome or refuse, I don't know how much alcohol he has? It's really interesting, this is to say, I can't tolerate people, how many people can be tolerated, I don't know how big my own amount is.

Liu Changgui asked: "Assistant Xiang, when are you free, Weiyi and I would like to invite you to come to the town government to inspect and guide the work." ”

Xiang Tianliang smiled and waved his hand, "Changgui, Weiyi, we will have an indispensable relationship in the future, I want to make three suggestions, I don't know if it's okay?" ”

"To the assistant, please speak." Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi nodded at the same time.

"First, in the future, on occasions like this, don't call your position, everyone calls him by his name, I call you Changgui and Weiyi, you call me dawn, second, in the future, we will come and go, don't carry things, you have to learn from Brother Sanhe, we have never been empty-handed between us, third, our family has too many relatives and friends in Jinchuan Town, it is inevitable that someone will come to you under my banner in the future, I have a word here, unless I say it myself, otherwise, even my sister and brother-in-law are looking for you, you can't do it."

Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi both hesitated slightly.

Shao Sanhe said with a smile: "Lao Liu, Lao Ji, now you understand, when I was the director of the Jinchuan Town Police Station, I had such three chapters of the law at dawn, so if we want to sit together often in the future, these three articles must be observed." ”

"Okay, we'll listen to the assistant." Liu Changgui said.

Li Chunnan said with a smile: "Lao Liu, if you don't shout at dawn and shout to the assistant, if you commit a foul, you have to punish yourself for three cups." ”

"I'll punish, I'll punish."

Liu Changgui smiled and drank three glasses of wine in succession.

Ji Weiyi stood up with his wine glass in his hand.

"Weiyi, you have something to sit down and say, sit down and say." Xiang Tianliang smiled and waved his hand.

Ji Weiyi sat down again, "I make a statement, in order to abide by the three chapters of the covenant of dawn, I will drink three cups myself, and I will ask everyone to supervise me in the future." After speaking, I drank three glasses in a row.

It can be seen that between Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi's eyebrows, there is really the sorrow of a down-and-out person, and at the same time, the two people's gestures to the dawn are also fully overflowing.

Observing the face and color has always been the specialty of the dawn.

However, Liu Changgui and Ji Wei are in a hurry, Xiang Tianliang is not in a hurry, he still wants to see again.

Shao Sanhe followed Xiang Tianliang's instructions, and together with Li Chunnan, he drank with Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi, and chatted without words.

Obedient and listening, Xiang Tianliang didn't say much to himself, he was experiencing it with his heart, and he understood the thoughts of Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi.

Invisibly, Xiang Tianliang listened more and said less, which was a huge psychological pressure on Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi.

Many people are not good at measuring and evaluating their friends, and often choose the wrong place of refuge in times of crisis, and are betrayed or even killed.

Using the three touchstones of adversity, official position, and interests to measure the hearts of friends, there are few examples of inaccuracy.

Of course, this method is costly, time-consuming, and passive.

Relying on the insight of the world to take the initiative to infer people's hearts, the cost of paying reality is not large, but it is generally difficult to control jishu, this method has the suspicion of chasing the wind and catching shadows, depending on the different circumstances of each person, errors often occur.

However, using pressure to infer people's hearts is unique, it relies on frontal bombardment and indiscriminate bombardment, destroying the opponent's psychological defense, belonging to the frontal offensive type, reducing pressure, making him relax his vigilance, and it is also possible to expose his true form, this method is suitable for powerful manipulators.

Reverse speculation, on the other hand, the meaning is a very ingenious behind-the-scenes offensive technique, and then the target must be selected to disprove the bad consequences, that is, "with the heart of a villain, the version of a gentleman".

Ostentatious opponents are not necessarily sinister, and those who are difficult to deal with are treacherous and evil people who are weak in appearance, because they are easy to make us scheming due to negligence.

Know the people and know the face, but you must know the heart.

