The tenth time, and the last time, will start with the family repairing the house. After the ninth time, the baby ran away from home for half a month, came back, went to work, in the bidding company, how much is a month's salary, I don't know, asked, she didn't say, it seems to be about 1500, anyway, she is not enough to spend in the next few months, for her, 1500 can take 10 days, I also gave her money, once, she said she has no money, her salary has not been paid for a long time, I remember that I only have 30 yuan in my pocket, give her 10 yuan, she took it, at that moment, I felt sad. She never wants this before, and she will lose her temper.

A few days before the Mid-Autumn Festival, when the house was being repaired, the switch of the mixer was broken, I bought it and sent it to my home, it was raining lightly that day, and the roof was a shelf roof. I sent it at noon, and I was going to come down early to pick up the baby in the afternoon. That day, a small worker, there was a big change in his family before, and now he has epilepsy, and he happened to be sick at noon that day. My father was afraid that something would go wrong with his work, so he asked me to go to the roof and keep an eye on him. I didn't come down and called the baby and asked her to pick up the doll, and she said yes. But at about 4 o'clock, she called to say that she was not picking up the child, so she hung up. I was busy, and then I forgot, the child got out of school at 5 o'clock, and the teacher called at 5:30 to say that the child had no one to answer, so I quickly called my fourth aunt to pick up the child, and it was still at my fourth aunt's house that day. I was very unhappy, after finishing work and eating in the evening, I didn't go home when I came down, I drank first, and it was more than 1 o'clock in the evening when I came home. I found the baby asleep in the bed I slept in regularly. Usually she sleeps in another room with her children. The child was not there that day, and I thought about the idea that she had lived as a couple. As a result, I don't know why, she shouted twice: Are you just going to kill me! Are you going to kill me today? The voice was roaring, the windows were always open in the summer and autumn, I guess the people around me heard it, so I brought the kitchen knife, the kitchen knife she bought not long ago, I said you cut me, there will be no such thing in the future, she put the kitchen knife on the table. It's definitely hard to talk about this matter, but on the day of the Mid-Autumn Festival, she said it, so I have to write it out before.

On the day of the Mid-Autumn Festival in 2016, at half past nine in the morning, she and the child fell asleep in another room, I was in a room, my mother called and said that my sister and my brother-in-law and niece are here, my father bought some ingredients and pulled them to the house, and he will come down to eat at noon. I said let's cook at home, I said come to me to cook, my mother's rented house is too small, there are too many people, it is not convenient to cook and eat. After making a phone call, I asked the baby and the doll to get up, I said that they are all here for the holiday, eating, she got up, after getting up, she plugged in the water heater for the bath, to take a bath, before the Dragon Boat Festival on the day of the festival, she also took a bath, during the day, my parents, sister and brother-in-law are there. I think it's okay to take a shower at night, yesterday, tomorrow, and she washed that time during the day, and I think she did it intentionally. This time she has to take a bath again during the Mid-Autumn Festival. I said you don't want to take a bath today, it's so inconvenient, can't you wash at night? She didn't speak. During this time, she said a word about why she didn't cook elsewhere and what she came here for. I said that it's not natural for the family to have a reunion.

I remembered one thing, I interjected to this place, after she went to work, we discussed, I cook, she washed the pot, picked up the children, she went to work. I said yes, I'll cook, and one day my mom will cook. I asked her why she didn't wash the pot, and the baby said that I didn't make the rice, and she didn't wash it, and she didn't wash the pot when my mom cooked. I haven't cooked since that time, I don't do it, there are too many problems, and I get angry! That's all for the illustrations. Let's continue to write about the day of the Mid-Autumn Festival.

