"Qiuqiu called Dad just now?" Jin Yan ran over, trying to hide his emotions and put on a smile.

I was also happy, and I didn't know what to say excitedly, so I could only nod vigorously, pointed at Jin Yan and said, "Qiuqiu, call Dad, Dad...... Daddy......"

I don't know if this kid felt something today, or if it was really a magical attraction between bloods, Qiuqiu opened his little hand for the first time and threw himself into Jin Yan's arms. Jin Yan hugged Qiuqiu very excitedly, Qiuqiu held Jin Yan's face with his two small hands, and began to scream "bababa" all the time.

At that moment, the room full of people laughed. Many relatives in the family know the child's life experience and understand that Jin Yan is the child's real biological father. Since Zhao Qinhan's death, his father has long publicized this matter intentionally or unintentionally, so now, everyone's attitude towards Jin Yan has been very calm.

Jin Yan hugged Qiuqiu excitedly, hugged me in front of everyone, and said in a choked voice: "Wife, Qiuqiu called me dad, Qiuqiu finally recognized me." ”

"Well, Qiuqiu has recognized you for a long time." I saw his excited expression, and I couldn't help but say emotionally.

"Dad," Jin Yan turned his head and naturally called my father, and his father and my father responded at the same time, and the whole room burst into laughter, which diluted our excitement a lot.

"Two fathers, you can decide the rest. The family of three went back to the room to discuss something. Jin Yan said with a smile, and then took my hand back to the room with Qiuqiu.

After entering the room, Jin Yan put Qiuqiu on the ground, hugged me tightly from behind, made me turn around, and then couldn't help but kiss me in front of Qiuqiu.

"Is all this true? Wife, we're really not going to be apart again, are we? He looked at me with mixed feelings, more emotional than I was, and tears were streaming down his face.

"I was suddenly a little scared, I was really afraid that something would happen to God and tear us apart." Jin Yan hugged me tightly again.

At that moment, we couldn't help but think of the last time we had a wedding that ended abruptly, and that scene had left a deep fear in our hearts, and we were really afraid that it would happen like that again.

"No, nothing will ever separate you and me again. If God jokes with us again this time, we will be more serious with God to the end. I said.

Qiuqiu, who had been playing on the side, didn't know if he sensed something or what, he ran over and hugged my thigh with one hand and Jin Yan's thigh with the other, and shouted in his mouth: "Don't cry, don't cry." ”

Jin Yan and I couldn't help but burst into tears and laughed, I said, "We are too hypocritical, the children are so old, what else can separate us?" ”

Jin Yan also came back to his senses at this time, Qiuqiu's growth gradually brought us back to reality, Jin Yan picked up Qiuqiu and sat on his lap, and the three of us laughed at the same time.

According to the custom of our hometown, two people who are about to get married cannot meet each other before the wedding, and after the wedding ceremony, the family has a big banquet for the day. After that, Jin Yan returned to his own home, and my father and I were busy preparing the dowry for the wedding.

I have always liked traditional Chinese weddings, so Jin Yan and I ceremonies were carried out in a very traditional way, because my mother passed away very early, and my father did not know much about this aspect, so my aunt and eldest sister have been accompanying me to purchase various dowries.

I ordered five dresses in one go for the wedding dress, and bought a lot of bits and pieces. Jin Yan bought a wedding room in H City early, and the decoration style was arranged according to my preferences. In fact, we may not live there after marriage, but Jin Yan's father said that the wedding house must be in H City, and our current farmhouse is my property, and this house is a little bit of heart that the two of them have done for us.

Jin Yan and I couldn't see each other for more than a month, which made us both suffocating, and Jin Yan had to call me seven or eight times a day to ask what I was doing. Occasionally, when I didn't get a call, he would get nervous.

The eldest sister smiled when she saw us like this: "Seeing you so affectionate, where is it like knowing each other for more than ten years, it is clear that they are a young couple who have just fallen in love." ”

I also laughed, and I said, "Sister, when we get married in the future, will life become dull?" ”

"When you get married, it's going to be a lot duller, and you can't be like glue every day. But you have come over for so many years, what kind of days have you not lived, aren't you still so affectionate? Don't be afraid of anything, just be calm. After marriage, a man's responsibilities and responsibilities are particularly important. The eldest sister said.

"Sister, is your current life what you want?" I looked at the indifference on my eldest sister's face and couldn't help asking.

