10. Once the sea was difficult to turn into water, was it a catastrophe or fate?
"Sign a contract?" I was stunned, "Forgive me for taking the liberty of signing the contract, I was there when I signed the contract, and I didn't see any clauses related to this matter?" Could it be ......," I looked straight at her, "and you have other contracts in private?" β
She smiled and acquiesced.
Seeing that I looked very puzzled, Ni Na put down the soup, sat up straight, looked at me seriously, and said, "Don't tell you, it's not my intention." It's the meaning of Duan Muqing. He doesn't want you to feel that everything is made possible by him, and to lose your self-confidence. To be honest, in the end, even the report you came up with late at night was of little use to me. β
Her frank admission made me feel a little embarrassed, and I swallowed hard, "So, the reason why you are looking for me is completely because of him?" β
She nodded without hesitation, "At this point, I don't want to hide it." At that time, I was anxious to get rid of Zhou Feng's shadow, and I didn't want to rely on him for everything, but to be honest, I did have the heart and the strength. Duan Muqing appeared with you at that time, I thought, it's not bad to start with you, men, for the women they still love, they have always been generous. So, I took advantage of his liking for you to solve the management plan and funding of my chain. I have to say that Duanmu Halal is a business wizard! I don't understand why he is only a professional manager and not a boss, I think he can build his own business empire with his strength, but he doesn't. Hehe, what this man has in his head is always so unpredictable. β
I took a deep breath, "I'm sorry to tell you that you may never be able to use him again." β
She raised an eyebrow, "Oh? Utter falling out? β
I shook my head and didn't speak.
She smiled meaningfully, "Silly woman, I used to think that what I said would be enough to wake you up, but it doesn't seem to be at all!" β
I was stunned and looked at her ignorantly.
She said softly, "Look at your current situation, the child is unconscious, and grandma is seriously illβ"
I interrupted her urgently, "How do you know this?" Andβ" I felt a sore pain in my heart, "My grandmother has passed away. β
She gave me an apologetic look, "Condolences change." β
I tilted my head, "Have you asked someone to investigate my situation?" β
She doesn't deny, "Yes. I'm a suspicious person, not someone I know thoroughly, and I'd rather not use it. β
I couldn't help but laugh out loud, "So do you think you can get to know me thoroughly by sending someone to investigate me?" β
She smiled lightly, "I Ni Na has no other skills, and it is still possible to understand people's hearts, that is, with this, I can get to this day on the premise of understanding others and knowing my own weight." β
When she said this, the confidence and calmness on her face were really unattainable.
But the strange thing is that her self-confidence is always so just right, that people have no sense of disgust, but only admiration. This alone is enough to show that her sentence 'knowing others also knows your own weight' is true.
"Then tell me what kind of person I am?" I sat up straight, ready to listen.
Her eyes swept over me faintly, and she didn't have the kind of straightforwardness that was uncomfortable staring at people and seeing others.
After sweeping her eyes, she smiled slightly, "I didn't find out this, but I guess that your childhood environment should be very depressing, creating your current submissive, hesitant and repetitive character, it is estimated that you have not been loved by your parents in your childhood, so that in terms of character, you will always be like a child who does not grow up, timid and cowardly, soft and inferior." β
I was startled, and my eyes widened to look at her steadily.
She continued, "But these are not your worst character, the most uncomfortable thing about your personality is that you are obviously weak, but you don't allow others to feel like this!" Disguise yourself as tough! β
She smiled, "But with all due respect, your own personality really can't support a strong appearance." β
She shook her head to herself, "So, it will give people a phenomenon that is difficult to understand, what you obviously can't do, others come to help you, and you are still 10,000 unhappy." And for the person who has been helping you, not only will you not learn to be grateful, but you can easily drive that person out of your world completely. As if in this way, you can be like everyone who declares that you can live a wonderful life without him. β
Hearing this, I felt a knot in my chest.
She continued, "Including your first marriage, I think everyone will think that you were too pitiful before, and that family was treated like this. But don't forget, there is a saying that is the eternal truth, and that is - the poor must have something to hate! β
At the end, she looked at me with a cold gaze, and I tightened my lips, forcing myself to calm down and continue listening.