At about 10 o'clock in the morning of the Mid-Autumn Festival, my mother called again, saying that my sister said that she should not go to the farmhouse to eat, and it was very troublesome to cook, and I insisted on cooking and eating at home, because I knew that we were going to the farmhouse to eat, and the baby would definitely not go, we all took the children to eat, she was at home, what was the taste, and then we would say that our whole family went to eat, and she did not go, as if we were all bad to her. So they all listened to me and cooked at home. My mom and my sister came back from grocery shopping just after 12 o'clock. My sister carried the dishes, and after entering the door, the baby was doing the laundry, sitting at the kitchen door, and my mother asked her, "Are your parents okay?" Is your mom back? The baby replied, "What are you asking?" My mom and dad don't like your in-laws to get you mooncakes! "At this time, the baby also made two phone calls, this phone was later reported to me, in the criminal police team transferred to the call record list to see, one to Hou, Hou and her every time she chatted she was in a bad mood, awkward, once in my house, I heard the two of them talk about right and wrong, I scolded, never came again, but the baby often went to find, among the baby's friends, Hou is the only one who knows where the baby goes every time he runs away from home, but I asked her, she never told me, I took the call log and asked Hou, and Hou told me that she didn't know, and the baby had not been in contact with her. Another call is to the opposite of the building before the baby knew a woman, this woman's doll and my doll go to school together, now moved away, this woman's phone behind me called to ask, she said: baby called her to ask if she was at home, baby said she wanted to go to this woman's house to talk to this woman. It's very clear that the previous call to Hou also meant the same thing. Unfortunately, these two people were inconvenient that day, and the baby did not go. Everyone is reunited for the holidays. This woman in my family just doesn't want to see my family and is ready to go out. I really didn't know she was so uncomfortable, if I had known, I would definitely go to the farmhouse to eat that day, and if the baby doesn't go, I won't go, I won't care about her!

But at that time, I heard her calling, I couldn't hear it clearly, I thought she was calling Liu Aini, I heard as if no one was coming. I asked the baby: Did you call Liu Aini to eat? Won't she come? The baby's tone has been very impulsive that day, and she replied: "She doesn't come, people say that there are many other people in your family, and she doesn't like to come"! When my sister and brother-in-law heard this, they were very embarrassed, so I said, "Then I'll call her and call her." "I called, and Liu Aini also said that she would come over in a while. Afterwards, I asked Liu Aini, the baby didn't call her, and the call record list showed that there was no call, and the baby's call was from Hou and another woman.

About 12:40 noon on the Mid-Autumn Festival, my mother cut vegetables and meat or something on the board, my mother is still continuing to clean up and cook, the baby is washing his face, smearing something on his face, I heard the baby talking to my mother in the kitchen, very impulsive, in a bad mood, I was afraid that something would happen, I went to the kitchen, after going to the kitchen, the baby said to my mother: You asked your Liang Darong, what were you going to do with a knife a few days ago? I wrote about holding a kitchen knife earlier, and I said with a smile at the time, I was smiling, and I wanted to ease her emotions: "You know very well what I am doing with a knife, what are you doing now, aren't you good?" Nothing? At this time, Liu Aini came in, it seemed that my sister opened the door, and as soon as she entered the door, Liu Aini said: "What's the matter?" You can be heard talking very loudly downstairs! Liu Aini also said to the baby with a smile. As soon as I finished saying this, the baby snatched the kitchen knife from my mother's hand and said that he was going to cut me as he snatched it! My mother's strength is greater than the baby, the baby didn't grab the kitchen knife, and knocked over all the dishes that my mother had cut, my mother was angry, it was almost one o'clock in the afternoon, and my father was about to come back, and he didn't eat, and there was a big holiday. My mom slapped her baby when she saw that she had spilled the vegetables and water! The baby began to hit my mother, kicked my mother's stomach with his feet, hit my mother's face with his hands, I took the baby from the kitchen to the aisle, hit the baby's face with my knees, my brother-in-law pulled me to the inner room at this time, and then I Liu Aini and my mother and my sister learned that the baby hit my mother with a clothes support, and one of my mother's dentures was also knocked out that day, and the baby's hand was broken. The hand is indeed broken, but this hand is broken, and later I learned that there are many theories, one is that the baby's family said that my mother cut it with a knife, and this must be what the baby said to her family, this must be false. According to Liu Aini and my sister who kept watching at the time, I was pulled to the back room by my brother-in-law, and I didn't see how the baby's hand broke. My sister and Liu Aini both said that the baby scratched it herself when she hit my mother with a cloth support. But my mom said it might have been when the baby hit my mom, and after knocking out the dentures, her teeth were cut by the hand. I suspect there is another possibility, that is, the baby cut it when he grabbed the kitchen knife. Later, I learned that the baby's family thought that my whole family was beating the baby, and her family was very angry.

