"Well, I also believe that he would be a good man. In fact, when you think about it this way, a long time also has a long advantage. I suddenly smiled and said.

"How?" When the eldest sister saw me say this, she asked me.

"Don't you all say a word? Love has seen people's hearts for a long time. After a long time, I know whether a person is really suitable for me; After a long time, there can be a comprehensive judgment and consideration of a person's character; After a long time, if the love is wrong, even if you turn around and pull away, at least you can stop the loss in time. Sister, what do you say? I laughed.

The eldest sister shook her head, and the eldest sister said: "I don't think so, if you love the right person, whether it is a year or five years, it is actually right; But if you love the wrong person, the difference between one year and five years is great. A woman's youth is only a few years, and the society is so cruel, and when you see it clearly, you realize that love is wrong, and it is too late. So I still think that you know from the beginning that you love the right person, but if you love the wrong person, you must withdraw it as soon as possible, otherwise it will only hurt you. ”

"Well, but most people can't tell if they're right or wrong. After all, it is a small number of people who are happy, and most people still spend the dull years in the ordinary days, it doesn't matter whether it is right or wrong, just live a good life. "I suddenly felt a little melancholy.

"In fact, what I'm most afraid of is this, what I'm afraid of is not that they no longer love each other, and one day two people will become only life without love, just like two objects in the same space, there is no longer emotional exchange, but just live an ordinary life step by step and mechanically. What I fear most is the feeling of fading away from feelings. But it seems that as long as a man and a woman get married, they can't escape such a fate. So little book, in fact, we have to prepare in advance. Once that day does come, maybe it's better for us to figure out what to do than to be caught off guard. The eldest sister said.

"Hmm...... Sister, I know, I understand what you mean. Relationships are probably staged, just like the three years when we had just graduated from school and lived together, for a long time I was very confused, do we still love each other, we don't seem to feel love anymore. But then when something happened, when the storm came, when my heart was full of his safety, I suddenly understood that I loved him, and I loved him more deeply than I imagined. I said from the bottom of my heart.

"Actually, when your brother checked his body last year, the doctor said that he had stones in his body...... This illness is not serious, but when I heard it, my heart sank for no reason. I was thinking, no matter what happens, we have to stay by each other's side. Sometimes it is difficult to experience the taste of love in ordinary life, and sometimes it is really only when you experience wind and rain that you understand how much the other party has in your heart. The eldest sister said.

I have never heard the eldest sister say this, and the eldest sister said: "Your brother is actually very fragile, don't look at him so strong on the outside, in fact, he is very insecure inside." He has been carrying a heavy burden alone since he was a teenager until now, and he has not been easy in his heart. He said that the real reason why he made up his mind to marry me was because he had been in love several times, but he could only sleep peacefully when he was lying next to me, and it was actually difficult for him to trust anyone anymore, but when he met me, he found that he trusted me for no reason, and it was this feeling that made him firmly choose me. Sometimes it's not just the woman who is measuring the man, maybe when you are measuring the other person, the other person is also measuring you. Only when you measure each other and compare the two parties have a good enough impression of each other, can there be a possibility of development. ”

"Well, sometimes I also think that if it weren't for the fact that Jin Yan and I had gone through so many changes, maybe we would have broken up a long time ago, and there wouldn't have been all this later. Looking back, sometimes I'm really grateful for this experience after experience. Our relationship has become deep and unforgettable in this experience after experience, and now we firmly choose each other, all because we feel each other's sincerity in the tribulation after tribulation. I said.

"So cherish it, such a relationship is too precious. Not every couple can experience such a deep feeling, and a good relationship can only get better and better in such tribulations again and again. Husband and wife are of the same heart, which is probably what it means. The eldest sister said.

More than a month has passed in such a time, and I never thought that a month was so long. It turned out that the days when I couldn't see Jin Yan would make my heart so anxious.

That much-anticipated and high-profile day has finally arrived, and the big wedding is approaching, and my mood has a sense of peace that I have never felt before. This feeling is so sure that it cannot be described in words.

We plan to use a Chinese-style wedding, everything is in the traditional way, I don't know what kind of battle the wedding team will be, Jin Yan said to surprise me, and he is such a person who is good at creating surprises. So, the closer the day gets, the more I look forward to it.

