I went to Beijing and came back yesterday, I sweated a lot after climbing the Great Wall of Juyongguan, and I estimated that I had a cold after going down the mountain, and now my whole body hurts, especially my calf muscles are very painful. If you are not honest, do not disturb the interview, I feel that I have little hope. No matter how many feelings are felt, first of all, people in Beijing really can't stay now, the smog is very big, just get off the plane, you can smell the smell, just like the smell of a cement factory. Living in Beijing for decades, it is estimated that it is impossible to see a disease. In Tiananmen Square, the security check is very strict, and you can't see the City Hall on the opposite side of the road when you stand across the road, and the smog is too great. The Forbidden City is also not as grand as imagined, far less magnificent than the Mausoleum of Qin Shi Huang. The difference is 1,600 years. The previous chapter was written to Huayuan Middle School, and I want to add it later, but I haven't finished it yet. Today I want to write about my marriage and divorce, because I found that many people have a lot of misunderstandings, and now that time is short, many things are clearly remembered, so I will write first.

As far as the two of us husband and wife are concerned, from the beginning of acquaintance, I don't know how many people are jealous, envious and hateful. At school, she was sick a lot, and I was carrying it out and going in and out. The first time the two of us had an argument was when she cheated on me, there was a boy chasing her, on Friday, she said that the boy had a birthday, invited her, I said you go, it's okay, she said she didn't go, but I couldn't find her on Saturday, I guess she went, I found the scene, and she went. The reason why I got angry was that if she went, I agreed, but she said she didn't go, but she went secretly, I was very sad about this deception, why deceive, let me tell you, if you deceive again and again, it will eventually harm others and yourself, so that there will be no long-term marriage, husband and wife can not often be unfaithful to their feelings, deception is the worst way! I found the scene that day, and Li Hui also went, so I could testify. She called me downstairs and gave me a slap in the face, and I slapped her. This was the first time we had a hands-on relationship, and if it wasn't for the cheating, I wouldn't have fought back. This was the first time, that day I said let's break up, she went home, she didn't come to school for a week, a week later, someone came to tell me that she fainted in the women's bathroom, I went and picked her up and went to the dormitory, she couldn't cry, she drank that day, drank two cans of beer, she got drunk, crying, I saw this state and it was fine, I don't think it's a big deal.

The second time, that time was I rented a house in Xihewan, I moved out of the house, at night I drank and chatted in the small house, the small is down, and then the two of us went to my house, she complained that I was drinking, lost my temper, I coaxed for a while, no effect, she became more and more energetic, to leave, Xihewan lived in the former carpet factory, she was going to the East Ring Road to rent a house, it was really far, it was 12 o'clock in the evening, it was too late, I chased her up, I lived on the 4th floor, she was often here with me, I couldn't persuade her, I slapped her, After a little more coaxing, she'll be fine. But this time it was really my fault to do it, there is no doubt that the wrong is wrong, men shouldn't do it, it was winter at that time, it was very cold, I was lazy, I should send her back, I thought about the discomfort of the moment, it should be solved at the moment, it was the third year of high school at that time. But the method is wrong, in the small contradiction after that, the small contradiction, she lost her temper, I tried to coax, reason, and later found that it had no effect, but I remember the details of several hands very clearly. This is the second time, the second time I did it my fault.

The third time is more than two years later, in Hubei, just after entering the pyramid scheme, in the later chapters, I will write several chapters in detail about the pyramid scheme, I came to Xi'an, let her go down to see, the first day after she came, she has no opinion on the pyramid scheme, the first day I don't know why she is angry, during the meal, I sit next to her, a big round table, a room is a total of 8 people. A pair of father and daughter, I worship the third child, Zhang Dadi, Wang Juanxia, and another person I can't remember, her anger I guess is to see other girls in a room in the pyramid scheme, anyway, I was inexplicable at the time, eating noodles, just put into a small iron basin, it was also winter, she splashed a basin of her noodles on me, angered me, I kicked her feet. This is the third time.

