Four basic principles for choosing a wife (Dharma Sutra for unmarried men, women are not allowed to enter)

rummaging through old things, I pulled out a yellowed diary, on which I wrote my four basic principles for choosing a wife. pinching his fingers, it was two and a half years before marriage. True to the old saying: a hungry dog always plans to grab a bigger bone in advance than his kind!

The first of the four principles: get it right. In just four words, the meaning is far-reaching. ~~~ Your wife is not only your own, but also pull it out to meet people! Distant relatives can die and never get along, but neighbors don't look up and look down. If your dear partner makes the neighbor's child cry at the sight of it, or if the two of you go to the street, and the hard-working drivers and masters always fly out of the world and repeatedly cause traffic accidents, then your future days are probably thousands of miles away from the word happiness! Besides, whoever falls in love doesn't want to be happy with each other, and spend a good full moon, it seems that talking about marriage and poverty alleviation and charity can't get along, so we must keep in mind the words of a great foreign philosopher: Find the beauty you like and let the dinosaurs go extinct!

The second meaning of being able to do it is to do it in moderation. To put it vulgarly, before seeing your girlfriend, take a pee on yourself: Beautiful as a fairy, with a lot of money, why should a talented strange woman marry you, a grizzled, poor jingle bell, and a martial artist who doesn't learn and doesn't know how to learn?! Even if the flowers are planted in cow dung, it must be a pile of fresh cow dung that ferments every day and is rich in nutrients!! Therefore, it is said that the posture of a person above is the best choice for a good wife. Unless you are gifted, superhuman, and can marry a fairy sister, it is difficult for ordinary people to bear to wear a stack of cuckolds every day!

Rule 2: Raise your hands. This is so important that a lot of people don't realize it. Human society has evolved through the matrilineal, paternal, and muddled lines to today's muddle lineage, and the status of men and women has undergone many subtle changes. Your future wife must have an independent personality, an independent economic consciousness (this has nothing to do with the feminist movement), and if your wife does not fart at home or in society in the future, then the man will be tired and wasted!

Rule 3: Hold your hand. Their own children, other people's wives, people have said this since ancient times. A woman who keeps running with other men is not a good woman, and a man who can't control his wife can't be called a man. However, life is fluid, and you can't be like a team of puppies staring at her every day; Life is also developing, and successful men who are more outstanding than you are like radishes after the rain! Life is colorful and full of temptation, therefore, the character of the future lover is quite important, born Pan Jinlian, hehe, I think I am unlucky! Hold your hand, it's not more about using your hands, it's about your heart!

Fourth: Let go. Ten years of cultivation in the same boat, a hundred years of cultivation to sleep together, everything is about a fate, if the love is exhausted, we must dare to let go decisively, and give each other a free space. As long as you have it, why bother forever! Things that are too beautiful and brilliant are often fleeting, and deep blessings to each other are not only a kind of grace, but also a kind of compassion!

Another meaning: husband and wife are always willing to stay together and grow old together, but people have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny. For the sake of life, for the sake of ideals, when a short separation is inevitable, can you not worry about her red apricots out of the wall, the elderly and children are very relieved to give her, and you can also eat the fragrance of sleeping, that is called happiness. Even when you leave the world prematurely, you can close your eyes in peace, and people will hear your laughter from heaven: If you have a wife like this, what more can a husband ask for?!

In fact, these principles are interlocking and indispensable: if you can't take it, the ghost will care if you can hold it; Can't lift your hand, lack the courage and ability to take charge of yourself, God knows the result after letting go!