There is another passage in "Wei's Spring and Autumn" - Chen Gong said, "Cao Gong came from afar, and he couldn't last long." If the general rode out of the tun on foot, for the outside, the palace will keep the rest of the people inside, if to the general, the palace to lead troops and attack its back, if it comes to attack the city, the general will save the outside. However, in the tenth day, the military food will be exhausted, and it can be broken. ”

Buranzhi.

Bu's wife said, "In the past, the Cao family treated the public platform like a child, and they still came here." Today's general Hougongtai is not more than Cao Gong, but wants to commission the whole city, donate his wife, and go out alone, if there is a change, how can the concubine be the general's wife! ”

Bunais.

Through these two records, we can roughly imagine that Lu Bu's wife could shake Lu Bu's mind at the most critical moment, making Lu Bu not listen to Chen Gongyan, which also indirectly led to the tragedy of Lu Bu's final life.

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Lu Bu was killed by Cao Cao, where did his wife, who could make him "natural"?

In "Heroes", Lu Bu and Cao Cao have a dialogue.

Lu Bu said to Cao Cao, "Treat all the generals to be thick, and all the generals will rebel against Bu'er in a hurry." ”

Cao Cao said, "Qing betrays his wife and loves the generals' wives, why is it thick?" ”

Bhumeran.

In a few words, Lu Bu was told that he had an affair with the wives of his subordinates as a general, and also indirectly implied that Lu Bu had actually lost the heart of the army, and even caused the anger of his subordinates, so after Lu Bu's death, the fate of his wife and concubine can also be imagined.

To be sure, it wasn't killed.

In traditional history books, killing the wives and children of important people is also a "war feat", and it must be recorded, such as "beheading Tan, punishing his wife, Jizhou Ping" when beating Yuan Tan, and beating Ma overtime "Nan'an Zhao Qu, Hanyang Yin Feng and others begged for Chao and beat his wife". In "The Biography of the First Lord", it is also tireless to write that Liu Bei's wife and daughter were captured several times.

When Lü Bu was defeated, there was no written description of his wife's head, and in "Wei's Spring and Autumn Period" (Pei Note), before Lü Bu was about to be defeated, it was also mentioned that his wife intervened in military and political affairs, and if Yan (I know that the surname was not necessarily Yan) was killed later, there would be no problem with writing a stroke by the way, so it should be that he was not killed.

In terms of hegemony, Cao Cao is indeed good, but for important people, if his daughters are occupied by the Cao family, it is often difficult to escape the historian.

For example, the matter between Zhang Ji's wife and Cao Cao went directly into Zhang Xiu's biography; After breaking Yuan Shao, the Book of the Later Han Dynasty said that "Cao Cao attacked Tuye (Ye yè) City, and Yuan's women and sons were more invaded"; Qin Yilu's wife was occupied by Cao Cao, and his son told you everything in Wei.

"Chronicles of the Three Kingdoms" was already the Jin Dynasty when it was written, and Cao Cao's little thing was not on the water table, and he even wrote about the many massacres in Xuzhou and more than half of the starvation deaths in Jizhou City.

Not to mention the Book of the Later Han Dynasty, if Lu Bu's wife and daughter are occupied by Cao Cao, it will be big news, and the "Biography of Lu Bu" of the two books can be directly attached to the back, but they only write that Lu Bu and Chen Gong himself were beheaded, so it is speculated that they should not be occupied, and they may even be treated well like Chen Gong's family.

It is speculated that the reason for this is mainly because Chen Gong did not give Cao Cao the steps in the White Gate Tower, "The palace will be benevolent and benevolent in the world, and the existence of his wife is also in the Ming Dynasty." At that time, so many people watched at the scene, Cao Cao naturally didn't want to sit in the name of being unkind, so he had to treat Chen Gong's family members well.

It is also unreasonable to treat Chen Gong's family well, but kill or occupy Lu Bu's family.

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Lu Bu's wife was the Ding family, and later, there was the Yan family, who killed Dong Zhuo, the woman who had a skin-to-skin relationship with Dong Zhuo - let's call her Diao Chan - couldn't help but take it home.