Xiang Tianliang remembered a story from Aesop's Fables:

The deer was thirsty and uncomfortable, and came to a spring, and when it drank water, it looked at its shadow in the water, and saw that its horns were long and beautiful, and it was proud, but when it saw that its legs seemed to be thin and weak, and it was sullen, and the deer was thinking to itself, and a lion came out to chase him, and it turned and ran away, and pulled the lion down a long way, because the deer's liliang was on the legs, and the liliang's liliang was in the heart, so on the empty plain, the deer kept running ahead and saved his life, but, When the deer reached the jungle, but its horns got caught in the branches, and it could no longer run, it was caught by the lion, and the deer said to himself when he was dying, "I am so unlucky, I was saved by what I thought would ruin me, but what I trusted so much has cost me my life." ”

In the same way, in times of crisis, friends who were once suspected often become saviors, and friends who are very trusted often become rebellious.

In good times, especially when you are proud of the spring breeze, all those who come and go can be called friends, everyone is still exchanged, cups and cups, and take care of each other, but if the wind rises suddenly, disaster falls from the sky, such as you are down, or trapped by wrongs, or disappointed in your career, or riddled with illness, or the right to not exist, etc., at this time, you are unlucky, not to say, even those smiling faces in the past, friends who have been very close will also be severely tested, their attitude towards friends, distance, will be seen clearly, at that time, Snobbs will retreat and hide far away, people who are worried about their career setbacks will draw a clear line, friends who drink and meat will find another meal because of the temptation of alcohol and meat, and even some people will take advantage of the danger of others to fall into the well and step on the shoulders of others.

Of course, there are also consistent people who continue to stand by your side, holding a heart of gold to you, relying on you for good and woe, sharing weal and woe, as the ancients said: "Ill-intentioned is better than knowing the sky, and what is hidden in the belly is revealed?" "Answer, in times of trouble. At this time, real friends, fake friends, close, general, "iron buddies" and "speculators" are clearly distinguished.

Power and official positions, financial interests, has always been the touchstone of people's hearts, some people in the ordinary soldier when they feel soft-spoken, but still with the partners of the same brotherhood, the same joy and sorrow, once his status rises, the official promotion temper, the concept of making friends has changed, the past "poor friends" and "vulgar friends" are ashamed to be with them, keep a certain distance, for example, there are two comrades-in-arms in the war years they share weal and woe, and later one left the army because of general mistakes, in the "culture and revolution", In order to clarify the problem, he went to his comrades-in-arms to prove his problems, but the comrade-in-arms who became a leader was afraid of affecting himself, so he refused, saying that he didn't know him, the veteran shed tears sadly, obviously, this leader was too not enough friends at the critical moment, what is the difference between this approach and falling into the well? In reality, people who "only share hardships and don't have joys" are the worst.

In the face of interests, the soul of all kinds of people will also be nakedly exposed, some people in their own benefit or interests are not damaged, can be called brothers, appear intimate, but, once detrimental to their interests, they are like a changed person, see profit forgetfulness, mercenary, what friendship, what feelings are all left behind, for example, colleagues who work together, everyone laughs and laughs on weekdays, and the relationship is harmonious, but when it comes to promotion, the number of places is limited, "more monks and less porridge", and some people's true colors are revealed, They no longer recognize any colleagues and friends, and at the meeting, they bluntly put their own strengths on the table, expose the shortcomings of others, spread rumors and slander behind their backs, move around, do everything possible to pull others down, and squeeze them up, this kind of person's inner shijie is exposed in front of interests, after the fact, who dares to make friends with them?

Of course, the public is selfless, suffers losses, and most people value friendship, but in the face of gains and losses, everyone will always appear, and everyone's heart will come out to perform in public, and they can't hide it if they want to, so this moment is also a good time to identify people's hearts.

In other words, the years can also become truly fair judges, some people can be called friends in a matter at a time, after a long time, after working together for a long time, they will have a deeper understanding of their personality, their character, "the road knows the horsepower, and the day sees the hearts of the people", this is what it means, such a long-term relationship, long-term observation, will reach such a state, know the face and know the heart.

Shao Sanhe interrupted Xiang Tianliang's thoughts.

"Tianliang, what are you thinking?"

"I'm sorry, I'm sorry." Xiang Tianliang smiled and said, "I, I remembered something just now, and I thought it was very interesting. ”

Li Chunnan smiled: "Interesting thing? Then speak up and let everyone share it. ”

Xiang Tianliang nodded, "Then I'll talk about it?" ”

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