Lan Ziyi heard this:

"What the Zen master said really made Ziyi Mao suddenly, so it is indeed my desire that harmed me, I caused the anger of the back Yu Gonggong because of my own luck, I failed to win over Long Gonggong in time because of my greed for fame. It was because of my desire that I paid a terrible price.

Preserving heavenly principles and destroying people's desires is the so-called self-denial and revenge. Ziyi understood. “

The Zen master shook his head and smiled when he heard this, and he said:

"Wei Hou, you still don't understand. The saint is not as superficial as you think. “

Lan Ziyi frowned when he heard this, and he said:

"It's the master who said that the sky is shallow for those who have deep desires, and I said that I want to destroy people's desires, why does the master say that I don't understand?"

The Zen master asked:

"Why does Wei Hou want to extinguish his desires?"

Lan Ziyi said:

"Of course, because lust is a bad thing."

Zen Master Dao:

"Why is lust bad?"

Lan Ziyi said:

"The master himself said that desire blocks the heavenly opportunity, so I naturally want to quit desire. Only by quitting desire can I promote the birth of heavenly opportunities, and only when the heavenly opportunities are lush can I gallop across the horizon and have magnificent ambitions. “

The Zen master smiled:

"Why does Wei Hou want to be ambitious? Is it a fluke for a while, but ambition is not a desire? “

Caught in the words of the Zen master, Lan Ziyi was surprised and began to reflect, and forgot how to answer the Zen master for a while.

The Zen master went on to say:

"Wei Hou's vain attempt to extinguish desire is itself a kind of desire, and does Wei Hou think it is feasible to eliminate another desire with one desire? The depth of its lust is also shallow, because desire and heaven are two sides of the same coin, one eliminates the other, and the desire to prosper is shallow wisdom, but the foolish person vainly tries to extinguish his desire with desire, don't you know that this is a desire to add desire, and after all, he will fall into the abyss of lust that will never recover, and he will not be seen in Prajna. The so-called opposite is the opposite. “

Lan Ziyi listened to the Zen master's words and nodded slowly, he slowly let out a sigh, and then asked:

"If I don't extinguish my desires, then how can I help the heavens?"

Zen Master Dao:

"I naturally know how to help it, but I know that after all, I know, how to do it to know that Wei Hou needs to work his own after all. But Wei Hou worked hard to go up the mountain just to ask me about this, how could I not say it? In that case, then I'll try to explain it to Wei Hou. ”

Hearing this, Lan Ziyi turned his face to the Zen master and nodded:

"Please also ask the master to give me advice, Ziyi will listen to you."

Hearing this, the Zen master smiled and shook the strings, and said:

"Desire is one and the same, both are born from the heart, the heart is dyed in external objects and clings to external objects is desire, and the mind is contemplating external objects and knowing external objects is heavenly opportunity. The desire is indestructible, just because the reason why people become human beings is because they have a heart, and if the heart is not extinguished, the desire is not extinguished, and if the heart is extinguished, people are the same as grass and trees. If people are the same as plants and trees, how can they know the world? Understanding the world? If you can't, you can't talk about what the hell is going on. ”

Hearing this, Lan Ziyi asked:

"Then how can I not be the same as the grass and trees?"

The Zen master replied:

"If you don't say that the grass and trees are the same, you have to look at them and know them, and the so-called boosting heavenly opportunities are nothing more than that. Just looking at what? What do you know? ”

Lan Ziyi replied:

"Do you want to see and recognize external objects?"

The Zen master replied:

"That's nature. However, although there are many temptations and temptations of external objects, if you don't know what is desirable and can take geometry, people will fall into things, which is attachment, and then people will fall into desire. ”

Lan Ziyi said:

"So I should get rid of foreign objects and keep out the red dust."

The Zen master smiled:

Wei Hou still didn't understand. Not to mention that Wei Hou has ears, eyes, nose, and nose, and body limbs, and is in contact with external objects all the time, even the body itself is considered an external thing, and it is impossible for Wei Hou to isolate it. Just saying that Wei Hou wants to isolate foreign objects, isn't he caught in his own desires again? “

Lan Ziyi woke up when he heard this, sighed and smiled:

"Desire is really everywhere, all the time."