The whole process was just a few minutes, Liu Aini took the baby to bandage her hands, my sister gave her the money to bandage her hands, and the festival was not over, and we didn't eat for a day. After bandaging her hands, Liu Aini took the baby to Liu Aini's place of work, and when Liu Aini saw her leader say hello, the baby left. After that, I can check the call record list, the baby's eldest sister, made a call to the baby, the baby went to Pingliang that afternoon, should have gone to her aunt's house, the next day went to Xi'an, her eldest sister bought a ticket for the baby, the baby arrived in Shanghai the next night, this is 6 days after I called out the call details to know, the day began to so far baby WeChat, the phone has blocked me. When I was at Xianyang Airport, the baby gave her two friends, a Liu Aini, a Wang, 6 days later I saw Wang to see the chat history of Wang and the baby, and the baby told Wang that she was at Lanzhou Airport. I don't know why the baby said that. In these 6 days, I asked everyone who could ask, and I didn't know where the baby went, including her eldest sister, her parents, her aunt, Hou, the call list showed that the first call after the baby got off the plane in Shanghai was to Hou, and the second call was to her eldest sister, and then the phone was always turned off and never used again. This Hou, since he is a friend of the baby, he must be good for the baby, good for the baby, good for the baby's home, you know where the baby went, and he didn't persuade or tell me, I don't know what the intention is? The baby believes in the villain, the person who says good things to her, the person who is good to her, doesn't recognize any of them, and she can't listen to a word of kindness! During this period, I also called my eldest brother-in-law, and her eldest brother-in-law also said that he did not go to his house. Speaking of her eldest sister, she loves to eat Jingning flatbread, when I went to Shanghai, her family was in Kunshan, I carried four flatbreads on my back, and Brother Zhang Tao drove a BMW, and I sent it to her house for more than 4 hours. Baby's dad said a word about baby in front of me more than once, baby is all a lie! Her eldest sister also went to school, her brain is not stupid, she has seen me many times, she doesn't analyze it, she doesn't persuade her, she also helps run away from home, and she helps, and now these people are very successful! I can only hehe. I called my mother, and on the phone, my father scolded me indiscriminately, scolding my ancestors for eighteen generations. Calling my baby brother, I also scolded my ancestors for eighteen generations. At this time, I felt that the marriage of the two of us had really come to an end, and many things would be saved once the bottom line was crossed!

During this period, I couldn't find anyone, for several days, I was afraid that something would go wrong, I was very worried about the safety of my baby's life, I called the police, the person was missing, and I posted a missing person notice on the Internet. Her family complained about me, saying that why don't you find someone to post a search notice on the Internet? I'm also speechless, how do I find it? I asked where to find and who to inquire, but there is no news, but her family knows that the baby is in Shanghai and her eldest sister's house, what does it mean not to tell me? Hou also knows, and he doesn't tell me, how can I find it? Later, after I was transferred to the call list through the public security, I called the baby's family and said that the baby I had found it, and it was at her eldest sister's. Her mom asked me what I was going to do now. I said that I was going to leave now, and I couldn't get by, and her mother said that she would call people back and leave.

The whole process is the same as the previous two years, she ran away from home many times, the baby's psychological state is getting worse and worse, more and more abnormal, but the previous abnormal disease is now transformed into unprovoked trouble, emotional control and other states. This is from the heart, since I knew her sick, I can accept it, when I got married, my mother was very opposed, saying that it would be very troublesome after having this disease, I think we have known each other for so many years, we have feelings, it's okay, I insist on marrying. The most important thing is that she fanned the flames for her family, her family did not distinguish between right and wrong, too towards her, so that she had the confidence, made a big fuss, and scolded me so much, they all tore their faces, and their relatives couldn't do it, this is the real reason why I decided to leave, as for the baby, it is indeed affectionate, 11 years of affection, divorce for me, really reluctant, I have always been used to her, love her, she forgives her every time she makes trouble, and she has never admitted her fault. I don't even care!

A few days later, the baby's mother brought the baby to my house, took the things and left, I asked her mother to sit down and talk, but her mother didn't sit. didn't talk, always scolded me a few words, said that I had no conscience, said that I didn't ask for gift money. As for the gift money, at that time, just after the pyramid scheme came out, 200,000 yuan was lost, and there were foreign debts, I borrowed 10,002 for marriage, I took 6,000 yuan, and returned 3,000. I have always remembered her mother's good in this matter, and I have been making up for her mother's heart since then. On the day of the wedding, their family will also come to relatives and villagers, and I will buy all the tobacco, alcohol and food, etc., and I will send them. After the wedding day, I didn't have enough money for the banquet, so I borrowed another 2,000 from my brother.

