XXVIII. Safety Island

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After the suspicious incident in the hospital, many people may think that they are going to switch to idol drama mode and feel that they have the chance to win. () Although I have seen some facts through this battle, it has nothing to do with whether he loves me or not, and whether I love him or not.

Did you hear me, it doesn't matter.

To be able to make such a move, it is mainly based on the basic character of the other party, and at most it is clear that there will be a bottom line guarantee in the future.

It does seem a bit difficult for a woman to be so calm. After all, it is a sensual animal.

But I've always been clear about the conditions of my relationship with L, and a fragile lover relationship is not the same as a relationship that is constantly strengthening. In a lover relationship, a woman should restrain the flood of fraternity, just reciprocate, it is best not to unilaterally decide to take the initiative to give more&mdah; otherwise it is likely that the more you give, the more you want to reciprocate, the more disappointed you will be. The best state is how much he gives you, how much you give feedback, and if he wants more, he asks for you. The initiative is yours, and it won't put too much pressure on him.

So after I came back from the hospital, I didn't feel anti-customer-oriented, let alone pampered. As in the past, I sat quietly in the world outside of L, waiting for him to summon me when he missed me, and the rest of the time I preoccupied myself with my own business as if he didn't exist. I didn't ask for anything when I met, my gentleness was reserved&mdah;Unreserved gentleness was actually oppression and rape. Staying sane and sober forever is the most basic quality of a warrior. At critical moments, you must be more accurate about your own status: in this relationship, you always need to be cautious so as not to be covered in water and bruised.

I've said a long time ago that you'd better not believe that he loves you. In this way, there will be a natural shift in your thinking and behavior patterns. A single "adventure" does not prove that the relationship between me and L is intimate, and the two sides are not absolutely honest.

In a relationship, the more you give, the more the other person is likely to be touched and return to you&mdah;because you have one-on-one uniqueness.

In a lover relationship, it is best not to talk about touching and giving back, and it is serious to take what you need, especially for the man. You want him to pay more for you, not with coolies, but with brains&mdah;So the charming thousand-year-old fox spirit is estimated to be very accomplished in psychology in addition to his lovely figure.

Although on the outward I don't want anything &mdah;marriage and love, but in fact I want to get the most secret part of his heart, so I can't say that I have no intention of demagoguery at all; But I need to protect myself more at this time.

The more forbearant and mysterious a woman is at this time, the more she can stimulate men's desire to conquer, so while protecting themselves, they can also achieve the goal of step-by-step development.

I'm glad that I've set up a safety island from the very beginning&mdah, a circle of life with no trace of L&mdah, and I've not been carried away like some MM who is desperate for blind love, and invested my whole life in this magnificent game with L. So even if I am completely wiped out in the world where I coexist with L, I can still climb to the other side and regroup.

Xiao M later concluded: "If there is a professional evaluation in the lover industry, you are definitely the most professional I have ever seen." ”

I think I'm a hard-working person, both in life, in my relationship and in my career.

I sat in the position I used to hold and looked at the department team in front of me, the old and the new, busy and orderly. I have always had a warm determination in my heart: I want to do my best to lead this team and live up to the position I once sat in.

Since I was promoted to manager, my work has been very busy&mdah;although I am only a deputy position, I report directly to the director, which is considered a probationary period before the promotion.

I'm kind of a fast climber. Needless to say, L's reputation and S's strong recommendation gave me the green light all the way. I've never deliberately sought out a noble person in the workplace, so I'm lucky.

Whenever I work overtime until late at night and there are still people in the office, I will remember that when I first joined the company two years ago, I worked overtime desperately for L to PP. I will also follow the example of L and buy some snacks for these dedicated brothers and sisters to bring with me, and everyone is very happy. When the task is heavy and anxious, I will temporarily put down the work at hand, quietly nest in the leather office chair and close my eyes to recuperate, as if this seat has a magical power to regain my strength. I only have one point, I don't allow other people to sit in my desk. One time S came to look for me, I was not there, he sat in my chair and waited for me, and I was quite unhappy to see it when I came back. He later joked to me privately: "Why, it's only been a few days since you coveted the 'official position'?" I laughed, and of course I wouldn't tell him: that's because it used to be L's seat. However, when I encounter an incurable problem at work, I usually go to S to communicate and ask for advice, but I don't ask L. This ideal must be understood by everyone, and there is no need to repeat it.

So why don't I think about it all the time? Because I have my own fulfilling life, when I am busy, I really don't have time to contact and think.

On my first day in office, I sat in this office and secretly took a photo and sent it to L, saying nothing. He replied, "Don't collapse my chair. ”

Once, when I talked about me molesting me on WeChat during the affair, I asked with a wicked smile: "Did you have an intention against me at that time?" He immediately and firmly denied: "No! Someone as simple as me. And I'm so busy that I don't have time to think about these things. I was self-inflicted, disgraced, and immediately stopped the topic angrily.

The second time I asked, "Hey, do you remember the song I posted last time in my circle of friends, when you asked if it was written for you as a hint, and I didn't admit it." You're still angry. Actually, yes...... The things that you suspect are written to you and I don't admit are actually written to you. ”

l suppressed the smugness in his heart and said, "I remember everything." ”

The third time I asked him, "When did you start liking me?" ”

"From the first time I saw you." His tone was simple and clear.

"! Last time you said you weren't interesting to me! "I was indignant.

L snorted in disgust: "Hey, you have to let me keep a little reserved!" ”

L and I are both smart. Good memory, strong comprehension, and quick responses. In terms of communication, many times we don't have to finish the words to fully understand the artistic conception that the other party wants to convey, and this tacit understanding is amazing. We are often pleasantly surprised and delighted by this kind of barrier-free communication, and sometimes it is difficult to find a soulmate. But the problem is that we can all distinguish between "coaxing" and "coaxing" very keenly, and we can't easily deceive each other. It's harmless to joke, l is better than me in eloquence, I'm not his opponent when I'm really poor, and I always suffer dumb losses. But L is a little more rectum than me, emotionally exposed, and frizzy when he is in a hurry, but he is still patient.

Maybe it's because I like it. Someone like him, if he annoys you very much, will really let you know to "get out of here". I try not to touch the limit of his patience, if it is just right, it will annoy you when it is close, and it will annoy you far away.

In our mode of getting along, L is also very clear, and I also have my bottom line: he can't lie for me to see.

The unwritten law is slowly explored through observation and observation.

Even though we didn't say anything.

This is our tacit understanding.

Different people have different requirements. That's why I say that the lover relationship is always in danger, and it needs to be handled cautiously and not willfully, that's the reason. If you want to get it, you have to follow the rules and be patient.

It's not like you just have a piece of it.

If you are so simple and think that you can get true love in return by treating each other sincerely, then you are better off not being a lover. The harsh reality will teach you a lesson.