Then came her gentle voice, "Your hatred is that you can't really bow your head. You always feel that your ex-husband has to look down on you as a family, and the more you think about it, the more you feel that you have to fight for it, don't let people look down on you. But... How can you be angry? Your birth is destined to be a fact that cannot be changed, since you chose to marry into their family, you should first find out the temper of their family, they are all short-tempered people, but you still want to show strength with strength! The result? β
She glanced at me quietly, "You're naturally tougher than others." So in the end, you'll be the only one who suffers! Not only will you lose a mess, but you won't even be able to win the support of others. If I'm not mistaken, at first, it was only my mother-in-law who opposed you, but later, even my father-in-law, who had never been in those things, looked at you coldly! I opened my mouth, and it felt like a fish in my throat. Until now, she has scored so well that although I am angry, I am irrefutable.
She took a sip of soup and continued, "At this time, you should have calmed down and thought about what stupid things you did to get your life to that point, but you didn't, and you committed another taboo that a wife should not commit, that is, complaining endlessly about her mother-in-law in front of her husband." β
My heart palpitated, but I was like this at that time. But as soon as Yan Lei comes back, I will endlessly talk in front of him about what happened to my mother-in-law. Although I am telling the truth, what is the use of me telling him?
I remember that he also told me afterwards that I forced him out and forced him into the arms of others. I thought it was all the bullshit that the bad guy betrayed me and made up random reasons.
Now calm down and listen carefully to what Ni Na said, I really think that Yan Lei's matter is somewhat related to me.
"Think about it, if your husband can solve it, he will go to his mother-in-law to solve it himself as soon as you tell him the first time, right? But he didn't? That proves that in his mind, the weight of his mother-in-law is very heavy! Even if it's wrong, it's right. You don't know each other and shut up, but you still aggressively accuse, he doesn't dislike you, will he still be disgusted with a handful of shit and a handful of urine to pull his mother? β
"So, I think you accounted for at least fifty percent of the reason why your marriage with your ex-husband failed. Since you have married into such a strong family, you have to learn to overcome rigidity with softness, lower your posture appropriately, and learn to cater to your mother-in-law appropriately, because to be honest, you are weak. You should take advantage of your weakness and make your mother-in-law gradually turn from hating you to pituring you. But you didn't, you just rebelled with a flood of self-esteem when others looked down on you a little. In that way, why do you seem to think that you are very promising, poor and very backbone. But what about the facts? The truth is that it's useless at all! On the contrary, it will only make people look down on you more! Do you know what is the least valuable thing in the world in this world? β
I shook my head faintly.
Ni Na looked at me directly and smiled charmingly, "The self-esteem of a loser." β
I have to admit that when I heard her say this, I was very repulsed in my heart. Even though I am confident, it is really unpleasant to hear that I am so unbearable in other people's mouths.
Just when she opened her mouth and wanted to justify, she suddenly felt that this seemed to be what she said, "When others look down on you a little, they immediately rise up against with a flood of self-esteem."
I immediately shut my mouth, and finally calmed down and decided to listen seriously.
"You are deadly, it is the self-esteem of this loser, too strong and too strong! To be honest, you look good, but your personality is so bad, it is difficult for people like you to be associated with happiness, but fortunately, God will open another door for them when we close one window. If you want me to say, the only turning point in your life is in Duan Muqing! β
She smiled incredulously, "At first, I was really surprised, with your character, what did he like about you, when it comes to beauty, you do have it, but looking at it, there are more vase women around him who are better than me, why did he choose you?" β
I shook my head dumbfoundedly.
"I guess you can show your most vulnerable side in front of him, consciously or unconsciously! You must know that sometimes a woman's fragility is the value of a man's existence. Some men have a hero complex, and they always feel that the woman in front of them is so pitiful and needs his protection so much. In other words, when you are by Duan Muqing's side, the most advantageous killer weapon should be weak and gentle. I don't know why you fell out, but see for yourself, isn't the way you look like you is pushing him into someone else's arms? β
!!