Chapter 45: The Communication of Opposites
When Chen Qingyi said that An Qi was a woman who was much better than her, everyone's eyes were focused on An Qi, as if they were questioning An Qi's background.
"Ann is always the executive CEO of the listed company Lijingxuan and has a high reputation in the industry." Chen Qingyi solved everyone's confusion and told Anqi's identity.
The extremely beautiful face, extremely high social status, and strong economic conditions constitute an almost perfect Angel, but whether these are the help or resistance of love, I don't know, I can only wait for the statement of my family in anxiety.
The father, who has always had the right to speak at home, looked at Anqi, and finally said: "Feelings are not child's play, your behavior, we really can't accept it emotionally, in addition, we are just a small family, and we have never approved of this unequal way of communication, you are not young, since you get along, it must be for marriage, I don't doubt that you have feelings, but feelings are for two people, marriage is two families, as the head of this family, I don't agree with your interactions, as for the reason, I think you all get the idea. ”
Dad's words were already very tactful, and he didn't use any fierce words, with his personality, he already took into account Anqi's feelings, but I was still extremely frustrated, even though I had been mentally prepared.
"Dad, Anqi and I really want to be together, I admit that there is a big gap between us materially, but I can work hard, I am already an adult with independent thinking, so I don't want you to interfere in emotional matters."
Without waiting for my father to express his position again, the little aunt immediately took the words: "Yixi, since ancient times, the tragedy of love, most of them are caused by material asymmetry, and such examples around us are not uncommon, we are elders, and we have never been malicious to the younger generations, but I just hope that you can live a comfortable life, this point I have the same attitude as your father, we don't ask you how to do it in the future, how to do it, just ask for a stable word, people's lives are very short, emotional things can't stand the toss, I hope you think twice about this matter, Thinking about your current situation, can you continue this relationship with peace of mind? ”
Everything is within my expectations, but I am so difficult to accept, I know that the reason why they strongly oppose it is because of their liking for Chen Qingyi, my grandfather is a teacher, and my father is also a political teacher in a high school in a small town, and Chen Qingyi is also born in a teacher's family, which makes the two families have a natural sense of closeness, and it is also ordinary, so compared to Anqi, the family that has always been conservative will definitely choose Chen Qingyi......... What's more, people have preconceived habits, and Chen Qingyi is really dedicated to my family, and she has been deeply rooted in my family.
At this time, Anqi finally spoke: "Elders, what is my family like, I don't have the right to choose, but I really want to be with Yixi, there has never been a smooth sailing relationship in this world, even if you help him choose the relationship, you can't avoid setbacks and quarrels, and avoiding these quarrels and setbacks requires tolerance and understanding, but if the two people who are together don't even have a relationship foundation, how can there be tolerance and understanding?" ”
The meaning of Anqi's words is obvious, she likes me, so she will tolerate me and understand me, and now she is indeed tolerating and understanding, but if there is no emotion as a foundation, such as me and Chen Qingyi, will there still be such tolerance and understanding?
I don't think so, as a friend can be understood and tolerated, but that's just a friend-style understanding and tolerance, once the relationship changes and there is a dispute emotionally, it is difficult to accommodate the other party, because there is no love.
After Anqi's words were finished, the little aunt with the most straightforward temper immediately retorted: "I don't think so, feelings can be cultivated in the process of getting along, and I think Qingyi is definitely a woman who knows how to tolerate and understand." ”
The atmosphere suddenly became tense, and the point of concentration of contradictions was instantly pulled to Anqi and Chen Qingyi, at this time Chen Qingyi's statement became the key, if she said that she and I have no relationship between men and women, no matter how reluctant the family is, it is useless.
Chen Qingyi paused and said, "Little aunt, what Yixi and I have is just friendship, don't force him........ Let's continue to eat, the dishes have been coming up for a long time, and they are almost cold. ”
The topic was finally brought over by Chen Qingyi, and I glanced at her gratefully, fortunately she was there this time, otherwise the scene would definitely not be as restrained as it is now........ It's just that I vaguely feel that Chen Qingyi's expression has a trace of imperceptible loss, I hope this is my hallucination.
That's the end of the conversation about men and women at the dinner table, but I don't think this is the end of the conversation, and there will definitely be some more communication to come.
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After eating, everyone stood in the parking lot outside the hotel, I planned to send Anqi to the hotel first, and Chen Qingyi seemed to be planning to leave, but the little aunt grabbed Chen Qingyi and said: "Qingyi, don't go back today, stay at the little aunt's house, and chat with the little aunt." ”
"No, little aunt." Chen Qingyi looked at me and Anqi and declined the invitation of my little aunt.
"No, it's too unsafe for you to drive two long distances back and forth in one day, and you are not allowed to go back today when the sky falls." The little aunt said and took her bag from Chen Qingyi's hand.
Grandparents, fathers, mothers and others also kept them, the only one who was silent was me, and Angel had already walked into her car, I knew that the family's neglect of her and their love for Chen Qingyi stung her.
My mother walked up to me and patted me heavily and said, "No matter what the relationship between Qingyi and you is, even if it is as a friend, you should keep it, aren't you afraid that she will not be safe to drive like this?" ”
"Let's go tomorrow morning." I said to Chen Qingyi, but it was more like a polite word.
Everyone helped and did not allow Chen Qingyi to go, and finally Chen Qingyi nodded.........
I didn't say anything more, turned and walked towards Angel's car......... At this time, the entrance of the hotel in the center of the county was full of people, and cars like the Porsche Cayenne were rare in small towns, and with Angel sitting in the car, pedestrians couldn't help but take a few more looks, and such a scene made the family increase the sense of distance from Angel.
I opened the car door and sat in the cab, trying to say something to Angel, but her expression was so solemn that I couldn't speak, and I knew what my family's attitude meant to such a proud woman.
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Without saying anything all the way, I sent Angel into the hotel, I wanted to go up to accompany her for a while, but she refused, only saying that she was a little tired and needed to rest, I really hoped that she could sleep peacefully.
As soon as I walked out of the hotel, my phone rang, and it was my aunt calling, and she asked me to go to the coffee shop to talk.
When I came to the coffee shop, my aunt got out of the taxi and we bumped into each other.
"Why didn't you drive that girl's car?" My aunt asked me as I got out of the rental car.
"It's the same as taking a taxi."
The little aunt shook her head and smiled, and said, "You yourself know that there is pressure, that girl is not something that ordinary men can control." ”
I don't deny that I didn't drive Angel's car, it was true that I wanted to avoid suspicion, especially when meeting with my own family.
"Let's go inside, it's cold outside." I said to my little aunt, I also want to have a heart-to-heart chat with my little aunt, I hope to find a breakthrough in her, let her accept Angel first, so that I don't have to be alone!
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I'm sick, thank you for your understanding, for those who don't understand, those who are emotional, I can only say, you scolded me thousands of times, I treat you like my first love, I love my readers so much....... Today's 2 more.,I'll make up for the chapters I owe in the past few days.。。。。 The record that has been updated for 134 days in a row is broken, and I am also very unhappy, if it is not really impossible to write, who wants to hold on for so long, and it is broken like this...... For my readers, for this book, I can confidently say that I have a clear conscience, please don't judge me by other authors.....