The fourth time, also in the pyramid scheme, about the second year, she and a boy named Liu Bang in the previous system, when she went to do the house matching, that time to do the house matching, she pretended to be Liu Bang's girlfriend, Liu Bang wanted to lie to his parents, so she pretended to be her girlfriend, in the MLM this kind of cooperation to deceive people is normal, I agreed, who knew that the two of them really had an accident behind, the house match was in the hot springs in Xianning City, we moved away after the two systems, and it was separated from Liu Bang's system, I was in Suizhou, I don't know where Liu Bang is later, once the baby said she wanted to go home, I also thought, she hasn't gone back for a long time, just go back once. Unexpectedly, she deceived me into going to Liu Bang. In the two years of MLM, in one year in Xi'an, I raised her food, drink, housing and transportation, and all her expenses were directly calculated to my account, and I always settled and settled for her. After she came home this time, she stayed at her house for a day or two before coming to my house, my mother was home alone, she lived in my house, I remember the night before she left, we chatted, she said she had just taken a shower, the process of talking, including the reason why she went home or something, I don't know, but she has been cheating on me, and then she complained once, saying that she followed Liu Bang and is definitely not like this now. The next day, she told my mother that she was going to Lanzhou, and that she was going to Lanzhou to find a female classmate of hers, named Newman, whom she met in tutoring when she was in middle school. My mom gave me a few hundred bucks back for her. After she left, my mother called me and said that Meng Baobao had left Lanzhou, saying that she was looking for her classmates. I said I didn't know, and my mom said she thought I knew, and I immediately thought something was wrong, so I called her, and she said she was already in the car, and it was supposed to be 2010. We're not married. I asked her to get out of the car and go home, she didn't agree, and when she left, I felt that something was wrong, so I checked her recent phone records, and her phone number was always me buying her for her, applying for a card for her, recharging her, until the divorce. The hatred between her and my mother, or the reason why she hates my mother, is that this time my mother told me that she went to Lanzhou, and I only understood when I wrote this, and she hated my mother this time! So much so that she hit my mom two or three times later! I went to Beijing this time, met a taxi, met me, talked to me, said that I was divorced, my divorce is because of the villain, who is this villain, she thinks she knows best, but in her mind this person must be a confidant, or love her, let her go, good or bad, I have not been able to pull the world for 11 years. After I checked the phone records, I called several strange calls, one of which was from Liu Bang. At night, the phone was turned off, the baby's was turned off, and I went to Xinjiang for 3 days, she and Liu Bang went to Xinjiang, I bought a ticket in Wuhan, and I was going to look for it, but she didn't answer the phone or turned off the phone many times, and I went in vain, so I stayed in Wuhan and waited for her, but on the third day, she came by plane, and held grapes, very happy, I beat her in the hotel, that time I was really angry, and I deceived me again and again in these questions, and I was crazy to deceive, after I beat up, I pulled her to her father, I was ready to hand her over to her father, and from then on, she couldn't live or die. That was the fourth. I broke up with her for half a year, and I cheated on her in this half a year, I talked about a Xianyang one, one of our locals, both in Xi'an, but after she came to Xi'an, I moved the house, and I haven't had it since. In terms of feelings, I only have feelings for her, I have always valued the relationship between the two of us, I have never cheated emotionally, and I have not fallen in love with anyone except her.

The fifth time, that is, after getting married, shortly after the child passed the full moon, I didn't do it that time, not from beginning to end, she quarreled with my mother, I forgot why, but she rushed over and snatched the child from my mother's arms after impulsively, the child was only 40 days old at that time, and she said a word when she grabbed the child, she was going to fall the child to death.

The sixth time, she has been in contact with another child she met in the pyramid scheme, and she has seen her many times after coming back, the child is not married, her name is Wang Xiazhou, and when she first came to the pyramid scheme, Wang Juanxia in a house is two sisters and the man is a younger brother. After I came back from the delivery that time, she was at my house with a girl named Houcai, I don't know why, every time she talked with Houcai, she would be in a bad mood, lose her temper, and find trouble. When I came back, she was wrong, yelling at me, I asked her if Wang Xiazhou contacted you today, she said no, after I looked at her mobile phone, Wang Xiazhou happened to call her, just two days ago Wang Xiazhou also sent her fruit, this child is not married, I wonder what you are doing like this again and again. In addition, she said no just now, and she deceived me again, so I called Wang Xiazhou, called her, and beat me up, and then she had no contact with Wang Xiazhou, I don't know, it is estimated that there are still some, but in another way.

