Love realization

In fact, everyone's love is similar, and my love with Hell Xin is nothing special. Divide and merge, merge and divide. I believe this breakup will be the last. Because the object of the protagonist's breakup has changed from Ding Yuxin's previous proposal to break up, to my proposal to break up. And I, according to my character, since I proposed to break up, how could I take the initiative to get back together?

Even if you want to start again, you can't pull your head down and start again. Perhaps this is also the unique and bad character of Leo. We always put our dignity first. We Leos are generally single-minded and start a relationship with dedication and will be wholeheartedly involved. I will no longer mess with flowers, I am a typical Leo character, it is Leo's single-mindedness, people do not live up to me, I will live up to people. Stubborn temper and likes to be more serious. Unwilling to be dull all his life, sometimes he likes excitement and adventure. I like good food, I get sleepy easily, and I love fish, because I think eating fish makes people smarter.

And our Leo's personality is even more dual, with changeable emotions, not to mention bitterness, and tears. And when I was dating Ding Yuxin, when I was wronged and unhappy, I never used it to win sympathy.

Because Leo's personality does not allow our dignity to be challenged, we will silently bury all grievances and dissatisfaction in our hearts. The last little bit of accumulation, taking root and sprouting, will finally suddenly erupt and leave in style. Even if it's a breakup, it's important to take advantage of it.

In fact, as a Leo, I am extremely insecure, and I am always afraid that my good friend or girlfriend will leave suddenly. That's why Leo me always thinks a lot and learns to predict things that are logical. We always think about the consequences when they are about to happen. Even if you fall in love or break up, you will plan step by step or try your best to control it.

Leo, I generally don't fight with others, and if I want to fight, I will fight to the end. Maybe you don't believe it, but Leo me is such a person, no matter who I am. Once you are serious about something, you will fight to the end in order to achieve your goal. We Leos are generally more hypocritical, and seem to be usually amiable and uncontented. In fact, it is someone else's words that hurt us or someone else harms our Leo's interests, and we usually don't have a seizure at that time.

However, just because you don't have a seizure at the time doesn't mean you will forget. We just don't want others to know what we're thinking, we just look for opportunities or create opportunities to harm the other person's interests at a more immediate cost.

We Leos are actually people with clear grievances, others are good to us, and we will pay for each other defenselessly. Sometimes we Leos are calculating people, and we Leos actually have a precise button in our hearts. In fact, we all have our own measurements of how much we give to others.

And we Leos make friends, in fact, we all believe that the more friends the better, and would rather be promiscuous. Because we Leos believe in no matter how good or bad people are. will have its use value. Maybe there are people who you will never be able to use each other in your life, and they are all Leo, and we believe that friends are prepared.

I also summarized my love with Ding Yuxin.

My love with Ding Yuxin is actually my trophy to put it bluntly. At the beginning, snatching Ding Yuxin from the hands of juniors is in line with our Leo personality, who likes challenges, likes excitement, and also likes the thrill of conquest, and likes to watch their efforts be realized little by little. And the motivation for all this is nothing more than for the sake of one's own vanity.

At this time, I can say it unscrupulously, which is a profound analysis of my own character. The so-called Leo above is actually just what I think and feel.

As for, why am I indifferent after successfully getting Ding Yuxin. I think most people know in their hearts that people are often full of longing for what they don't get.

For this desire, a lot of effort and struggle can be made.

When it comes to the spoils of war after their own efforts and planning, of course, they will be regarded as treasures at first. But when you have it for a while, you will find that what you longed for before is nothing more than that, and the more you learn more about the loot, the more you will find flaws that you didn't find before

In this way, as the days go by, I gradually lose interest in the trophies that I once regarded as treasures, and my emotional investment in them will decrease little by little. In this way, the boiling hot blood will also slowly cool. The so-called Cold War was born.

The emergence of the Cold War was nothing more than the loss of interest of both sides in each other. Neither side wants or one of the parties doesn't want to put in the effort. Because the loot has already been obtained, there is no specific audience for the effort you put in, so the interest and enthusiasm are no longer for each other. Because the side that reaches the spoils of war will take it for granted that it is time to enjoy the fruits of victory.