After marriage, I went to the baby's house to see her mother, that was Shandong work back, only stayed at home for 3 days, and went to her house for a night, when I left the quilt put 500 yuan under the quilt, after returning from her house, I asked the baby to call her mother to say, I said to her mother put 500 yuan, let it go. In 2015, the baby's mother came back from Jiuquan, I took her mother and baby, and my son to Qinghai Lake for a few days, Taer Temple, a 2-day tour around Qinghai Lake, Chaka Salt Lake, and Bird Island. I've barely given my parents any money so far. In 2015, the baby's mother came back again, I gave the baby 2000 yuan, I said 1000 to her mother, 1000 for the two of them in those days. I also gave the baby the card, a week, I later found out that the baby took 2000 three times, a total of 8000 yuan, a week is gone, I asked the baby what to spend, what to do? She said vaguely, and then people said that she didn't go to work, and she was very short of money, and I didn't give her money. In the past two years, I have also earned some money, but I haven't saved any money, and she can spend the money however she wants, and I usually don't say anything. After this time, the baby said that 1500 a month was enough for her, I gave 1500, and she didn't use it for 9 days, and I know very well how much I want in a month.

Now after receiving the baby mother and baby for the last time, I took all the things and left, I followed, and then I went to the marriage registration hall, registered the divorce, registered, said that it was a month later to coordinate the divorce, and I came back. Three days later, the court asked me to take a summons, and it turned out that the baby sued for divorce in those days, and I took the summons, and the court will be held a month later. During this period, I talked to the baby and her mother once, and after I went, it meant that I confessed my mistake, I thought about it, admitting my mistake just gave them a step down, and it couldn't solve the problem, because they didn't find out where the problem was? The problem is in my heart, I am sick in my heart, I can't open the knot in my heart, it's useless, I admit my mistake, I will still run away from home when I come back, lie everywhere, the baby can't come out of her own demons, and will still think that our whole family is her enemy. can't solve the problem, when it comes to the Mid-Autumn Festival, the baby mother said a sentence: Since there will be problems, don't you call all to eat, you call all to eat, are you just preparing to make trouble. When I heard this, I left, and it was useless to talk about it again.

On the day of the trial, I saw the baby, I just saw her that day, I felt that she was in a very good mental state, really, I haven't found that she has such a good state in the past few years, she smiled and asked me: Didn't anyone come? I didn't know how to answer her, because I didn't know who she was referring to. I was going to make a photocopy, so I went out, and she left without answering, and after the trial, the judge asked me if I agreed to the divorce? I said yes, at that time, I found that the baby's mind was not very good, until the end of the trial, the baby stood up, began to cry, to talk to me, the judge disagreed, I agreed, I asked the judge to let her say, the baby cried and said: Liang Darong, I have been good to you with my conscience for so many years. I said I know, you're good to me, and I know, but do you think the two of us can live now? Can you go back? I have always understood in my heart that she sued for divorce because she still wanted to make trouble and play. But can you always play like this? The baby doesn't want to get divorced, but he always talks about divorce, and he has been divorced three times. If there is a problem with something, communicate more and talk more, and the heart will be connected. If you don't talk about something, you just run away from home, don't answer the phone after leaving, or turn off the phone, don't reply to text messages, or even block the phone and WeChat, can you communicate in this way? Every time the communication channel is closed, locked up, and then it is cranky, all blind conjecture, and over time, the heart demon will arise, and the knot will become more and more dead, and it will not be untied! When quarrelling, if you say something very bad, if you say something excessive, you can't say it, and if you say it, you can't take it back, and there will be a rift between people's hearts, and this can't be compatible. You can't fight with the elderly, some bottom lines can't be broken, how can you take it back if it's broken? That's the end of marriage!

It's been so long, I can't figure it out, why don't I make a phone call to ask the child, talk to the child, I have been sending text messages, sending for more than two months, and none of them have been replied, I asked the child to ask, and I didn't ask. Children are always born on their own, right, how does a woman and a mother do it? No solution!!

This chapter is finally completed, and the next update will continue to write about Huayuan Middle School!