The seventh time, after coming back from Shandong, in 2014, I was not at home, I just came back to live with my parents, I was outside, one day she called me and cried and said that I should come back quickly and see my parents. I knew that there was a quarrel, so I hurried back, the reason was that the child was asleep and wanted to eat, and the parents said that the child should go to sleep, and then eat when he got up, but she couldn't, so she had to wake up and eat, and she was still 2 years old at that time. She woke up the child and cried, but if he still didn't eat, she yelled at the child and told him to eat. Her emotions due to mental illness, will soon be impulsive, impulsive time is always very short, immediately began to be very verbal excessive, and my parents began to quarrel, after I came back, there is no more, I said if you want to live separately, I take the child and my daughter-in-law to Xi'an, I now do Taobao, I can do it anywhere, my parents left on the same day, my father slept in the earthen kiln in my field for 7 days, my mother lived in my aunt's house for a few days, my mother said I don't want to go, going to school is a problem, she said she rented a house, Stayed with my dad. This thing is over, to be honest, our juniors should go out, so it's too unfilial, anyway, in the eyes of others, it's our little ones who drove the old ones out, and now the house in the countryside of my hometown has been repaired, and there are two places to live, so it's much better, to be honest, if you know that you want to divorce, you won't repair your hometown's house, and you can change to a big house. It's nice to have an old man, who helps with cooking, picking up and dropping off children, and taking care of children. But it just doesn't work together. I didn't do it this time, who likes to do it, if it can solve the problem, I can't solve it.

The eighth time, I once had a voice chat with my brother-in-law on the Internet, the voice was very loud, I have never hidden anything as a person, because there is nothing to hide from me, what I have done has never violated my conscience, I can put it on the table, what am I afraid of? When we were chatting, my brother-in-law said that my mother was at her house, and I said that I didn't know yet, so I said, you will still coax the old man, this one will show you the child for a few days, and the other will show you the child for a few days, and my brother-in-law will say, he will not, my sister's can talk. On this conversation, the baby heard it, and was angry with me for two or three days, I didn't know, she was wrong for two or three days, I always touched the nail at her place, I couldn't guess where she was uncomfortable, she didn't say it, she lost her temper, abused me, and said a sentence, saying that she didn't have my sister to speak. I immediately understood that when I was talking to my brother-in-law, she would not feel comfortable hearing it for so many days. I replied, you just have a problem with your head, the two of us just talk and chat casually, you can also be angry? She came and shaved my ear, and I looked at her, and I said try it again, and she did come again, and I pushed her onto the bed, and pressed her hand, and she kept kicking me, and she was so angry. I wasn't so angry, and she ran away from home that day. Saying good things, coaxing her doesn't work now, she doesn't eat soft and hard, she doesn't express what she wants, and she doesn't communicate. Ran away from home and didn't come back, a few days, the longest was half a month, between 2015 and 2016, I ran away from home if I felt a little uncomfortable, and I didn't go home for a few days, and then I asked her where she was, and I didn't say, and then I knew that I went to a family, and the woman said that it was only one night at her house, but she was away from home for three days, and I don't know where the other two days were. Repeatedly making excuses, finding an excuse to run away from home, not returning home at night, not answering calls, turning off the phone, there is no doubt that it is stealing someone, there must be someone outside.

The ninth time, in May 2016, my mother had a heart disease and needed a bypass, now it is not very serious, she does not go to the operation, has been dragging it, sometimes it is very serious, one day I went to see my mother, I found that she was in the room, she did not eat like this for two days, the medicine was also eaten, there were two kinds of medicine left, I helped her buy medicine, I was not in a good mood for those two days, the next day, a few of my friends came to my house, outside to drink together, during which my mother called, saying that my mother cried, I was drinking, I didn't control my emotions and cried, and the baby scolded that his mother was an old goblin. I was on fire, dropped the bowl, scolded you get out, she began to leave, took her luggage that she had packed before, and a few of my friends persuaded her to come back, and finally she made trouble for three days, not forgiving, I couldn't admit my mistakes, I couldn't say good things, or left, went out for half a month, and was very happy when I came back, stealing people and stealing comfortable. I'm just too lazy to say, I know it in my heart. During this outing, I stayed in Hujiadian for one night, Liu Aini knew about it, and told me that this time she also borrowed 1,000 yuan from Liu Aini, I estimate where she went, I called her in Hujiadian, she didn't come back, because she didn't achieve her goal. She lied to her big mom, saying that she was home, her big mom came to my house and asked what about the baby, I said I hadn't come back yet, I couldn't answer the phone, or turned off the phone, and couldn't find where she was? Her eldest mother said, "Look at this doll, why is she still lying?" When her big mother came home, she coaxed the baby to her house, and then called me, and I brought it back, her suitcase was at Wang Yinni's house, and a luggage was at Liu Aini's house. This time, I didn't do anything. Also say good things to her, so that she will not run away from home at every turn in the future, this is also your home, why should you run away from home? Even if you don't want me, you can't run away from home, and when you go out and come back, it feels different, it's easy to go out and it's hard to come in. She still didn't listen, and the last time became her departure forever! The tenth and last time, the next chapter will continue, and I will write about it for today.