So, in order to balance the efforts made to get the loot in the first place. The victor will continue to demand the value of the spoils and complain about the pride of the spoils. Because the winner will think that you made me pay so much in the first place, and now it is time for you to taste the sadness of my heart. Perhaps this thrill of revenge is also one of the reasons for the final result.

The example of me and Ding Yuxin perfectly presents the twists and turns of the story, and at the same time examines the immaturity and irrationality of college love in general. It also made me realize that love is actually very ordinary. No matter how much I felt that my love was different from that of others when I was in love, in fact, there was nothing special about us. Ding Yuxin and I are the same as ordinary love

Pursuit, hot love, cooling, cold war, breaking up, reunion, reunion, reunion, and finally ending with me. No more! Suddenly discovered, isn't love just a combination of parts, a combination of points? Isn't that the love between me and Ding Yuxin like that?

So, I have to mention it when summing up this love.

Love will not come on its own, if you don't plan and take action, most of the love will not take the initiative.

Idealists, on the other hand, tend to believe that love obtained through inferior means is not pure love, nor will it be true love. And it will not last long and be happy. I also admit that it is true, that love obtained through improper means is indeed not pure, and generally not happy.

But, what I want to say, what is a university? I don't think I should say that everyone's first reaction is love paradise. And with such a mentality of love, how can it be purely where it goes? People want to have a beautiful encounter in college and have a romantic love.

In fact, to put it bluntly, college love is just driven by desire, which brings each other together. When the desire is reached, the interest will inevitably subside. The result can be imagined, and in the end, it is a breakup, and it is over.

I'm also from junior high school and high school, so I can't say that I haven't been in a relationship. I can only say that there are quite a lot of relationships. Here, I will talk about what I think is love based on my feelings.

Love in junior high school is shy, and when men and women have a good impression of each other, they will think that it is like or love. But it is often at this time that boys are at their most shy. Even if they love each other very much, they generally don't dare to confess, so they have been in unrequited love. And often girls in junior high school at this time are also the most yearning for love, and when they are curious, often as long as the boy crosses the hurdle of courage in his heart, the general success rate is extremely high. Anyway, I succeeded in junior high school, so I think girls are also quite sexy.

It is said that love in junior high school is shy, then love in high school is bold. If you want to fall in love in high school, the best time is often when you are just in the first year of high school, once you get the other person in the first year of high school, you will generally not feel lonely in the three years of high school. Because most of the men and women in high school fall in love because of loneliness. Boys and girls in high school, because they have just finished junior high school. Most of them studied hard every day in junior high school and never fell in love, so such students are curious about what it feels like to be in love.

And often academic tyrants have innate advantages, and the success rate of falling in love is still quite high, after all, girls are still quite proud of having a boyfriend who studies well in high school. High school is a place to look good and learn. The appearance is high, the girls are upside down, and there are a lot of initiatives. They don't know what the word reserved means, they just think that it is enough for them to like it, and they don't care about the subtlety of any girls.

With the development of China's social economy, more and more girls feel that female men are more praiseful words, and they do not reflect on this, on the contrary, such female men are quite proud. Of course, most female men are better with men, because ™ they are more lively and outgoing than ordinary women. Boys can pursue unscrupulously without pressure, because according to my thinking, at the same time, the feeling and summary of being a fellow male. When female men are abandoned or in love, they are often more optimistic and will not do stupid things. It's not as easy to think about as those weak women. That's why most of us like to socialize with women.

If you fall in love in high school because of loneliness, then in college, according to my one-sided understanding, love is for beautiful fantasies or desires. And when disillusionment or desire is reached, it is the end.

In short, in my opinion, if you want to fall in love in college, you can't have a little plan or plan. Even if the general ending is not very good.

But isn't there a saying that says it well? Don't ask what the future will be, just want to have it now.

Even if you lose it after having Ding Yuxin, you will never be qualified to hug her again, but so what?