"Of course," said the eldest sister, smiling confidently, "the criterion for judging the true happiness of a marriage is not that they are together every day, but that two people can negotiate all problems amicably, with the comfort of coexistence and the freedom of solitude, without interfering with each other but closely connected, and each of them is the most trusted person of the other." This feeling is the most extreme marriage experience. ”

"Sister, have you compared my brother to Meng Changqing? Have you ever wondered once in a while who you're happier with? I asked again.

"Occasionally, I will compare the differences in my heart, how to say it, your brother is a businessman, Meng Changqing is an intellectual, there are still differences. Choosing Meng Changqing's life will be like boiled water, every day is not alarming, constant temperature, repeated, no love, but the family affection will be very strong, Meng Changqing is relatively simple, not so many hearts, but also relatively boring and dull; Your brother's words ......" The eldest sister said this, with a happy smile on her face, "Your brother, his life circle is completely different from mine, so every time he comes into contact with his crowd, there will be a sense of freshness." He can fully respect my work, sometimes I stay in the laboratory for more than half a month as soon as I am busy, he is responsible for Xiaoxiao and Dingdang's daily life alone, and he is also busy with work, but he especially supports me to have my own career. I have a lot of freedom with your brother, because he is a very tolerant and responsible man, he has no freedom to restrain me, and at the same time gives me the care I need, I feel that marrying him, I am marrying the right one. ”

The eldest sister's face naturally revealed a ruddy and shiny look, and since she was with Xingfeng, her face showed a kind of ruddy unique to a happy woman from time to time.

I then said to the eldest sister: "Sister, you can evaluate Jin Yan and objectively tell me what you think of him." ”

"That's what you're really for, right?" The eldest sister poked me with a smile, I smiled embarrassedly, and the eldest sister said, "Jin Yan, I was not optimistic about this person at first, he was more exaggerated, his personality was domineering, his family background was too good, and he was more self-centered. Although you have come all the way to the present, most of you have accommodated him more. ”

After the eldest sister finished speaking, she said again: "But people will grow up slowly, Xing Feng said that his personality was also unstable when he was in his twenties, similar to Jin Yan, at that time he was still attentive, talked about a lot of love, and loved to play." Maybe men have such a stage. Some women can get through it, and some women feel that they can't see hope and let go early. Men are like mangoes, there is always a process from astringent to sweet. He had already become soft and sweet when I met Xingfeng, and when you met Jin Yan, he was still a stunned boy. Fortunately, you survived, and you gradually reaped his sweetness, in fact, I think it is more meaningful. ”

"Why?" I couldn't help but ask, blankly.

"Because this man was transformed by you, it takes a long and patient process to carve a person from the original jade into a piece of jasper, and many people can't survive this process. But those who can survive have become skilled craftsmen. If you meet a better craftsman, it may become a piece of jasper, but if you meet a worse one, it will become a pile of waste stones. In some sense, a man's growth needs to be supervised by a woman, and a good woman is like a school. But a man is definitely a creature of great understanding, and he may suddenly surpass you very quickly one day. Therefore, after a man reaches the age of 30, he will basically no longer be influenced by women, and at this time, the woman he asks only needs to meet two words, obedient and sensible. Therefore, meeting a good man, just like meeting a good piece of jade, requires luck. If you're lucky, you can get jade by cutting hard. If you are unlucky, you can split the whole piece of jade, and it is nothing more than a pile of waste rocks. Little book, you should be glad that this man you have met, he has something in him that is worth waiting for and waiting for. If this is not the case, you have been suffering for more than ten years, and you are also destined to have a miserable life, and the ending will be different. So I don't recommend that women use their youth to gamble on a person, the probability of being worth it is too low. Instead of this, it is better to slim yourself and always meet a better man. The eldest sister said casually while choosing the hair flower to wear at the wedding for me.

"Yes, if I lose the bet, my life may be a completely different ending, I have become a single mother in the eyes of others, but I have nowhere to complain, I can only be desperate alone." I couldn't help but mutter, suddenly feeling scared.

"A woman's happiness is always closely related to a man, have you seen a few women in this world who are really happy without men? People are strong in front of people, and they still crave men's care and love in the future. I have always felt that it is not a good thing for a woman to be too weak, and it is not a good thing to be too strong, but it is still necessary to grasp the degree to have a happy life. The eldest sister said earnestly, and then reached out to hold my arm and said, "The road ahead is good, marriage means a new beginning in life, and everything will be reshuffled." My sister advises you that a woman in marriage should have the mentality in marriage and stop thinking from the perspective of love. You will be happy, Xiaoshu, I believe that Jin Yan is a good man. ”