Chapter 14: A Meaning of Love

Recently my stomach has always been very upset, uncomfortable, and painful for several days. Today is the first day of the college entrance examination, many students are struggling, but the real struggle children do not know what their scores do not represent, just like many of my classmates now, good students always work for poor students. If your stomach hurts, you will find some medicine to eat tomorrow.

Talk about your child's education, and sometimes your child will be non-violent and uncooperative.

Let me start with what it means to talk about non-violent non-cooperation, which was an important part of India's transformation into a democracy, and of course this movement was started by a well-known political figure, that is, Gandhi - Mohandas Karamcand Gandhi (October 2, 1869 – January 30, 1948), honored Mahatma Gandhi, the leader of the Indian National Liberation Movement and the leader of the Indian National Congress Party. Gandhi was the founding father of India and the founder of Gandhiism, a modern political doctrine that advocated nonviolent resistance. His spiritual ideas led the country to independence from British colonial rule. His philosophy of "non-violence" has influenced nationalists and international movements around the world for peaceful change. At 5:17 p.m. on January 30, 1948, Gandhi was assassinated by opponents at the age of 78.

The real meaning of nonviolent non-cooperation is that I don't have violence against you, but I just don't cooperate with you, and that's peaceful change. That is to say, you violently suppressed me, you treated me violently and savagely, but I just don't have violence to you, I don't have to resist you violently, but I just don't cooperate with you, and I don't cooperate with you. The current Syrian civil war is violence against violence, armed confrontation, but what Gandhi initiated was not, but peaceful change, and the movement he led was peaceful resistance, non-cooperative resistance, and finally succeeded, that is, finally moved towards independence. To be independent is to break away from the British colonies that preceded you. To put it bluntly, the management of the Indian system from the success of Gandhi to the present is better than the previous colonial rule, and to put it bluntly, your previous ones are not good.

So I want to talk about children's education, many parents, parents and teachers think that hitting children is a way of education, in fact, they all know that this method is the wrong way to educate, but they will find a very reasonable reason for their education method, that is, they think they are all for the good of their children! It's ridiculous! Let me give you an example, if your child freezes one day, and you put your child on the fire to roast it, and the child burns. Suppose one day your child is born on fire and you throw him into the water and drown. You will still use the excuse and reason that you are doing it for the good of the child. Don't say that the examples I'm giving are outrageous, it's just that I'm compressing the chronic, long-term facts into extreme, short-term things to illustrate the problem. Ask what will cause these problems to arise, because your methods are limited, to put it bluntly, your cultivation, quality, morality, self-cultivation, cultivation, and ability are all limited, and you can't solve these problems yourself, so you just find a violent way of education. How do you approach education instead?

I think there are the following methods for reference only, the first is love, love can change others, of course, including children, love can dissolve hatred, love can change behavior, love can dissolve depravity, love can change human nature. Love can be caring; Love can be patience; Love can be communication; Love can be edifying; Love can be sincere; Love can be kindness; Love can be understanding; Love can be communication; Love can be eyes; Love can be touching; Love can be a smile; Love can be a compromise; Love can be endured; Love can be a commitment; Love can be giving; Love can be non-violent in any way! And you chose the worst one!

What's more, when he is angry and in a bad mood, he will find a place to vent his anger, hitting the child is one of his ways, he will say that he loves the child, he is for the good of the child! So what kind of person are you? Do you love children at all? Are you doing it for your children or yourself? The selfish guy took a serious look at the following!

Many people ask him, when your child is terminally ill, are you willing to take your child's place? Their answer was yes! Of course, they all knew that this was impossible, so they said yes! So let me ask you again, now that your child's heart is really bad and needs a heart transplant, are you willing to lose your life and transplant your heart to your child? Don't answer yes, your answer is at least something to consider, so far I have never heard of a healthy parent who died of his own death in order to keep his child alive, giving his child some of the only lethal organs! If you are thinking and worrying about what you have just done, it means that you are selfish, how much do you love your children, how much do you love yourself? You are a garbage person who vents his anger and bad feelings on his children, not to mention that you bear it for your children, let alone what you bear on behalf of your other relatives.

To love someone is to bear for him and bear for him, whether it is your children or other relatives, instead of venting your unhappiness on your children and other relatives!