The Zen master smiled:

"Wei Hou is right, there is desire, as long as Wei Hou still has a breath, desire is everywhere, everywhere, and wanting to kill desire is simply a fool's dream."

Lan Ziyi said:

"So what should I do? Do you mean it's better for me to ignore him? “

Zen Master Dao:

"Wei Hou, look, you are in lust again, if you want to ignore it, isn't it a desire to think?"

Lan Ziyi said:

"Then I didn't give birth to a thought, I just gave birth to a desire, I really don't know what to do."

The Zen master smiled:

"It's not difficult to deal with desires, and desires don't require Wei Hou to do much."

Lan Ziyi said:

"Zen master, don't play dumb riddles with me anymore, please speak directly if you have something to say."

Zen Master Dao:

"Wei Hou still remember what happened just now? Why did that eye appear outside the window? “

Lan Ziyi replied:

"That's because I'm snooping on myself."

The Zen master asked:

"Then why did Wei Hou spy on himself?"

Lan Ziyi thought about it when he heard this, and then was surprised to find the key point, he said:

"Because the self I turned away wanted me to accept myself."

Hearing this, the Zen master nodded and smiled:

"Yes, what Wei Hou's desire wants is just for Wei Hou to accept himself. As soon as the heart moves, it is impossible for the heart not to move, and it is impossible not to give birth to desire, every thought and every thought of Wei Hou can be included in his own desires. It is precisely because Wei Hou's heart gave birth to Wei Hou's desire, so Wei Hou's desire is a part of Wei Hou himself. “

Lan Ziyi said:

"Part of me?"

The Zen master smiled:

"Yes, part of the guard. True like the limbs of the body, skin and hair are part of Wei Hou's body, Wei Hou's desires, thoughts, thoughts and emotions are also part of his own heart, they are born from the heart, mixed, and finally summarized into Wei Hou can feel and recognize himself. The physical self can be perceived through other parts of the body, and the mental self can also be felt through other parts of the mind.

Wei Hou has realized that he needs to accept himself, but where is the self that needs to be accepted? Wei Hou, you obviously know the real reason why the two fathers-in-law Long and Yu tossed you, but why do you want to tell a lot of stories to perfunctory, and in the end you are unwilling to tell the matter? “

Lan Ziyi sighed and said:

"Because I'm afraid."

Zen Master Dao:

"Afraid of what?"

Lan Ziyi thought for a moment and replied:

"Fear of pain."

Zen Master Dao:

"Yes, it's pain, and it's mental pain. Most of the reasons why Takashi and Yu tossed you are caused by yourself, if you admit this matter, you are admitting your own fault, that is, you should admit that you should do it yourself, and you have to bear all the responsibility for this incident. But this time about the expedition, about King De's burden is too heavy, you can't bear it alone, this is not to say that Weihou your family is not thick enough, can not deal with the aftermath, but to say that Weihou your mind has reached the limit, you can't contain your jealousy of King De, resentment against injustice, disappointment in the court, disappointment in yourself not being reused, these things are too heavy, you want to find a way to unload these burdens, so you found the people around you.

When Wei Hou first entered the door, he said that your brother hurt you, and your husband hurt you, but did they really hurt you? Wei Hou has now understood that it is just an excuse you have made for yourself, you just want to vent the anger in your heart, and you want to find someone to come out and carry the black pot for you. Your brother and your husband are the best people to vent to, not only because they have something to do with the matter and you have an excuse, but also because they will not resist in the face of your anger.

Any idea why they didn't resist? “

Lan Ziyi wanted to shake his head and say he didn't know, but he remembered what the Zen master said, so Lan Ziyi planned to try to accept himself, he thought for a long time, and finally said bitterly:

"Because my brother and my husband are the ones who really care about me and deserve my trust."

Hearing this, the Zen master nodded and smiled:

"Wei Hou has a high level of understanding, and he found the knock on the door so quickly. Wei Hou has begun to face his heart, hoping that Wei Hou will continue to keep it up.

Wei Hou please don't be ashamed of this, it is human nature to bully the soft and fear the hard, Wei Hou can recognize this, and be able to admit that this point is already much beyond ordinary people, as long as Wei Hou observes, thinks about it, he can reflect on wisdom and experience from his own nature. This is the heavenly opportunity. “