All the ladies in the family prepared wedding cakes for me, and the dowry was wrapped in red silk or red paper and stacked together, which looked extremely festive.

phoenix crown, red hijab, embroidered shoes...... Everything happened in my life like a movie, not only myself, but also Qiuqiu prepared a red silk dress. My father followed the advice of the older generation and specially found an old silversmith in the town to create a set of "Nine Treasures for Weddings" for me out of silver, and everyone's face was beaming with joy.

Two nights before the wedding, my father, who had never been in the kitchen, cooked a few simple dishes, bought a bottle of wine, and called back the small paintings, and in my father's old house, the three of us sat together, and the elderly grandmother also came.

"Today we have a reunion dinner as a family." Father said that he had left a vacant seat next to his place and placed a pair of dishes and chopsticks.

"Dad, why is it so grand today? Because my sister is getting married? The little painting asked with a grin.

"Yes, your sister is getting married, and we have a good talk as a family today. Dad is not good at words, and he doesn't usually talk to you much. Over the years, I have accumulated a lot of words in my heart, so let's take this opportunity to talk about it. The father's expression looked solemn and formal, with a slight excitement.

Grandma was getting older, silver-haired, and her ears were already a little deaf, but there was a smile on her face, and when she heard her father say this, she smiled and said, "Okay, okay, it's time to have a good talk." ”

I haven't spoken, and the more this atmosphere is, the more I have too many words to say in my heart. In fact, in the past two years, I have almost married twice...... If it weren't for Jin Yan's sudden accident, and then Zhao Qinhan's unexpected appearance, I would have been married a long time ago, where do I need to be today.

Therefore, although everyone did not say it, thinking of the many changes in the past two years, everyone's heart is emotional. But there are many good things, but fortunately, in the end, everything is still a good thing. Therefore, this feeling is another indescribable joy.

"Little book," my father finally opened his mouth after pondering for a while, he picked up the wine glass and touched it lightly with me, took a sip, and then said to me: "Dad has thought a lot and reflected a lot in the past few years, Dad has too many things to be sorry for you, Dad apologizes for the place where you don't live and you all these years, it is Dad who has done something wrong." ”

I didn't expect my father, who has always been strong, to say such soft words, and I was so shocked that my chopsticks fell to the ground, and I looked at my father for a long time, and there was an indescribable shock in my heart. I couldn't help but turn red with this excitement, and I said, "Dad, what are you talking about?" Between father and daughter, there is no apology or apology. ”

My father shook his head, looked at the painting, then at me, and said to me, "There is a reason why my father used to be more partial to the painting, when your sister was born when she was two years old, you were much healthier than your sister because you were born first, and your sister has been weak and sick since she was a child, your body is better than her, and you eat more breast milk than your sister." When you two were as big as Qiuqiu, your mother and I often carried your sister to the hospital, and the medical conditions were poor at that time, and I thought several times that your sister was almost unable to survive, and this child suffered more than you when she was a child, so your mother and I inevitably hurt her more. When you are older and start to remember, Dad's habit can't be corrected, what about your sister, but you can be coquettish than you love to cry, and you are obedient and sensible, Dad will inevitably favor one over the other, and after a long time, it will be unfair to you...... Before leaving, your mother told me to ask for a bowl of water, and that the two children are my own children, so let me treat you well. But when your mother died, I still lost so much temper with you, in fact, child, it is Dad who has always cared too little about you, I hope you can forgive Dad, okay? ”

"Dad, what do you say? We are father and daughter, the grace of parenting is greater than the sky, and I don't pay attention to the past, don't say that. "When I heard my father say this, I was even more sad.

As soon as his father said it, Xiaohua couldn't help crying, Xiaohua choked up and said: "Dad, those things are over, in fact, I was not very good when I was a child, I always fought with Xiaoshu, and always wanted to occupy more love from my parents." Now that we are all grown up and sensible, I also know that Xiaoshu has paid a lot for his family in the past few years, and he has paid a lot for me at the beginning. The reason why I have my current career is because of the support of small books. Let's all pass the past, you see now, aren't we sisters all right? ”

My father was also sad, but the boy didn't flick his tears, so he took another sip of wine, then looked at me and said, "Go any further, and my father will be even older." Now you finally have a family and have your own business. It's a small painting, and it hasn't fallen yet, so don't quarrel with the two sisters in the future, you must love each other and support each other. ”

"Dad, we know, don't worry." Xiaohua and I shook my father's hand, and my father's face was a little soothed and he couldn't help laughing.