Later, when he lived in Xiaopei, Lu Bu married Cao Bao's daughter. The Cao family and Diao Chan had nothing, but the Yan family gave birth to a daughter named Lu Qiling.

There is only this one girl under his knees, and Lu Bu naturally loves Lu Qiling.

According to legend, Lu Qiling is talented and good-looking, with a beautiful appearance and a moon-like appearance, and her appearance is no worse than that of Erqiao, she can recite poems and write essays, and talk about things from the past to the present.

The Lu family had a girl who had just grown up, and Lu Bu began to pay attention to his daughter's marriage.

At that time, Yuan Shu had lived in Huainan for a long time, his troops were strong, and he had enough grain and grass, and he would be able to achieve great things, and he was very hopeful of calling the emperor the king and ruling the world.

So, Lu Bu intended to marry his daughter to Yuan Shu. However, Chen Qi considered the interests of the country and persuaded Lu Bu not to have an affair with Yuan Shu. Just when he hesitated, his wife Yan agreed: "If this is the case, it should be allowed." Even if I am not a queen, I Xuzhou will not have to worry about it. ”

In the voice of opposition and approval, Lu Bu wavered, so the matter was delayed.

Later, Cao Cao wanted to attack Xuzhou, and Lü Bu wanted to marry Yuan Shu by marrying his daughter, in order to get reinforcements to resist Cao Cao's attack.

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The other version is:

After Yuan Shu came up with the idea of becoming emperor, he wanted to unite with Lu Bu and use it for himself, so he proposed to Lu Bu to let his son marry Lu Bu's daughter, Lu Bu knew Yuan Shu's thoughts, he was called emperor, and he was not allowed to let his son succeed him in the future? Lu Bu agreed.

Yuan Shu sent Han Yin as an envoy to officially convey to Lü Bu that he would change the name of the year and ascend the throne as emperor, and at the same time asked to take Lü Bu's daughter and his son to consummate the marriage.

Of course, many dowries were brought in.

Pei Xiang Chen Qi was worried that Yuan Shu and Lu Bu would become in-laws, and Xuzhou and Yangzhou would be united and would endanger the country, so he went to lobby Lu Bu and said to Lu Bu, "Cao Gong welcomes the Son of Heaven, assists the government, conquers all directions, and shocks the world, and you should cooperate with him to achieve peace in the world." If you and Yuan Shu become in-laws, you will be charged with being an unrighteous person, and then the situation will be unfavorable to you. ”

Lu Bu is a very soft-eared person, he listened to Chen Jue's words, and he also resented Yuan Shu for not accepting him at the beginning. At that time, his daughter had already been picked up by Han Yin, but he still asked people to ride fast horses, chased his daughter back, and refused this family business.

So, how did his daughter feel after refusing?

Think about it, Xu Hao's marriage changed again, took it and chased it back, and killed the messenger in public - such a big movement, we all know it more than 2,000 years later, who can not know about it at that time? Where is Lu Qiling's face resting? Can she take extreme measures against herself?

It's hard to say.

At that time, people's view of life was different from ours, we thought that "life is only once", and they generally believed that life can cycle indefinitely, there is an afterlife, "early death and early life", "fifteen years later, my sister is still a good sister".

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There are also records that after Lu Qiling was picked up, Lu Bu's wife cried endlessly (it should be Mrs. Yan, Chen Qi came to pick up her daughter, she was unwilling, and persuaded Lu Bu not to marry her daughter and the Yuan family, but Lu Bu didn't listen), so he had no choice but to take his daughter back.

However, Lu Bu also angered Yuan Shao (not Yuan Shu) because of this incident, and later Lu Bu was trapped and asked Yuan Shao for help, but Yuan Shao refused to send troops because of his grudge.

It is recorded in the book that in order to get Yuan Shao's help, Lü Bu tied his daughter to his body, and wanted to fight his way out of the encirclement and send his daughter to Yuan Shao, but unfortunately it was not successful, Lü Bu was killed, and his daughter's whereabouts are unknown.